shadowwallflower1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s? Sorry don’t have it to hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 08:00 AM
–	Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s? There are studies on this. There was an article originally published with the title “The Problem with the Pill” in Scientific American Mind Vol. 23 No. 1 (March 2012) Basically women who met their partners on hormonal contraceptives were less sexually satisfied on average, however they were also less likely to split up with their partners even when coming off the pill as they were happier with non sexual aspects of the relationship on average than their non hormonal contraceptive counterparts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 07:32 AM
16	“Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates. Also ‘you’re childish and immature if you don’t send nudes’ 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 09:53 PM
16	Women are the only ones receiving the blame about having fewer children, despite the unevenness of the weight of parenthood across the genders Agree with this so much. Most of the responsibility and sacrifices fall on women. Which perfectly explains why every man I have ever dated (from the age of 17 upwards wanted kids and asked me to come off the pill...I said no) Maybe if they made it so women didn’t have to choose between children and a career (free childcare for all, at all hours, paid by the government so we don’t have to reduce hours or leave work to have a child) and a change to social expectations, that it is the woman’s role …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 01:56 PM
30	SINGLE MOTHERS: NEVER SAY THAT YOU HAVE KIDS IN YOUR ONLINE DATING BIO. Pedophiles deliberately target single moms on online dating websites to get access to their kids. I’ve been saying this for years! So many people disagree, it’s mental. ‘Not all men’ - not worth the risk! When I was little my friends dad was a police officer. He always said pedos will find any way to be around kids, whether it’s working in schools, summer camps, or very commonly dating people who already have kids for easy access. My mum was always adamant if she and my dad ever split up she wouldn’t date till I was an adult. Her words were that she wouldn’t know if the man wanted her, or wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 09:38 AM
2	And somehow she doesn't see the issue She even has an update post saying she ‘only’ got 2 calls from him while he was grocery shopping to clarify things in her (very detailed) list (with pictures and descriptions). SMH.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 01:00 PM
42	Using specific language to distract from toxic behavior This so much. ‘I want a strong confident woman not an insecure little child’ when you refuse to send naked pics. Next!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 03:00 PM
1	Quality over quantity. 💁🏽‍♀️ I feel personally attacked by this post. Too true!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 09:59 AM
5	IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED! Same here. Long time lurker, only recently made an actual account. Don’t want to be abandoned to my own devices if this sub gets banned!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 02:43 PM
2	They seriously think this gf is cheating because she said she was with her friend when she wasn’t yet OP was lying about what he was doing with her best friend To be fair I think I’d assume cheating in this case too. Maybe that’s cause I just tell my partner the truth about where I am. Seems weird to me to make something up. Surely the truth is easier than a lie? The only time I’d lie and say I’m doing something I’m not is when I’m too lazy to go out and need an excuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 02:24 PM