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| 1 | In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.Yeh it really sucks being in a relationship with someone who can’t meet you half way and thinks the bare minimum or less than is enough for me. I’m a very sensual and sexual person and not having the space to express that with the person who is supposed to give you that space just makes me numb tbh. Sorry to hear about your desensitisation too, I know many men suffer from this, but at least you’re not in a relationship, hurting someone in the process and doing nothing to help the situation. If t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.Na I’ll be right. Don’t want him or anyone atm. I’ll be happy being single and if I ever do find a man some day I will not give him my all cause no one really appreciates that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.Yeh trying my best to be perfect and not give up on someone who I love is my fault for enabling him. It is my fault that I’ve tried so hard to make something work and forgive and forgive and forgive cause I like to try be positive. And yeh it’s my fault for being such an insecure pos that it’s hard to think that anyone else would love and appreciate me. I haven’t spoken to him in over a week now and I don’t plan on talking to him anytime soon. He blames me for everything just like OP blames all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | In nearly all sexual relationships and encounters, men's role is active; women's role is reactive.Hmm nice generalisation of women you have here.. Be me. I am a woman. I try plan all dates. bf does nothing. I try flirt with bf. bf does nothing. I send bf nudes and try be sexual. bf always says “bad timing” doesn’t react at all. I try plan holidays or doing fun stuff. bf wants to sit at home all day and play video games. I suck bf’s dick and balls every chance I get. I always want sex. bf never goes down on me. bf wants to have sex once a month if I’m lucky. I buy expensive lingerie, put make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessMy bf is a non chad and I happily ride him and suck his dick and balls and be as sexual as I want to be cause I like it, so good on ya for pigeonholing all women this way, great way to live 👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessRighto, how about you look up your facts on how many men get erectile dysfunction cause of being so use to porn, and then show me how many females vaginas don’t work in the same sense and tell me how women cause the problems in the bedrooms🤣 your incel level is strong proof thanks more proof thanks. could go on but I’m done bye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessYeh ok, and you’ll be the judge of that right 😂👍🏻 seems like you should be on red pill sub not here m8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 10:51 AM |
| 0 | Women Uphold Toxic Masculinity in Dating More Than Men DoThis post should be called- “I’ll show you a speck of dirt that was laying in shit and did you know that this speck of dirt contaminated a speck of water with shit, therefore, all specks of water are contaminated with shit cause all specks of dirt, shitless or not, end up in water” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 12:26 PM |
| – | Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessnessIf porn didn’t exist at all. I mean no nudity online. No thots. No magazines, nothing- if it didn’t exist, imagine the number of “urges” people would actually get, and also imagine the number of men (and women) actually getting up off their asses to actually try to be in a relationship or perhaps, doing something with their life, keeping active, having passions, doing things to stimulate their brains instead of their genitals, sexlessness wouldn’t be so much of a problem and you wouldn’t be so h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?I have trained my reactive brain and worked on my unconscious beliefs enough to see people for what they really are- infinite, forever changing. Even when I see someone do something “bad” my initial reaction is why, not oh that’s bad, how could they do that. It’s always why, it’s always I wonder what this person is going through. You don’t know how much work I’ve done on myself and that’s fine, I’m not perfect in this lack of judging others but I sure as hell knew a time when my judgments would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?I completely agree with you both. It also seems that bullying in schools in the us is horrifically terrible in comparison to other countries. My main goal in life is to go to Norway and the Scandinavian countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?I have done a lot of work on my brain and judgements and “evaluating” someone sounds ludicrous to me, as I can’t even know exactly who I am, let alone anybody else. And I don’t want to. How boring a life, to make fixed presumptions on people based on how they handle one or two things. Jeez people need to grow the fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What argument here has changed your mind?I don’t shit test. It takes me awhile to get to know someone and I don’t trust any instincts on people as many have proven me wrong in the past so I don’t have a “mental box” just as I don’t want people “sizing me up” as if they can read all of the worlds inside me by this small, unreliable judgment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | What argument here has changed your mind?Wow the world is much more grim than I realised and I have already realised a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?That’s ok, discomfort never scared me. On the contrary, I welcome it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?Very interesting, I’m going to research this, thanks for the insight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?So do you believe our love lives depend on our DNA sequences and what not? Nothing else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?Sorry what do you mean by evolutionary codes? This all sounds very strange to me.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?Thanks, I guess it’s just my nature. I know what it feels like to be put down lots so I try my best to be nice to others and lift them up. I think many of us are nice here tbh, from what I’ve seen, I mean I’m sure we’ve got some bad eggs as every culture does, I’ve definitely met a few, but I think generally, we seek real connection and hate immature games. I’ve never really seen a girl play games with a guy, they’re always the one wondering if the guy is playing games with them. Right that make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:37 PM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?Australia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 16 | What argument here has changed your mind?I’ve learnt that America has a very strange culture regarding women “shit testing” men, I didn’t know what that term meant, til I read stuff here, had to ask, and I find it so different to how vulnerable and kind I’ve seen women treat their men or anyone they’re trying to date over here, as they genuinely want a connection and hate games or they themselves, are the ones being played by men. I obviously don’t know every woman in my own country to know if they shit test or not but anyone I’ve aske… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexualityI can’t speak for all women, but this is me- I am a straight woman and big muscles turn me off. And vulnerability in men turns me on, if a man has enough balls to show that he is real and can cry sometimes and show he has a soft side- then it makes me feel more connected to them and open. If I see a bad boy I automatically think he will hurt me and not show his soft side sometimes and I can’t deal with that, as it’s hard enough trying to make my not bad boy bf open up to me about anything, let a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 09:01 AM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/world/bodybuilder-turned-into-psycho-narcissist-20041204-gdk8ub.html http://www.sakkyndig.com/psykologi/artvit/yavari2014.pdf More proof so good on ya :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.https://www.hrpub.org/download/20180530/UJER3-19511529.pdf Have fun :) Also: Bigorexia, also known as muscle dysmorphia, is a health condition that can cause you to think constantly about building muscle on your body. Bigorexia shares some of the same symptoms as other disorders like anorexia nervosa and is a type of body dysmorphic disorder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:16 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.There are heaps of other facts that I can give you on body dysmorphia amongst bodybuilders and what not but keep your head in a naive little hole buddy, these people are doing great at life 👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:07 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Yeh that really is a good rewording. I really do hope bodybuilders enjoy their life without being narcissistic, I’m sure there’s plenty of those. Hey I’m sure they all do it for the good feels and all “The results of this study indicated that more than half of the male bodybuilders (54%) were using steroids on a regular basis” cause yeh roids make you feeel goood dudeee gotta get on them roids ay! Soooo about the good feel and not about extrinsic wants at all! Injecting steroids can speed up the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:05 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Yes I also see no point in any modelling. The modelling industry has made many people bulimic, anorexic or have other eating disorders, not just the models who have to fit into tiny clothes but also for people watching them, girls thinking they have to live up to that standard. No this isn’t the case with every model or every person watching a model but, the majority of it is toxic, yes. You don’t know how many females I know who have hated their bodies comparing themselves to these chicks. So m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:41 AM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.No I enjoy exercise just fine. I dance everyday and do workouts every second day. I just know the difference between exercising for health and fun and exercising for show or unnecessary reasons. Sure I don’t want to be judged based on my hobbies, although I won’t really care. However, in saying that, if you’re hobby is to constantly make yourself bigger, or is about your looks, then, yeh I’ll keep judging these people cause time is a gift not many people have, as they have diseases or such and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.The fact that you think only women with great bodies go for men with great bodies, is the reason why I’m discussing this in the first place. I am sorry to inform you that there are some of us out here who are hot and don’t seek hot cause it’s not important to us. I didn’t make me hot, sure I keep up by being fit but that is for my health purposes and I’m not going to just go be attracted to “hot people” cause attraction is about the mind as I’ve already stated, I’m demisexual. Im not going to ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 03:04 AM |
| -1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.K please tell me what I do and don’t like...and what I consider a “chad” cause you know me and my desires so much :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Um no how does this make sense? I work out for my health, for my heart, for my strength. Just cause I don’t like over exercising or males who try too hard to look perfect, doesn’t mean anything about my body. I love my body and it will never be a representation of how ugly i find men who are obsessed with their bodies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Yeh well awesome hobby. >obsessed over body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Yeh perhaps. I wouldn’t know, never met a nice chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.All the women that I know do not shit test anyone, never have. We are not manipulative pieces of shit but you want to believe all females are like that sure. Have fun loving your life automatically assuming all women do this. As for the porn yes it is completely relevant here as you mentioned it is the man trying to keep things alive yet I have never seen this. Men don’t have to wear make up and lingerie and do their hair all pretty so they? No it’s basically always the women trying to keep the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Yeh sure, but why don’t you ask why they have that as a hobby? We have one life and you’re going to spend it on your looks? Ok cool, yeh I guess I’m clueless hey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Look i won't post anymore, we can just agree to disagree, all i was saying was that having massive muscles like that isn't necessary to be healthy, and i know how some men can even look at him and become so insecure about themselves, just as some women do that for unrealistic expectations placed on them from insta models, each to their own. I hope you have a great day/night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I have been bashed on these discussions so many times cause of this lol. This guy just asked me if he can look at me in a lab as if im some scientific experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Strength training doesn't require you to be a model and post selfies every day. What scientific approach to better health is this? I'm not projecting anything, i think you are just a tad naive on how the selfie and bodybuilding and model industry work. If he will look back on his life and be happy that modeling his body helped him then good, but it's not a selfless, purposeful thing, that's what you're not understanding here, it's completely not about his health. Strength training sure, modeling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 13 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.there are also studies to show that men are basically double as likely to be narcissists than women are, and dealing with a narcissist, is extremely frightening. My friend who was with one for over 10 years ended up doubting herself so much that she went a bit crazy. he would literally lock her up in the house to win arguments. not saying all men are manipulative either but i do think we need to shine the light on these things more on topics like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.THANK YOU for sharing! It's so nice to hear how happy you guys are :) seems like these ppl aren't understanding me and think we are some lying or dying breed lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.do you read his mind tho? will you be there for him in his darkest hours when his body is never good enough for him? hey who knows, maybe he is completely healthy up there, doesn't think of himself too much at all, tho given the amount of selfies he posts of his body, well why does he feel the need to do that? How do you not realise that people who post that many selfies, constantly seeking validation or having to prove themselves and their bodies, like these people are all about themselves and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.-But competitive bodybuilding can also have some negative effects on mental health, and it's often the period directly after a competition that can cause most harm to an athlete's mental health. "Bodybuilding can have huge psychological consequences," -Bodybuilding disorders can walk hand in hand with other mental illnesses, including a specific illness known as body dysmorphic disorder -Bigorexia, also known as muscle dysmorphia, is a health condition that can cause you to think constantly abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I'm pretty sure this guy has done lots of work, he is massively large, like did he actually say he has some sort of genetic thing happening where he just gets so massive from little work out? in that case, he is an exception, and sorry i didn't know. otherwise tho, most men don't have this genetic thing, they just want to be bigger for competitive reasons or whatever, else, like i said you don't need that much to benefit from strength training, we are humans after all, not super humans. and just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Playstation, sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Jay Vincent this Jay Vincent you sent me to, his muscles are radically large -why? why do they need to be that big is he going to suffer without them? is he going to be unfit if he doesn't try that hard? is he going to miss out on all the health benefits if he doesn't do this to himself? no, this is not a health thing, again, it is a completely "look at me I'm so powerful" thing. if he spent more time on things that actually mattered I'm sure his health would be better off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.you can get all this without going that far, it becomes narcistic when its your main purpose in life, to make your body bigger and bigger, no-one needs to be that big, at all. unless he is physically lifting cars off people or helping in certain situations like that, there is no real need to body build, working out to be fit is completely different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:04 PM |
| -1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I have seen plenty of men on Instagram who just show off their bodies and muscles and i find it gross, bodybuilders in general say, even if they’re not hitting the gym every day- like what is their purpose? To bodybuild? Like you have literally nothing left to do with your life but want to make your body bigger and bigger. For what reason? It serves no real good purpose, it’s completely narcissistic so whatever, you can keep acting like that lifestyle is the way to go but there is a difference b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 2 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. Therefore it’s not about looks. I’ve seen burn victims or amputee victims who strive in successful relationships with beautiful people so the people who do judge and would just drop someone after they’ve been through this, well I think it says a lot about their character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:47 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I mean did you not get the part where I said “spend hours trying to look perfect”? anyone who does that is narcissistic, its the same as girls who post selfie’s everyday, it’s actually not healthy for your mind to think that much on your looks, so chads that relish in this gross me out. That is not health and looking after yourself, that is being so full of yourself and your looks, having basically only that to offer the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:43 PM |
| 0 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.No cause I’m not talking about people like you. I keep fit too. I specifically said bodybuilders for a reason. The guys that hit the gym everyday, and have muscles upon muscles and post selfie’s online are yes, somewhat conceded. So yes, please tell me how I think.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 8 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I will never understand why looks are so important to people. What will happen then, when they grow old or if they get in a car accident or burn accident or something that ruins their body somehow? Are you just going to stop loving them and being attracted to this person? It’s like when women get pregnant and have that pressure to bounce back to their pre pregnant body. It’s stupid. I guess I’m just very demisexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 3 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Hmm not in my books | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I have rejected many chads as they all seem ego-driven and expect that I’ll just fuck them straight up. Many hot guys have approached me randomly and implied that we would fuck at their house without me even flirting with them cause they are self entitled idiots who think any girl would just go home with them. Some have even tried to make me cheat on my bf so no, chads aren’t my things, they come with a terrible personality, never met a not cocky chad and cockyness is my worst turn off 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 2 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.? Care to explain? I’m not sure what you mean.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:23 PM |
| 4 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.Lol I wasn’t tryna make it like it’s a big deal, OP is implying that we choose chads, I don’t, I reject them and am repulsed by them as they ooze egotistical nonsense. If you spend that many hours a day trying to tweak your muscles to look so perfect then there’s something wrong with your brain sorry. I prefer nerd types, or guys that aren’t massive muscles and I’m not some “mediocre nerd” I have a great body and pretty face but doesn’t mean I’m gana also go look for someone who has that typical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 11:41 AM |
| 9 | It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional.I hate bodybuilding chads. Anything with big muscles is a big no go for me. I met my nerdy reddit loving bf on ps and didn’t know what he looked like, he ain’t rich at all, found out he was a ginger with acne scars on his face, I still think he’s handsome and wouldn’t want it any other way. I consider myself a pretty girl and have been hit on by many “chads” but no, not for me so no, this is not an accurate representation of all females. Oh and I never asked my friends for their opinion or accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.This seems like a weird American culture problem that I’ve only been exposed to via reddit, I don’t know any woman that “shit tests” anyone and didn’t actually know it was a thing till someone explained it to me on here. What you are explaining is backwards in my experience, as in men can’t help what they are attracted to and ruin their relationships with their misses with extreme porn use and such and then women have to keep up with these unrealistic expectations, and women are the ones trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.Wow I can’t believe this is an actual thing, thanks for the insight I guess. It’s just sad that men feel the need to play this game cause there are some ungrateful bitches out there.. maybe I should learn from this then in how much niceness I give | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.Yeh you don’t know. All that I have put up with, hoping things will get better and holding onto hope and forgiving him and forgiving him and forgiving him and loving him for who he is not all the things he (doesn’t) do for me cause I’m the nice one, so again, this problem isn’t a men are nice and get stepped all over problem, it happens way more with women being stepped all over when they are nice and that doesn’t automatically make them ugly, that makes them more compassionate, more patient. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.You literally said that women have trouble stopping themselves from being either obese or a bitch, so maybe you should write better? And my point still stands, I am the one who is the “nice one” in the relationship and my bf is the cold, distant one, so you can keep your head in that tunnel vision but it goes both ways. It’s not just oh experience teaches us that women don’t respond well cause men are just as cold, just as selfish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.Thank you for sharing this, it really showed me how unattractive I am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Yeh I get that but the thing is they’re trying and they’re realising how fucked porn is. I wasn’t aware that there was such a massive community of males that are trying like this as any other guy just says “oh porn is normal and I’d be weird if I didn’t slave over it” so I think at least, these guys recognise it’s not normal, some of them are young which is good cause they are trying to nip the problem before they become adults and ruin their relationships, they’re all so supportive of each othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Just came here to say that there’s a bunch of guys over at r/nofap dedicated to staying away from porn. There are many other groups too, so while I do agree with what you’re saying and think we shouldn’t rely on relationships with men, just remember that it’s not all doom and gloom for all men, just as women are realising this bad shit, so have lots of men too :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | A response to criticisms of “independent women”Have you ever heard of the hero complex? If not, well most men have the innate drive to be their women’s “hero” not in a fairytale bs sense, but in a- it’s been ingrained in them from survival instinct brain that has yet to evolve- sense.. in general, if a man feels like he can’t be “the hero” and the woman can fend for herself, they’re basically giving up their primal responsibility and feel threatened that the woman may leave at anytime as they are that independent. The women who criticise thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 10:13 AM |
| – | I’ve dated awful women and I’m JadedYeh dam straight, well said and nice to hear from another who knows empathy all too well :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:55 PM |
| – | I’ve dated awful women and I’m JadedOh I think empathy is a lost art these days.. I genuinely care too much about people, strangers even, might be a curse in disguise sometimes.. care too much, yet thank you for appreciating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:44 PM |
| – | I’ve dated awful women and I’m JadedI’m sorry about all your experiences, no one deserves all that shit and to give love a chance that many times just to be fucked over and over again.. You’ve already done better than most, by not giving up after number 1, let alone 2, 3, etc. that takes strength and bravery. Anyway, my life coach told me that she kept going for the same guy, different dick, (you could say you’ve done this too- same girl different pussy/ face/ whatever). She said she overcame it by raising her standards and not le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?No way dude, if porn didn’t exist. Like just imagine yeh, imagine that porn never existed, no sexual content online at all, imagine then, as you grow and mature, so does your likes and who you’re attracted to and wanting younger girls otherwise would be considered borderline pedophlia and you would be judged for it but porn made it ok cause it’s so popular, widespread and easily accessible. If no sexual content were to exist online these skirts that I wear wouldn’t get the same reactions as they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?I do not forget this, my mum married at 14. And this is all frowned upon. Everyone frowns upon this. My dad does not fit your description. Yet porn has definitely normalised it and porn makes it “ok” and trains every guys brain to want younger. Most women in porn don’t look anything past their late 20’s. Most men do click on “teen” this or “teen” that. Because you have been conditioned. Even in highschool with the sexy school girl outfits. How many men stare at me when I wear checkered short ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?No I think the porn industry aiming most of their content around “teens” is the reason why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 4 | I think we all need to calm down a littleAw mannn I’m so happy for you, stories like these make me happy and just love love. Good on you and she’s lucky to have someone who appreciates her that much as well as someone who talks so nice about her behind her back like that, it’s wonderful. All the best to you both 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:06 AM |
| 0 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI second this!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 4 | I think we all need to calm down a littleMan this is so dam adorableeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI love this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 4 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI like it when men talk about something they’re really interested in, like a game and they go full cute geek mode and can’t stop talking and oh it’s just the best❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?This is very powerful and true I think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women?People take it personally, as if something is so wrong with them. One negative thought turns into two, turns into three, so on till avalanche mode. Seeing “happy” couples or stuff online or through media or porn doesn’t help the feeling of rejection.. we as humans naturally want to feel connected, unalone and wanted. Not having that really ruins people’s perspectives about themselves cause they were never taught to love themselves as they are, without turning to someone. Initially this can all b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Amy Schumer's standup comedy and women's views of their self-worthI think that societies generalised beliefs that men are funnier than women and women are portrayed more as the sweet innocent types has a lot to do with it. When I (F) for instance decide to make a dark joke, some people little laugh, others judge me, thinking women shouldn’t be this ah how do I say it- “improper” or some shit. If on the other hand, my boyfriend made the same dark joke he wouldn’t be judged at all and the laughs would be that much louder, harder. I think the vagina thing is like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | The average woman is more attractive than the average manTbh, I think, in this day and age with the porn industry being as big as it is (with females being objectified and sought after more than males) and tik tok thots (again, mainly females) being as prevalent as they are and more of a ratio of females showing their bodies on Instagram or onlyfans, I think that given all this that women’s beauty standards are actually very poorly skewed! For instance what use to be a “9” rated woman, is now considered a 6 or something as there are “hot chicks” on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 03:06 PM |
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