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Unless she’s extremely nice and have no plans to purchase, she’s not going to be willing to stay on the mortgage. Taking her off the deed doesn’t help her get off the hook for the loan.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 08:21 PM
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They aren’t going to take your word on your income, so they will clearly see your deductions.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 05:18 AM
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Well you can move. But you are risking the child to not move. The USAR or NG are the only ones I know that you have to move for promotions. I didn’t know active duty branches require this, the Army doesn’t. That’s tough.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 03:49 AM
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Ask for a deferment of your orders. Im pretty sure the judge can’t stop you from moving but he can stop your child from moving. I would ask your attorney and JAG if you have any rights. Although JAG won’t get involved they should answer your question.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/23 03:12 AM
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The division of assets won’t be reduced due to her not pursuing child support. Her being unhappy for ten years while sad if true, won’t change the fact that you have been married ten years. Idk if this separation just happened but you may want to see a therapist because right now you sound extremely vindictive and you don’t want to carry that into your next relationship, you deserve to have a fresh start without baggage.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/23 06:53 AM
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Army here, if she calls your command and says you are stranding her without the car, expect FAP involvement.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 05:56 AM
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Im shocked you can afford to live in Silicon Valley for 134k a year. Maybe divorce now since you have so many concerns. I’m not sure why this wasn’t researched especially when filling out financial disclosures for her visa and sponsorship. Her income would be 36k a year only if you expect her to always make minimum wage which I think is $17 in that county.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 03:35 AM
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If you do this, when she doesn’t send your child back, what’s the recourse? Sounds like you won’t have any.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 10:24 PM
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It’s highly unlikely she will want to try to work it out. You aren’t heterosexual and you are having an affair. There is nothing to work out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 07:37 PM
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She’s probably lying but you should file for emergency custody because she can’t care for your son drunk. After you can do a DNA test. You need a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 11:09 PM
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Responsibilities end at 18 except for states like NY that have obligations like CS that can go to 23. If your order doesn’t say she has to keep paying their insurance she can drop it. Splitting it seems reasonable if you both want them insured.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 02:55 AM
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They have been married for a year. Tell him to file and be done with it. The longer he stays with someone who is threatening that he abuses her, the more likely it is that he will be arrested. Unless he’s also a drunk, I’m not sure what he’s sticking around for.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 02:23 AM
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If she’s abusive why are you ok with her living with your son in another country. The fact that you don’t mind isn’t going to convince a judge that she abused you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/22 05:36 AM
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It’s unfair. But your sons custody case is likely going to drag out. I can get the sacrifice of not finishing your fall the way you expected and missing out on the fun things you had planned like camping. But you do have to have boundaries. It’s completely appropriate to tell your son that your boundary will be that you are willing to give up certain things right now to support him, but not your daughters 40th birthday. That’s not fair to her, you or your husband. She’s not involved in this cust…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 06:09 AM
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You shouldn’t neglect your other child’s milestones because of one weekend of custody. You didn’t cause this situation, so doing your best to assist doesn’t need to be at the expense of your other child.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/22 04:44 AM
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The 1930s when people were fucked and starving to death due to the Great Depression? The 1930s where the majority of people were illiterate? A wife asking her husband for a weekend away (2 days), isn’t crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 05:32 AM
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Lunch is to late. I wasn’t suggesting a full part time job. One day a week (depending on where you live), would probably earn enough money to take two weekend trips a year which is what she seemed to be begging for. You said in the post she wasn’t interested in things like playing games with the kids but she’s with them 24/7 and it sounds like she wanted to recharge her battery with you. She may be a better mother and more invested in family time when she sees you are invested in her If you want…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 04:40 AM
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I saw this earlier but didn’t have time to respond. You say you want to work it out, but she’s given you a blueprint and you haven’t been interested. A weekend away to reconnect isn’t thousands of dollars. I think you said you work a few days straight and have a few days off. If you want her back, make money on your off time. DoorDash, Uber Eats etc. Arrange for her parents to keep the kids and take your wife on the weekend trip she has been begging for. If you want her back, give her what’s she…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 02:22 AM
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