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You sound exactly like me. Exactly, except I'm 24.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:44 AM
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Well at least I know my instinct is spot on lol
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:00 AM
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Fun story, too much bragging.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:43 PM
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I really like this post regardless of relevancy. I like the structure and the honesty, as well as, the genuine message it conveys. You seem like a very intelligent kid and with that ability you should have no problem applying that to to social world. Making friends is the easy part. You literally just have to do the things you like to do and talk to the people that are there doing the same thing. If talking to them is the hard part then grab ahold of what dropped out of your stomach 3 years ago …
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:33 PM
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You can use my tactic. Anytime a girl says anything about partying or celebrating (and it's funny you brought this up) I kiss her immediately, sometimes I prelude it with "yes, let's celebrate" or something of the sort, and then scream "whooo" really loud. It works even without the whoo part. That's just for fun.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:22 PM
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Maybe I am being narrow minded and inconsiderate myself but I stand by what I said. Touching the shoulder is a compliment to communication but can be interpreted either way. You are in /r/seduction so I am assuming you want help in actually escalating and closing in some way. I can not offer you any advise except to lurk on this subreddit and read others experiences and observe how they handled situations and apply their techniques to your life. Don't ask for exact instructions on how to handle …
/r/seduction03/08/14 10:21 AM
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This is a very good question to which I would like to hear some thoughts about as well therefore I am posting useless info here because I want to. I say stupid shit like that when I walk up to girls in groups lol. I don't do it often mind you as I normally "Hone" in on one girl from the start with the intention of removing her from the group in a subtle way. I walked up to a group last night and said "I don't really have anything to say to you guys but you look like you're having fun so I'm gonn…
/r/seduction03/08/14 10:06 AM
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I think you should go back to /r/socialskills and annoy them with your stories. I have reviewed all of your posts and come to the conclusion you are either making them up and really bad at stories or these are true and you are just an extremely rude depressing person who needs a different kind of help than people on this subreddit provide. Ont he other hand, if these stories are true you are demonstrating very slow progress. Progress is good however, you need to think about things before you say…
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:57 AM
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This subreddit isn't about being a pick-up artist. There are some posts about that and explanations of tactics used by them to help understand talking to women, but the intention is to focus on oneself to improve overall well being. Let people do what they want to do. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean you have to annoy people. I didn't like being in Iraq the last six months, but I didn't bitch about it on the I love Iraq forum.
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:45 PM
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Is the result of both actions the same? Posting contradictory statements on a forum is hardly an effective way to "liberate" men. This forum is hardly visible on the spectrum of men that play"The Game". I would suggest worrying about improving yourself before you attempt to persuade others against improving themselves. That's what this forum is about.
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:45 PM
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Well how did you approach? Were you confident and interesting? Did you stare intensely at are or just hold eye contact? These things make a difference.
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:08 PM
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I can't give you advise but I can give you motivation. You are at the most exhilarating point of your seduction experience. Being a beginner was the most fun and confidence building time for me. I tried everything I thought of even if it was silly and I had no doubt it would fail. That's when I learned that anything can work for you as long as you present it well. Just be you man and let the vibe establish itself. Use the supplemental techniques mentioned in the guides to direct the outcome the …
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:49 AM
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Are we twins?
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:38 AM
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Fucking tease her right off. "Oh, you were checking me out huh?" Works well. Also something I do personally, which may or may not work for your set, is quickly look her up and down with a confident look on my face and tell her she looks like she could move as well. She'll come back with a "maybe" or something playful and it's in the bag. Just go with it and be spontaneous.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:27 AM
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Lol'd ^
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:19 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:17 AM
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I was really hoping the other sister would have joined lol.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:11 AM
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The only rule is there are no rules. Either she will like it or she won't. It all depends on how receptive she is to you and what she is feeling at the time. I've been able to walk up to a girl I don't know and grind on her whilst picking her up from the ass and I've also had situations where I could tell I had to warm her up first. Judge based on the factors at hand. Best advise I can give is to watch and learn from the times it works well and see what they did.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:10 AM
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Haha, yes. I also get pretty caught up in dancing especially when it's my jam. In the clubs I frequent the dance floor is easy to maneuver around so I dance my way to the girl I want to talk to and kind of fall in a direction that leads me of the floor and pull her with me.I then apologize for dragging her off and open. Works for me, good luck.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:06 AM
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Regardless of who I agree with I find more validity in Omarm's reasoning. Johny seems to be equating "pickup" as a negative process to steal a woman's dignity when in reality it's a tactful way to express oneself to put it simply. Our genetics are simple in regards to women, we desire them. When a caveman desired a woman he took her. Since then we have evolved, learned to respect each other as humans, and developed new ways to express our value and desire. On a final note IMO it sounds like John…
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:01 AM
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Seconded.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:05 AM
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Noooo? Maybe lol I didn't read them all I just shoved my 2¢ in.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:31 AM
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Noted I'll try that next time and see what happens.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:24 AM
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Even if he is just bragging, it obviously boost alot of sedditors confidence and will have them trying new things like the OP. Lets not criticize and just enjoy the positive effects of the story.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:24 AM
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lol
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:08 AM
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Oh fucking well. If she doesn't find it funny we prolly won't get along anyway so I'll go tell it to someone else lol.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:06 AM
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Me: "Well I guess you're coming back with us tonight" and Me: (smirk) "No we have the whole house. My room is upstairs. Here I'll show you." Those two things were awesome and are more than alot of people would do. So I would say you earned it regardless of anything else. You were able to steer things the way you wanted to go even if she had the same intentions, bravo.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:51 AM
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Lol'd at this.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:48 AM
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Seconded. Go SOMEWHERE and do SOMETHING with women. I don't care what it is but you must talk to them and you must learn from whatever happens and do it again. Do that and stop putting us nerds back in our stereotypical bracket.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:45 AM
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I can't focus on what I'm doing or hold a decent conversation when I am off meds. When I take them I am really focused and can have an amazing conversation and close in some way with almost every girl I meet. For me I am able to zone in when I take them. I have been working on being able to do that without them but it's a slow process. My most positive aspect off meds is unpredictability.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:39 AM
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That sounds like a great plan. You might even try making your own challenge and documenting the results. Then, you can share it with us all with your thoughts on what you did that worked and why. Don't play by someone else's rules, make your own.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:35 AM
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I felt like a tool doing this but I like to try new things, I was in a similar situation and took a selfie right in front of her and sent it to her phone. She added me as a contact and attached the picture to it. Kind of surprised me.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:31 AM
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Journal all the way man. Not only helped me with confidence but helped me get ahold of my anger problem as well. I was a VERY angry person but now I'm able to control it.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:28 AM
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I would rephrase that to say girls CAN be a motivation for any hobby or goal we pursue and coincidentally can be used as tools to get girls.
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:25 AM
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I agree. So far you have been missing opportunities left and right. Why not go right into it when she says "hey"? The first thing I would say is "Hey, when are you free today?" Then she would tell me and I would tell her to meet me somewhere at that time and done. If she makes an excuse then I'd say "maybe next time" and let her initiate again wen she wants to. You've already established she wants to see you again. There is no reason to small talk. Get to the point and meet her somewhere so you …
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:18 AM
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That sounds exactly like me and when I actually do hook I'm too excited about it happening to pay attention to what I did lol.
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:57 AM
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I went and surveyed all my chick friends and the most consistent answer I received was "It depends on how attractive you are and how well you present yourself whether you are creepy or not".
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:43 AM
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"How do you like to spend your time?" takes the negative possibilities out.
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:02 PM
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Oh I see. The last sentence was what was needed lol I'm slow sometimes.
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:00 PM
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I did lol
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:59 PM
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perhaps I am confused from lack of sleep but please explain what this means.
/r/seduction18/07/14 02:36 AM
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And then she says "my boyfriends cock"......true story <<
/r/seduction17/07/14 11:17 PM
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No harm in re-posting good material....
/r/seduction10/07/14 03:36 AM
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Honestly I hate that this works for you. In my experience<< leading with something like this always gets a negative response and therefore sets a bad tone from which you now have to recover. Now that being said I appreciate the way you are trying to go with it and understand how being completely blunt with facts in the face sets you apart, especially from those that are afraid to approach girls. I like to lead with things that aren't accusatory yet still get her out of her comfort zone.
/r/seduction10/07/14 12:47 AM
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Morality was never my strong suit. I would say keep going at it and make the most of it. She might cave and you both have the night of her life. Tell her you got a short notice two days before you leave and let her decide what she wants to do about it. It will force her to 1. be very honest due to timeline and 2. probably make a less educated decision than she would normally which could work out well for you. In regards to this being your first "date/relationship" this is not a relationship so d…
/r/seduction06/07/14 12:15 AM
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You're doing it right now and don't realize it. Don't beat yourself up, take a step back, think. If you are attractive then accept that as a positive and focus more on communication. A method I use is thinking of the interesting things I do on a regular basis(riding, mudding, dancing, etc.) and telling her to join me if I'm texting. If she is in front of me I use kino and make a move quick before she gets over the image of me she created because of my looks. Usually that results in us leaving to…
/r/seduction06/07/14 12:02 AM
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Don't be discouraged, keep trying new things and you'll find what works. In the future I would advise losing the attitude and "real women" mentality. Even if they are not your definition of a woman you would prefer they are still good for learning and practicing so don't count them out.
/r/seduction03/07/14 03:00 AM
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I was re-iterating what iamsthesage was saying in his first paragraph.
/r/seduction28/06/14 09:47 PM
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Definitely something to look out for. Alpha has it right and sage i agree with mostly however, don't count your chickens yet. In my experience doing the same thing you done did, most of the time there's one last ditch effort from the girl to get you in her pants. It's that "I've spent some time on this dude and it feels like a waste unless I get something out of it but I don't care either way" attempt lol. If you do want to try again you will have to be lucky, aggressive, and set up the interact…
/r/seduction28/06/14 06:08 PM
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I don't understand...I'm new to this as well and it seems like you had approx. 17 and a half chances to get it in. Did you not pick up on the signs or are you slowboating?
/r/seduction28/06/14 02:18 PM
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