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Using power and influence over a person to coerce consent is textbook sexual assault. Consent in such situations is considered non valid.
/r/MensRights13/03/20 04:00 PM
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I'm 5'6/7 and a picture of me playing and singing gets me attention.
/r/seduction02/04/18 03:57 PM
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At my age, that kinda thing doesn't happen anymore. Hell, I hooked up with a 43 year old a while ago. After a certain point, age doesn't matter. Sorry that I can't really help you more there.
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:03 PM
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Hit the gym, and grow some facial hair. You may hate looking young now, but it'll be a blessing in a few years. I recently turned 30, but I don't look more than 25, and that's with facial hair. However, hitting the gym can help if you have some baby fat on your face, helping to bring out some of the angles of the facial bone structure.
/r/seduction12/07/17 04:40 PM
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Wow. Thanks. I don't know if I'm an angel, I just know the situation this poor guy is in, cause I was there.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:46 AM
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Well then there's your priority. Good luck regardless.
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:20 AM
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That's double what I made at your age.. That's more than enough to join a baseball team, or a floor hockey league or buy a drink where they have open jams.
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:16 AM
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You need to stand up for yourself then. It's your money, you're adult, you have the right to decide how you spend your​money
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:07 AM
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Never too late to change. And yea, if you're making money, join a team. If not, go to open jam nights which will be free and have a good crowd of people. Find people with similar music taste and talk about music and then just hang out.
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:04 AM
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Go join a team and invite people out for a beer after the game. The biggest thing is to try. Put yourself out there and make friends ​with strangers.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:54 AM
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Assuming you're in the US, you can't drink yet legally. Try finding a common interest. Maybe see if they want to hang out and watch an NHL playoff game, or something like that. Or try going for another activity where you can invite multiple​ people - such as bowling, golf or whatever you enjoy.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:48 AM
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You're 20. Trust me. Get out there. Go join a sports team and/or go to an open jam night. Try to talk to others and invite them. Don't be passive and expect others to invite you to stuff. Invite them first. Be proactive.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:32 AM
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You're 20? Jesus. I turn 30 this year.. When I was your age I had no girls either. I worked on myself though. I found and developed a life I love and found a great group of friends. And the women have come. Because I'm confident now
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:29 AM
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Find a passion. Join sports groups or form a band. Make friends. Women will come. Develop a love for life, and your confidence will rise
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:25 AM
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It's not about your success with women. That's only a small part. It's not a quick fix.. You could try self-esteem development classes or therapy, but on top, you simply need to find a reason to be. Do you have a passion? An interest? Something you absolutely live for? If not, find it. Putting all your self-worth into others will always let you down.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:18 AM
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You need to develop real confidence. It's not an easy thing to do. But real confidence isn't douchey or cocky. Real confidence is a quiet assurance. A belief in yourself, a belief that - despite your flaws - you have all the tools you need.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:12 AM
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Your lack of confidence is what drives people away. You need to work on your self-esteem. That WILL help.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:01 AM
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A lot of it is contextual. Conversions are much, much easier to start with context, and even easier still if you're sharing an experience with someone. The grocery line example above is very good for showing context and a shared experience. The experience doesn't have to be out of the ordinary either. So a list of openers isn't going to be helpful.
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:07 AM
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That happened to me before. I was furious, not that she was fat, but that she lied to me, by omission.
/r/seduction07/05/16 05:15 AM
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Fair enough, I just didn't like how you put that at the beginning.
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:27 PM
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While I agree with your overall statement about working out, I disagree that you should never be comfortable with your body. You absolutely must be comfortable with what you have NOW to be able to accept your features and your flaws. If you're unable to accept that, working out will be a waste because you're not doing it because you want to, and you'll give up in time. And if you're never comfortable, you're never fully accepting yourself. Without that, you'll never have true confidence, just a …
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:10 PM
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Interesting thing I noticed is that while the article says women have different opinions on what is sexy, it then calls Emma Stone average and puts Eva Mendes above, ignoring the fact that men also have opinions. Personally, I'll take Emma over Eva every single time.
/r/seduction21/12/15 05:25 PM
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You think what you want man. I definitely don't have a Brad Pitt face, I'm not muscular, tall, rich or anything else. I have confidence, I take care of myself, I live my life for myself, and women are attracted to that. I wasn't always able to attract women, and I used to sleep with low quality women because it was easy. I changed my life because I was miserable and now, I have no problems.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:39 AM
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I can attract any type of girl I want. Obviously I still get rejected, but I don't care. My successes more than make up for my failures.
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:15 PM
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I'm 5'7, not muscular and honestly pretty average looking, but I can get girls
/r/seduction17/12/15 10:26 PM
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Link seems to be down at the moment.
/r/seduction15/12/15 06:33 PM
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After reading through your previous posts, man, you're killing it. Keep at it man, you got nothing to lose.
/r/seduction13/12/15 08:06 AM
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It's from No More Mr Nice Guy and is a common psychology question.
/r/seduction09/08/15 08:30 PM
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I have read the book through twice, and would be interested in seeing a thought out piece on it. Definitely interested.
/r/seduction04/08/15 03:39 PM
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First date for me is almost always coffee, and depending on weather, a walk, preferably by the riverfront nearby. Casual and a good way to get to know each other.
/r/seduction23/07/15 02:41 AM
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There's a difference between nice, attractive style, and corporate suit and tie style. I used to walk around with long hair that never looked clean, over sized clothing, and didn't care to take care of my appearance. I got tired of my long hair, and donated it. I lost weight and began wearing clothes that fit. My style didn't change much, I still dress like a rocker, but I look better now than I did before.
/r/seduction11/07/15 03:46 PM
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Yea, I didn't notice it all, but that I noticed was pretty much word for word.
/r/seduction08/07/15 04:37 AM
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I'm not sure if I missed it, but the entire first date thing is lifted word for word from Models.
/r/seduction08/07/15 12:59 AM
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Hey man, I just wanted to say, good job. I'm older than you and have always been extremely awkward in social situations, and I'm currently working to turn my life around. I had a really great woman a year ago, and she left me, and I'm still trying to put myself back together. Reading that other people have done it makes me feel a lot more confident that I can too.
/r/seduction29/06/15 06:25 PM
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I've been reading models lately, and your entire post basically summarized what I've read pretty well. Good post!
/r/seduction28/06/15 01:57 PM
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Yea, there were 2 late 30s ladies, and 2 ladies with their men. I actually wanted to learn to dance though, but the class time didn't fit my schedule
/r/seduction30/05/15 04:49 PM
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That's my point. A lot of people stick to these rules, but once you realize that girls just want someone they can enjoy being around, you realize you don't have to sit there and only ask questions. You can talk about yourself, make stupid jokes, and just be comfortable. They'll pick up on that and they will like it
/r/seduction30/05/15 04:14 PM
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Tried dance class... It was all older people, and women decades older than I am. Not giving up on the idea though. All depends on the class
/r/seduction30/05/15 06:00 AM
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I'll be honest, despite a lot of what I've read about seduction, I still talk more than the girl does. The thing is, it works for me because I will have girls laughing the whole time, and I automatically talk to girls as if I've always known them. It's just a part of who I am, and girls like that.
/r/seduction30/05/15 05:49 AM
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You're correct, however, I am the same as the OP. Don't like drinking, partying or clubs. But a glass of wine on a boat would be brilliant, and I don't even like wine.
/r/seduction11/05/15 11:25 AM
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Depends on location. I live in Canada, near the US border. POF separates people based on location and country, so I don't see Americans. Both Tindr and OkC are full of Americans, which makes it much harder to find anyone at all.
/r/seduction25/04/15 04:22 PM
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Oh man, the "I've never even touched a boob before" in a humorously false innocent tone might be good. Set up a nice silly banter, and don't reveal the truth.
/r/seduction29/03/15 04:57 AM
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Oh, I know exactly what you mean, but it gave me the drive to not get myself stuck like that ever again
/r/seduction24/10/14 03:38 AM
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It pushed me to improve myself because I didn't want it to happen again. I was always a friend before that, and she was the last girl I was interested in that I got friendzoned by. Ever since, I go for what I want
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:24 PM
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Eh, to be honest, sometimes being friends with a girl you want is a good thing. My best friend is a girl. When I met her, I wanted her. I was just coming out of a long term relationship, my confidence was low and my appearance was poor to say the least. I did try, but it was pathetic. Because of that rejection, I got motivated to be better. I opened up and became a more fun person. I started taking better care of myself and my appearance, and worked on my confidence. Now, it's been a few years. …
/r/seduction23/10/14 07:14 PM
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I disagree. It shows that you have the ability to work and commit to a goal. I've used it myself to great success. I went from over 200lbs, with long, nasty hair, a ragged, untrimmed beard and glasses, to 150, in pretty good shape, and short hair, nicely trimmed and styled beard and contacts.
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:40 PM
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The odd part I've found in my experience is it's the opposite. I haven't been with a huge number of women, but I was with one woman for over five years. Before that, I had only slept with two girls, and was not very good. Over the course of my relationship, I learned how to get a girl off and how to hold off my own orgasm for as long as I want. Since the end of that relationship, the women I have slept with have all benefited from the experience I gained from one woman. I learned far more from a…
/r/seduction22/08/14 06:28 AM
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In a general sense that's exactly what it is. As an artist your product is yourself and your art. But you have to know how to promote the product and sell it. I'm a musician, so that's the term that works best for me though.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:15 AM
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You could really say the same about many famous people. Rock stars like Nikki Sixx, Gene Simmons, Mick Jagger, actors like Tom Cruise, Jack Nicholson, etc. Being famous isn't just on skill or talent, you have to know how to sell yourself. And that's the connection I see. You need to be confident to sell yourself, no matter what. And when you're trying to get with a woman, you're selling yourself the same way as you would as an artist or actor.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:05 AM
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You just described my ex. 2 jobs and school. We clicked well, but eventually the lack of time was too much and we split.
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:08 AM
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Also proves the thought "you don't stick your dick in crazy"
/r/seduction19/05/14 02:52 PM
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I think you're misinterpreting how people mean alpha in your first part. Your second section is exactly how I've always seen the idea. It's not so much your activities, it's your personality. Girls don't want needy, desperate, clingy guys, and that's the definition of beta. The bootlickers that are always going out of their way to please, because "well I'm a nice guy, she should sleep with me because I'm so nice!" And really, it's not being nice. It's being manipulative. That's beta. Alpha is no…
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:23 PM
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