shaddoe_of_truth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Double Standards w/Gender Norms in an Era of Toxic Masculinity/Femininity	Social Issues	shaddoe_of_truth	/r/MensRights	01/07/20 12:12 AM
2	Improving the Nice Guy / Gentleman Image by Bobby Shaddoe	Progress	shaddoe_of_truth	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 12:55 PM

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2	You don't owe financial security to anyone. Not your girlfriend/ wife/ partner, anyone. Without exception every girlfriend / wife I know believe they are owed a financially abundant male. My wife and split the bills that pertsin to the both of us abd our home, and pay things that pertain to us as individuals on our own. It's that simple	/r/MensRights	22/08/22 11:56 AM
2	Jada Pinkett-Smith and Amber Heard Make Me Question: Why Is No One Talking About 'Toxic Femininity'? Feminism sprung up out of Women Suffrage, because lets be absolutely honest, the past has shown quite clearly that women did not have much agency in regards to what they wanted to do and always had to fight to have a place at the table alongside 'the menfolk' because men have always been the ones making decisions and being rather ignorant and sexist in their attitudes towards women in society. The problem that exists is the same problem that always exists whenever good ideas come into being, tho…	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 10:29 AM
2	Whatever you do if you are man You are wrong in this subs , I'm reading some stories in this sub and other relationship sub the toxicity of misandry redditors are higher than global warming. The guy in the situation is not the asshole. I have my own AITA story. I was once friends with a woman who is an actress and model that does local independent films in Florida, which are mostly of a horror nature with some titillation. She and I were friends, we could talk about anything, she was a great listener and gave great advice and I in turn helped her out a few times when she needed someone to talk to. One day, on Facebook, she reposts a picture gallery from her memory archive. A set of …	/r/MensRights	30/03/22 12:43 PM
5	What do you guys think about the "male gaze"? Thank you. There isn't anything wrong. The problem being that there are women that don't wish to be objectified.... Even while continuing to parade around in clothing meant to emphasize their physical beauty. It's grossly hypocritical.	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 02:49 PM
14	What do you guys think about the "male gaze"? I think I do understand that 'the male gaze' is essentially how men view the world and society and even how we dictate, overtly or covertly, how things are presented for public consumption. And often that doesn't involve women having any say or agency over how they themselves are viewed. I don't necessarily agree with such a sexist mindset, but to say it doesn't exist at all and isn't problematic would be ignorant and closeminded. Men tend have this view that only makes sense from their perspect…	/r/MensRights	24/01/22 04:46 AM
0	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. Are you forgetting that women can Just go to a sperm bank in order to get inseminated and have a child? Sperm that was willingly donated by men? Is that selfish or against the man's will? Regarding choice, it is also a man's choice not to wear protection and creampie a woman's pussy knowing full well the possibility of insemination could take place. A woman can only carry the eggs, its the man that plants the seeds that create life. This is not feminism, its just biological facts... Stuff that t…	/r/MensRights	27/07/20 11:25 AM
1	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. You're right, people just need to be more responsible overall.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 05:54 PM
5	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. Never really thought about it like that.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 04:25 PM
-1	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. I am just speaking on how things are perceived by others. True perception is not always reality. In some cases the idea of the man that runs out on his family is an all too common occurrence. Same thing with women that run out on their family. It is not always clear cut, but the perception of people that do not take responsibility for the lives they create does seem to be far harsher on men than on women.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 04:10 PM
-4	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. Some people see abortion as murder. It depends on which side of the argument you fall on regarding pro life or pro choice. Its an easy thing, cuz that sort of action taken by a woman could be seen as just as cowardly and irresponsible. It is unfortunate that when a woman gets pregnant the father has no say in the decision. Should they have a say over whether the child gets aborted or not? I honestly dont know. Because it creates a slippery slope regarding who has the right to do what in this sit…	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 03:50 PM
-7	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. There are no easy answers nor easy solutions to those sorts of circumstances. Each one has to be handled according to the individual circumstances by the individuals in question. If the guy had his sperm stolen, then it becomes a case that the guy should have the child taken away from.an unscrupulous mother. Whether that man decides to take the child as his own or put it up for adoption afterwards is another matter entirely. Regarding rape? Again that is something that cant be answered easily be…	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 02:52 PM
-8	If a woman has the right to chose to keep or abort a pregnancy, a man should have the right to walk away from one. I know im probably gonna get hate from this, but i dont really agree with this. if a man doesnt want to be a father then he should wear protection or get surgery to not make children when having sex with a woman. Yes its a woman's right to abort a child rather than carry it to term, but it takes two people to make a child. If the woman decides to carry the child to term, the choice os either to raise the child or give the child up for adoption, and that is something that should be agreed by both…	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 02:35 PM
8	“Women are so oppressed” Thats true	/r/MensRights	23/07/20 03:28 PM
5	“Women are so oppressed” True.	/r/MensRights	23/07/20 03:27 PM
-37	“Women are so oppressed” Then again, most men are under that same delusion about women. This is usually personified by those macho dudebros that believe theyre Gods gift to women.	/r/MensRights	23/07/20 01:20 PM
12	“Women are so oppressed” I think another issue stems from the idea that a lot of people think a majority of men wouldnt necessarily object to women pawing at them and whatnot. This is partially true as Im sure most guys fantasize about wanting that level of attention from women.	/r/MensRights	23/07/20 12:33 PM
3	It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discrimination Sure.	/r/MensRights	01/07/20 12:11 AM
2	Woman cheers in court after getting custody of child. And women say men are immature. This shit makes me sick.	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 08:54 PM
5	It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discrimination I do not know how much of this is true, but there does seem to be a pervasive problem in terms of double standards regarding gender norms and what is expected from either side of the spectrum. You could minding your own business, not doing anything to harm anyone and suddenly get accused of harassment and inappropriate behavior simply cuz your mere presence makes people uncomfortable. This is inspite of not actually doing anything to purposely or intentionally cause discomfort. And yet doing som…	/r/MensRights	30/06/20 01:08 PM
4	I was falsely accused for sexual harrasment when I was 12 Its a terrible thing to not be believed when you know yourself to be innocent.	/r/MensRights	29/06/20 04:29 PM
1	How would you describe Toxic Femininity? What traits would you classify as Toxic Femininity? Toxic behavior exists on birth sides of the gender divide. Physical and emotional abuse, ridiculing, unfair criticism, bullying, condescending and patronizing behavior as a means to belittle someone emotionally, and overall making them feel as though anything they do or say doesn't matter, and trying to make them feel as if they don't matter either.	/r/MensRights	20/01/20 06:20 PM
1	October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month Agreed. They refuse to acknowledge it even when they are the ones actually doing it. And of course theres a stigma of unbelievability that comes with the notion of men allowing themselves to be abused by women. Far too many people are willing to believe that a woman is violently abused by a man but the reverse stretches credulity for many. Its that whole, 'if you let a woman hit you and you just sat there and took it, then you need to hand in your Man Card' or whatever.	/r/MensRights	08/10/19 09:18 PM
1	October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month Men should not abuse women either. No one should be abused, period.	/r/MensRights	08/10/19 07:29 PM
2	Men appreciate kindness and positive encouragements Men like receiving compliments, genuine compliments as opposed to someone blowing smoke up our butts to manipulate us. Im sure the same applies for women, but in this #metoo environment it seems that displaying kindness and positive encouragement is always perceived in the wrong manner. But when men receive compliments and appreciate encouragement, is it an ego or vanity thing? Maybe a little bit, but its also that notion that seems true of all people: the idea that we all want to be appreciated…	/r/MensRights	23/07/19 02:09 PM
1	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Well, it turns the girl that freaking chastised me and told me to 'grow up' must also be trolling Reddit cuz i just came across my post on her facebook page. I might as well by a social pariah at this point cuz there aint no going back. People are just gonna continue to misunderstand me and think the worst and are just gonna laugh like a bunch of fucking juvenile grade school bullies taking joy out of making the new kid cry after they made them trip in the cafeteria and making then spill their f…	/r/MensRights	18/07/19 07:01 PM
7	"He deserved it" Depression doesnt lead to killing someone else, it leads to suicide. No way would that excuse of depression caused me to kill my significant other ever be allowed as a defense.	/r/MensRights	11/06/19 07:22 PM
1	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Well... The toxic females that have caused me trouble have managed to get their way. I once belonged to a rocky horror shadowcast... Not any longer. I was let go because of the online argument. The reasoning was so carefully phrased that they did it because they saw i was unhappy. But rather than punished or reprimand the ones that actually instigated my unhappiness, im the one that is being let go. They saw that i continually am being misrepresented and misunderstood by others, but rather than …	/r/MensRights	09/06/19 07:16 PM
1	“Empowering” much? This gender war nonsense needs to stop to be honest. The only way for it to stop is for people to come together... But then again thats about as likely to happen as trying to train an oyster to drive a car.	/r/MensRights	09/06/19 07:06 PM
1	You can never appease feminists You try throwing their own words back at them in irder to make a counter point to a discussion, and theyre all like 'stop throwing worda back at us!'	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 12:31 AM
1	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. And what really annoys me the most is that if a woman stands up to a man and his toxic behavior, shes a hero. But if ever a man tries to call out a woman for being toxic, hes a disgusting woman hating misogynist prick. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't. I mean, im all for equality, but how equal is it if only a womans opinion should be the one that matters and every dissenting male opinion is wrong?	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 11:13 PM
2	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. I appreciate this more than you know. It is so fucking irritating to essentially be attacked from multiple sides and have no back up or support and basically be told that im wrong for having an opinion.... Again. I mean ive seen comedic examples of the bitchy shrewish woman that nags their husband and makes it a point to torment them whenever possible with their badgering and nagging, and how they boss them around and make them feel like less than a man... But i always thought that was a cliche …	/r/MensRights	04/06/19 10:30 AM
9	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Lets not forget the crowning achievement of toxic femininity, a complete dismissal of all attempts by men to clear up any misunderstandings and try to see things from their viewpoint through calm and rational discussion by labeling it as 'mansplaining'	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 11:25 PM
9	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Ive been taken advantage of plenty of times by women that saw my kindness as a weakness and used that to bilk money from me that they had no intention of ever paying back, usually with some cockamamie sob story about I'm their only hope to avoid jail time or to get their car out of repossession or some shit. The ironic thing tends to be that in theur opposition amd condemnation of toxic masculinity, they in turn exemplify the worst aspects of toxic feminimity.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 10:10 PM
4	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Casting aspersions and making assumptions and deciding to butt into a conversation that literally had nothing to do with them because of their own stupid ax to grind, instead of doing the sensible and respectable thing and waiting to actually see me in person and talk about this stuff in private in a calm and civilized manner like an adult. How strange that this childish outrage is also coming from them and yet I'm the one that needs to 'grow up'.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 09:32 PM
9	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. I am someone that believes that no one should experience verbal or physical abuse, regardless of gender. A man that takes out his frustration on a woman cannot call himself a man, and a woman that tries to exercise their sense of empowerment by putting men down and making them feel worthless is not much of a woman.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 06:37 PM
10	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Oh my god... Talk about on point.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 05:59 PM
27	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. On facebook, i saw a post that said that instead of telling women to choose better men if they are in bad relationships or ehatever, men should be told to be better men. I shared that post and commented that the same thing should apply to women being better women and if you think that only men can be problematic and toxic youre sadly mistaken. It started as a discussion between myself, my wife and my wifes uncle. Vic talked about how when he was sibgle he lamented about how being a nice guy neve…	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 05:38 PM
52	Janice Fiamengo summing up feminism in a paragraph. Oh my God... I just had to endure what is perhaps the most intense bout of toxic femininity ever. I even got chastised by a fucking 20 year old girl that told me to 'grow up' even though im two years shy of being 40.	/r/MensRights	03/06/19 05:14 PM