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shabaad/r/seduction09/04/18 11:43 AM
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Well first you gotta sleep with her, then you can try to make the fwb happen
/r/seduction24/12/24 11:04 AM
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This is my take: Think of attraction as a seed that is either there or is planted randomly. Maybe it's planted thanks to an act of kindness, a musical performance, a sporty act, a witty joke, being her type, being rich, you name it. You can't control how this seed is planted, nor the fact that it is there or not. Seduction is nurturing that seed, making it grow into a plant that produces a fruit. The fruit might be a number, a K-close, an F-close, a FWB, a long-term relationship. Pick your fruit…
/r/seduction23/11/24 12:39 PM
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No great funny intelligent good-looking guy that has to say so is a true great funny intelligent good-looking guy /s
/r/seduction31/08/24 04:17 PM
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The small piece of advice you luckily found on the internet Is correct. Don't do it, only bad things await you
/r/seduction11/04/24 04:39 AM
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I think you are overrating her attraction towards you. You are the same phenotype? You listen to the same music? You speak the same foreign language? Those mean nothing. Texting is made for setting up a date, try to set up a date. If she goes with your flow go to the date otherwise move on
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:33 PM
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Stop being lame asf and a cry baby. He literally told you that
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:33 PM
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Thanks for the explanation! I must say I am no newbie when it comes to tinder, I'm on it since 5 years, and I feel you when you say that anxiety is an issue when cold approaching. Basically your approach is focused on "studying" the girls profile in order to initiate a conversation based on her interests. When you talked about a chess move I thought about a standardized approach for every girl. I'm always looking for new openers since those are the most crucial part in online dating
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:36 PM
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I'm very curious about your opening chess move on tinder. Can you elaborate on that? On the rest, well done! You surely inspire confidence from your writing!
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:24 PM
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Gonna try that right now
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:04 PM
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That was 2015 and the two positive ones resulted in f-closing
/r/seduction12/03/18 10:06 PM
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I am going to copy and translate two successfull approaches and one failure with this line: Me: Hello there! I wanted to know you but... I am not so sure... Her: And what does your being sure depend on? Me: That's what I am trying to understand. Lend me a hand Her: I like this selectivity Her: Honestly, I don't know. I downloaded this app like for a mistake and I am not even sure why I am doing this Me: Well then tell me your most absurd adventure Me: Surprise me Then we connected a bit, exchang…
/r/seduction12/03/18 08:22 PM
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You can try a simple "Kylie!" or "Julia!" depending on her name of course and let her answer first. Another strategy I used 2 and half years ago was "Hey, I wanted to know you but I am not so sure anymore...". However, with this one you have to keep a strong frame because if you are weak the girls will see through it and wreck yoi immediately
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:45 PM
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I do not agree with this one because you are basically qualifying yourself
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:20 PM
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From MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE (highlighting necessary) I generate way more attraction in real life than on tinder in my environment (Northern Italy). Just a reminder: attraction is different from f-closing or k-closing (is the latter even a closing?) To use a scale: - IRL I can spark attraction in 3 out of 10 attractive girls I talk to just thanks to eye contact + active listening + light kino. - On tinder I get a match from 3 out of 100 girls I find attractive since tinder is almost only looks / …
/r/seduction20/02/18 12:28 PM
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"Because I'm very well aware that who I am at the core is pathetic autistic weirdo" This is it. That's what you are projecting right now. Your wavelength. You accomplished stuff no one I personally know ever remotely pulled of. Be proud of that. It looks like you want to go back to the good old times and, at the same time, you despise them. Make peace with yourself. Time changes, people change, as well as their habits, customs and likings. You think you ARE the problem, however from my point of …
/r/seduction05/02/18 05:33 PM
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There's so much gold in such a small text
/r/seduction08/01/18 08:58 PM
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It depends on how much you care about her. Recognize that she was ill, and thar you ignored her while she was ill. If you want to build something more intimitate and emotional maybe you could acknowledge that you could have dedicated her a bit more time. If it's just a friend with benefits or a one night stand then ignore the questions
/r/seduction16/12/17 10:53 AM
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As many already pointed out, it's just a test. Usually I answer them with something like: "Nope, only with those (girls) who count something / are worth it"
/r/seduction19/11/17 10:57 PM
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