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1	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? My stance is that no one is obligated to have sex with anyone else, but it's also fair for people to suggest it might be worth investigating why someone's preferences are what they are. And people are free to take or leave that suggestion; what's silly is the insistence that suggesting people investigate their preferences is a form of coercion. Despite the rare anecdote to the contrary, I've always found bi women far more open to dating bi men than straight women are, regardless of where they fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 04:45 PM
1	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? Sure. But people sure do get pissy when they are told that their sexual and romantic preferences reveal unflattering things about themselves. See e.g. the original bisexual thread and the sputtering outrage anti-bi women expressed when it was pointed out their blanket refusal to date bi men revealed that they had internalized toxic gender standards from society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 04:33 PM
1	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? Even given the most cynical interpretation of his dating patterns, perhaps his sexual/romantic preference is dating young beautiful women briefly before disposing of them once they reach 25. In a world of sexual and romantic libertarianism, no one ever owes anyone else any particular relationship or emotional connection, so long as everything is consensual. I'd be first to agree that that's a terrible world, but that's what we're inexorably heading towards if we commit to the idea that no one ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 04:22 PM
6	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? Ironic that this originated from another thread where a bunch of women proclaimed how disgusted they felt by certain men's sexual history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 05:11 PM
2	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? Out of curiosity: imagine you had a friend, and he said he was willing to sleep with black women but would never marry one. Would you consider that dehumanizing and/or racist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 05:00 PM
9	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? Essentially. If you make the argument that your sexual preferences are okay because all sexual preferences are okay, then you have to follow through and agree that all sexual preferences are okay, even and especially when they inconvenience you. People end up hypocritical when they have only weak arguments to argue why their particular preferences are okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 04:50 PM
10	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? I mean that people use the "criticism of sexual/romantic preferences is always out of bounds" argument only to defend their own preferences and usually aren't willing to extend it universally to others' preferences. For an example where the targeted gender is typically reversed, consider age. Men are constantly criticized for pursuing younger women. Men's fixation on young women is another sign of masculinity in crisis A depressing new study about online dating indicates a problem that is reverb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 04:01 PM
37	Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity? The reason that you saw a different tenor of responses is that bisexual women don't face nearly as much exclusion from the sexual/romantic market as bisexual men. If anything, the issue they face is overt fetishization, which sucks but is very different. The broader issue is that people are nearly always only selectively "sexual libertarians." Their own preferences are sacrosanct and cannot be criticized lest you violate their bodily autonomy, but other people's preferences that they don't happe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 03:18 PM
4	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? I genuinely admire that you're consistent and don't have any real complaint against your stance, although I think it's wrong. What gets my goat is when some people simultaneously say that people can never be judged by who they choose to interact with romantically in the context of a woman enforcing negative social norms, but a second later are just as quick to condemn a man who does the exact same enforcing of (different) negative social norms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 03:39 AM
3	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? She's the one who responded to me. My describing straight women's worship of hegemonic, homophobic masculinity hurts no one; if she feels uncomfortable having her own tendencies described, that's on her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 03:25 AM
6	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? As has been pointed out to you literally dozens of times, telling you to investigate your ingrained social biases is not in any sense raping you. It's offensive to actual rape victims to say that. No one here is trying to have sex with you, and no one here wants to have sex with you. Stop playing victim and accept you have some agency in the matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 09:30 PM
4	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? No one is demanding the right to your body. The only entitlement here is yours, in that you freak out at the suggestion that you are capable of agency and self reflection in choosing to act as an enforcer of homophobia. You're owed civility, mutual respect, and rights like anyone else. You're not entitled to have people blow smoke up your ass and pretend your homophobia isn't homophobic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 09:21 PM
6	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? In all your word vomit (and invented quotations), you don't bother to answer the question. Is it racist for a man to refuse to date a woman who has dated black men in the past? If not, what's the difference between that and a woman refusing to date men who have dated men in the past?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 09:19 PM
7	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? So you're taking the stance that criticizing a man who refuses to date women who have dated black men in the past is an effort to control men's bodies and minds? And that there's no social obligation to criticize a man who says he won't date those women for those (racist) reasons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 09:18 PM
5	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? Looks like another homophobe. I take it you agree that someone rejecting a woman for the race of her previous partners is racist, though. Right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 09:15 PM
13	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? Consider the scenario of a guy who is viscerally grossed out by women who have slept with black men before. Is he racist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 12:12 PM
43	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? Straight women are the foremost enforcers of gender norms. Bisexuality exists outside of hegemonic masculinity, and so women have a strong disgust reaction to it. I always enjoy these threads, because all of a sudden you get a bunch of "progressive" women saying that bisexual men are inherently gross and likely diseased, which reveals the massive blind spots most women, even self-proclaimed feminists, have. The usual progressive window dressing women use to justify their homophobia is proclaimin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 04:43 AM
2	Metoo defends Amber Heard and blames Johnny Depp. An example of feminists erasing male victims and perpetuating gender stereotypes. What's the value of demanding a long list of ritualistic denunciations? Particularly, isn't any energy much better spent on asking all of those organizations to condemn her actions? Or, for that matter, all the media organizations who jumped to her defense offense and victimized Depp in the first place? Is there any particular reason to even critique menslib on this topic, since I'm not aware of any huge groundswell of pro-Heard support there in the first place? I have complaints about overly ze…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/02/20 10:48 AM