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Yeah, hair and nails for a date is totally the equivalent effort of building a career capable of sustaining a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:32 AM
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My ex told me it "gave her the ick" when I cried in front of her after my mother's stroke. I thought my mom was dying and all the sympathy I got from my significant other was a look of disgust. Please explain how men created the toxic dynamic in this case, I'll wait. Men don't project stoicism to impress each other, that's insane. We do it because women literally DEMAND IT of their romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:00 AM
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I've heard it's better once you escape the USA. God I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:43 AM
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I've learned that having moderators who are extremely biased toward blue-pillers is a great way to turn a debate sub into another echo chamber for feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:33 PM
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Women aren't generally good at executive decision making, because they are frequently able to avoid the consequences of their actions by having men in their life who shield them from harm. Women are also bad at crisis management, because they aren't encouraged to become emotionally desensitized from a young age. Due to these factors, I want a woman who entrusts her decision making to me, because I'm the more qualified party. That's the ideal partner, one who delegates the executive authority in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:06 AM
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I have no reason not to believe them, women's stories tend to revolve around bland everyday occurrences, never anything adventurous or fantastical. They're usually boring stories about her coworkers and their personal lives, pretty mundane. When women do attempt to concoct entertaining fictional narratives, however, they usually fall flat. Female authors have a tendency toward idealized self-insert characters who don't entertain the audience at all, but instead fulfill the role of a pathetically…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:34 AM
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No. In my experience women are very bad at telling stories. They have very little sense of narrative structure and focus almost exclusively on their personal emotional state during the events. I have learned through experience never to ask women to tell stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:47 AM
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You are very out of touch if you are seriously asking why a guy would lie to get himself layed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:00 PM
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It's simple: Stop having sex with dudes that are out of your league and unwilling to date you. It's that one little trick that if women started practicing it, the sexual marketplace would be rebalanced overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:54 AM
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At least ugly chicks can get their foot in the door, low-status dudes never even get the opportunity to interact and demonstrate their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:36 AM
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Lose weight and get your hair done, and then compare that to your experiences before. You can't run an experiment without a control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:34 AM
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That's what you're not getting, women can be physically attracted to men they don't find aesthetically pleasing. They're turned on by his power and prestige.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:33 AM
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Stats aren't delusional. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:53 AM
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It's definitely you. All of the evidence is stacked against your conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:46 AM
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Evidence shows otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:45 AM
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The vast majority of women in their 20s would be happy to date Leo, yes. Probably plenty of MAGA chicks that would bang Trump too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:44 AM
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You're in denial of the fact that women are authentically physically and emotionally attracted to men who have attained wealth and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:20 AM
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Do you think a society composed primarily of violent incels and spinster cat-ladies is stable? OP seems to think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:10 AM
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This is unironically the saddest possible worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:08 AM
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So, in other words, betas who have bux can get post-wall women as their consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:15 PM
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The men and women who "aren't relationship material" need to start getting together with each other, otherwise Western society will continue to destabilize.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:04 PM
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It was a writing panel at Penguicon 2015. It was only about 30 women in a small classroom, I was the only dude who wandered in. I doubt there is video, I'd never heard of any of the women on the panel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 05:11 AM
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It's funny, it was 2015 when I wandered into a women's righting panel at an annual conference I attend. The panel was called "Stop fearing the Mary Sue". I had never heard the term "Mary Sue" before. They gave a brief description at the beginning about fanfic containing overpowered self-insert characters, and several examples immediately came to mind, and I recognized the trope as accurate right off the bat. The rest of the panel was about how, thanks to feminism, women writers didn't have to av…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/22 03:22 PM
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When you click through to the Brookings Institute study, all the characteristics used to evaluate "school readiness" are feminine qualities like being quiet and obeying instructions without argument. Totally biased.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/22 10:30 PM
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Bahahahha! Yeah, making tchotchkes and darning socks is equivalent to earning an income that can support a whole family. Sure. Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:26 PM
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I was an academic prodigy, actually. I was constantly told that I had "behavior problems" by my female teachers though. That impacted me negatively until I learned about TRP and realized that I was being punished and criticized for natural boyhood behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:23 PM
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Women are intellectually inferior, and have poor executive decision making skills. There is no data that says that women out earn men, there is ample data to demonstrate that they outspend men, but that's primarily because they spend a lot of money that they didn't earn. The fact that you will never gain equal respect to men is because you lack the qualities that earn respect, such as good snap decision making. Women are biologically programmed to be followers and support staff, not leaders or f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:21 PM
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Those that choose not to always regret it, so if they don't feel "the need" they should probably do it anyway for their own mental health. Or they can start collecting cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:32 AM
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Common sense, the fossil record and DNA analysis all demonstrate that the entire human species has a common ancestry dating back only a few hundred thousand years. Korean women are not that different than American women on an evolutionary timescale. They share the same instincts, the primary one being the instinct to raise and nurture her children. It actually extend beyond humans to include virtually all mammals. Pick up a single book on science at any point in your life, and you'll quickly rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:58 AM
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Evolutionary psychology doesn't apply to specific countries differently, we're all the same species. Women without families tend to feel depressed and unfulfilled, because they haven't lived up to their purpose. The same is true of women in every society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:52 AM
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It says that statistically, unmarried women without kids are the least happy demographic on Earth. Don't take it from me, here's a link to Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america Excerpt of relevant section: "And the unhappiest profile?: Female 42 years old Unmarried (and no children)" So stop pushing a lifestyle that leads to bad outcomes for the women involved. You're being a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:46 AM
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You just making things up now. If you need to find a chart of the percentage of women in the workplace over time, try Google. I have no time for a woman that chooses to be wilfully obtuse due to her inability to accept she is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:38 AM
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I think you should have taken the lessons on subservience to boys to heart, then maybe you would be a cherished and dutiful wife, rather than a random chick espousing inane opinions online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:36 AM
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That's why both parents are working, and kids are being raised by strangers in daycare, right? You're being exploited by big business and then calling me a conservative for pointing it out, top lel. You're in deep denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:41 PM
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Most athletes too. Men have more commitment and dedication than women, and thus they excel beyond women in any endeavor they set their mind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:38 PM
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No. You have drastically misinterpreted the situation, but that's a pretty standard thing for chicks. Men are annoyed by women who try to set themselves up as equals, without demonstrating the capacity to perform equally in the difficult tasks men undertake. Men aren't annoyed by women being equal, we're annoyed by women claiming equality without demonstrating enough competency as we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:36 PM
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Boys are naturally lazy, disruptive and disorganized. The problem is that women are this as a problem, and try to correct it. It comes from a fundamental misunderstanding of the differences between boys and girls, and female teachers are constantly trying to force boys to act more like girls. It's obvious from your attitude that you internalized that bigotry, otherwise you wouldn't be so contemptuous of the boys' behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:27 PM
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No, outside the box thinking is transgressive, rule breaking behavior that disrupts the status quo. It's exactly the type of behavior spinster schoolmarms try to punish boys into abandoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:49 PM
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If you consider crazy cat ladies "happy women" then I just don't think we're communicating on the same wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:29 PM
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Ma'am, you are so dense that you failed to recognize that the women I referred to policing boys' behavior were the teachers, not the female students. Please delete your comment in shame and embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:27 PM
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I never mentioned creativity, only you did. Independent and objective thinking, is male thinking, and it's better fitted to STEM. "Creativity" aka making up bullshit, is definitely feminine thinking, and is better suited to non-productive endeavors, such as the arts. Men are problem solvers, women are entertainment. I see that the rest of your excessively lengthy post is you attacking the strawman you set up for yourself, that I was claiming boys are more "creative", so I'll ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:25 PM
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Have fun compiling your list of random dudes, "straight" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:20 PM
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This is the most naive statement I've ever heard. Or maybe you aren't living in Western society. Anybody who doesn't realize that we're in a state of decline is paying zero attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:19 PM
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The laws that legalized marital rape have been repealed, so your point is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:29 PM
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If you're looking for a rational evolutionary reason, look no further than ensuring paternity. The worst thing a man can do, from an evolutionary standpoint, is get cucked into raising another man's kids. We instinctually seek out trustworthy, chaste women for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:26 PM
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Those that opt out of motherhood always regret it, but that's really beside the point. Even married women with no children should be at home taking care of their families, even if that's just her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:22 PM
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Married women should be at home carrying for their families. What's wrong with that? Do you really want to live in a society where all the children were raised by minimum wage nannies and daycare workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:18 PM
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Society wasn't fucked up before, it is now, because of people like you. Women have placed themselves in a position of equality with men, and society is quickly learning that women aren't qualified for that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:15 PM
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I'm not debating you, I'm laughing at how pathetic your desire to be heard is. Please keep entertaining me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:14 PM
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Feminazis saying that other people have warped views, with zero sense of irony, is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:58 AM
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This is such a load of crap. Women who've been rejected are the most passively aggressive bitter people of all time. The idea that they just move on emotionlessly if a man doesn't want them is just a lie. The phrase "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" wasn't just pulled from thin air, it has a solid basis in female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:28 AM
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You're just flattering yourself at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:16 AM
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You already lost the debate to the other guy. I'm just laughing and throwing tomatoes at you from the peanut gallery, because you embarrassed yourself so thoroughly in the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:13 AM
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Plate spinning is the best alternative in a society that doesn't produce marriageable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:07 AM
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I don't even know what you're talking about. I'm just laughing at your sad desperation to try to get the last word. Very pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:05 AM
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If I push your worldview to it's extreme, we'd be castrating boys at birth. Luckily, I'm not an extremist, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:03 AM
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It's not normal for prepubescent straight boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:02 AM
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Men like me are the only thing protecting our families from your sick society. I already have kids, and I guarantee they're in a more healthy environment than any poor kids you have or might have in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:01 AM
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The majority of teachers has been female since 1880. So you're just lying to try to prove your point. Stop. https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2019/02/the-explosion-of-women-teachers/582622/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:59 AM
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Typical gynocentrism. No, following rules and being polite are definitely NOT universal human traits, if you had any concept how much effort it takes for men to abide by such feminine behavioral standards, you wouldn't say something so ridiculous. You're also wrong about disruptive ideas, objectivity, independent "outside the box thinking" and problem solving are all natural male qualities, they're simply qualities that are being squelched in young boys by female teaches who prioritize obedient …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:57 AM
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Boys didn't "do fine" in more restrictive environments, they became violent criminals. Luckily, violent crime rates have been falling since the 80s, but the quickest way to turn that trend around is to try to put boys and men under the authority of women in our society. Women aren't fit to lead boys or men, and the natural reaction they have to it is violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:28 AM
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I don't have any problem with gay/queer boys that behave in a less traditionally masculine fashion, but you need to recognize that you're a minority, and most boys aren't as comfortable in a feminine environment as you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:23 AM
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Because those are feminine ideals being imposed on boys that they don't come naturally to, and shouldn't. Boys need to be encouraged to be independent thinkers who create disruptive ideas, those are their natural strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:20 AM
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Lol, I don't even remember what this thread is about, and I don't care enough to read it. Get a life, you're just sad at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:18 AM
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Women like you are a nightmare, to your entire family. I feel awful for your husband who has to bear the brunt of it, and even worse for any kids that might have to suffer under your motherhood. Please don't procreate, for their sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:15 AM
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What do you mean when you say they have one of the widest age gaps? You mean in employment, school...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:38 AM
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The real answer is we need to stop treating early childhood schooling as an excuse to have women policing boys' behavior. Boys don't struggle in school more than girls academically, but they do struggle with the ever more restrictive behavioral standards more than girls do. This is primarily caused by boys' propensity for independence, and girls' propensity for conformity. Our society needs to recognize that boys will be boys, and they shouldn't be expected to follow rules and act politely, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:36 PM
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You're getting married to a cuck that can't even free you from the drudgery of wage labor. I feel bad for you, but even worse for your future neglected children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:28 PM
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Oh boy, another woman who provides for herself financially. All your cats must be very proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:14 PM
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Nah, I provide for her financially, that's my main function. And today's my day off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:11 PM
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Nah, I think we'll keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:05 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about women, as a man. Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:56 PM
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I, for one, would definitely choose the 1st option. Meaningless sex is a complete waste of time, and women's appearance isn't an indicator of how good in bed they are. In conclusion, yes OP this is a deeply misandrist take based on ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:52 PM
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Typical feminist, doesn't have a response, but still feels the need to respond. Take your L and go home, hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:47 PM
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Seriously. I had an ex with "6" and she had serious issues. Of course she "remembered" several more over the course of our relationship, so who knows what her actual body count was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:44 PM
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Typical feminist, sitting on the couch while her beta cuck waits on her. I feel really bad for that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:38 PM
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Just telling you like it is. Now go cook something to increase your partner's satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:32 PM
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Tech's not there, yet. If you don't think this is the way most men will go once the opportunity exists, you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:30 PM
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Don't even worry about it, you can still procreate without them. Just focus on pleasing your man, that's women's primary sexual function.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:28 PM
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This is such a ludicrous stance. Sexual compatibility is as important as female orgasms, not at all. Women need to focus on pleasing their husbands and caring for their children, not on their insignificant sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:19 PM
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He's gone, but you're still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:15 PM
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Men are not attracted to assertiveness, confidence, self-assuredness, or decisiveness in women. We do like doormats. Women aren't meant to know what they want or to stand up for themselves, that's what men are there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:44 AM
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You obviously don't know much about chimps. Most troops have a dominant male who prevents his harem of females from mating with anybody else. They'll kill competitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:49 PM
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Why would I pay 3 different women to do things I can get 1 impressionable girl to do for a fraction of the price? Honestly, put your logic cap on and start thinking efficiently like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:47 PM
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That's probably why he isn't with someone younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:26 PM
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For his vintage cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:26 PM
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We don't pay for sex, we're just able to attract more and better women because we're rich. Hot young guys get it for free, hot old guys get it for free more. And we get women who don't have massive gaping vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:25 PM
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He sounds like an antique collector.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:22 PM
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If it's that big, he likely doesn't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:21 PM
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Low n count is better than high n count, but zero is the lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:21 PM
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I'll bet a lot of guys that are into you enjoy "vintage" pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:19 PM
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Doth protest too much, methinks...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:18 PM
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Lol. Congrats on that massive self-own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:17 PM
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My point is, guys don't aspire to a used car. Out of date models rarely grace the covers of magazines. Nobody's going to lay down a whole year's salary to sit in a driver's seat that some other guy put 100k on the odometer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:28 PM
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No, it's the big vag energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:26 PM
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You're wrong, and simply ignorant. Not uncommon traits amongst your gender, so don't be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:25 PM
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How often do you and your buds talk about how much you want used cars, versus wanting new cars?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:13 PM
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Please direct me to the online community full of virgin girls who can't find a man to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:01 PM
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If you don't like this sub or it's content, there is an unsubscribe button on the right side. Figuring out the dynamics of who to fuck or marry is kind of the theme here, so don't expect it to stop any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:54 PM
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Not among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:50 PM
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I got you confused with the cavernous vag lady, because you give off that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:49 PM
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Statistically you're wrong, women who marry as virgins are substantially more loyal and less likely to cheat. Decent women aren't curious about the ho life, they're disgusted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:37 PM
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Every guy pays, the question is what he gets in return. Your husband is getting scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:27 PM
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I don't care about attraction and genuine desire, that's emotional chick stuff. I care about have a beautiful and nubile young lady willing to let me ow her, I couldn't care less about her motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:26 PM
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No, it was about life in general, which includes dating. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:24 PM
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I was suggesting they do it for their own health, and because they are a drain on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:57 AM
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Some people go gray younger than others, and women certainly don't restrict themselves to 2-3 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:54 AM
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Or you guessed my age poorly. Might want to stick your glasses on and reread the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:53 AM
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I have proved it, you're just obstinately ignoring the proof because you can't refute it. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:52 AM
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Not as old as you, Ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:50 AM
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You're her cave-dwelling hubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:51 PM
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You have nothing to base that on, women dating older men is a trope that goes back centuries, your denial of it is baseless and ignorant. But I guess that's how girls argue, just assert "your truth" and deny all facts. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:50 PM
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It's in general. Men don't like assertive women, it's a fact. Find some data to refute it, or just accept that it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:48 PM
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I never said I was 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:45 PM
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You left out the word "is" from your 2nd sentence, rendering it unintelligible. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:44 PM
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All three of those things demonstrate that she ISN'T marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:06 AM
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They probably chose you because they were scraping the bottom of the barrel, but that's just a guess, I don't know you or them. My guess is it felt great for you because you were overwhelmingly grateful anybody would have sex with you, but again, that's just a guess based on our conversation thus far, and you asked for it. They probably came quick because they had just gotten back from 6 months on a submarine, or were virgins, but again, that's just a best guess based on the little that I've gle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:01 AM
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Porn has raised the bar, especially for women. Guys these days expect things like anal and deep throat that used to be a lot rarer. Women are expected to act more enthusiastic as well, starfishing is substantially less prevalent, and is more likely to be called out. Men that can't find a woman to fulfill those need have ready access to porn to fill the need, so they don't need relationships as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:54 AM
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I'm absolutely certain that is what they told you. Classy fellas don't usually tell their girlfriend that she's wide enough to drive a Mac truck through.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:48 AM
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You misspelled the 1st word, you meant "There" not "Their". You left the word "many" out of your next sentence, and said "How times". In the next sentence you used "your" when you meant "you're" and "disable" instead of "disabled". In the following sentence, you used "Beside" when you meant "besides"; "it" instead of "it's" and you made Nazi a plural for no apparent reason, unless you're being made fun of in other threads, which wouldn't be surprising. Also, when you ask a question like "So are …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:46 AM
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Exactly. No woman without a close relationship with her dad knows how to act right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:34 AM
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Women could try NOT being fat and crazy, but that's hard when their parents didn't model mature behavior for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:30 AM
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I can relate, my parents stayed together, and it was awful. That was because my mom was willful and felt free to contradict my dad though. If she had been a subservient wife our childhood wouldn't have been marred by so much unpleasantness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:19 AM
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I actually wholeheartedly agree with you here. Anyone raised without a father in their life is going to struggle to behave acceptably.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:15 AM
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Smart. No, they're not blaming the woman, they're just acknowledging that she didn't have a healthy relationship dynamic modeled for her in childhood. This will inevitably negatively impact her ability to behave appropriately as an adult, unless she has put a lot of work into reflection. I will say that if she was raised by her father with her mother absent, I would still give her a chance. Girls raised by single dads turn out almost as good as girls raised in a nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:13 AM
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Do you not understand how past tense works for verbs? I think you mean that I "changed" the definition. Seriously, are you using talk to text, or are you disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:07 AM
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Speaking as a millennial, my opinions came primarily through life experience. My initial expectations were largely disney based, when those didn't pan out, I had several years of confusion because reality wasn't behaving according to the model I had been instilled with by children's fiction. Then I read The Game, and I finally had a framework for understanding intergender dynamics that actually fit with observable reality. I was very disappointed, because the new outlook showed me that women in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:53 AM
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Didn't retract shit, I got more specific because you had a sperg attack and insisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:42 AM
0

It was nice of them to spare your feelings like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:33 AM
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Oh, I remember. You asked several times in broken english, even though I was quite clear the whole time. You seemed to want to hold me to my more general initial statement, rather than the more specific one I had given immediately after I was first asked for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:31 AM
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"Studies show that when women exhibit stereotypically masculine traits commonly associated with leadership like assertiveness, they are less-liked" https://cultureplusconsulting.com/2018/03/10/gender-bias-work-assertiveness-double-bind/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:21 AM
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I'm not going to argue with a person with as poor of a grasp of the language as you. You can't read or write clearly, and that's why you lost track of the conversation. I had already refined my initial, simplified, answer. You missed it, that's why it was unclear to you. Try to keep up in the future, and keep practicing reading/writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:16 AM
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Some guys like to navigate by echo location, and there's nothing wrong with that. Did they all make it out safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:43 AM
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I'm mostly contemplating young women's early adulthood. I thought that was the subject of OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:41 AM
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It wasn't hard the 1st time, it got annoying by the 3rd. I had already refined that definition several times subsequently, you just chose to ignore them. (or failed to comprehend them)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:40 AM
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Listen, it sounds like you need to believe that to carry on, so believe it. I'm glad that you found a guy who likes spelunking. Truly happy for you two, guys like that are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:17 AM
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That's my point. Statistically, you have the vagina of the woman from the Duggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:09 AM
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The fact that you say I didn't give a clear answer, with no sense of irony, is hilarious. Since I'm starting to feel bad for you, because I do believe you are special needs, I will resummarize my position: All oral, vaginal or anal intercourse undertaken with another person ends virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:07 AM
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Got me, I'm in my mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:02 AM
1

For mothers of 6+, maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:00 AM
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No, not at all. She should only be concerned with my pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:12 AM
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You have already admitted that you have no frame of reference with which to evaluate your elasticity versus others. I do, and from what you've said in this thread, yours is a few standard deviations wider than the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:12 AM
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I never said I was fat, I said I got a little chunky in my mid 20s, but slimmed down immediately after. And yes, I know I'm buying them, I realized it all along. The reason it's possible, is because you are objects available for purchase. You just sold yourself cheap. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:10 AM
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I covered this already, you just missed it. Re-read the thread and let me know when you're finished, I'm done repeating myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:08 AM
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The only real question left unanswered is the frequency. If she's compliant and goes along with it whenever I want her to, then sign me up! I don't want a woman to initiate anyway, it's improper and I might not feel like it. As long as she's submissive and willing when I want it, you're really describing my ideal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:59 AM
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I'd be fine with it, better than a non-virgin of the same age. I'd still prefer a woman who could feasibly still provide a large family though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:56 AM
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Nobody is insulting you, I'm pointing out that your lack of reading comprehension is likely at fault for you missing every point made to you. As I've said repeatedly now, all oral sex would count for losing virginity. 3rd time I've said it, let's see if it sinks in. Let me know if you need smaller words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:49 AM
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I'm not the one downvoting you, don't be so insecure. You should consider the possibility that your opinion is outside of the norm. There are ample statistics to prove that most women are fine with, and even prefer, a May/December romance. Good luck with your persnickety bf though, he sounds like a real man's man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:47 AM
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I'm still in my prime, and I was always this attractive, just not rich enough to properly enjoy it in my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:44 AM
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Yes, all oral sex counts as a loss of virginity. I said that in my very first comment. I'm not trying to be ableist here, so if you have a legit learning disability please disregard, but: Learn to read!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:25 AM
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Suit yourself, I hope his mom's basement smells real nice. As for me and the smarter gals, we'll be enjoying the finer things in life...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:21 AM
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That's the issue, it shouldn't have been an issue for a virgin, even with a micropenis. Look, I'm not trying to be derogatory here, I'm glad that you've found someone that satisfies you, but your experiences as outlined in this thread do seem to suggest that you are of below average elasticity. Nothing wrong with it, it's how some people are born. There are surgical procedures that could help, but it sounds like you're uninterested, and that's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:19 AM
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"If penile a word that does hold meaning that recorded on it in your view" What does this mean? It's nonsensical gobbledy-guk. If you want to learn the meaning of the word virgin, I suggest you learn to read and write first. The definition has already been made clear, if you can read it, and your questions have already been answered, at least the ones you wrote legibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:14 AM
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Most chicks with daddy issues aren't just going for guys a year or two older. They want silver foxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:11 AM
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To men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:09 AM
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The point is to lose the weight before the sagging begins, sorry your hubby didn't get the memo in time, but he could still get surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:09 AM
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Women who disagree are unpleasant and unattractive. It's ok for men, because being assertive is a masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:57 PM
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25 was when I was at my fattest. Luckily I got redpilled soon thereafter and started improving my health. I'm in much better shape now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:56 PM
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This isn't a debate. You're arguing with the dictionary. You should be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:54 PM
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Sagginess is only prevalent on people with large fat deposits. This is why women's breasts inevitably sag with age. This is only a problem for overweight men, such as your husband, apparently. As a lean/muscular man, the only sagging I have to worry about is from my massive balls. As for young women, they love silver foxes, apparently it's caused by "daddy issues". I certainly can't sympathize, but I'm more than happy to continue exploiting the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:50 PM
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I know I've said this already but "I can feel it" is the lowest possible standard for sexual satisfaction. Do you really think a partner would be comfortable telling you to your face if they thought it was too loose? Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:44 PM
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That's fine, most women are attracted to older men, so you can just miss out. Have fun with the broke boys, you can eat fast food with them in their mom's cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:42 PM
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It's spelled "grammar" and the school system definitely failed you if you're not sure when you lost your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:39 PM
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Rhetoric is primarily useful during disagreements. People who flex their rhetorical skills often are people who are prone toward disagreements. People who are prone to disagreements are disagreeable people. Any other dots I can connect for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:37 PM
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Some people don't just intuit these things, they have to have it spelled out for them, that's why a lot of guys don't get them until later in life, at which point it comes as an eye-opening paradigm shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:33 PM
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Because their society depends on keeping men down in the hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:12 PM
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If you want to attract old dudes who are less ugly, then you're going to have to bring something to the table. The fact that only the ugly ones hit on you says more about you than it does about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:57 PM
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Exactly. Meanwhile, her obstinate insistence that it's subjective just keeps making her look worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:56 PM
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Au contraire, I have found that many women are attracted to men with refined rhetorical skills. Virtually no men feel the same way, I've never met a dude who was seeking out lawyers for romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:42 PM
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I think I have made my stance quite clear. You, on the other hand, do not come off as a native English speaker. I'm having trouble understanding you due to your poor grammatical skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:39 PM
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If your mouth is penetrated, you've been penetrated. Your mouth is part of your body, check any anatomy resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:32 PM
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A hand job wouldn't, neither would masturbation. I honestly thought you were arguing in good faith at first, but now I can see you're being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:28 PM
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I don't like disagreeable women. Most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:25 PM
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The way it feels for you is completely anecdotal and does nothing to demonstrate your relative tightness when compared to the community as a whole. Do you really think that external aesthetics are an accurate gauge of internal elasticity? It sounds more like an ego thing, frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:25 PM
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What evidence leads you to the conclusion that you're tighter than average? Seems like an untested assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:59 PM
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It's normal for all guys to be attracted to a woman who is at or near her peak fertility. The obsession with shaming disparate aged couples is just an attempt by spinsters to shame men into being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:46 PM
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It's not difficult to define. All the acts you've mentioned are gross, and none of them are something a chaste woman would participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:36 PM
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I think the main reason that men don't like women for their personalities is because western women were not raised to be agreeable. When comparing disagreeable women, there is not much left to judge them on but looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:34 PM
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If you're pleased with what you have, nothing else matters. I know people who consider McDonald's a treat, and they're some of the happiest people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:32 PM
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I'm sure lots of youths love obscure music from the early sixties. Not as many as could outwit you on relationships, but I'm sure they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:25 PM
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Yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:22 PM
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This is getting really disgusting. Dildo penetration is equivalent to penile penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:21 PM
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Cunnilingus is oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:20 PM
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Nobody is going to respect either party that does such things, but no, the girl wouldn't lose her virginity if she pegs someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:18 PM
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You know a lot of minors that quote Lesley Gore songs from 1963? Not very insightful yourself, that's for sure. I've definitely met more savvy highschoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:14 PM
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Penile penetration. It's THE mainstream definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:12 PM
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Pro tip: Nobody comes to your next party after you cry through the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:06 PM
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"most kids" We're making progress here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:05 PM
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It's your party, cry if you want to...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:04 PM
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Yeah, you're right. This is the only place where guys like younger girls./s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:03 PM
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Low standards can be problematic, but you can easily raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:02 PM
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A stereotype is an assumption misattributed to entire group based on limited experience with members of that group. So, yeah, saying that all minors are ignorant definitely qualifies. There are free online dictionaries, let me know if you need a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:01 PM
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Still internalizing the bigotry, so sad. He could have been a king.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:58 PM
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Ok, so you'll admit that other forms of sex are still sex, they're just not forms of sex that are detectable after the fact. I'll concede that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:57 PM
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The problem is that you're trying to universalize your stereotype. Sure, the vast majority of teens are inexperienced, just like the vast majority of black people have experienced poverty. Ignoring the exceptions is what makes you a bigot. Saying that all highschoolers lack insight into relationships is just like saying all black people are poor. It's not true, exceptions exist, and you're a bigot for asserting that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:55 PM
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I get it bro, in a society of universally accepted misandry, a dose of reality seems misogynistic. You just need to unlearn the docility that's been ingrained into you by the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:52 PM
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You're lucky then, most of these chicks are jaded old used up battleaxes. If you got more than one lovely one, you're in the slim minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:50 PM
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I think the preference for naive/idealistic is more universal amongst men than you realize, hence OP's initial inquiry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:48 PM
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I'm sure he was small... relatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure muslim guys don't mind if their bride just got done with a bukkake session./s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:46 PM
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Keep telling us all how unbigoted it is for you to make broad assumptions about entire classes of people you've never met. You're really driving your point home./s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:44 PM
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Perfect. Women should not be talking back to men anyway, IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:41 PM
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Because they're primarily concerned with ensuring paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:40 PM
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That's their prerogative. Obviously women who get into relationships with bad dudes are going to have a bad time, that's why fathers are supposed to be vetting men for their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:36 PM
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Nobody defines women's virginity as an unbroken hymen. It's whether you've had a penis inside you or not. Where you put it is pretty irrelevant for determining virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:34 PM
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If you're a man unironically calling other men misogynists, then you are very subservient. They've got you trained just the way they want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:31 PM
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Wow. Very wrong. Not how anybody normal sees the situation, but keep telling yourself whatever you need to, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:30 PM
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If I knew in advance what insights a high schooler might bestow upon me, we wouldn't need them here. The reason I interact with people from a variety of backgrounds is precisely because I DON'T know what value they might bring to the conversation. You don't know either, you're just writing off strangers based on a condescending and bigoted attitude toward youths and youth culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:29 PM
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So that she'll be satisfied with how he runs his household, rather than comparing it to previous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:25 PM
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And large vaginas don't need to be measured either, you can tell by the women complaining about penis size. I have to say, a woman complaining about being too big for a partner on the night she lost her virginity is exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:22 PM
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If you think quality of insight is dependent upon membership in a specific demographic, then yes, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:19 PM
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Ok, so men want a woman who is still idealistic. Call it what you want, but it's an attractive quality, and the opposite, jadedness, is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:18 PM
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How many women have you dated? It's definitely true. The more times she's been jerked around, the less sweet her disposition is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah, get over it. Men want a woman that they can mold into a perfect partner for themselves, not some jaded sow who comes into the relationship with preconceived notions and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:14 PM
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Holy crap, I thought it was a myth that some chicks pretend "oral and anal doesn't count"!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:08 PM
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Women who are virgins at marriage are still happy in their marriage 80% of the time after 5 years. A woman who has had 5+ sex partners before marriage drops to 25%. Divorce is expensive, and women initiate 70% of them. Marrying a girl with a high N count is a recipe for disaster, statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:03 PM
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That's because our ideas are being suppressed by a popular culture that wants to keep men docile and subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:56 PM
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That's just it, when you're an unintelligent person, your opinion never holds weight. Intelligent people can be surprisingly insightful, even from a very early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:54 PM
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Your original argument was that young people lack sexual experience (sorry you didn't date in school). Why would you oppose a more direct measurement of sexual experience, if you're not just an ageist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:47 PM
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The only people who are learning nothing from the debate here in PPD are bullheaded people who are already convinced that their side is right. People like you. If you don't find this to be a productive space for discussion, you know where the door is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:46 PM
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You don't consider minors credible, fine. That's just your ignorant and bigoted opinion though, and after reading your posts, I would actually place more credence in the opinions of any random 15M. That's called objective evaluation, you judge people on how they act, not on who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:43 PM
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You're definitely not an MD, so you should consult one. They're more qualified to make these determinations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:41 PM
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Maybe YOU weren't a mature child. In fact, reading through your posts, I'd guarantee it. That being said, your assertion that they are incapable of insightful commentary certainly reveals your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:40 PM
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Maybe YOU weren't a mature child. In fact, reading through your posts, I'd guarantee it. That being said, your assertion that they are incapable of insightful commentary certainly reveals your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:39 PM
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This is a debate sub, not a help sub. Anybody seeking help or advice with their relationships should go over to r/TheRedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:35 PM
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Even a relatively small penis should be painfully tight for a girl with an unruptured hyman. Some women are born with outrageously blown out vaginas though, it's sad. I would recommend surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:32 PM
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N count would actually be a far superior stat for evaluating posters' sexual market experience. Age and gender are completely arbitrary metrics that you came up with just to discriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:25 PM
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This guy keeps devolving into name calling and childish insults, but thinks his mature opinions are more valid than those of teens. Bluepillers have literally zero self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:15 PM
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Oh look, OP's actual motivation for posting comes clear. If you want to stop the spread of RP ideas, just say so, you don't need to come up with this whole censorship scheme. Trust me, there are already more than enough barriers in place keeping young men from learning the truth about relationship dynamics, you don't need to build more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:06 PM
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And I'm sure you had an MD that made you eligible to diagnose it when you lost your virginity./s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:02 PM
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Pro tip: Only the loosest women out there use the phrase "micropenis"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:10 PM
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Minors need to know about these discussions more than anybody, I wish there would have been Redpillers when I was a teen. Also, kids often have insights and perspective that adults lack, and it's quintessentially ageist to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:09 PM
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Exactly! The fact that OP seems to think that age is the most relevant stat to be posted also shows that, contrary to his denials, he is in fact ageist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:04 PM
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It's so delusional that you claim to be tight, while simultaneously acknowledging that you were too loose to get off even as a virgin, and that you've been getting plowed by a much bigger guy for years. You're describing the loosest vag in the history of the game, and you don't even seem to realize that's what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:44 PM
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If you don't realize that "we both can feel it" is the lowest possible standard for sexual satisfaction, then I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:30 PM
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The ship sailed on you not being blown out. You'll need surgery to reverse the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:18 AM
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The only thing that changes the size of your vagina is taking a lot of dick, which high value men find disgusting and won't tolerate. But you're someone who lost her virginity at 13 and says that a large dick is non-negotiable, so it's pretty clear that ship has sailed for you. Just think of it as extra storage space.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:10 AM
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If it feels like a black hole, then you married the wrong partner. Find someone that you truly love and are sure you want to spend the rest of your life with, and then you won't feel that way. Guys like that aren't going to want to wife you up though, if you've been a ho previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:01 AM
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You go from zero to 1 on your wedding night, and then you don't get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:44 AM
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Yeah, pretty much. Any body count over zero is nasty. The higher it goes, the nastier it gets, but zero is the only good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:28 AM
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Sex with anybody makes you loose, which is why no man has to ask if you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:04 PM
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Not sure why I should. Women seem to have given up on the concept of "letting him down easy" so why should we grant them that courtesy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:01 PM
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He never decided to try anything though. You were just paranoid because a man happened to be waling near you. I hope you were able to overcome the trauma of seeing a man on a sidewalk./s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:59 PM
1

Oh wow, another zinger./s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:57 PM
1

So you think you were being funny quoting a one-off, rather than the actual catchphrase? This is why nobody likes female comedians, women have no sense of comic delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:22 PM
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The quote is shiny metal ass, not tiny. You don't even have the logical capacity to quote Futurama properly. Next time ask your husband for insult assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:06 PM
0

This is hilarious! You really think they couldn't tell immediately? When you throw a hotdog down a hallway, you don't need to ask!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:58 PM
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Definitely. Those who will deny it are just simps trying to earn brownie points. Every man would prefer to have gotten to their significant other before she was ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:54 PM
2

You are not qualified to make that judgement call.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:52 PM
2

That is not a healthy or stable relationship. Allowing the woman in a relationship to participate in executive decision making is problematic, they lack sufficient rational capacity to contribute productively to the deliberative process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:47 PM
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Women should be able to handle rejection without me needing to lie to mollycoddle their feelings. God knows men have had to get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:35 PM
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Every two people have vastly different life experiences, so nobody would ever mate with each other using that standard. It's good and natural for the more experienced partner to offer guidance and mentorship to the less experienced partner. This is actually a more stable and healthy foundation for a relationship than some mythical "even partnership"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:31 PM
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Yeah, and women need to be controlled. Out of control hypergamous women are the cause of the vast majority of problems in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:28 PM
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I've learned. There are no single women raised in western society with tolerable personalities. This can be overcome if you get her early enough to be able to deprogram her from the cult of western values.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:27 PM
1

I've been hit on by gross older women before. It was gross, but hardly as traumatic as OP implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:24 PM
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Not sure how a doll is going to provide me logistical support to continue achieving my goals. That why men keep women around, it's their primary function.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:23 PM
1

We've all heard of that bonobo bullshit. Our closest genetic relatives, chimps, practice polygamy and males are EXTREMELY territorial over females.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:21 PM
2

Women need a partner that will keep them under control, it's the only way to constrain their hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:09 AM
3

Men don't want to marry women that are in the twilight of their fertile years. At least, not men that want to pass down their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:06 AM
0

You're inproficient at disguising it. Too much estrogen, presumably.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:04 AM
5

Not you though. Strong NPC vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:02 AM
2

Hard to take your post seriously when your 1st sentence implies that you think men want to mate with dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:00 AM
1

Flattery is ONLY when you don't want it. If it was mutual it wouldn't be flattering, it would just be mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:58 AM
4

Yeah, right. Pervs have never chased boys. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:56 AM
1

You seem emotional. Need a tissue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:30 PM
2

Most men aren't looking for an equal partner, we want a loyal and obedient mate for life. All this men/women equality garbage is just new aged bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:30 PM
1

It's called being flattered. When someone you aren't into is into you, it makes you feel good and proud, if you're normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:27 PM
1

Porn has definitely raised the bar for women. Men have higher standards about what gets them off. Women need to be in better shape, do kegels and be a lot more experimental if they want to land a partner in this day and age. If a man prefers porn to you, it isn't his fault, it's yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:20 PM
1

I can't see this being a realistic option for men that aren't married to a woman that looks comparable to a porn star, and even then the lack of variety would cause issues. Your man is most likely indulging in porn secretly, and keeping it from you since you two "mutually" agreed to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:12 PM
1

Every guy loves to look at porn at 12. It's normal for people to watch porn, calling it an addiction is like calling oxygen an addiction. It's a normal part of life for all normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:07 PM
1

The idea that men shouldn't seek out a partner that is impressionable is misandrist bullshit. It's totally appropriate that a man would want a partner he could mold into his ideal mate, rather than an opinionated old battleaxe who's already set in her ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:58 PM
1

It's not a good look for a lady, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:54 PM
11

There's no such thing as a problematic age gap. As long as both people are old enough to consent, then it's the people judging them that are in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:33 PM
0

They aren't. That's like saying some people have more tallshortness. It's a meaningless concept. Emotionality is simply a lack of control over the subrational areas of your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:20 PM
8

Exactly, there were probably plenty of boys on OP's schoolyard when the weirdo got caught jerking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:05 PM
-3

Wow, men have found you desirable and attractive your whole life, I feel so bad for you. Try the opposite, the opposite sex either ignores you entirely or treats you with derision everyday your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:01 PM
1

No, some scales actually measure quantifiable real world phenomena. Emotional intelligence doesn't, it's an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:54 PM
0

I never did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:52 PM
2

Your whole argument boils down to: "The average American woman is a fat surly beast, why don't more men want her?" You then go on to acknowledge that many men actually WILL hookup with her, even though she isn't attractive at all. So I don't think you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:58 PM
-1

Noticing self-contradictory statements in realtime requires a grasp of rationality that women do not possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:38 PM
-4

Emotional Intelligence is a made up concept. It is used as a coping mechanism because females can't hope to compete with males in objective measurements of actual intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:36 PM
2

This comment more or less proves my point. Women will blather on for entire paragraphs, blissfully unaware that the man they're talking to doesn't care what they have to say, and doesn't take their thoughts and opinions seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:27 PM
11

A genuinely interesting woman would first have to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:06 AM
0

What constitutes an "interesting" conversation in this context? What is an example of a message that would peak your interest enough to elicit an intrigued response?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:37 PM
2

What? What planet are you living on? If a woman is even mildly attractive, she will be approached in any and all public settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:46 AM
5

This is why women are the primary impetus toward normativity, and thus the primary impediment to human progress. "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." -Jiddu Krishnamurti
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:14 PM
1

I don't consider you a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:09 PM
2

I don't know what you're talking about. I feel like women's clothing is more and more desexualized each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:19 PM
1

No, you just embarrassed yourself with your logical inconsistency, but I'm sure none of your gal pals will mind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:15 PM
1

So you think male toxicity excuses your own personal toxicity? Oh hun, your dad should have taught you that two wrongs don't make a right back when you were a little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:04 PM
0

Nah, I'll keep banging barely legal tail and making fun of lonely old women online, it's actually pretty awesome. I'm sure your cats are great company, so you have plenty to live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:01 PM
-2

Mostly because old spinsters trick them into wasting their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:14 PM
0

It is when the whole post is about women's toxic behavior, and your entire defense boils down too: "But men too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:11 PM
-1

You're seriously going to end your post asking what we want when you literally mentioned it in the same post? We want an 18yo virgin to train! The fact that women who aren't that keep butting in and offering their opinions is extremely annoying, nobody cares that old spinsters disapprove of our desires, you don't matter to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:58 PM
0

"If I get called out on being a rude, I can always fall back on whataboutism!" -PPD Women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:45 PM
1

TL;Dr Men mostly feel oppressed by women blathering on and on with nothing to say and no point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:04 AM
1

It's cultural, it's caused by mothers having more opportunities to imprint on young children during early childhood. Abolish breastfeeding and replace maternity leave with paternity leave, and the gender preferences would swap very quickly, probably less than a full generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:36 AM
2

It's like when a stranger uses your private bathroom rather than the guest toilet. It's gross and tainted and not the same afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:32 AM
3

"Cat lady" is the phrase you're searching for, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:28 AM
0

True 100%. Most of the women on this sub are 40+ man haters with strong homosexual tendencies. They're not here to be honest, they're here because they enjoy shaming men for their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:08 AM
1

They talk about the current drama going on with the other women at their work. Ad nauseam. Literally. All. The. Time. It's like torture for anybody stuck listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:04 AM
0

To be fair, those religions have mountains of credible evidence to prove those assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:00 AM
0

Your theory is that feelings are more important than science. I'm disputing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:14 AM
0

You sound like one of those people who told the Wright brothers that heavier than air flight was impossible, right before they did it. You're stuck in an archaic paradigm, and you lack the imagination to see that the future is right in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:10 PM
0

That's funny coming from someone who just said that real world experience being useful is just a theory. Hope that's working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:34 AM
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If you need research that proves that real world experience is a necessity, try getting a job that isn't flipping burgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:15 AM
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The best way to handle your emotions is to ignore them. They're an evolutionary vestige, like webbed feet, totally unnecessary, and in fact an impediment, to surviving and thriving in the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:13 AM
1

Men are more logical and rational. They are less likely to permit the child to indulge in wasteful periods of emotionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:37 PM
2

Experiencing the real world is the best way to understand the real world, that should be obvious. I've got a sneaking suspicion that you may have literally never tried it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:35 PM
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Yeah, that's how they learn to use it. Teaching them to indulge in emotionality only slows the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:33 PM
0

Preferably there would be a non-working father in the home. If that's not possible due to him having a high demand job, a mother can be the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:40 AM
1

What you're proposing isn't raising children, it's sheltering them from reality. Kids need less "comfort" and more exposure to what the real world consists of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:36 AM
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On the contrary, their development is stunted by having a parent act as a "buffer" between themselves and reality. Kids develop much faster when they're exposed to reality than they do when being sheltered from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:33 AM
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Men are socialized to use logic and reason to solve problems, rather than indulging in unproductive emotionality. Therefore, they can teach kids coping skills that are actually effective and rational, in a way women just aren't socialized to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:58 PM
2

You seriously think a mother is necessary for a toddler to develop properly? Do you think that roosters cause the sunrise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:56 PM
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Men are literally better at childcare than women, we just have more demanding higher priority jobs than playing peek-a-boo with toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:58 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head at the very end, most guys that flock to crazy bitches had abusive and domineering mothers. Studies have shown that people seek out the types of abuse they were raised to expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:16 AM
1

For the love of God, please stop elaborating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:11 AM
0

Nah, just bottom feeders of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:05 AM
1

OLD is for losers and fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:14 PM
1

Yeah, but like I said, that's just the 1st step. Then you need a new perspective on which to base your expectations, and TRP provides that, and unlike Disney, it provides actual predictive accuracy for what your results will be like irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:05 PM
0

None of that works for guys who still think the world works like it does in the movies. You need a realistic narrative on which to base your expectations, or the bad results you get from bars and clubs are just meaningless noise with no value to point you in the direction of improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:27 PM
1

Prior to PUA and TRP, there was no prominent counter narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:13 PM
1

You misunderstood my question. I didn't say hard to find, I said didn't exist. My values fall so far outside the mainstream that nobody has ever shared them. To the point that continuing to look is a clear waste of time. I'm talking about wholly original values here. Women aren't going to share far afield values, women are strongly biased toward normativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:43 PM
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There's a lot of evidence that kids do poorly in fatherless households, but virtually none that says kids do poorly in motherless households. I say go for it, might be even healthier than a two parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:12 PM
3

And what if a partner with similar values doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:08 PM
1

Honestly, reproduction is the only excuse for PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:43 AM
1

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:54 AM
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The Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:10 AM
1

No, men objectify women because women's personalities are irrelevant to men's goals. Nobody cares if Naomi Campbell has a terrible personality, they only care about what she looks like in a bathing suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:25 PM
1

Penises usually emit fluid externally, without retaining moisture. That means a lot less bacterial infestations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:25 PM
0

The most mature co-parenting relationship is a romantically involved couple that live together, statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:52 PM
6

This is nonsense. OP do you have a single shred of evidence for this point of view? Personally, I have not noticed guys treating women better after they've had sex. The only thing I've noticed that makes guys suddenly develop a deeper and more nuanced understanding of women's personalities and behaviors is TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:40 PM
1

If you want to have a discussion about how disgusting vaginas are, we can go down that road, but it's not bigotry, it's objective fact. Not sure how you can defend an organ that secretes smelly discharge on a regular basis, next you'll be telling us that armpits aren't disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:34 PM
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You can't "shirk all that" if you want your kids to have the best chance of a good future. Statistics show that kids raised in a household with both parents do better than kids raised with separated parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:30 PM
1

Doesn't really apply in this case, people who don't want to be tied down usually don't start families with their significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:01 AM
1

Nothing I've said was bigoted. Advising women to take on tasks that meet their natural skill set is pretty far from bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:59 AM
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Anything related to gamergate, that's when I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:57 AM
1

People aren't eschewing marriage because they don't want to be married, they're doing so because the ceremony has become a hollow ritual, with no legal backing to enforce the vows taken. No-fault divorce ruined marriage for anybody with a working brain. Nobody with an IQ over 80 is going to sign a contract to give up half their stuff, when the agreements therein aren't even legal binding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:50 PM
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Sorry, but no. I'm not your 'natural ally' just because of the way I was born, that's called stereotyping and it's bigotry. When women start acting like they care about propagating our species, then they'll be my allies, but if they want to reverse the process of evolution, they're no friends of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:47 PM
1

Couples need to learn to make things work, expecting a marriage to be all fun and games is immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Lol, you're serious? You've really never interacted with a gay person before? You think we're like this because we're intimidated by women? That is adorable, but probably embarrassing for you. I'm in a very happy relationship, and luckily for me it's one that doesn't include any AFAB idiots to ruin it with their drama and emotionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:48 PM
1

Not really, most scams just exploit extremely vulnerable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:43 PM
1

Seems pretty selfish to put her whole family through that just to get her rocks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:42 PM
1

You should try reading feminist theory. Just plain sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:04 PM
1

This is laughable. Rationalize gold digging all you want, but wealth is not even close to a valid metric for measuring intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:02 PM
1

I already have somebody, I'm more concerned with the hordes of unstable incels being created in my community. These guys don't tend to die alone, they tend to take a lot of their innocent neighbors out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:19 PM
0

I seriously doubt you've ever met an anthropologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:17 PM
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Often, in anthropology, definitive proof for a theory doesn't exist in the fossil record. Demonstrating a correlation between a change in behavior taking place at the same time as physical changes begin to emerge is the best you're going to get. Go be an archeologist and see if you can find fossils that demonstrate otherwise, I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:44 PM
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There is no Madonna/whore complex, it's Freudian claptrap. Men want women who are not publicly sexual, but who act privately sexual for them and them alone. It's not too hard, we want a lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:40 PM
2

Even rich hoes act pretty trashy, in my experience. Sometimes it skips a generation, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:29 PM
1

Of course. Women with high n-counts act like trailer trash, whereas normal women know how to act prim and proper in social settings. N-counts in women are tied very closely to social class and poise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:24 PM
1

On evolutionary time scales, 30 centuries is VERY few. As for definitive proof that a scientific hypothesis which perfectly fits the data is 100% true beyond any doubt, that isn't how science works, science is a theoretical field.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:04 PM
1

Most of the wealthy people I know were either born that way, or got extremely lucky. Most people with money are not especially smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:02 PM
1

Nah, he works for a company that scams idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:00 PM
0

Sounds like you're describing every minority group. I'd be glad to share the same fate as them, minorities are taking this country over, and changing it for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:55 PM
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3 thousand years is just a few centuries, especially when we're talking in evolutionary time scales. 3 thousand years ago also fits in nicely with the end of the neolithic, when clubbing women and dragging them to your cave ceased to be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:05 AM
1

Let me Google that for you: https://www.archyworldys.com/science-our-brains-have-shrunk-by-the-size-of-a-lemon/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:52 AM
1

It's already normalized amongst butch lesbians. Just look at all the BP commenters saying they don't wear any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:41 AM
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It's actually having a hugely negative impact on humanity, our brains have shrunk by the size of a lemon in just a few centuries. When selective pressure comes from men, intelligence increases, when it comes from women, intelligence decreases.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:38 AM
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Because in other cultures their parents would have arranged a marriage for them by now. Leaving these poor guys to sink or swim in a SMP controlled by a pussy cartel is cruel and inhumane. Allowing women the agency to choose their own partners and engage in pre-marital sex has made life for young men into hell on earth. These guys should be starting careers and families, not worrying about attracting fickle women who don't know what is best for themselves in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:32 AM
0

Very true. I know a gal who claims to be a "sapiosexual" someone primarily attracted to intelligence. She's dating a dumb guy who makes a lot of money, rejects smart guys often. So if even the women who claim to like smart guys, aren't dating smart guys, it goes to show that they are least have higher priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:23 AM
-1

Disagree. Most incels are normal looking dudes being failed by western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:16 AM
0

That's victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:59 AM
0

Every issue is personal, none are societal, because we live in a perfect society./s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:16 AM
1

Heavily censored ever since gamergate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:03 AM
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There is no social need for censorship, it's pure corporate greed to mollify advertisers, and when you give advertisers the right to set the standards for appropriate content, we're going to get Disney everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:01 AM
0

The idea of having a relationship with a woman makes me sick to my stomach. I don't consider them useful for anything other than sex and cleaning services.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:57 AM
1

What denial? You admitted yourself that virgins are tighter: The only reason the vagina is “tighter” on a virgin is because they...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:40 AM
1

Nobody cares what excuses you make for having a loose vagina. And yeah, a lot of guys are turned on by women in pain, bdsm is a cornerstone of the kink community.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:34 AM
1

Pointing out that someone is being a swerf is no more name calling than pointing out that someone using the n-word is a racist. Neither "racist" nor "swerf" is name-calling, it's appropriately labeling bigoted speech as bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:30 AM
1

Primarily as cum receptacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:31 PM
0

Pointing out when someone is being using bigoted rhetoric is not a personal attack. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:30 PM
1

That's the complaint from blackpill losers who can't get laid. When a woman who is a 3-5 gets carte blanche to step out on her man, she treats the local 4s like a god-damned smorgasbord, especially if she's a naturally gross slutty type person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:29 PM
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Men only "vent" when they have a problem and need another perspective to solve it. That's why men try to solve problems every time they're vented to. Bitching and moaning solely for emotional release or to induce empathy or whatever is a purely feminine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:21 PM
1

Geneticist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:54 PM
1

All guys have a virgin preference. That's like saying "some guys prefer brand new cars to used cars. Yuck!" You're not going to successfully shame men into wanting sloppy seconds, everyone is always going to want a fresh, tight vag over a blown out one that a bunch of creeps have already used and abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:53 PM
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Guys want inexperienced women, whereas women tend to want more experienced men. Not sure how this is biased in favor of men, it might be a grass is greener situation, because to me it seems biased toward women. Our ape relatives absolutely care about this shit, chimpanzee males are extremely protective of their mates, and are known to kill sexual competitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:43 AM
1

Yes, when you give a ho license to do ho shit, she'll absolutely debase herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:39 AM
1

PIV sex has side effects, risks and consequences, this whole subreddit is one of them. It's time that we seriously reevaluate whether or not it's worth it, as a society. I'm arguing it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:47 PM
0

If it was a mutual agreement, it really falls on both of them, if they both consented. The victim is the person who got hurt, and that's the person who's partner slept with others, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:43 PM
2

You are wrong in assuming it should be a two way street. Men and women are different, and they serve different roles in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:40 PM
2

I'm a practicing physician, at an IVF clinic. At no point does a penis go into a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:38 PM
0

The victim is anybody who had their significant other sleep with someone else. Most frequently, that's the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:36 PM
2

Nope, there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:51 PM
0

Anyone who proposes an open relationship is an idiot, but the primary victims of them are men, almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:50 PM
0

Yeah, duh. It's a stupid idea, I think I've made that abundantly clear. In my family, it was the woman's idea though, because she knew what was going to happen. That's just cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:33 PM
2

If I knew someone who was irritating their ears with urine, I would consider that disgusting, which is, I think, the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:29 PM
2

I absolutely agree, PIV is disgusting and should be banned. It's also an irresponsible means of conceiving now that IVF is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:27 PM
0

No, normally it's just opportunistic guys who see it as an excuse to step out, and don't expect their old lady to start hosting gangbangs right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:22 PM
2

So true. It should be illegal to raise a kid without a father, CPS should take kids out of homes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:00 PM
0

I agree, it is most often initiated by men. Stupid, incredibly naive men. Still sad when that man is a family member you love and care about, and you have to see their self-worth publicly decimated. That one was her idea though, to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:57 PM
1

You're sending your kids to public school? They're already screwed. You might as well send them off to a Soviet gulag. They'll never believe the backward things that you espouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:55 PM
0

Ok, well I've seen it take place irl, to people I care about. I don't want to see other men get exploited the same way. It's a fundamentally faulty idea that ignores the gender imbalances of the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:06 PM
1

Your kids will never graduate high school, let alone employ my kids. It sounds like you have a lot of valid objections to modern society (I'm from TRP), but you seem to be responding in a reactionary, rather than an innovative way. I just wish I could be a fly on the wall when your eldest tells you that they're gay, that'll be hilarious. Reactionaries are such poorly adjusted weirdos, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:03 PM
0

Earning is irrelevant, housework is the duty of the woman in the relationship, regardless of who is/isn't employed, or how many hours each person works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:57 PM
1

"My children are happy, well adjusted and thriving." I don't believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:52 PM
3

Excellent point. Personally, I think we need to create a whole new society, divorced from the current feminist dystopia entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:48 PM
3

You're not OP. OP sounds like a rational dude who is taking himself out of the gene pool, which is bad because irrational people are going to outbreed rational people if this pattern proliferates. You, on the other hand, come off very strangely, and seem confused as to the intent of my comment. The fact that you do have kids is alarming. Filling the gene pool with more needlessly hostile, confused malcontents is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:46 PM
0

And yet you use examples from those communities as if they were unbiased. You need to examine your own biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:41 PM
1

You're comparing a 4 to a 9. They're not equal numbers, but I suppose they're both numbers. Was that your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:33 PM
2

The problem here is that you sound like a rational, competent problem solver and you're selecting yourself out of the gene pool. Do you want to live in Idiocracy? Because this is how you wind up with Idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:21 PM
1

By slutty gross chicks, yeah, all the time. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:18 PM
1

That's the point, exactly. If you let your chick step out, you're broadcasting to the world that you're the lowest possible value male, the cuckold. The results are disastrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:14 PM
1

And going to pro-poly subreddits to find pro-poly posts isn't confirmation bias? Some women have absolutely no self awareness, and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:25 PM
2

Guys who look like porn stars and have good looks and status don't have to put up with a woman who bangs other guys. So you're left with swingers and cucks, and if you know anything about swingers, the dudes are mostly just cucks. So you're left with the fact that the only dudes who are cool with their old lady getting banged out by other dudes, are literal cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:23 PM
1

Not every woman can get with Chads. Especially women who are currently entangled with some beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:19 PM
2

They still look like a chinfull of pubes. I don't care how many excuses you make, it LOOKS disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:17 PM
3

Lol, no they're not. At least not as often as they're getting cucked and having to watch their partner step out with every disgusting greasy dude who comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:18 PM
1

Actually it has more to do with the main BP mod changing the post tags on RP posts willy-nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:16 PM
2

Going to have to disagree with OP here, and say that 100% of open relationships don't work. The only ones that continue to operate "consensually" are those wherein the guy has had his self esteem so thoroughly blasted to pieces that he just continues to go along because he has zero self respect or because she has him by the balls financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:13 PM
1

So now it's on me to read the mod's future mind, rather than just making comments in good faith based on the flair that currently exists. Great system!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:08 PM
1

I don't like the rules to be changed after the fact. If someone else mislabels their OP, my comments on a post marked discussion shouldn't be getting deleted later down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:02 PM
15

Do not engage in oneitis. Recognize that women and men think differently, and learn to exploit the differences. It's a numbers game, you'll get better with practice. Marriage is a bear trap designed to ensnare unwary men. These hoes ain't loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:57 PM
1

Yeah, but when the OP tags it as "discussion" and someone agrees with the post, and then a mod comes in and forcibly changes it to CMV, that same mod should NOT then go back and delete agreeing comments that preceded the change to CMV. Mrs Degree is known to do that, and it's garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:49 PM
3

Sorry, no such thing. Shaving shows effort, not shaving shows a lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:01 AM
3

Damn, I didn't know how defensive people would get when I said that fat guys with beards are gross. It's not the current style brother, it looks unkempt and lazy. If you want to look like a fat hipster from ten years ago, nobody's going to stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:00 AM
1

My point exactly. TRP is the majority, but the mods are on team BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:56 PM
2

Husky bearded guys aren't more masculine than skinny clean shaven guys. Not sure where the trope of "not taking care of yourself is masculine" came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:53 PM
0

Exactly. Some men are low-T eunuchs, and there's nothing wrong with that. You do you, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:19 PM
-1

Look at the evidence, all the comments on every post with the most upvotes are RPers, while all the deleted comments are under BP comments. It's obvious the mods (and when I say this I really just mean the most active mod) are totally biased against TRP and our rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:16 PM
18

I don't know what reality these chicks are living in where they think this has ever happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:01 PM
2

Yes, KS pushed back against the tide of misandry and made the world a better place for men everywhere. The whole world owes him a debt of gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:53 AM
1

What are the problems you think need to be changed with masculinity, and how do they relate to my comment or OP? We were discussing women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:23 PM
2

Apparently his rhetoric hit a little too close to home for some, but the man was a genius and an inspiration to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:04 PM
5

So were JFK and Andy Warhol. Are you dancing on their graves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:00 PM
2

Most feminists claim it's a struggle for equality, but I agree, it's pretty transparent that it's about female supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:59 PM
4

I'm an advocate for gender equality. MRAs call me a feminist, feminists call me an MRA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:54 PM
3

I agree completely. I was raised in a feminist environment, so this is what I expected when I entered the dating pool. I was horrified to find out that while the traditional gender role for women had been transformed by feminism, the traditional gender role of men was still the norm, and was in fact being enforced by the very same feminists who claimed to want equality and an abolition if gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:50 PM
-1

BPers are definitely in control of this sub's moderation. It's getting hard to have a convo here with all the RP comments being censored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:40 PM
1

This is a truly sad day. KS was a hero. I think Orwell said it best: In times of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:53 PM
0

A lot of women who do sex work fake it. Guys don't know or care if a woman's arousal is legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:39 PM
1

VR goggles are in most homes already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:22 PM
3

That's totally accurate in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:30 AM
2

Gen Z gals will have implants that allow us to give them tingles at the press of a button. Older models will be considered obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:27 AM
6

I've seen deadbedrooms enough to realize that every situation described there could be summarized as women seeking justifications for female frigidity. Not a good argument for breaking off a functional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:15 PM
0

Showing excessive skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:05 PM
1

Eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:04 PM
8

Breaking off a successful relationship for an opportunity at something "better" is absolutely not normal, it's hypergamous and destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:55 PM
1

I'm telling you all this so that you know you're being manipulated and lied to by your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:53 PM
4

Even though men are 3 times more likely to be the victim of a violent crime, we're forced to accept the narrative that "women are fundamentally at risk"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:50 PM
16

Hypergamy is subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:30 PM
1

You should try to see things from a male perspective. No guy wants to get sloppy seconds from a girl who just had a train run on her. The idea of putting his penis into a vagina that has no elasticity left is physically revolting to most men. Sorry if this hits too close to home, but this is a universal male perspective, guys don't want used products, especially not heavily used products or products they have to share. Guys are possessive, this is why they slut shame. If you found a pathetic dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:16 PM
1

I never said I call women names when rejected. You said men call you names when you reject them, and I asked if you'd ever bothered to consider the veracity of the terms used to insult you. The reason they seem to offend you so much, I think, is because they hit a little too close to home. Next time a man calls you a bitch or a cunt, you should sincerely consider whether or not your recent behavior warrants it. Your behavior in this thread has convinced me that your accusers have been right on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:11 PM
1

Sounds like a broken record. Most women resort to this when confronted, due to the lack of reasoning skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:00 PM
1

You sound defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:00 AM
0

Perhaps it was done in a bitch-like fashion. Try working on letting people down easily, and perhaps your next rejection will go more smoothly. Or you can just convince yourself that you're always right and never reflect on your behavior or self-improve, hope that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:58 AM
1

Calling people losers for pointing out your faults is just childish name calling. Could you be more of a hypocrite if you tried? Maybe instead of jumping to childish insults the next time someone gives you a good faith critique, you should try self-reflection. Unfortunately this thread has demonstrated that you're almost totally incapable of self-reflection. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:56 AM
1

You're simply incorrect, and promoting abuse. I could say there are plenty of battered women who are perfectly happy being abused, and that's why they stay in relationships with their abusers. It's a lie, but I could say it. The men you're referring to are being damaged and traumatized, it's not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:52 AM
1

No need to get emotional, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:51 AM
1

We're not entirely logical, you're right. At least not yet. We're clearly evolving quickly in that direction though. The inability of women to consciously reject emotionality are holding us back as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:47 AM
1

Calling a man a loser, a jerk or an asshole is not a form of severe criticism. It comes from a place of insecurity and a bruised ego. It makes u a petty bitch. U are not entitled to any man's time or response. Get over yourself. U are not the main character and or as important as u claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:45 AM
-1

You're making a lot of claims, but not presenting any evidence. I know that this is typical for women, but I think it should be highlighted in this case so that you can attempt to self-reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:43 AM
1

What hurts men is being naturally logical in a society that condones and embraces emotionality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:01 AM
0

Let me Google that for you. Here's the #1 response: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Two-spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:13 AM
2

I'm 2S.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:09 AM
0

The idea that emotions should always be expressed and never be suppressed is very gynocentric. Have you ever stopped to consider that emotionality in general is a waste of time and energy which is entirely unproductive and illogical. It's a vestigial neurological defect, that should have less influence over decision making in human society, not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:08 AM
2

No, just trying to get you to stop promoting a common and harmful homophobic stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:52 PM
0

The dude was as completely exonerated as a guy can be. Mia Farrow was pretty obviously psychologically abusive to him and to her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:40 PM
-1

Our legitimate criticisms of uncouth female behavior do not come from a place of emotional vulnerability, but a sincere but misguided attempt to encourage women to self-improve. Most men don't yet recognize that self-improvement is a skill women are incapable of, because it requires accountability and a sense of guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:35 PM
0

Struck a nerve? No need to get so upset ma'am. Food for thought, next time you're typing a generalization that includes "you peoples" stop and reconsider if you're being bigoted, because you probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:32 PM
0

It's not on us to disprove your bigoted stereotypes. Seek help elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:28 PM
5

Kind of suspicious to extrapolate an assumption like "most gay men just want sex" from your 1 gay friend. Sounds more like you're intentionally propagating homophobic stereotypes. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:07 PM
1

Yes! The stereotype is that bi men are secretly gay, and that bi women are secretly straight. Women avoid bi guys like the plague, once they find out. They also make no apologies for their bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:03 PM
7

Why would a cute, good looking nun have zero sex appeal? Seems like more of a personal hang-up than a general rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:58 PM
1

Yeah, and they're not getting talked into open relationships by women that want to sleep around, high value men can easily find a loyal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:31 PM
0

Most people don't mind having a conversation in a grocery store, so it's totally reasonable and rational to initiate one. What's weird is arbitrarily deciding that some public venues are 'non-social'. Sounds like you need to hire a grocery delivery service, or get less sensitive about interacting with strangers when you go out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:06 PM
1

Any man who claims to want one doesn't understand the nature of SMV. Taking advantage of his ignorance is also a glaring red flag of an abusive mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:00 PM
0

Sorry, but public bars and restaurants are absolutely social venues. If you choose to work in a face-to-face customer service venue, don't be surprised when you get lots of random interactions with the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:58 PM
0

Because shaming people for being in or pursuing a disparate age relationship is bigotry. Romance happens between people of all demographics, and attempting to shame men for flirting with women outside their race, religious or age group is bigotry on the level of anti-miscegenation laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:45 PM
1

Our dicks are very logical, and they make very consistent decisions. They always want to spread our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:33 PM
1

Because it's substantially easier for women to step out for no strings attached sex than it is for a man. Open relationships, or demand for them, is a type of psychological abuse used to gaslight men. Telling him "You can go cheat too, if you want" even when you know it's not true, is gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:21 PM
0

Have you considered the possibility that he may have been right? Sincere self-reflection is a vital step on becoming less emotionally fragile, responding to criticism with blanket denial will stymie your personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:16 PM
-1

Guys are more comfortable saying 'horrible' things to women because we often underestimate how emotionally fragile they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:24 PM
1

This just isn't true. While some variety exists in preferences, there are universal standards of female beauty that go back millennia. Chubby chasers and other deviants are actually exceptionally rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:21 PM
2

"Ethical non-monogamy" is not a thing. It's abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:02 PM
1

It's because guys don't realize they're making a mistake until the second after they bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:44 PM
1

There are more deadbeat dads because the mother almost always gets primary custody, because courts assume that the mother is the primary caregiver. It's easier for a mother with primary custody to alienate a father and ruin their relationship with their child to the point where the father will feel helpless enough to go deadbeat. If primary custody defaulted to fathers, you would see that deadbeat mothers would quickly become the stereotype, rather than fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:30 PM
1

If you're hooking up in a way that can cause a pregnancy, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:54 AM
4

You could gasp NOT just assume that the woman will be the primary caregiver. Sounds crazy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:22 AM
0

As little as possible. Women aren't talented conversationalists, they mostly act as attention whores in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:16 AM
4

Please explain how Red Pill theories fail to explain queer relationship dynamics, I'll wait for you to finish whatever woodworking project you're busy with, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:53 AM
4

Not sure who you're quoting, but if you're criticizing me for not swooning over Hollywood's latest diversity hire, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:10 PM
4

Zendaya is the ugliest actress to ever portray MJW. She doesn't even have red hair. 2/10 tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:59 PM
3

Queer Red Piller here, just popping in to tell you you're completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:31 PM
1

Yes. Any time that children have to watch their biological parents break up, and then spend the rest of their childhood being shunted between two separate households, it's extremely psychologically damaging for them. It doesn't matter which parent initiates it, it's wrong and it's abusive to the children. Statistics back up the fact that these kids will now be less likely to lead normal fulfilling lives. Your insistence that the kids will "be fine" isn't really supported by any evidence, the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:09 PM
1

Most couples are choosing to remain unmarried because the ritual is meaningless under a regime that grants no-fault divorces, taking vows that aren't legally binding is an exercise in futility. That being said, their children are 5 times more likely to suffer from mental illness by being raised in a household where their biological parents are no longer together. Make excuses for her behavior all you want, the effect of this on their kids will still be devastating: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:16 PM
0

Only idiots complain that women never make the 1st move. That's not women's place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:32 PM
0

A woman that's willing to put herself out there like that once, is probably willing to do so more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:56 PM
1

That's why I never invite a woman to a 1st date in a poorly lit back alley.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:22 PM
1

Tell me you've never heard of sex workers without telling me you've never heard of sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:01 PM
1

The n-counts on such women are unacceptably high.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:51 PM
0

You're literally wasting their time and leading them on at that point. Very rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:49 PM
7

This is exactly. Now her kids get to be shuffled between two households and have substantially reduced prospects for a happy and well adjusted adulthood, due to being raised in a broken home. All because she chose to monkey branch to some guy that'll pump and dump her. This is a real tragedy, I hope the kids hold her accountable when they grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:36 PM
1

And when her children are in school, she's on the couch eating bon-bons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:15 PM
1

You must not know many stay at home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:43 PM
1

My brothers married mean fat bitches who control their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:28 AM
2

Mostly snacking and watching daytime television.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:03 AM
1

They don't think logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:26 AM
1

This only happens with ugly women. I've never ghosted a ONS unless I was slumming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:57 PM
0

Pro tip: Women lie about their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:19 PM
1

You literally came to this thread to argue with OP about whether dating someone you don't have feelings for is leading them on, and you're worried I have too much time on my hands? You're the one who needs to get a life, and lock someone down quick, because you're getting closer to that wall every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:57 PM
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Women aren't actually disgusted by men who employ sex workers. They're jealous and fearful that the only service that they provide is being undercut by someone who doesn't request full room and board in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:57 PM
1

I don't really care about your excuses or justifications for leading people on. If you're aware of the fact that women and men have different modes of attraction, then you should be more willing to accept a male perspective. Going on multiple dates with someone you aren't attracted to is the definition of leading someone on. Having a vagina doesn't make this socially acceptable, but it does mean that fewer people will be willing to judge you for it out loud and to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:54 PM
1

If you weren't attracted to them, you never would have gone on the 1st date. You act like you're making plans with these guys without ever looking at their profiles. The leading on part really comes into play on the 2nd date though. Going on a 2nd date with someone you didn't like initially seems extremely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:39 PM
1

Being attracted to someone is a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:02 PM
1

Yeah. Why would you go out with someone you felt nothing toward? That's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:43 AM
1

Absolutely not. Less, way less. Guys can fuck virtually any women, as long as she's not disgustingly ugly. But hate fucks are the worst and least desirable. Madonna/Whore complex is very rare. Most men are turned on by cooperative, subservient women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:41 PM
2

I've never liked women that were rude and didn't make good partners. I've fucked them, but never liked them, and would never even consider living with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:48 PM
5

So you want men to desire you, but not for your desirable qualities? Instead of appreciating you for your desirable qualities, you want them to be attracted to some indescribable "you" factor? You realize that we all have consciousness, right? It's your personality traits that distinguish you from others, not the simple fact that you have a unique perspective, everyone has a unique perspective, it's not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:08 PM
1

You should not be dating anyone you don't have feelings for. That is the very definition of leading someone on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:57 PM
1

TL;DR: She's leading men on to "have a good time"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:35 PM
0

No, I don't. I would never get one, they're all ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:16 AM
1

Yeah, selecting for the appearance of prepubescent qualities is exactly what neoteny is. Learn some basic science and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:01 AM
1

You should really look into neoteny. I'm far from the only man with a preference for women with a youthful appearance. In fact, male neoteny pressure has been the driving force behind human evolution for millions of years. It's why we're less hairy as a species than all the other primates. If you think you're going to personally turn that tide by being obstinate and living in denial, good luck to you, but you're an insignificant aberration on the evolutionary scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:33 AM
1

That's not how neoteny pressure in humans works. It's caused by male selection, not females. That's why males are severely turned off by female body hair, and not vise-versa. Females and males are attracted to and disgusted by different characteristics, are you new to this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:46 AM
1

Body hair is disgusting to all men, except for an extremely minute number of fetishists. I understand that women don't feel the same way, but you're trying to universalize your perspective to a demographic that you do not belong to. Not sure why you keep bringing up shaving, as I've acknowledged repeatedly that shaving is a lazy tactic used by women who are unserious about eliminating vestigial body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:35 PM
1

Laser hair removal only costs a couple hundred bucks, which will save women who actually practice good hygiene a ton of money in the long run since they'll no longer need to buy waxing treatment or razors. As for the risks, they're not serious. Most common risk is skin lightening, which really only effects people who fail to avoid sun exposure after the treatment. The primary advantages are no longer looking and smelling disgusting to those around you, though I understand that you apparently bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:37 AM
1

Shaving is for lazy dirty people, I never suggested it. Lasers are the only medically approved permanent cure for vestigial body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:58 PM
1

We had hair to allow us to survive the climate in the savannah where we evolved. Now that the coat has been invented, body hair is obsolete. That's why our species has been evolving toward less body hair for millions of years. Your disgusting and lazy attitude toward body upkeep will only hurt you, you're not going to reverse the direction of evolution, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:26 PM
1

Leaving unsightly growths in your body crevices is the opposite of hygienic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:18 PM
1

Men are disturbed by hairy women. Fix the problem, or give up on high status men for good. Though I'm guessing you gave up on that a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:30 PM
1

It's a few hundred bucks to never have to worry about unsightly body hair ever again, but you would prefer to remain unsightly and continue disgusting people. It's beyond laziness, it's self-degradation at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:27 PM
1

They invented lasers like 50 years ago. You should learn about them. It's probably too late for you, but you can tell a girl who hasn't given up on herself yet about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:51 AM
1

You don't look like a woman. Stop lying to yourself. You just described a hairy person who also happens to be fat, neither of those traits are womanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:48 AM
0

Really sick of women complaining about the difficulty of body hair removal. That's because you're doing it the lazy and impermanent way, with waxes and razors. Make an appointment for laser hair removal already, and fix the problem for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:16 AM
2

Damn, I thought you were proposing Dine-and-Dash dating, which should be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:11 AM
2

Will Smith is a closeted gay Scientologist just like Travolta and Cruise. The "alpha male" persona that the Church tries and fails to project upon these sissies couldn't be more obvious. Straight men don't get into slap fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:08 AM
1

That's because I can read AND write. You'll get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:00 AM
2

Yes, and all women lie. My ex-gf Stephany claimed that her number was "6". Then we visited her home town, went to a few parties with her childhood friends. We kept meeting guys that she would say beforehand "just so you know, before you meet this guy, we fucked once" I would respond "He's one of the 6?" and she would say offhand "Oh no, I didn't even count him" we met at least 2-3 of these "didn't count" guys that weekend, I dumped her lying skank ass the next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:50 PM
1

Do you think you sound smart by naming two comedians? You can't even spell "quit"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:40 AM
2

So true. Before I discovered the advantages of sex workers, I actually put myself through the torture of dating modern women. Not only was the dating pool full of fat ugly sows, but you were stuck having sex with the same one for months at a time! The worst part was that they'd drone on and on for hours about their inane problems and emotions, and expect you to pay attention, it was mentally exhausting. Once I discovered sex work, and found out I could fuck substantially younger, prettier girls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:03 AM
7

Don't ask her for logic, she's used to talking to cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:54 AM
3

We don't want any of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:21 AM
0

Wow, way to repurpose my own jokes against me. Very creative/original. 5 stars!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:05 AM
0

TL;DR. If you haven't noticed, I'm just having fun pointing out how pathetic you are. That's not enough motivation for me to read any large walls of text. Keep it concise if you actually want your responses to be read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:29 PM
0

Americans, for the most part, do not make good friends or romantic partners. Too self-centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:06 AM
1

I stay away from blue waffles and entitled skanks, I've learned my lesson. Hopefully this dude is smart enough to figure it out before he knocks you up, but you might have stumbled upon one dumb enough for you to trap. Congrats, I guess, it's the best you can realistically expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:07 PM
1

Gross. Nobody wants to see your blue waffle. Hopefully you're able to lock him down before he realizes you're a classless skank, but he's gonna need to be pretty clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:39 PM
1

Well I certainly have proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:21 PM
7

Confidence and sociability are not the cornerstones of a good character. Empathy and humility are. These are qualities that tend to be underdeveloped in people who have had easy lives. While people who have grown up attractive and who have been treated well may tend to be more outwardly charismatic, they lack the depth of character present in those who have triumphed over adversity. There's really no comparison IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:45 PM
1

Nah, I'm not a cat guy. But please, tell us more about how you're still perfectly ladylike, while discussing your genitalia with men you don't know online. Stay "classy"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:40 PM
4

Good looking people have worse personalities, because they've had everything handed to them. Worse looking people actually develop a character by having to struggle in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:59 PM
5

Looks. There are virtually zero people with decent personalities, at least here in the states. Our culture normalizes narcissism. Not many good looking people here either, too many fatties, but the entitled narcissism is far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:55 PM
1

TMI. Regardless, you've made it clear in this post that you're not #1 anymore, which indicates that you've been sullying yourself in some form or another. Keep telling yourself that it doesn't devalue you though. You can tell all your cats about it in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:51 PM
1

They're not so bad when they're being quiet. The rest is a waste of time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:35 PM
5

All women are annoying af. Find me a chick that keeps her emotions to herself, and then I'll believe that "someone decent" is a realistic goal when dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:25 PM
1

This, porn has triggered the next stage of human evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:18 PM
6

His ancestors were a tribe of cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:14 PM
10

Yes, I've also known guys with gross wives. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:12 PM
7

You don't pay for the sex. You pay for her to leave afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:10 PM
7

You're confusing cause and effect. The increase in porn use is a result of the decreased availability of desirable real life partners, not vise-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:04 PM
1

You're right, of course. I'm just trying to show her what kind of people are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:09 PM
1

I'm primarily seeking a bang-maid style situation. They describe it pretty accurately in this clip from IASIP: https://youtu.be/yGpQeWHE89A
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:14 PM
-2

I agree with all of that, but I still like my sex workers in-person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:56 AM
1

Keep telling yourself that, but you're used goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:04 AM
1

Gosh, hitting that wall must have really hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:46 AM
1

I think you were better off when you were #1. Sorry if I didn't confirm your bias like all the white knights in here, but that ho shit ain't cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:49 PM
1

Your OP contained more effort than any of my responses. If you want to act aloof, don't be such a blatant tryhard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:39 PM
1

My answer was one sentence. If you think that's deep, you might be ready for your first book.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:41 PM
1

If you don't want answers, don't post questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:35 PM
1

Then die alone (cats don't count)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:39 PM
4

ITT: Women who never leave their ho phase attempting to shame men for never leaving their bro phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:21 AM
1

The aggressive and crafty 5/10s who outsmarted you by getting a quality man early before they hit the wall. Your jealousy toward them is oozing out from between the lines of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:54 AM
1

Are you a boomer? It's been like this for a long time. It's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:52 AM
4

She's doing it right, you're doing it wrong. Stop being a hater and take a page out of her book.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:46 AM
1

This is a completely ignorant statement. Have you not dated for the last 20 years? Virtually all girls fuck the night you pick them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:34 AM
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It's known in Red Pill circle as "The Pussy Cartel". Women don't want their SMV undercut by cheaper and higher quality foreign competition. These chicks are like the American automakers were in the 80s and 90s, convinced that if they keep churning out hulking monstrosities, Americans would keep buying them because they had no choice. Turns out Americans had a choice, and they started importing smaller, more efficient foreign models. Now the American auto industry has all but disappeared. The sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:46 PM
1

Biden did it on the campaign trail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:39 PM
2

Nomad Capitalist is also trying to sell you shit, just like the Red Pillers, but your overall point is well taken and the policy of "go where you're treated best" definitely applies in the romantic game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:11 PM
2

It's because she wanted you to seal the deal last night, but you bungles it with your played out "can I have your #" schtick. Sack up and close the deal next time. The bar scene is just for one night stands these days, and you blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:07 PM
1

Something that is common is completely normal, please inform yourself on basic English, because the examples you use demonstrate that you lack a firm grasp of the language. Incontinence after pregnancy is so normal that doctors have procedures and practices ready and waiting to treat this perfectly normal condition. The fact that you consider a common condition suffered by many as "abnormal" seems to indicate some level of underlying body dysmorphia. As you admit, masturbation is normal and natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:27 PM
1

Girls tend not to approach strange men socially, but it certainly happens. They have the advantage that they usually won't get an over-the-top rude response, which is quite common from women approached by male strangers in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:14 PM
1

Thanks for the clarification, I was totally ignorant of these complications from the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:04 PM
1

If the vast majority of people engage in an activity, it is normal. If this activity appeals to most healthy and normal people, regardless of culture and upbringing, it is natural. If there are a few rare outliers who abstain from an otherwise common and healthy activity, and it causes them to have maladaptive social practices wherein they're unable to accept the vast majority of people who act normally, those people are sick and should seek out counseling so that they can integrate themselves i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:01 PM
1

Serious question that's always troubled me, why do women need more emotional support after an abortion than they do after a similar medical procedure like a DNC? The last time I had an unwanted growth removed, I didn't cry about it for weeks thereafter. Assuming most women who get them are pro-choice, and they don't see the fetus as a person, why the emotionality? I'm pro-choice, btw, this is a sincere question, not a pro-life troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:34 PM
1

You're not alone. You're probably aromantic. It's like being asexual, but rather than an absence of sexual desire, you have an absence of romantic desire. Luckily there are a lot of ways in which you can attain sexual gratification outside the boundaries of a romantic relationship, but unfortunately society and culture remains primarily geared toward those who desire romance as an aspect of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:26 PM
1

Use of porn is absolutely natural and normal, that's why the vast majority of the populace, women included, enjoy watching it. You have a rare and unusual personal hang-up about it, for which you should seek counseling. It is not normal to be so strongly opposed to normal aspects of everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:06 PM
1

TL;DR: Some men have been rude to me in the past, so that justifies me being rude to completely innocent men in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:01 PM
1

If a man could "participate in real life" 5-10 per week, he would. If not, he still needs to relieve himself, and using a visual aid to expedite the process is logical, natural and normal. The fact that you have a personal hang up that causes you to be repulsed by a fundamental aspect of male sexuality is bizarre and abnormal. Seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:00 PM
1

Only idiots pay for OF subs when there is ample free porn available. I'll save my money for an irl hooker, tyvm. The idea that OF or porn is somehow a substitute for sex is also hilarious, women have no concept of male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:11 AM
1

Legalize prostitution. Virtually eliminates inceldom overnight, while simultaneously introducing a lot more competition for the attention of less than attractive men. Low status women would immediately have to bring something to the table other than a fupa and the willingness to starfish. Legalize prostitution and the sexual marketplace would rebalance itself almost instantaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:33 AM
2

Damn, I've been to a lot of clubs, and they've all had a VIP. That really sucks bro. Where do you go for a private lap dance? That's usually your 1st step for negotiating extras. Just to provide some context, I've had full blown coitus with strippers in VIP before, so this concept that you can't touch strippers is definitely false in most club environments. For $200-$300 you can pretty much do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:22 AM
3

You are making that up. The entire purpose of strip clubs is to entice guys into the VIP section and then sell them extras (sex acts). You're a windowshopper if all you're doing is hanging out by the main stage, you're missing the whole point of the club. Anything goes in VIP, if you've got the cash to pay for it. Your comments to the contrary are just displaying your ignorance of VIP dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:12 AM
0

It totally worked for him though, she gave him the #
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:02 AM
3

I mean, completely ignoring somebody who you know is trying to talk to you is very rude. Politely ask to be left alone, sure, but pretending a person is invisible is extremely demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:57 AM
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Are you autistic or something? I'm telling you that only broke dudes are prevented from getting handsy at the club. It's like you're wearing a neon sign that says "Never been in the VIP section" The entire premise of your OP is built upon the false assumption that men can't grope female strippers. I'm telling you that they can and do, they just have to know the process and demonstrate some common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:45 AM
1

You've never gotten extras in the club? You poor bastard, you have no idea why strip clubs even exist. Maybe next time the stripper tells you that you can't grope her, flash some cash. Most of them will change their minds immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:54 AM
1

Porn expedites the process, so it's more efficient and less time consuming. That's why every guy watches porn. Even the ones who are in relationships. Even the ones who tell you they don't. They're humoring you because you have unrealistic expectations. Every man and most women enjoy pornography, you have a personal hang-up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:51 AM
2

This one really shows that women have no concept of male sexuality. Try not peeing for a few days and then tell me that the expulsion of built up bodily fluids isn't a physical necessity. Double dare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:28 AM
1

Have you ever watched a video of childbirth? Not your kid or a family member, just a video of a baby being born. So fucking gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:01 AM
1

Lady #1 for sure. She sounds awesome. Not sure why anyone would take Lady #2, she sounds controlling and judgemental with the whole tattoo thing, and her willingness to disrespect herself in the bedroom is not the selling point you seem to think it is OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:41 AM
6

The situations you describe warrant less than a 2 second glance. If a man is looking at you for more than 2 seconds, he's either attracted to you or your hair is on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:18 PM
13

Exactly, but guys won't do it unless they have some ulterior motives, even if that motive is just to practice their social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:42 PM
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No. It's not narcissistic for women to realize that anyone of the opposite sex that looks at them for more than 2 seconds has a motivation for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:40 PM
1

My male employees are satisfied with their income as their primary motivation for working productively. Employees that require additional motivation to be productive are the ones who make managers' lives difficult. As for your assertion that men are less emotionally controlled than women, I'm curious what metric you are using to gauge that perception? Since it's been established that men spend less time off-task for emotional reasons than women do. Infrequent severe outbursts are easier to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:31 PM
1

I would prefer less passionate employees. It's not life and death, there's really no excuse to get feelings involved. I want people to come in and be productive without disturbing other people's productivity. Employees that are excessively passionate about their work are also more prone to burnout, which makes them unreliable. Honestly, from the standpoint of a manager, a totally emotionless automaton would be ideal. This is why men are preferable, because 99.9% they perform as if they were emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:04 PM
1

Like I said 12 hours ago, my goal is zero outbursts of NEGATIVE emotionality. While there really is no room for feelings in a field where only results matter, it's only the expression of negative emotions in the workplace that really becomes problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:33 PM
1

I think you're attempting to universalize your own personal preferences. Many employees, mostly men IMHO, find an environment where emotionality is discouraged to be far more conducive to productivity. Being subjected to other people's emotions nonconsensually in the workplace is actually a major driver of workplace dissatisfaction for those seeking to optimize throughput and maximize efficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:06 PM
1

Yes, all workers have emotions. They also have anuses. I would prefer that they conceal both from public view during business hours. To clarify, employee weeping isn't so much a problem in itself, it's the distraction it causes to others that is counterproductive. People feel compelled to console them, even people who are not currently taking a scheduled break. It is unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:52 PM
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Disagreement is not an emotion, it is the state of two people drawing different conclusions to the same set of facts. Being upset by a disagreement, that would be an emotion, and that would be unprofessional. The workplace is no place for emotions. And no, I don't think my business is responsible for two months of random crying fits when an employees' "favorite kitty" dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:40 PM
1

As an employer, I'm looking for zero expressions of negative emotionality in the workspaces I manage. Daily swings actually cause more time off task and less reliable productivity than occasional serious outbursts. I wish it was as easy to fire a woman for crying in the breakroom everyday as it is to fire a guy for breaking some office equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:04 PM
1

That's why there's so few single moms with baby daddies who are deadbeat losers. Such a rare archetype, because women are so wise and calculating in their choices of mate./s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:41 AM
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Higher day to day range is what we're talking about. Women are permitted to express themselves emotionally in the workplace, whereas outbursts by men tend to be punished as inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:07 AM
6

Soon? This has been the status quo for over a decade.
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