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If I didn’t have the same right, then I’d agree with you. But I do, and I do see other people. I’ve been kicking off commitment successfully. You can read the entire sidebar in 3 days.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:04 PM
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It’s not always as simple as Next and be done with it. You can use RP principals to experiment in something long term. I’ve read side bar, from first word to last. I’m not interested in arguing with you, but your assumptions about me are just wrong. Yeah, I have no problem saying that for a ‘ask’ sub, it’s funny how some questions get less than no practical help. Is that entitlement? Maybe, I don’t really care. There is so much potential in the knowledge base here that when the comments lean int…
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:36 PM
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She asked my permission and I gave it. Are you saying that I shouldn’t allow it?
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:04 AM
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Talk to me about this. You’re saying if I valued my commitment I wouldn’t allow this?
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:03 AM
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“Hype” could mean like, “yes, exactly, this is perfect, I’m hyped about this result,” sort of thing.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:04 AM
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You must find that emotional support within yourself. Leaning on someone else, especially a girlfriend, is a recipe for disaster long term. You have to be the rock.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 06:17 AM
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Doesn’t get more beta than ‘When should we plan for’. Seems like you’re being set up for orbiter status.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:42 PM
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That’s the joke ...
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 02:14 PM
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Besides the obvious stay away point, OP needs to see how fucked his frame is right now. Fix that shit ASAP.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 11:15 PM
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I would have seen it as a shit test. Saying you’re disappointed is failing it. Shows scarcity, reveals lower SMV. Saying ‘great idea’ and then soft nexting is the move I’d suggest.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 08:34 PM
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How old are you
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:34 AM
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Did not expect such legit knowledge when I hit play. This is some real shit.
/r/MGTOW13/01/18 03:33 AM
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Sounds like it. Agree and amplify. “Did I see you on America’s most wanted?”
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:25 AM
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Your example isn’t necessarily needy. Depends on execution. Neediness is caring too much about the result.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:22 AM
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I checked the rules. Posts can be questions for “clarifying” theories.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:28 AM
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These replies are insane. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t say it’s unfair for MGTOW to be mischaracterized as virgin incel loser beta untouchables, and also attack someone who clearly HAS A CHOICE, and chooses MGTOW. This guy should be this community’s mascot. What a joke...
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 06:57 AM
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They won't waste any more time on a woman for whom they are not the top priority all the time. How do you always drop such ON TARGET knowledge!?? Damn... Thank you.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:13 AM
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This is a completely fabricated scenario, so your criticism is misplaced. I'm asking about the theoreticals of TRP, hence the 'let's say'. Maybe that wasn't clear. In the scenario I'm suggesting, there is proof that this plate is lying about who she is with, and we should assume she seeing someone else, because 'girls are sluts until proven otherwise', or something to that effect. In Plate Theory, do we next her, or is it 'acceptable', to continue seeing her, even though she's obviously seeing o…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:59 AM
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If this is bothering you, then you're too invested and you're doing it wrong. Fair.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:40 AM
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I’ve been reading a lot of the side bar. Fascinated by the theory. Curious what it says about this, from a research perspective. Couldn’t be less worried what this one person is doing. What does move on, mean? That’s part of my question. Whether Plate Theory advocates moving on, or if it’s not seen as an issue, and so theoretically there’s a system of mutual plating that is successful.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:19 AM
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'You should see me without my heels'. 'You should have seen me before the surgery.' 'I left my heels in Europe... it's a crazy story...' 'Yeah, I lost two feet from a whaling accident.'
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:13 AM
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Also curious about this question ^.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:14 PM
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You take her off the pedestal, or you lose. Treat her like she’s a 5. Otherwise, you communicate she’s out of your league, and girls want to sleep up.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:43 PM
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Tells me they have issues/want to act hard. I think it’s hot.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:20 PM
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Did you start ghosting, or did you explain why? Curious, cause I might do the same.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:13 AM
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Few girls want to openly admit they’re cool sleeping with someone so quickly. You usually have to play the game and allow them the charade of the date and getting to know you.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:52 AM
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You work together and you both have LTRs. This will not end well. Next.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:50 AM
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Attract, don’t pursue. You can be fun and fun loving, and the conversation will flow naturally, and never for a second be chasing.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:47 AM
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Could be a shit test to see if you get protective or beta obsessive. A girl I see occasionally shows me texts from guys trying to fuck her. The beta move would be to get annoyed and ask a million questions. Instead IDGAF.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:46 AM
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Lold at ‘soft little nexting’. Great advice.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:41 AM
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Probably should ignore for a good bit, and respond much later, ‘mad about what?’
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:37 AM
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inb4 someone yells at you about not reading the sidebar essentially the fear that you're talking to higher SMV people, could leave at any moment, that you have options
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:03 PM
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This just happened to me: We meet, she sees me as 8. We date, over time, she sees me as 6 because I forget to hold frame. Our relationship comes apart. I'm fine with it for a month, but soon want back in. I act needy, and drop to a 4 at best. Here she blocks me. I give up chasing her, get red pilled, learn tactics, and sleep with an attractive friend of hers. My SMV skyrockets, her competitive nature kicks into overdrive, she chases suddenly like I'm a 9.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:04 PM
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Dread forces her to reassess your value. It might add a little value to you as well but its wonder is causing her to perceive your SMV once again, meaning, if you're lower than when you started, don't do dread. So what would you suggest you do at that point? Next?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:58 PM
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It seems like a communication issue. So if it were me, I'd try to find a way to clarify.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:15 AM
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It's fun, but it does get old. It feels too easy, and over time the SMV discrepancy becomes really taxing for me. Like the endless gifts and attention makes it painful to be around them. It's a similar game, the more they try to earn my love, the less respect I have for them. And it's hard to spend time with people you don't respect.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:41 PM
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Maybe just text, 'Tell me if I should be there.' And then don't go, and soft next if you don't hear.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:05 PM
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Well, if you show up and she isn't there, it won't look beta because she won't know. If you show up and she is there, then you play it like you knew she would be there.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:27 PM
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If she told you her 'pussy is wet' and was 'waiting for a kiss', then it's on you to advance. How she responds to that will tell you what you need to know. If she shoots you down and you KEEP TRYING, then you become a beta orbiter. The initial escalation is your responsibility.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:01 PM
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Escalate and see what happens. If she isn't into it, she's just trying to get you to chase her to serve her ego. Let us know.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:56 PM
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What signals is she giving you? Sounds like she may be grooming you for a beta orbiter ego boost.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:50 PM
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Sometimes to suggest girls come to my apartment I talk about how I designed it myself, and do interior decorating as a hobby. And I think they'd find it cool. You can pull the same shit in a car. Talk about the new sound system, or a cool spot you know (go find one), etc. Late night cruise is too vague. I'd find a way to be more specific.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:37 AM
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She will soon find someone who will “like her for who she is”, aka get in her pants.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 08:25 PM
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Maybe try something for more than 20 minutes before you suggest it as a cure-all. That said, I could see how it might work. You’re extinguishing all hope and cutting off every possibility of going back.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 03:09 PM
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You went to the very bottom. You know she has no respect for you because you clearly have no respect for yourself. Ok, it’s a learning moment. I’m new at this, but from what I gather, stop texting her immediately, and wait. Probably will take weeks for her to come back, if she ever does, after the damage you’ve caused to your image. That’s OK. Learn from this, get over your oneitis, and do better next time. Pick yourself up, get your frame right, center yourself, and proceed. Everyone is entitle…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:31 AM
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Just thinking in general. That was specific, I’m talking broader theory.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 03:19 AM
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The juice is worth the squeeze, but not past a point of self care.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 11:02 PM
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Yes you’re saying have some fucking self respect and I’m hearing you.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 09:50 PM
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That’s an ultimatum and the theory is it doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:54 PM
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Let’s say it’s an LTR, and she disrespects you, let’s say by blowing you off at a party, and you ghost for bad behavior. Then she calls you out on ghosting, and says it’s passive aggressive and immature. What’s your move?
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:41 PM
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Let’s say she bailed on plans you made. If you say don’t do that again, you come off as controlling or needy.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:26 PM
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Try it and report back what happens.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:12 PM
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Good advice. I tried to stand my ground, and she did not respond well. Suggested we take some space and blocked me. Lol As you said, a more gradual change probably would have been more effective.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:40 PM
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Thank god these forums exist where we can get some back up. This would be such a miserable lonely experience to figure out alone. Thank you.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:58 PM
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Great guide. Loved the read. Unfortunately I seemingly fucked this whole up as I’m now blocked on her phone and all social media.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:30 PM
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She said I was passive aggressive and immature for ignoring her when I was annoyed, and blocked me, saying we should give each other space. Year long relationship over like that.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:22 AM
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Damn I needed this too
/r/askTRP05/01/18 06:07 AM
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I’m not super well versed in TRP, but it doesn’t seem like she’s going to cheat in this situation. Sounds like you’re being a bit paranoid. Still good to always be prepared for it, but I’d be concerned about acting out prematurely which would also project insecurity and push her away.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:06 AM
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How do you get back your power without blowing up the relationship?
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:35 AM
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True, I told her to have a great time
/r/askTRP05/01/18 01:03 AM
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True. If anything the hot ones are especially easy to generalize because they’ve been conditioned similarly their whole lives. It’s the girls that were forced to become more intellectual, rational, or compassionate that are more difficult to predict.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:59 AM
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She constantly will look at herself and exclaim how hot she is. And she is. And guys line up for her. She’s a supermodel.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:38 PM
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She was my girlfriend for 7 months, then I became complacent, lost my power, got annoyed with her games, then opened up our relationship to sleep with other girls, but they got annoying so now I’m trying to reignite things with my gf/ex-gf... Her line is that I pushed her away by deescalating our relationship and I can’t just expect her to let me in again. To be fair she did fight like hell to keep us together but I felt so controlled I had to break free for some air. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:35 PM
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Too spot on. Amazing advice. Thank you sincerely.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:39 PM
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If I ignore it, whenever I do engage I’ll get hit hard with a Why were you ignoring me rabbit hole. Should I just pretend I wasn’t?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:26 PM
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This is the latest example of disrespect. It’s a pattern that I’m sick of. It’s possible she’s telling the truth and she really did see it when she said she did, but idk about that. My text was something about how I wish we were together. Needy AF, I know. I’ve been bad. Because she was at a party getting wasted with her friends. And she knows she doesn’t have to try anymore and I’ll still be there. The question is how do I proceed. Point it out and say This is wrong I’m done, or act like I don’…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:23 PM
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