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Another option is to have something tattood on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/17 05:02 PM
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What were they expecting, a stuff toy? You'd be surprised. There are a lot of, for some reason low-income, mothers who have no idea that its difficult and as soon as the child stops being a lapbaby (you know, like a lapdog) they just throw it outside barefoot and let it be feral around the neighborhood rather than have to deal with it. I've told this story elsewhere on reddit just not in this sub. After my parents got divorced my dad went through this phase where he was dating the worst quality …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 12:51 AM
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and 80% of that number is no fault. I get what you're saying but the 80% stat is misleading since so many states now are only no-fault and don't care what caused the divorce petition in the first place. These states, which include Wisconsin, Washington, Oregon, Nevada, Nebraska, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Kentucky, Kansas, Iowa, Indiana, Hawaii, Florida, Colorado and California, offer no traditional grounds, such as adultery, abandonment or cruelty. Source. Its also easier and cheap…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 12:39 AM
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Gym doesn't make up for bad social skills, which is probably their problem. Just IMO.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 07:48 PM
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If it was meth she wouldn't be 75 pounds overweight. You haven't spent enough time in places like rural WV thinking stuff like that. There are a lot of overweight people on meth out there.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 07:46 PM
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This is true but I was talking more about those young adults who barely have employment much less actual careers and assets to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 05:31 PM
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If it was Walmart, though, I assume she hated it and it was just for money? That sort of work is boring, stressful and definitely not the kind people do because they really want to. I can easily see how that would lead to more unhappiness and bringing her stress home. By the numbers I wouldn't be surprised if doing a job you hate is more common than doing one you enjoy. Walmart gets a well-earned reputation for being an extra bad job, but its far from being an uncommon experience (they are the b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 05:25 PM
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Most men have no clue about divorce I see a lot of them think that they can avoid our screwed-up family court system by simply never getting married. They remember how dysfunctional the process was for their parents in the 90s and don't want to relive it in the other role. Problem is, they don't seem to realize that if they knock someone up they're going to be subject to family court's micromanaging no different from a married couple when it comes to things like custody or child support. Sure, t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 05:17 PM
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He said that his generation of young people were the first to really set that space between them and the adults Typical of a boomer, to pretend they were the ones who invented sex, drugs and rock and roll. In my opinion the WW1 generation beat them to the punch by creating their own enclaves for where anything goes- the night clubs, speak easys, etc. Internationally even. The depravity and sexual revolution of the Weimar Republic continues to be underappreciated. In both there & here however, th…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 03:25 PM
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did people act like this 50 years ago? 100? I don't know what kind of kiss the couple engaged in, but clearly they weren't having sex in line. If anything, the prudish "I am not happy so no one else should be either!" people had more power in society a hundredish years ago, and that's how prostitution in the US became criminalized & eventually alcohol was prohibited. Here's a very-old meme making fun of these people, stereotyping them as angry, unattractive, nagging harpies. Back then, they didn…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 05:17 AM
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There will always be bad people wanting to take advantage and at the cost of their victims. We all have to remember there will ALWAYS be people like that. ALWAYS. Yes but where it gets interesting is that how often this type of thing occurs is not a universal consistent. It varies a great deal from society to society. I am skeptical that the reason why this is inconsistent is because of differences in proactive protection (like avoiding drinking in public or dressing more modestly or not going o…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 02:50 PM
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The fact of the matter is that 75 percent of sexual assaults are performed by someone the victim knows This is true, but knowing the attacker and being black out drunk are not mutually exclusive things. Alcohol is probably the world's oldest date rape drug if you think about it. There's no shortage of stories where someone got black out drunk around someone they knew and woke up the next day surprised to learn they had been raped while they were passed out (or if not that, that they remembered i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 02:45 PM
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Right!? Also less joint problems. Don't forget the shorter life expectancy. Less heart disease, because our arteries are bigger. Sooner heart failure, because it has to work harder anyway. Did you know that the nazis sterilized people over a certain height because of the life expectancy decrease that came with it?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:20 PM
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FAS isn't taking as seriously outside the United States.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/12/16 07:06 AM
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Not sure what is traditional about not working, It is only ever traditional for those of class. The poor working classes always had everyone working in some manner even the wife & kids. That's actually where the phrase "putting out" (the sexual context) comes from, as the elites stereotyped working women as being promiscuous and willing to turn favors for work or extra income. The garment factories before sewing machines were perfected would put-out to assemble clothing that had been pre-cut to …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 08:29 PM
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Of course not, time is far worse in that respect.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 08:33 AM
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Is enclothed cognition that strong and influential? Personally I suspect the enclothed cognition phenomenon sociology talks would have a point of diminishing returns that comes into play if someone wears something on an every-day basis. Once the novelty wears off and it is just routine, I would think it would have a somewhat lesser effect at least on themselves. Their effect on others, especially people not encountered every day, is another subject.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 10:15 PM
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Ive seen it on her ONCE and it looked amazing. (Done when she was a bridesmaid) Just a thought. Sometimes bridesmaids get their makeup done by professionals for the event. I don't know if that applies here but it would explain why it hasn't happened again. It could be she does not know how to recreate it. woman with no makeup wearing a polo shirt. I think you can blame jeans for that one. What level of formality is called for seems to depend upon what the baseline level in society happens to be.…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:33 PM
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One of the first things my husband told me was that he hates makeup, and yet he only ever compliments my face when I have some on. Here's an idea: Maybe what's going on here is that guys like makeup when they don't notice it; and what they're complaining about is when people go overboard with it. There's this really old meme for example about when someone skips their makeup routine one day for some reason, goes out in public and has people who recognize her ask if she is ok because they assume s…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:12 PM
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Part of that burden is national defense, and it's about time this last hurdle was removed. Counter-point: If a society refuses to voluntarily come to its own defense, perhaps it does not deserve to continue to exist. Abstractly speaking, if you have a situation where a country is at war but its citizens are not willing to fight, perhaps there is a reason behind that which needs correcting. There are a variety of reasons why this might happen, and none of them are good. Like the perception (real …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 08:10 PM
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This really seems to speak to the relationship that exists between feminism and class (as in economic hierarchy). Among the poor, traditionally everyone worked. The father worked, the mother worked, the kids all worked. Not because they wanted to, but because they had no other choice if they wanted a slum apartment to live in and just barely enough food to not starve to death. The problem with this arrangement was that women weren't worth as much for their labor as men, and children weren't wort…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 04:42 PM
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I suppose the equivalent in our modern era is that a girl shouldn't stand at a corner for too long lest someone try to proposition her for paid sex. Never heard of that, then again a corner today is the kind of place a light is setup to control pedestrian cross-walk traffic or a bus stop is located.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 04:31 AM
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That would be one take on this. Alternatively, you can put in place protocols to avoid that problem and still find some other way to use females in combat that don't involve lugging around more than, IIRC 50lbs (forget the exact figure). Can it be done? Sure. The Israelis use women in combat all the time and it hasn't cost them any wars yet. But should it be done? I have no idea.
/r/PussyPass06/12/15 07:12 PM
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I didn't offer any conclusions, just an explanation.
/r/PussyPass06/12/15 06:55 PM
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There is a reason for what you see in the picture. The Pentagon has put a lot of scientific research into the role sex plays on physical endurance, and have found over and over again that if you weigh down females with heavy sacks & then have them go on marches or hikes with it, they're going to get irreversible joint damage. This is not a matter of whether they are in shape or not, this is the result of anatomical differences in skeleton design. They don't want that to happen for a few reasons:…
/r/PussyPass06/12/15 06:05 PM
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after faking it for awhile, she'll actually transform into the kind of woman she's pretending to be? I was left wondering that same question, it is reminiscent of a few women I have known of IRL who pretended to be interested in sex just long enough to get into a marriage and then ended up living the sort of thing /r/deadbedrooms talks about. OTOH one of the commenters on the link remarks: I do not think that you have to develop a pleasant personality. I think you just have to find a way to expr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 03:59 PM
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I have to wonder if part of the draw to those games has something to do with how someone can walk away from them for any length of time they want and come back to the same gaming experience. Its not like 1st person shooters, RTSs, or RPGs where playing sessions need to be somewhat lengthy and uninterrupted.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 03:53 PM
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This is a complicated bunch of questions. This may sound harsh but your dad has a point, though he does not seem to be expressing it well. The jobs market is so cut throat right now that a family with only one person ready to be the breadwinner is putting all their eggs in one basket. You did not say what field he is going into or whether it would easily support a household. Assuming he would be able to take on it all by himself, what's going to happen if he looses his job & has to find a new on…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:31 PM
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What went wrong? Seriously, what did it? Without knowing the story behind your failed relationship, how can anyone on the internet have the answer to those questions? To play devil's advocate a bit: It takes two people in the right mindset for a relationship to work. Supposing for argument's shake you were holding up your side of the arrangement properly and she wasn't, well, that's the problem. Whether or not this was the case I have no way of knowing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 06:19 PM
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a woman's ideal man might be a 40-year old man (for the status, money, confidence, experience, etc) in the body of a 20-year old You're assuming that the women who are with older guys aren't physically attracted to their looks and would prefer them with the bodies of 20 year olds. That might be true some of the time, like those women teachers who sleep with their male high school students, but overall I think that's actually fairly rare. There is also a portion of women who are only attracted (t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 08:18 PM
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I as a man prefer innocence and naivete But aren't those just two things that typically go hand in hand with being young anyway? to experience and cynicism in a woman. By this what do you mean exactly? Having a hard life for anyone has psychological consequences. There are some people who, through no fault of their own simply through bad luck go through these terrible sagas and come out worse for wear from them. No one wants to deal with that kind of baggage. Not men, not women. A woman who has …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 06:32 PM
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I was raised to believe that "being myself" would always be enough But this is not the only thing we teach/raise kids to believe. What about another one: Be the best you can be. Or: If something is worth doing its worth doing right. You can still be yourself while continuously trying to be the best person you can be. One of the things the article mentions is weight. Even if we ignore for a moment how the world views people. Shouldn't someone in a world where looks don't matter still care about t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 06:21 PM
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Why are older men looking at women half their age? Maybe its because for women fertility normally ends around age 35. If we think of this under the assumption that 1- the biological purpose of sexual attraction is to encourage reproduction, and 2- that attraction works through subconscious cues (e.g. sexual pheromones being scientifically proven to play a role in matching strangers' genetic compatibility) then this is kind of a no brainer. The cliche trope of older guys leaving their wife to be …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 06:03 PM
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what is stopping the mom from getting an education/good paying job....instead of bitching and whining about "deadbeat dads" Well there's a time-gap involved. If a mom has no education & literally no skills, as is usually the case with a lot of these "baby momas" then even if she wanted to change her ways and get an education & a good job, that's a process that is going to take years during which she'll need some way of paying for the kid(s). A lot of these mothers start having kids as teens, som…
/r/PussyPass08/01/15 05:09 PM
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who do you think controls the government? Well, to be truthful I do not know but I could make an estimated guess if you'd like. Wallstreet. Consider Princeton's study which shows that anytime Wallstreet's take on an issue differs from the American people, wallstreet wins. That is to say; if you look at every major piece of legislation of the last 30 years Wallstreet always wins. Intelligence agencies. If the CIA can get away with doing the opposite from what Congress wants by selling narcotics i…
/r/PussyPass01/01/15 02:32 AM
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but in reality its just the bottom 20% of men not doing shit with their lives Counterpoint: Maybe we've restructured our economy in a way that is artificially creating this outcome. Say by offshoring manufacturing and otherwise doing away with the traditional masculine jobs that take advantage of their physiology. To put it another way: if we look at the fields that are experiencing policy-created economic bubbles like education & health care, you'll find that a huge increase in these jobs is no…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 05:05 AM
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Women age too fast, man. Supposing for argument's shake that the purpose of attraction is to initiate reproduction, then wouldn't we expect beauty to be somehow linked chronologically with one's window for reproduction? To put it another way, why would guys be wired to find women much over 30 attractive if normally female fertility ends around age 35?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 04:52 AM
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Yes. I've lived the nightmare. My parents marriage failed when I was 10 because because he was caught cheating with no less than a dozen people. He then thought "gee, if I have to get divorced I rather just start life completely over, marry someone else, and have new kids" and had no interest in seeing or supporting his existing kids again. Imagine going from having a dad who actually cared about you & was a great provider to someone who would never let you see him again just because he suddenly…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:24 PM
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but she shouldn't be able to Care to elaborate? If anything, encouraging it for people who don't want kids, or can't afford kids, or aren't ready for kids, benefits the state & our society at large. Consider how accidental pregnancy currently can force both parents into poverty if it happens at the wrong time in the lives- the dad saddled w/ child support and the mom forced to abandon things like higher education. These two parents hustling to provide for the kid can't spend that time & energy b…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:20 PM
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The fact that the child will no longer have a father around, or money from him is immaterial to the question because the child was completely the choice of the mother. So then what happens when the mother is poor? The kid will go on all kinds of social welfare programs and cost the gov a boat full of money. Child support reduces the gov's costs, because even if he can't pay enough to get the kid out of foodstamps & subsidized health care it will at least make things cheaper. Meanwhile, threateni…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:15 PM
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You're forgetting that the government has a horse in this race too. If they let dads sign away child support obligations, then you're going to have all these struggling single-moms who will be using the gov as a surrogate provider, via food stamps, welfare, healthcare etc. That costs a lot more money for the gov than if you just force the dads pay a portion of their wages & threaten them with jail when thats not good enough ["don't be a deadbeat! Go get another min wage part time job ontop of th…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:08 PM
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To mirror the right of the woman the man she have the right to terminate child support payments, along with any parternal right through the end of the second trimester. The gov would never stand for it. For one simple reason: they don't want to be the ones paying the bill for all these single-mom kids when you're talking about families under the poverty line. From their perspective, why use the tax payers to support these kids w/ welfare, healthcare, and food stamps if they could force the dad w…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:03 PM
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give men (who want it) more custody. Then as a "reward" they can pay less in child support This is already how it works. The assumption in most states is that if the kid lives with you, most of your income is going to go towards them one way or another i.e. in housing costs, food, clothing, gas driving them around town. So the less custody you have, the more you have to pay. The flip side of that is it does without a doubt mean parents fight for custody for kids they don't even want, just becaus…
/r/PussyPass29/12/14 08:00 PM
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This is none of my business. Worse; even if your suspicions all end up being 100% true, it accomplishes absolutely nothing in this case because he is still on the hook for supporting them whether they are biologically his or not. DNA doesn't normally matter in family court after the baby has gone from being an infant to being a child. The logic behind it is, after a certain point its no different from someone who has been adopted. The child only knows one person as his "dad" and at that point, D…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 01:45 AM
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I know that the 1950s are remembered for decadence and over-consumption, but the truth of the matter is that today's society consumes so much more, in almost every respect, that if you were to time warp a random person out of the 1950s and bring them to today, they would probably accuse us of gluttony. Contrast the two eras in terms of things like house sizes, electricity use, in the amount of trash thrown away per year, amount of food consumed or wasted [see: portion size bloat], and it becomes…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 06:23 PM
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I agree, in our society tattoos became mainstream because of their widespread use in military culture. Hanging around vets of any generation for any period and you'll quickly start to notice all the wartime ink they're had on their arms or backs with unit insignias or listing what battles they had fought in. Like anything else in life, context is important here. Though currently the military is trying to backstep on body mods, which I suspect is due to our society in general heading in the direc…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:16 AM
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Emotional intelligence, for instance, is often more important as a woman than is an intelligence focused on STEM There should be a balance between both. STEM intelligence explains what you can do, emotional intelligence explains what you should do.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 05:06 AM
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And the ring doesn't mean someone owns you. Technically, the ring was introduced as a form of insurance so the woman would have something to sell off if things didn't work out & were unable to find another suitor. That's also why the ring's value should be proportional to the man's wealth, otherwise it socially looks like he was being a cheapskate.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 06:11 PM
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That's exactly like that boy in Canada who was raised by a lesbian couple who refused to tell his public school what his legal name or sex were because they wanted him to be raised without any gender socialization. Then in interviews a few years into their strange little experiment they let out "oh, we love it when he plays with girl's toys but we don't allow him to play with anything that represents skulls or weapons." Its not a "choice" but a test if one of the choices is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 06:06 PM
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It seems that the crux of the disagreement in that thread is Archwinger can foresee scenarios where no compromise can be had while the person behind the [deleted] posts literally can't envision a single scenario where they would be unable to compromise with their spouse over something. Which means IF they do ever come to a standoff over an issue, they have no idea what they'll do.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 04:02 PM
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Things such as encouraging more women to get into the work force, I am totally behind that. Here's the problem: As social policy goes encouragements run a high risk of taking peoples' choices away. How many women have careers not because they want to, but because they feel that it is financially necessary? Its not a choice, but a test, if one answer is "wrong" and results in punishments of some kind [i.e. poverty, lack of health care, no way of supporting yourself in advanced retirement]. Femini…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 07:04 PM
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why does it not take pride on its own femininity and instead look to become “as good as men”? I am not so sure that's the case, since they simultaneously seem to want men to be less masculine. It is as if they are trying to force both sexes into some strange physical & mental equality that does not exist, and never has. Some years ago in Canada there was a lesbian couple who had a son that they wanted to raise without any gender socialization. Or so they said. They would not allow the public sch…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:38 PM
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...many women, mostly feminists, take femininity as some kind of horrible nightmare.. I think that much of the hatred from women towards femininity is from jealousy. When women present themselves in ways that gets guys' attention, whether its from presenting in a feminine way or in an overtly sexual way, a contingent of the women who can't compete [due to being less attractive or "too old"] feel invisible & worth less. You can't "fix" being old, or do much about being unattractive but you can tr…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:22 PM
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yesallwomen The yesallwomen thing started as one of those Tumblr SJW memes months ago & had nothing to do with this particular shooting until recently. That said, the #yesallwoman hastag produced posts so crazy & militant sounding that the religious leader of Iran started using the tag thinking they were agreeing with him on gender roles [lol!]. You can't make this stuff up.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:39 PM
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The curious thing is that this guy fits the beta stereotype of being "nerdy" and unable to find anyone ["of quality"] because of it, yet everyone is saying he was the equivalent of a male red piller/mens rights activist type because of his online activities. Perhaps its further evidence that you can't "be" something just by wanting to. A beta that posts on that bodybuilding forum everyone talks about is still a beta. He might have been trying to work on that, but clearly he failed. Which opens t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:26 PM
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He caused the gun market to sky rocket That's kid of a "which came first, the chicken or the egg" kind of thing though. In US politics each side comes up with these crazy, overblown ideas of what will happen the second the opposite side gains control, which seems to cause a lot of irrational behavior. The first shots in the Civil War started before Lincoln was even in office, yet the South claimed that it was his presidency that caused them to succeed [before he had yet done anything]. When Obam…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 06:12 PM
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Would you agree our happiness decreases while the happiness of your man increases? Happiness is not a zero-sum game. I suspect this study is not looking at couples, but individuals. With couples, happiness & unhappiness are contagious. You know the saying "misery loves company"? Well the more unhappy a spouse is, the more unhappy the other spouse will become as the relationship deteriorates from complaining, arguing, or cheating. The opposite is also true: if one spouse is always happy, cheerful…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 07:18 PM
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Well if we take this one line at a time, Train to love their husbands & love their children Why should it be a big controversial thing to actually love your spouse or your kids? The only part of this that I see uncertainty with is the use of the word "train," since it can be interpreted in either a benign or malevolent way. There's nothing wrong with a girl growing up in a household with good role models where everyone cares about each other, and then growing up to act the same way because that'…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 02:26 PM
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"I believe people should have a choice, but if they don't choose the way I would they're crazy & need help" Wat. Its not a choice but a test if one of the answers is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 10:17 AM
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who cares about her I was using it to speak to the character of that OP's wife. If she has a history of leading people on like that, it shouldn't come as a surprise when the "I am a bi nymph" tactic ended up being just a big farce.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 01:35 PM
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While I agree with you that something is wrong if she is only willing to have "the vanilla sex" with her husband, I've asked her about her past sexual adventures. I learned more about her relationship with her beautiful friend. They never were fully dating or had sex, they kissed here and there. Sounds like the husband gets far more action than his wife's ex-GF did. if the wife's ex-GF was genuinely lesbian or bi OP's wife was leading her on, so she could use it to try to attract men. Its common…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 12:17 PM
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So can I, I actually found it really interesting. I had never been exposed to "bed death" or polygamy IRL before and it was fascinating to hear him talk about how it all came about & was working for him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 07:40 PM
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"sexless spinster types" don't exist in the culture I'm talking about. I'm sorry but I wasn't trying to say you were talking about them, instead I was just pointing out that they exist & its one of the reasons why some of those LTR mistress relationships come about. One of the first guys I ever dated was like that [it didn't work out & progress beyond a first date]. He hadn't had sex with his wife in 12 years. They had discussed divorce, which apparently was the last thing she wanted, so the com…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 07:31 PM
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considered more beautiful and gets more of the "night" time Though that might not be a cause of conflict if the first wife is one of those sexless spinster types who doesn't want to be in the same bed as him anyway. For whatever reason there's a certain percentage of women out there who have no sex drive at all & refuse to have anything to do with it after becoming married. Some of the stories in r-DeadBedrooms are so bad it really puts a whole other perspective on why some guys see other women …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 06:45 PM
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I've seen really strong arguments for a man having multiple serious relationships (they all know about each other and that there may be plates as well), but everyone is in on it and that man made it VERY clear he is totally opposed to the idea of marriage with anyone. All's fair in what you agree to participate in. I suspect in the more LTR situations the mistress has that title only because polygamy has been criminalized & made socially taboo. I don't know how much exposure you get to European …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 06:12 PM
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To keep it short - I believe in equality. The problem is that equality for equality's shake is a fallacy. Usually the easiest way to bring about equality is to drag everyone down to the lowest common denominator, and that also seems to be what people are most inclined to demand when their emotions get the better of them. Take drug testing as an example. Many people resent being drug tested at work, and want the poor on social assistance tested in the name of "equality." But wouldn't the better a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/14 05:53 PM
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We had our son almost 5 years ago. She insisted she was ready, and wanted to be a mother. in the 5 years since she grew to resent him. Any signs of mental illness on her part? Post-partem depression? Adjustment disorder? Addictions? What about the child; special needs? Any personality disorders? Behavioral problems? Medical problems? Any changes in how much time you two were spending together? I.e. from going out every night to once or twice a month now that there's a child to worry about?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:37 PM
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because I like much younger women, but truthfully its not some sexual fetish That's a two way street you know, some people find older guys more attractive without any so-called "daddy complex" or childhood abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 09:25 PM
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birth control pills BC is really important, even for people who only have sex after marriage. Very few people want, or can afford, to have as many children as their bodies are capable of producing. Unless you want to have 10-12 kids after you get married, you're going to want your wife to have access to affordable BC. Sure, there are other alternatives like you could get a vasectomy but now we're talking a surgical procedure that is invasive, potential complications, and is not always reversible…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 09:12 PM
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My husband and I have been together for 6 years now, and throughout the years I've felt so insecure about my role in the relationship. We both have jobs, he works full-time and I work part-time. In the past I felt so badly about not making a large amount of money. It was almost as if I felt I was failing as a breadwinner, which isn't even supposed to be my role. I think our society has become so obsessed with chasing the "all mighty dollar" in general that a lot of people end up forgetting that …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 08:32 PM
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Who, by the way, don't even consider you competition. Yea, there really shouldn't be any kind of competition in marriage. Or any other long term relationship. I know its cliche to say "its a team" but that's a pretty good metaphor. Ideally each person complement's the other's strengths & weaknesses, allowing themselves to help each other in a world that's setup to work against them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 07:00 PM
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my husband is a wonderful man who is highly intelligent and skilled in mainly technology He does not like to mow lawns Maybe you two should consider robotic lawn mowers. A bit on the pricy side unless he makes his own, but it would eliminate that problem while possibly also being something he finds interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 04:30 PM
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there has never been an advanced technological civilization anywhere on the planet that didnt have official, solemnized, usually religious or sacramental marriage, dont people ever stop to think there might be a reason for this? The likely explanation is probate law. Marriage is used to decide kinship, and how property [and more importantly in history: titles] are distributed after someone dies. You'll notice that the poor who have no assets or titles to worry about didn't always have to be form…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 11:06 PM
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And beyond that, the gov can & does occasionally consider someone a "defacto married couple" for subjecting them to fees, penalties, or a decrease in entitlements without recognizing the relationship as a marriage under common law [thus some of the consequences but none of the perks].
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 10:52 PM
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The article seems to go downhill right about here: But one finding that has consistently emerged from the literature is that women are pulled in many more directions than men. Whereas in times past, men primarily served as the "breadwinners" and women primarily assumed the "domestic" roles, over the past few decades more and more women have moved into the breadwinner role (or at least co-breadwinner). What I don't think they expected, however, was that even though they were bringing home the bac…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/14 04:45 AM
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Besides, is there any solid, proven evidence that the media has affected men's preferences or attitudes toward women? Possibly, but not like the "fat used to be attractive!" myth that seems to be so common these days. If you look at what idealized women looked like 120-150 years ago, you'd notice that their celebrities & sex icons look quite different from today. One of the ideas that has been thrown around is that society's expectations for height changed as a result of the movies [and later te…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 05:26 AM
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a 5'2" natural B cup is never going to look like a leggy 5'10" DD Victoria's Secret model There seems to be a disconnect between what women in modeling look like & actresses in porn. Statistically speaking your typical porn actress is 5'5 [almost 3 inches below the US national average for women] & a 34B. If men preferred women to look like fashion models, wouldn't that be what porn companies would be producing?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 05:06 AM
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I am very pale and suffer from sensitive skin, so its easier to just avoid the sun in the first place since sunscreen can be an irritant. But that's not always practical and sometimes you're just going to be in the sun for a while, whether its in a commute to work or an outdoor social gathering so I will wear a high spf sunscreen anytime I expect to see more than a couple minutes of sun & keep a small bottle of it in my purse. What a lot of people don't realize is even if they go out of their wa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 06:45 PM
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they think back to the 40's and 50's This is because of WW2. Most women had long hair until the war, and then they were encouraged to cut it off so it would be easier for them to take up men's jobs in factories while the men went off to fight. To get the masses to go along with it, some governments [US & Britain are examples] went to female celebrities early on and had them show off shorter hair to help get the trend/fad going. Here's a quote from TCM about this: In the early 1940s, US governmen…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 06:06 AM
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Would he support you financially? Another thing to think about is that there is always a possibility that something bad will happen, and he won't be able to even if he wanted to. There have been a lot of families since the '08 economic crash who had been doing well & stable seemingly forever, only to have the spouse making the majority of the money get laid off & unable to find work in a timely fashion. Whether the other spouse has any marketable skills or credentials can make or break how bad o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 10:14 PM
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street harassment Since you bring up street harassment, I'd like to point out that it takes more forms than the stereotypical male construction worker cat calling a girl walking by on the sidewalk. Guys can suffer from street harassment if they're being perceived as gay flamers, and in recent years there's been a number of cases that have made it into the mainstream press where this type of street harassment had spiraled into violent attacks. Even in cities like NYC which are not generally thoug…
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