shadiesmirror Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? I hadn't, I'm quite new to reddit and didn't realise this was an option. I've reported them now.	/r/MensRights	13/05/23 07:18 AM
0	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? Are you managing to convince yourself of something here? Because you're not convincing me that you don't care what I say, or that you believe mra's aren't against women. That's enough now, in future if you want to claim something, at least have proof it's true, so you don't make a fool of yourself like you did here. Goodnight.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 09:51 PM
1	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? You proved nothing You stated that mra's are not against women, only against feminists. I proved that at least some mra's are against women, it's all there n my post history, so you were incorrect. And you obviously care enough about what I say to still be responding to what I say. I am amused by your efforts :) I'm also amused by what you wrote (but I won't call it effort, because you made none). You were plain wrong and unable to take the L. Sad.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 09:41 PM
1	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? You cared enough to respond to me up to now, and cared enough to claim I was wrong and you were right. Now that I proved you wrong you suddenly don't care what I have to say? Sore loser is what you are.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 09:24 PM
-5	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? So you have nothing to say against the misogyny on this sub, despite you claiming that mra's are not against women? I just showed you that some mra's are against women.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 09:17 PM
-5	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? MRA don't go against women, just against feminists Not true. Just a couple of days ago someone in this sub said : "women are ungrateful by nature". When I called them out, I got downvoted. The same person, in a further reply on that thread said : 'women are selfish" and I again got downvoted for calling that out. Many mra's go against women, I can't stand when people pretend this is not true. So, when you say mra's don't go against women, are you really trying to speak for all the mra's that do?	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 09:10 PM
-4	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? Yep, pretty normal. Do you have something to say for or against what I wrote?	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 08:46 PM
-1	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? He’s not “just” a man. He’s the authority figure of the home and spiritual leader Are you saying he gets to be the authority figure because he has a penis? Or if the woman in the equation would make a better authority figure, does she get to be it? I actually believe in staying home as a woman to raise the children and take care of the man Sure, obviously you can believe what you want, but why does that make you anti-feminist? Surely you understand that not all women and men believe the same thi…	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 08:10 PM
-8	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? I think your comment is quite fair, as in your feelings are valid, but I have to ask: Then I started researching their disgusting habit of going against men in general. How do you feel about the habit of many mra's of going against women in general? Because that is prevalent here. Does it not bother you?	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 07:46 PM
-6	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? Even though my mom worked she still would make my fathers lunch everyday, breakfast as well… and had dinner prepared. My father was always shown respect as the man of the household. That’s how I feel it should be. Why do you think that a working woman should do all the cooking and meal preparation for a working man, and show him respect just for being a man? It sounds crazy to me, but I am interested in hearing your perspective of why you feel it should be this way?	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 07:26 PM
-15	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? saying that womens votes should be counted twice and other crazy shit. I realised this may be a widespread problem. It isn't a widespread problem, you can rest assured. That isn't a feminist stance or one that women in general have. Your mother sounds pretty crazy ngl, mine is too, just in a very different way.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 07:11 PM
-31	Members of this sub, how did you become an MRA and/or anti feminist? That's interesting. This happens to many men I think. Also, many women get shamed for aspects of their gender identity that men get celebrated for. If you don't mind me asking, what made you go straight for the manosphere instead of a more egalitarian approach?	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 07:06 PM
1	Her “independent” girl friend It’s not misogyny to say that most women are raised to believe that they deserve the world. But the misogynistic statement was that "women are ungrateful by nature". So which is it, nature or nurture? Because you are defending that guy's misogyny by saying the opposite. You are also incorrect though, as very obviously not all women in the world are raised to believe they deserve the world, and you know this. half of the population are given things on a silver platter just for existing Nonsense, …	/r/MensRights	08/05/23 08:13 AM
-5	Her “independent” girl friend You'll stick to your misogyny, even though it has been clearly pointed out to you? You can't claim you didn't realise you are being sexist, as it's been laid out clearly for you. How sad it is when people don't want to grow and improve. Your choice though.	/r/MensRights	07/05/23 10:00 PM
-4	Her “independent” girl friend Women are selfish More misogyny. You can't help yourself can you? And no, you're not just "telling it as it is", you're telling it as the toxic mess it is in your head, not reality.	/r/MensRights	07/05/23 08:23 PM
-11	Her “independent” girl friend Women are ungrateful by nature Misogynist Edit: guys the downvotes I'm getting are proving a lot of people right, you know, the ones who complain about all the misogyny on this sub, and generally get replies along the lines of "we don't condone misogyny, we call it out and downvote it". What a joke.	/r/MensRights	07/05/23 06:40 PM
-6	Woman will feel alone in the future More men are deciding marriage simply isn’t worth their while More men AND women are deciding that, not sure why you think it's only men. dating surveys show more women are frustrated they can’t find “a good man” Not quite the burn you think it is. who will provide for them the way they would like Doubt most women in 2023 in western countries would describe "a good man" as "one who will provide for me the way I would like". Can you show the dating surveys you referred to that confirm this? I thi…	/r/MensRights	06/05/23 02:01 PM
1	How to maintain "women in competition" as a married man? You're joking right? This is the men's rights sub, and you're here asking people how to manipulate, but also somehow not manipulate, your wife? This is so far from anything to do with rights for men. Grow up.	/r/MensRights	05/05/23 06:58 PM
-1	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Well that's bs, because you already joined the conversation. And you already know what those beliefs are, so no I'm not going to list them out for you. But I will give you one example. I work in a male dominated field, there are very few women here. Whenever a man is the top performer everyone is fine with that. When a woman is the top performer it all comes out: "she must have been given extra help", "it's easier for women so of course she's doing well" (despite the fact it's a hard job for eve…	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 12:32 AM
0	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Do you not know? I find that hard to believe.	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 12:09 AM
0	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? It’s perfectly valid for this redditor to express how he feels about women, on this sub. I disagree. This is not the "express how you feel about women, no matter how negative" sub, it's the men's rights sub, so as far as I'm concerned complaining about women in generalisations has no place here. there are places where it’s acceptable to air out your annoyance. This is actually one of the only safe places to do so - and it’s not your place to gatekeep it. Do you mean annoyance at women? No, this …	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 12:03 AM
-1	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? It is semantics but, much of this sub distinguishes feminism from egalitarianism. I disagree. I see that much of this sub is against women and calls it egalitarianism just to dunk on feminism. If you want “equality for everyone,” say it. Agreed. As a feminist since I was a young child, I want equality for everyone. I am an egalitarian and I'm not against saying it. If you knew me personally and the life I lead, you would know this is true. But since this is reddit you will probably go ahead and …	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 11:18 PM
1	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? You're defending a misogynistic comment. Why?	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 10:52 PM
-1	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Honey, I was raised in a semi traditional family in a semi traditional country, yet I was a feminist since before I even heard the word 'feminism' (No I don't hate men, before someone says it). What's your excuse?You can be a feminist and want to make things better for men too. Equality for everyone would be the goal. In fact, I'd go so far as to say it's impossible to be a true men's rights activist without being a feminist, otherwise you are just trying to preserve rights men had in the past a…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 09:54 PM
-6	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Yep, it's obvious. And yet if anyone accuses this sub of misogyny it is denied to the last. But the truth is in threads like this.	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 09:33 PM
-8	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? The goal of this sub is not to hate on women, it is to further men’s rights. If only that were true, this could be a good sub.	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:30 PM
-14	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Hilarious take, obviously for laughs. There's no way you actually think that the women fantasising about a rich man falling for her are 'under the influence of feminism'. I never had such expectations as I was raised and grew up in rather traditional family, thankfully out of reach of all the toxic social ideas of "modern" world Well if you were raised away from the ideas of the "modern" world, what makes you think you know enough to go on the internet and make proclamations about other people. …	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:28 PM
-11	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? Women are spoiled. Nonsense. The question is why is it so frowned upon to say? People generally frown upon nonsense takes. Other subs will ban you when you tell people what women are really like What are women "really like" according to you? I’m glad I found a group of people that will embrace my comments directed at women. So for you the men's rights sub is a place to unload your negative comments directed at women? I wonder how many people will agree that this sub is about that? How exactly do…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 08:22 PM
1	I heard a great argument I've not heard before Funny that the definition I have is: manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning. Where did your definition come from? I clearly didn't manipulate OP into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning, so, no gaslighting here.	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 10:32 PM
0	I heard a great argument I've not heard before What does "gaslighting" mean to you? Because you're using it wrong fyi.	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 09:34 PM
5	Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important women You think men are called to clean things in the office? No, that's women who are asked to do that. But, you didn't answer my question, in what way do you think car doors in the past were trickier to open for women than for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 09:06 PM
7	Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important women You're going with car doors might have been tricky to open for women? Was it her soft little brain or her delicate fingers that were the problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 08:51 PM
7	Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important women I don't understand the car door thing, I've only ever seen that in movies. Is there a part of the world where men are expected to open the woman's car door in current times? Where I live a man would probably be utterly baffled if the woman didn't get out of the car and sat there expecting him to open it. Also, helping someone to be seated at a restaurant, never really seen a man do that one either, or give a woman his umbrella. The coat thing I will grant you, it does happen. But I think there a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 08:35 PM
-15	I heard a great argument I've not heard before Another post veering away from advocating for men's rights and happily heading down the path of "men are better than women, why won't women just accept that".	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 08:18 AM
-1	Engagement ring sales are down sharply, according to America’s biggest jeweler Most judges still agree with it though. That's the problem So, you are saying that it's not the laws that punish men, but the judges who interpret the laws based on their own beliefs? How would you suggest we fix this? I responded to someone who said that the way the laws of marriage and divorce were written is made to punish men. That person didn't reply. You are responding to me to claim that it's not the laws that are the problem, but the people who enforce the laws are the problem. Are you m…	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 09:46 PM
2	CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe him I really hope you are still young so you have a chance of outgrowing this mindset before you really mess up your life. A 40 year old man in general will not be dating the hot 20 year old barista. But if he still has redpill "beliefs" at that stage he also won't be able to date the 40 year old women in his league, they will have too much sense by then. As for 40 year old women, well when I was a 40 year old woman I never had to date anyone beneath me, as you put it, where did you get this informa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 08:54 PM
–	Why do the evolution and biological explanations for older men dating 18 year olds also happen to coincide with the age of majority? What do you think the explanation for this is? I think we all know what the explanation is, doubt anyone will admit it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 08:05 PM
-1	Engagement ring sales are down sharply, according to America’s biggest jeweler Looks like people are aware that the tender years doctrine is no longer the way to go and it's being phased out, so that's good news. "In the US, The tender years doctrine was frequently used in the 20th century but is gradually being replaced by the "best interests of the child" doctrine of custody through changes in state statutes" "Most of the states in the EU have gradually abolished the tender years doctrine. In those states, the joint custody is the rule after divorce or the parents' separ…	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 05:20 PM
-12	Engagement ring sales are down sharply, according to America’s biggest jeweler Which specifi marriage or divorce laws are written in a way that makes them a punishment for men? Edit: No answers, just down votes. Rude.	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 01:02 PM
-5	CMV: Red Pill is nothing more than a misogynistic women hating movement Feminism is full of systemic beliefs and mantras that serve as excuses to hate and distrust men. In that way, TRP and feminism are not so different, except feminism is mainstream. Feminism: we want equal rights TRP: we want to get our dicks wet Sure, not so different at all (/s).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 11:21 AM
-2	why does the genders fight? WTF is you didn't read half of what I wrote No, I read the whole thing. women are making a huge fking mistake, and ruining their own lives That's not for you to decide. Your disdain for women is obvious throughout the rant, it reads like if women would just do what men tell them things would be better as if men know what's best. Note I didn't say that you said those words, just that it comes across that way. All the jobs do not belong to men, women are not stealing them. We are not going to solv…	/r/MensRights	23/04/23 10:08 AM
-1	why does the genders fight? women have stolen men's jobs Women tend more toward greed than men do and if they are not controlled and trained from an early age, they will screw everything up with their greed Yes, let's control and train women better and stop them from stealing men's rightful property and all will be well. Wtf dude?	/r/MensRights	23/04/23 08:58 AM
0	Five years after Toronto van attack, 'incel' threat is growing: expert Why should women have lower standards if it doesn't benefit them to have them? You can't force people to have the standards you wish they had. Incels don't exist because of women's standards.	/r/MensRights	22/04/23 10:02 PM
-2	Being born as a male is a privilege? It was where you tried to defend the oppression of women as a good thing. So you really believe everything you wrote above? You weren't joking?	/r/MensRights	21/04/23 04:08 PM
-3	Being born as a male is a privilege? Is this a joke? You are trying hard here to defend the oppression of women for some reason I can't fathom. Wanting rights for men shouldn't entail wanting fewer rights for women.	/r/MensRights	21/04/23 03:26 PM
3	Nature even realizes it… Nature even realizes it… And on top of that, made the male undergo a much stronger drive (testosterone) to receive this pleasure. This is to compensate the male for dealing with the female long enough to finally get this feeling of pleasure. It’s as if nature knows we wouldn’t tolerate each other at all if sex wasn’t pleasurable. No mate, nature is not a person with thoughts, ideas, beliefs or wishes. Nature doesn't know anything or realise anything. Nature doesn't decide anything, doesn't decid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 01:05 PM
-1	Anyone here who is heterosexual but has developed a sincere aversion towards the female? I have developed a severe anxiety towards females Is that females of all species or just some species in particular? (You are obviously talking about adult human females, we have a special word for that, it's "women")	/r/MensRights	02/04/23 08:45 PM