sfoonit Archive

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1	Topics to speak about with women This. You need to read the person and the situation. I've spoken about derivatives trading and investing with nerdy finance girls, but that clearly wouldn't work with a girl who is mostly into art. And space. And global warming. And time travel.	/r/seduction	21/09/18 04:58 PM
16	What does it mean if a girl rests her head on your shoulder? Your friend is an idiot. You could be a 4 and she could be a 10, and the answer would still be: your friend is an idiot. Yes, she is very likely into you. Make a move.	/r/seduction	21/09/18 12:33 PM
3	Gave a girl my number but no text, analyze me please? Get her number, never just give her your number.	/r/seduction	19/09/18 03:47 PM
1	How to game a Pornstar, anyone ever done this. Easy: don't. The fact that you think it's about "the dick" says enough. Yes, she probably gets plenty of dicks trying to game her. You're just another shmuck. Take her on a date because you enjoyed talking to her, and think she could be a nice person. Don't take her on a date because she works in porn. Even if you do manage to sleep with her, it's not going to be like in a porn movie. Don't approach her as a conquest, as regardless of the woman I don't think that's a very nice thing to do. But t…	/r/seduction	19/09/18 03:41 PM
1	Going on a trip in a month with my girlfriend and her friend, what’s the best way to try for a threesome? Just ask your girlfriend? "Hey, have you ever done a threesome? I haven't, and I'd like to try it out -- thoughts?" At the end of the day she'll either be into it, or she won't be, and it's her decision to make.	/r/seduction	19/09/18 03:23 PM
1	Pretty sure I'm getting slow faded. Thoughts on my response? Spend more time with her and ultimately sleep with her, or don't and move on. Time kills all deals. Whenever I've lost a girl, it's because I moved too slow.	/r/seduction	19/09/18 03:21 PM
1	I'm a scared little bitch and I need help getting over it ^	/r/seduction	19/09/18 03:17 PM
3	How come on the first day I created my tinder, I got 15 matches. But now I'm lucky to get one a week? (I have done tech consulting work for dating websites, though not for Tinder) It's the algorithm. The algorithm prioritises paying customers over free users, and prioritises people who use boosts (which again, are paid) over paying users who don't use boosts. Buy a pack of boosts, use one a day at "prime time" (i.e. in the evening) and you'll likely end up with 5 to 10 matches a day -- even if you're average looking. The reason you're not getting matched, is because not enough girls are seeing y…	/r/seduction	05/09/18 12:38 PM
1	How can i use my “cuteness” as an advantage. Have you tried growing a beard?	/r/seduction	05/09/18 09:11 AM
1	Do any of you guys have "real core confidence"? How did you develop it? By not caring what others think of you. I've done well in life in my 20s (own business, healthy amount of money in the bank, ability to travel and live a free life, etc) and I turned from a "stressed" and anxious person into a very chill person because of it. Surprise surprise, when I stopped caring I had a much easier time attracting women of all levels. I never talk about money, but being able "to live a free life" intrigues women and sparks their interest (men as well). My experience has been…	/r/seduction	04/09/18 03:42 PM
1	Going to Stockholm, Sweden. Would appreciate some tips to pick up girls. This works everywhere. He means that being "different" always attracts. If you're European and go to South America, you'll get women interested. Etc	/r/seduction	04/09/18 03:24 PM
1	Beyond seduction - forming deep relationships with people you want Be curious about things. I'm a curious person so this comes naturally to me. Ask them interesting follow up questions about the things they're talking about -- it shows you're listening and are not actually an idiot. This works great with potential new friends and family as well. One question I often like to ask early on (i.e. on a second date, when you're alone or walking around somewhere) is "tell me something (almost) no one else knows about you". My experience has been that if you're buildin…	/r/seduction	02/09/18 10:19 AM
2	Guys, I would appreciate your feedback. I’ve put so much effort into game, but I have no results to show for it. You're not giving us much to work with. But know that you don't get points for effort. Give us some examples.	/r/seduction	02/09/18 10:12 AM
6	It’s amazing what can happen when you stop caring about rejection or what will happen That's what happened to me too. Fuck it, I'll just live my life. You'll meet the people you'll meet, and whatever happens happens. But I know I'm awesome. And surprisingly, over the next year, my dating life improved a lot.	/r/seduction	02/09/18 10:08 AM
1	Getting a shy guy to make a move Assuming you don't want to just tell him to kiss you, try touching his upper arm, maybe his leg etc. Basically places that make it blatantly obvious you're into him. You can even tell him you like him.	/r/seduction	01/09/18 10:38 AM
0	If you're bad at pickup and attracting girls, does it mean you have a bad personality? It's a skill like anything else. Go on 20 dates and you'll be much better at it all, and it will be much more natural.	/r/seduction	01/09/18 10:35 AM
15	I miss being single so badly,but my gf is awesome. Not much you can do. If you love her, stay with her. If you don't, break up and let her go find someone who does love her. While I don't need to be in a relationship, I don't see much fun in hooking up with a ton of "random sluts" (I prefer to have an emotional connection with someone when having sex) I do understand it might seem more exciting. How many relationships have you had before this? Maybe she's awesome, but just not "the one" for you. I was in a situation like that once, and I didn't …	/r/seduction	01/09/18 10:32 AM
1	What do you say to a girl right before kissing them?? Depends on the setting. Preferably nothing, as it generally should be pretty clear she's into it. If you can touch her, she seems happy, and she doesn't move away or smack you in the face, you're likely good. Sometimes I interrupt her while talking by saying "Wait". In some cases I add "I really want to kiss you" if I'm not completely sure, but that's is uncommon.	/r/seduction	01/09/18 06:18 AM
1	Questions from a Newbie Generally you can't be talking too much into the future if you don't want to be regarded as a boyfriend. Depends on how old you are, but if you talk about family / children / life goals etc those are long time things. Most women will perceive you differently if you don't talk about those goals.	/r/seduction	29/08/18 03:35 PM
2	How do you relax when talking to girls? Generally with everything in life: what's the worst that can happen? Either she runs away or she smacks you in the face. Which aren't all that bad. You can be nervous, but they're just people. Maybe you just need to talk to more people in different settings? Do you get nervous talking to your boss? I used to be a socially anxious person, but now I can pretty much talk to anyone in a relaxed way. Giving presentations in front of 100s of people helps (i.e. industry talks). In my case, it's been gr…	/r/seduction	29/08/18 03:22 PM