shadowkat Archive

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1	Im having troubles getting rid of the mindset that all heterosexual women unconsciously want to be treated roughly during sex. Tons of the FemDommes and subs (both male and female) I know have used this sort of sexual expression to heal from being sexually traumatized by religion - in fact, the kink scene in general is a place tons of folks recover together from sexual shame and trauma from religion. I'd recommend looking to see if you have any local FemDomme nights or kink nights in your area. You can check out FetLife too.	/r/ExRedPill	10/02/20 11:13 PM
5	“Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”. Women's "achievements" aren't attractive to men in the same way that men's achievements are attractive to women. That can upset you if you like, but it's just reality. Yes, but there is research showing men are becoming more interested in finding a partner with a high paying career i.e. accomplishments (and women are becoming more likely to value physical attractiveness...) Something that would make you feel good about yourself, and proud of your accomplishment. I'm just curious to hear your per…	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/20 12:53 AM
1	The Wall is exaggerated and most older women have a higher SMV than most older men All I care about is how they’ll fit my lifestyle This is why both men and women hit "walls" probably closer to their mid-to-late thirties. Partnering is about negotiating what your shared lifestyle will look like, if your routines are super established and you're just looking for someone to fit into them as they currently exist it's going to be really hard to find a partner. (Much younger people are much more malleable, but they probably will also get more frustrated with this arrangement as the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/19 05:00 PM
2	When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one. We're not the enemy here. Some of y'all (like u/IvyExcess) seem to have cracked the code, honestly more of us would like to be treated the way he's describing things and that's why those guys stick out in our minds.	/r/askTRP	17/05/19 12:57 AM
1	When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one. That combo is potent to a woman and they know I know what I've got. It's almost meta at this point but this is a lifetime of accrued experience and experimentation and living life on my terms. You do arrive on a higher plane and can almost look down and see the world working with a new understanding, its surreal, almost godlike. This sounds spot on.	/r/askTRP	17/05/19 12:51 AM
11	When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one. This is accurate. Listen to this one.	/r/askTRP	16/05/19 11:46 PM
7	When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one. My fiance has been this guy for a lot of women it seems. I don't think it's about being distant, if anything it's about being able to connect. Even if he was interested in someone as a fwb thing, he'd take the friend part seriously, really have deep conversations and truly care about them. People have said he relates to women like other women in some ways, but he's also physically masculine and awesome in bed. I think the "let them chase you" thing is sort of spot on, but it's more casual than t…	/r/askTRP	16/05/19 11:44 PM
3	Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects. Yeah “job” employers give zero fucks that you prioritize your family. Meaning plenty of women with “jobs” and not careers are still juggling that conflict. This is a great point and extremely accurate. Being a low-level employee often means zero flexibility, it's way worse for having kids and you're still spending a bunch of time away from your kids. The "career woman" who's always been one of my greatest role models negotiated a 4 day work week once she had kids. You need a certain level of clo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 10:41 PM
2	Why do men here tell women that careers don't make them attractive? For women who seek high value men for marriage, most men who don't care about a woman's social status are bad prospects. Also, career women are bad partners for any man that is interested in having a family. Only if you can afford to raise a family and make other smart financial decisions off one income sure, but that's not the majority of couples (I don't consider not being able to save for retirement or not having some emergency savings necessarily 'able to afford' too, so I know I'm in the minority here.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 09:30 PM
3	Theory: Career women and nice guys act as they do -because that they project what they want in their partner? Sure does :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 07:44 PM
2	Are women on the same level as men when it comes to sex drive? Discuss with your thoughts and opinions. Sex drive isn't about the amount of variety you're driven to seek it's about the amount you need to get off. Plenty of women are totally happy masturbating instead of seeking out meaningless sex and still are considered to have a high sex drive if they need to get off daily.........	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 07:00 PM
25	Theory: Career women and nice guys act as they do -because that they project what they want in their partner? Maybe in some cases. I became a "career woman" partially because I never wanted my romantic choices to ever be dependent on money. I never wanted to feel trapped. I like dating people with at least average drive about something but it doesn't have to be a career necessarily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 01:13 PM
1	Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online? Hm maybe, although my scene is like 20-50+. Some of the people working in restaurants and bars or as mechanics are part-time models/performers/creators and would like for that to be their career full-time (however, some of the people working as programmers also are models and performers and truth be told probably also wish it could be full time for them too.) I don't really consider 20-30 as "as a career," plenty of the people I know that were in those jobs a few years ago and finished a BA in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/19 12:21 PM
2	Have You Ever Been Asked About Your Sexual History? Haha never!! I always want to know about their past experiences though! Not numbers just stories... I'm nosy and enjoy hearing about it 😏	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 11:32 PM
3	Are women on the same level as men when it comes to sex drive? Discuss with your thoughts and opinions. When it comes to most women.... most of their sex drives until they meet a guy who makes them more sexual. This is pretty much the most consistent thing. Women talk about sex.. most women don't seek it out until they learn sex can be "wow" Some women never have this experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 11:27 PM
1	Do rich UMC women look down on blue collar/retail/just less economically successful men? Or is that stereotype just exaggerated online? It's not just plumbers and janitors. I know my friends that work retail and waiting tables as a career, do manufacturing jobs, etc. absolutely show up at queer beat poetry nights. Those jobs are definitely also WC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 11:21 PM
2	Women typically have lower self-esteem than men. That is DEFINITELY not a female thing and searching through the manosphere has taught me that. Ding ding ding! Painting with broad brush strokes for a minute, many women seem aware that this rhetoric isn't literal but a nudge towards self acceptance of what you can't change, and acceptance of your better qualities that inevitably some people still won't like because it's impossible to please everyone. It's a way of learning you don't have to accept all criticism because if you do you're just a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/19 10:52 PM
2	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? Yup! Very accurate hahahaha. I think people with high inhibitions and high intelligence are more likely to experiment though because they can intellectualize why their inhibitions are high, I think if you're below average intelligence and inhibited you just don't explore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 06:04 PM
1	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? 😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 04:40 PM
1	Do you think guys can tell when a girl is wearing make-up? Ok that makes sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 02:49 PM
1	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? Ah I probably used the wrong term, I was thinking excitability! Anecdotally the poly people I know are definitely in the 100+ range on both coasts, but idk that there's research on that. Poly communities tend to overlap with kink communities and San Francisco start up communities lol, and there have been a few surveys that show kinky people have more college education... so the hard evidence is correlational until more research is done, but everything seems to add up... I feel driven to actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 02:47 PM
1	For those of you in relationships, or have been in one.. Lol I think the puppy thing is shorthand - a lot of us are very nice to puppies so it's a good analogy	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 02:06 PM
1	Do you think guys can tell when a girl is wearing make-up? Lol wouldn't most women be 5/10 without make up because that's literally average? Will someone explain how rating systems work to me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 02:00 PM
4	Do you think guys can tell when a girl is wearing make-up? Once I wore a full face of natural make up instead of just eyeliner and mascara, but lighter eyeliner than usual and a bunch of guys told me how much prettier I was without make up. This is definitely the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:56 PM
1	There is no such thing as becoming “Alpha” What do you think would make an "Alpha" female? The same traits?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:52 PM
2	Women of PPD give other women way too little credit Oh interesting!! I definitely had college professors that misused it then	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:46 PM
2	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? This is sort of true, there are definitely "high activation, low inhibition" women (and men) who fit this model. But, people with higher IQs and more education tend to be more interested in kink. For some women with very average inhibition systems sexual exploration is a conscious and measured choice. You're painting these as behaviors (group sex, bisexuality) that only really impulsive people pursue and that's not entirely the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:42 PM
3	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? Bi girls often ask if they can still play with women if they settle with a dude and feel safe that he won't judge their request - I noticed they often wait to ask. No one would agree to a poly situation that was unbalanced, sure, but something monogamish with fewer expectations of multiple serious partners is a little different, especially if it's the girl's idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:31 PM
5	Would a slut still have a low RMV if she sexually satisfies a guy? This is the best response here, people like what they like, someone is a catch if they are what you like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/19 01:26 PM
1	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other Lol all good!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 10:47 PM
2	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other I think we're saying the same thing with different words lol. I'm saying like attracts like, basically. I know people like me haha so that's who I know getting married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 09:42 PM
1	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other Yeah New England here, age of marriage is high and incomes are too. Other friends I'm thinking of are in DC, San Francisco, Seattle, Portland, LA, RTP, Twin Cities, Chicago. That's probably what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 09:21 PM
1	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other Curious what they do show now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 09:16 PM
12	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other Literally every woman I know getting married this year is in the 6-7 range, around 30, and has a pretty stable career (what is accomplishing a lot exactly?) Every guy I know who's getting married is getting married to a woman like this too. This is literally so normal in the "career person" demographic that I can't think of a single "career person" I know that's deviated from it recently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 08:58 PM
5	CMV: Both Genders are lied to about what the opposite gender likes and what to expect from each other I'm pretty sure demographically the majority of millennials who are getting married are above-average affluence-wise. Having lived adjacent to highly affluent communities for a lot of my life, I think that entire section of society functions differently than other parts of the dating ecosystem. High achievers tend to not just target but also are exclusively exposed to other high achievers. At least in the business world it seems like MBAs meet other MBAs at business school or equally smart frien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/19 08:50 PM
2	If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion? Exactly. And I don't think these women are on virgin exchange because they're probably not virgins. If you're going to go to the trouble to promoting yourself/advertise dirty snap chatting beyond just chatting with the guys who are already into you, you might as well get paid for it (which an entire industry is based on.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/19 10:40 PM
1	Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties? Men approach women they think are their age or slightly younger based on looks in my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 05:35 PM
2	Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties? If men your age think you're a lot younger than them they're usually sort of creepy. Sometimes it means taking the initiative and approaching someone if you want someone closer to your age and a lot of women don't want to do the approaching (sexist but true)	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 08:02 AM
0	Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties? Do you want kids eventually or is it purely the age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 07:56 AM
15	Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties? And if you pass for younger, even less un- One of my best friends is 43 and consistently is dating men in their 20s because she looks like she's 26. In the end attractiveness wins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 12:13 AM
2	CMV: Vaginas weren't meant for high frequency 24/7 sex What guys say and what they do are different. Every guy will say they want it every day, dudes (esp. over 30) probably want to put in the effort every 3 days and masturbate the others. or I guess get a bj. Whatever is low effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 09:19 PM
1	Q4W: Can you break down the appeal of commitment from an average guy? This. The girls I know who really really like sexual novelty end up having more casual sex with other women because it's more consistently good (from why they've told me at least.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 01:02 PM
3	Women, do you value men? If so what do you value about them? I value men and value women - the majority of people aren't my sex partners so I usually value people for things they bring to the table that has nothing to do with sexual or romantic partnership. I value intelligence or empathy or drive or passion or creativity. I value different and complementary personalities, men and women who can have fun, men and women who can have a chill quiet evening. If I get hit on I just let the person know I'm not interested, most dudes are respectful enough to back…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 02:32 AM
1	When thinking about sexual interest, readiness, and kinks, to what extent do you think a double standard is required? I think it totally depends on the circumstance. It sounds like OP is interested in some playing with power dynamics - depending on the degree of submission/humiliation he wants in a sexual situation, it can be important to discuss it as a scene with explicit boundaries vs maybe 'lighter' submission where it can be discussed as a fantasy where you read reactions and body language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 06:15 AM
2	When thinking about sexual interest, readiness, and kinks, to what extent do you think a double standard is required? So I think the real problem here is a lot if people think talking about sex before having sex is unsexy. Having a D/s dynamic that works is largely predicated on respecting the person as an equal person, and then negotiating the boundaries in which you'll have an 'unequal' sexual dynamic. Often it requires having boring vanilla sex where no one is being used as a 'fuck toy' first too, depending on the person. As someone who's been aware of her switchiness since she was 14 but had no idea how to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/19 08:05 PM
1	Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine? That's true! Norms can be challenged successfully! Good point	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/19 11:23 PM
1	Erotic plasticity, sociosexual orientation, female sexual strategies and conclusions Omg I just died when I saw that hahahaha. I 💚 all my poly frands but yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/19 11:18 PM
4	Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine? I get what you're saying. For a society to function everyone needs to perform different but complimentary roles. But why does this necessarily have to be divided by gender lines? It could certainly be reflected by personality as well (analytical people do analysis, caretaking people caretake, people who are able-bodied do physical things - some jobs require all three and the people who can raise their hand)... Sure you might see this divided somewhat by gender but it allows for people to take on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/19 12:05 PM
4	Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine? Pink's association with girlhood and feminity is absolutely a gender norm. You see pink on tons of female products, and they're usually more expensive than men's equivalent product. Little girls toys are pink when the male equivalent is, maybe, primary colors. What makes it a gender norm is... when I was little, I was sad when my mother would get me the primary color toys not the pink ones. Even that early on it's encoded "this is what girls are supposed to have and like." It's one of the first …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/19 11:59 AM
2	CMV: Women should do whatever they want and not listen to anything men say about how to get a man. It’s the only way to find a good true partner in life. Yes hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/19 09:46 PM
1	CMV: Women should do whatever they want and not listen to anything men say about how to get a man. It’s the only way to find a good true partner in life. Hahahaha it's so true	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/19 08:29 PM
1	The infamous SMV graph SMV isn't the same as overall attractiveness - there's those studies showing babies find the same faces beautiful, symmetry is consistently considered very attractive, etc. But if you're deciding who you want to have sex in the real world you're literally just looking at the people around you and judging off of that. I've read a ton of studies around this - for example people are totally content with their partners until someone they deem more attractive is available to them - that partner's loc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/19 12:30 PM
10	The infamous SMV graph Scientifically, SMV is very much based on the community you're assessing SMV in - it's a comparison thing and based on the local "market". To apply such broad blanket statements removes that nuance. It's comprised of what people in said market are attracted to, how many people exhibited those things that they're attracted to, and how well they exhibit those things in comparison to others. It also depends on the medium - knowing how to take a good selfie increases your SMV on tinder, having an en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/19 12:28 PM
1	What are some uncomfortable "truths" about dating that people dont like to admit? Hm that's true	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/19 01:18 AM
1	What are some uncomfortable "truths" about dating that people dont like to admit? Do people not talk about this? All my friends talk about this. Maybe we're just weirdly open	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/19 01:02 AM
2	What are some uncomfortable "truths" about dating that people dont like to admit? You only need to hit a home run once though ;)!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/19 01:01 AM
2	Who came up with the idea that concurrently sleeping around with a bunch of people (plating) is a good way to get an LTR? Interesting! That's probably true, thanks for that insight :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 10:14 PM
1	How many married couples have the wife as long term breadwinner? Yes! My mother raised me to believe that you can't truly have agency unless you can live on the money you make/have made! It's a core part of who I am. I make nearly $100K with bonus yearly, my fiance makes between 80 and 90K with bonus. When we met, he was making $40 to 60K and I was at around $80-85 His career has a much lower cap than mine, so who knows what the future holds, but I'm guessing we'll be relatively equal earners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 02:02 PM
2	If men were to listen to women on when and where they would like to be approached, men would never get anywhere Hm it's less about making the eye contact and more about reciprocating it I'd argue. If you very obviously try to catch someone's attention and they very obviously are avoiding your attempts then the next step isn't to approach them. I get that sometimes it's hard to tell, but active "please don't come up to me" body language is often ignored.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 01:58 PM
2	If men were to listen to women on when and where they would like to be approached, men would never get anywhere This is an issue of women not breaking down a process fully. What they're saying really is "if you approach me, you should be fairly certain I'm already open to talking to you." Try to make eye contact first. If she looks like she has no interest in interacting when you make eye contact, don't approach. I think this interaction happens so naturally for most women they don't even think to break it down so, there you go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 12:25 PM
-1	Who came up with the idea that concurrently sleeping around with a bunch of people (plating) is a good way to get an LTR? 😂👏👏👏	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 12:11 PM
3	Who came up with the idea that concurrently sleeping around with a bunch of people (plating) is a good way to get an LTR? Check out r/cuckqueancommunity I'm becoming fairly certain that all pills apply 0 percent as soon as you enter any sort of kink situation or community... (You can, however, evolutionary psychology and social psychology the shit out of why different people are into certain things. Live and die for that.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 12:08 PM
4	Who came up with the idea that concurrently sleeping around with a bunch of people (plating) is a good way to get an LTR? Hahahaha I was literally just thinking this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 11:58 AM
3	Who came up with the idea that concurrently sleeping around with a bunch of people (plating) is a good way to get an LTR? I think it likely depends on how you form romantic feelings. I get the sense that some of the "bubbles" of sluts and players are on the demiromantic spectrum (meaning you need to feel a connection that isn't romantic before you feel a connection that is romantic.) Two demiromantic are likely the people to have a friends with benefits situation - where these people are actually friends - that eventually develops into something more. It doesn't work for everyone but it works for some people. A lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 11:57 AM
2	Would you agree that muscles and height is the male equivalent to ass and breasts? Didn't someone just post a study that being slight/petite has the equivalent effect of being extremely attractive in the US? If that's the case I'd say it's definitely the equivalent of a fit/muscular figure on guys...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/19 11:50 AM
2	Almost nobody loves other people unconditionally, love is always connected to conditions Do people really take this entirely literally? My parents generally speaking told me things like this too but I was always aware that the presupposition was "if you try to be your best self, the self that excels because you've aligned your life with what comes naturally to you and works for you, then people will love you for who you are." It's sort of like the Nightmare Before Christmas right? People didn't really like Jack as Santa but the thing that came naturally made him beloved, but he also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/19 09:29 PM
1	Q4ALL: Do you consider it a complement or an insult if someone would have sex with you, but not a relationship? No I know, I guess we might be saying the same thing. I probably should have said "regularly." Barely makes me think 2-3 times a month, regularly would be 3x a week. I guess most of the girls I know who watch that much are usually watching cam models though so ... 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/19 12:17 PM
2	Q4ALL: Do you consider it a complement or an insult if someone would have sex with you, but not a relationship? Ok that's not actually true. Tons of women watch porn, but they're not necessarily scrolling through dick pic after dick pic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/19 01:53 AM
2	CMV: A woman lowering her standards doesn't get her a relationship Preach 🙌	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/19 12:43 AM
1	Men should start actively rejecting all forms of female privilege (and also male disadvantage). Oh so he's just pissed that insta models are flooding the previously highly gated modelling market haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 12:27 PM
3	Men should start actively rejecting all forms of female privilege (and also male disadvantage). Well I'm not sure if naming any would help since their modeling and professional identities aren't linked, but alt. models in Boston, NYC and Cali. Suicide Girls originally recruited at Berklee when I was in college, and to even audition there you need to be incredibly hard working, ambitious, and at least creatively intelligent. That might be a little niche though (not sure, is alt niche still?) - being an alt model tends to have a positive correlation to being a nerd so working in tech and aca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 12:21 PM
3	Men should start actively rejecting all forms of female privilege (and also male disadvantage). Untrue. The semi-successfull Instagram models I know work at major tech companies and top universities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 11:49 PM
0	(Discussion) Is the female equivalent to AFBB the difference between hot/beautiful? Usually the "alpha" is still making the final decisions for the group (e.g. if they're traveling as group, should we stay here or go somewhere else)... She's the one who makes the motion to leave. She's the one that fills in conversational lulls and asks questions to keep things going in groups. Basically she's the one allowing her friends to be socially lazy for the night because she has their backs. She's also keeping an eye on everyone to make sure they're happy and safe even if not directly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 04:45 PM
1	(Discussion) Is the female equivalent to AFBB the difference between hot/beautiful? Haha there's definitely still a female hierarchy when men enter the room, the cues are maybe just subtler.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 12:10 PM
3	Q4ALL: Do any actual alphas need the red pill? Honestly even as a blue pill human I'd argue that'd win if she hadn't added the cheating part. WTH kind of guy has free reign and still cheats, doesn't point to "strength of character."	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/19 10:39 PM
2	Q4ALL: Do any actual alphas need the red pill? Yeah, I'd like to know too. I've always seen it as someone people are natrually drawn to follow (i.e. charismatic) and look out for others (protective/safe) and but that's not the vibe I'm getting. Fwiw these both have to do with SMV because women don't tend to go home with guys who don't vibe as safe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/19 10:27 PM
9	Q4W: Why shouldn't I be suspicious and mistrustful of women? Exactly, women are human, men are human, humans are complex. It's not so much about being distrustful as it is being aware.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/19 12:16 PM
1	It's all about ratios Schrodinger's woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/19 10:00 PM
14	Why Do So Many Men Ignore Women's Roles? I think biology students are more likely to be women than men, and chemistry is closer to equal... Usually the gender differences are much more apparent in the T part of STEM.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/19 05:05 PM
2	Playing hard to get Hahahahahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/19 10:27 PM