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| 5 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me. | shadowTX77 | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 02:00 AM | |
| 2 | Called her out on a 50/50. How to do better in future? | shadowTX77 | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:04 PM |
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| 1 | Called her out on a 50/50. How to do better in future?True, killing contact would break one-tits and probably benefit me. But I like pussy, and having someone who doesn't mind coming over at 10pm when I get off work/school and laying it down A+ isn't a super easy, give me 5 minutes kind of find. No, I'd rather breakup then get sloppy seconds. But I feel like I need more than 50/50 to end it, I fucked up by calling her out and not investigating more first. Aye, since I'm 50/50 on the relationship now, she gets half the attention she got before. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Called her out on a 50/50. How to do better in future?You're right. She's a plate that i'm dating, that I'm developing one-tits for out of necessity (feel too busy to chase other tail). Last year, when I wasn't in school and talking to three girls right now, I'd next her immediately for the fighting alone, much less anxiety she's cucking me. As of right now though, if I can come out ahead in this why jump ship when I don't have any other fish in the sea? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.This would of saved me a lot of aching with my last LTR 😂. Felt it in the gut but let it hit me in the face before i dumped out. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.100% agreed. Don't have time for this crap. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.Excactly what I'm thinking. Thinking I'm going to be really "busy" this week. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.As in continue the "bf/gf" charade and bang orther bitches or break it off with her but try to maintain fwb status? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.Bet. Gonna fuck when it's convient and be MIA/busy the rest of the time. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women who branch swingHad a ex do the same shit. Broke up, immediately started dating another guy, barely heard from her for a year. That dude dumped her and she comes CRYING and BEGGING back to me, that she finally realized all I offered, how much she cared, etc. So I guess it gets bottled up? I had the same question. By the time she came back I LOL'd and tried to be FWB's. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How to see a chick quickly or get rejected quickly on tinder without wasting a time?I used Tinder for about 3 months and got 4 fucks. IDK if you consider that good or not, so base my advice on those stats. During that time I had my shit together to a degree (bad job but worked out daily and had my own place). Having my own place was key. Since I moved in with family I had one fuck in like 5 months. Girls loss interest at the "we can split a hotel" point. Anyway, going straight for the number is freaking creepy. I'd say at least a dozen messages back and forth first. Try to give… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:51 AM |
| 0 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.You're absolutely right. I get papers due, a interview this week, parents up my ass to get a real job, scheduled extra hours at part-time job... not to mention I need time to freaking meditate, work out, etc. She's a convenient source of entertainment and fuck till I get to where I want to be. Completely expendable. Yet, I'm still struggling with "well... I don't really have the time to find a new girl... I may not get laid for months!" or "I don't really know anyone in this city but her and she… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:32 AM |
| 3 | How do I maintain frame when I’m not a well liked person?Lol... what the hell. Are you a shaman dude? You hit two things on the head that happened to me this weekend. 1) I tried opening up to my "GF" about some of the shit I been going through; telling her about my emotional state, I got some shit I got to do but I keep procrastinating, etc. The mood immediately shifts, and she goes on the offensive... stuff like "Yeah, like getting that school bus out of your ass?". If the frame I was projecting had any support, I absolutely crushed it when I opened … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.Yeah I think too much. Need to meditate more. IDK, I think with my post I was trying to rationalize the easy route of just "not giving a shit", slowly withdrawing from her and working on me. Right now that feels taxing, and I'm leaning towards fucking her for valentines then ghosting. If I was right, and she is cheating it's the best move. She pulled a "I'm too tired to hang out tonight" on me when I was on the way home from work. I couldn't bring myself to give a shit enough to swing by her pla… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.Lol, had to google it but yeah, that sounds about right and exactly how I was feeling at this point. We're having a fuck fest for valentines this week, then after that I'm going to become increasingly more unavailable. I imagine she'll quickly branch swing or adjust drastically depending on if my hunch is right or not. And agreed, I'm offended the most by this because I commit time and resources to her that are of low supply. If I could fuck her once a week, send a couple text a day and that's t… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I maintain frame when I’m not a well liked person?Lol, all good man you still gave good advice towards what I'm going through. Ya man, I've always been held to high standards (siblings doing things with life, successful parents, had all the tools/opportunities) and I pissed most of it away on different bad habits. Video games when younger, drugs/alcohol when in college, chasing woman and being ok with a lowbie entry level job when out of college. A lot of porn/excessive internet use. I think I damaged my dopamine receptors pretty bad. Now I'm a… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.I cheated on her for about three months with one of the best fucks of my life. Straight meet at a hotel once a week, don't talk much in between. It was pretty perfect, in till she found out I have a "GF", acted like it didn't bother her then eventually started dating someone. So this "gf" was a plate for a minute, now, she's my only plate lol. I don't have the drive to pursue another, as I'm damn busy and need to GET MY SHIT TOGETHER not chase girls. But yeah, having another girl to fuck on the … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 02:39 AM |
| 3 | How do I maintain frame when I’m not a well liked person?You sir have described me to the T. I'm attractive and act cocky to cover up my self-consciousness but I actually come off really awkward. I'm the good looking guy that acts funny and it's just "weird". Bluntly honest friends always eventually ask me "So what's stuck up your ass" or "why are you depressed dude what happened in your past that you act the way you do...". I get one of the two based on how people perceive my persona. Any advice other then the basics? Meditate, work out, do shit to b… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 02:36 AM |
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