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shanebonanno/r/seduction12/09/18 12:47 AM
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Well you said that you like what he says during class discussion. Maybe play off that? I like it when a girl can recognize the value of what I have to say.
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:29 AM
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It's not a shit test. Best thing you can do here is be friendly about it and walk away. If anything, it'll show that you're a respectful person (which girls do in fact care about), and if she actually does have a boyfriend, it's really not worth the effort and pain involved. I would advise against based on personal experience.
/r/seduction09/11/18 05:56 AM
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Thank you for sharing man. I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said. While I enjoy the game and picking up on girls, (which for the first time in my life I feel I'm finally good at.) I think I'm going a little off the deep end in it, taking on unhealthy sexual relationships with women, often times just because I can.
/r/seduction12/09/18 01:26 AM
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Yes, direct approach after initial escalation.
/r/seduction05/09/18 02:39 AM
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This is an underrated pick up line
/r/seduction19/08/18 11:19 PM
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That's very sweet man. Don't listen to anyone here telling you that, "feelings are for her friends," or whatever. You like this girl, sounds like she probably likes you too. Most people in this sub are generally interested in the "fuck and chuck," category, but for your purposes, I'm sure she appreciated that you tried to make her feel a little better.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:16 AM
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Stop listening to their problems. Draw a line somewhere, because they have other forms of support for them. Determine your goal for this relationship and stick to it. If you don't want to be seen as a "pleaser" which I kinda think is what you're getting at, then don't be a pleaser. It's okay to tell girls no.
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you have a defeatist attitude.
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:48 AM
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Could you simply try to improve at "things?" I mean, you're making a huge generalization there, that probably isn't accurat. It's easy to look at other people and say, "Wow, they're good at everything," but really, you don't know the intricacies of their lives, or how hard they may have had to work to become good at "things." Bottom line, you're probably selling yourself short. Focus on the things you ARE good at, and use that to your advantage to expand your social circle.
/r/seduction11/08/18 07:36 AM
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Have you ever considered embracing the fact that you're an aspie? I'll expand: why not focus on other things besides girls for a bit and just expand your social circle. Learn to be okay with who you are, and people will pick up on that
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:02 AM
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Why not bigger, richer, and more attractive?
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:01 AM
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But what are you looking for? The relationship has to progress to talking in person at some point, don't you think?
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:43 PM
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Do the girls a favor and don't text them lol. Also leave your country please, for god's sake.
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:32 PM
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Uhhh, how does ghosting someone make you into them? I really don't follow the logic here.
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:58 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:38 PM
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The fact that she ghosted him? Idk man, it's all trial and error when you first start.
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:26 PM
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Be honest, explain that you're trying to get out of your shell now.
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:36 PM
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I won't give you a canned question/response, but it should be something that still keeps a bit of mystery. That example of "when was your first kiss?" works well because it's not going to come across as low brow, and most people have a story about their first kiss. Kind of cute to ask even. I'd say an improvement would be to ask them to tell you the story of how they had their first kiss, as it forces them to give you more than just an age. They have to tell you the whole thing, which should spa…
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:14 AM
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This is a little bit desperate man. It's cool if a girl doesn't like you so just let it go. We can't win every battle man.
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:03 AM
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Depends on the girl. As long as you aren't thirsty about it, I think you'll be fine to shoot her a text at least to see what her plans for the weekend are or something. I wouldn't linger with small talk though.
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:02 AM
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