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They obviously raised you to be kind of a cuck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 06:01 PM
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Exactly. No one cares what you think women should do. idk, people keep asking. If people would stop replying to me I'd stop answering them. My fiancé makes more than I make and lives extremely frugally. I don't care about your numale lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 05:59 PM
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Oh look, it's another 'mid-20's ethnic minority incel asking for advice on how to fug a white girl' post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:04 PM
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Women get confused here a lot. Men are perfectly in touch with their emotions, they're just usually not in touch with your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:05 PM
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So feminism has largely caused all of these problems, or at least has been a major factor, and the cure is... more feminism? Sound logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:59 PM
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Women desire masculinity in general. They'd rather have toxic masculinity than the other option, which is a lame barely-qualifies-as-a-man sap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:51 PM
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Nope. Fundamentally this creates unstable societies, which means that either collectively we will reinvigorate our sense of community, virtue, and purpose, or we will just collapse as a society, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:10 PM
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Not to be a dick, but you just wrote a long, pretty much unsolicited post all about yourself and how, despite the fact that you hate yourself and think everyone around you hates you, and that you have an emotionally abusive parent, you still find it within yourself to be such an amazingly generous and caring person, which you humbly state to be a kind of manipulation on your part, not actually just a positive trait. I mean, you would have to be a really great person to overcome those negative fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:08 PM
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NPD is often 'inherited' from the parent/s due to it being caused by emotional abuse as a child. The narcissistic mother producing a son with 'aspergers' is quite common. A lack of positive affection and attention for the child can create a person lacking emotional capacity and development, while at the same time the overbearing nature of the narcissistic mother causes him to lack agency and ability to integrate into adult society. Not saying you are a narcissist, however you might consider that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:52 PM
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Nah, I left Shanghai. Yeah I guess. Celebrity worship, obsession with how they look etc. All very common in China. I mean, anyone could tell you that really, it isn't difficult to notice. Is actual NPD on the rise there? I could never say, even if I actually knew lots of Chinese people, which I don't. Narcissism is often not that easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:42 PM
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That's NPD, not BPD, if anyone wanted an example of how people use BPD to cover for their narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:22 PM
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Hard to say, for sure. We live in a narcissistic society, in that we're encouraged to behave like narcissists (and in some cases have to in order to succeed), and to worship and aspire to be like narcissistic celebrities. Narcissistic-like behaviour and mentality is certainly on the rise, but it's hard to say how related to actual NPD (i.e. NPD caused by emotional abuse/trauma as a child leading to arrested development and the formation of a narcissistic ego) it is. A pro-social society presents…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:19 PM
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I think that most people nowadays struggle to deal with the constant temptation for dopamine hits. In this regard, women are no more children than any man who has casual sex, jerks off, eats junk food etc. We live in a degenerate society that encourages addictive behaviour and stigmatises those that don't participate in the 'enjoyment' of modern society. Girls feel ashamed of having casual sex (or set up the mental structures to deflect feelings of shame) because they know they're just giving in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 04:04 PM
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Okay, I should have just said 'for the most part', at least nowadays, and just as a point of caution. Narcissistic people very rarely are able to notice that they are narcissists, let alone accept it. The ego of an NPD person demands that the person doesn't discover this about themselves, since it would generally shatter, or deeply injure, his or her delusions about him or herself. Most NPD people live their entire lives believing that they are special in some way, being better than everyone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:29 PM
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20% of girls want to, but a significantly larger portion don’t want to but just find themselves doing it anyway because they party too much and have no standards for themselves, or just have low self-esteem. Very easy to rack up huge n-counts when you have no self-control and have addiction issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:50 AM
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It isn’t not okay, as much as it’s totally repulsive and disgusting. Women find guys who objectify women like this disgusting, so imagine how we find the girls who have adopted this vaguely masculine, chauvinistic behavior. To me, these people barely qualify as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:43 AM
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Yes. BPD is a cover for NPD in women, aspergers is a cover for NPD in men. All totally unconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:36 AM
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I don’t really ‘date’ anyway. If I’m really into a girl and she’s really into me, that’s usually obvious, and my assumption is that she would have no reason or even interest in seeing anyone else. Anyone who has the time or energy to see multiple people is straight up incompatible with me, and also totally unattractive. Maybe I’m wrong and I find out after a month that she’s decided to lose the other guy she was banging, or just decides to try out another guy. No thanks, not for me, but doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 11:32 AM
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I assume we're exclusive and if she didn't then it's going nowhere. Starting a relationship by asking her to stop fucking other guys is probably a sign that she's not worth it, for me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:37 PM
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Men are chumps in general nowadays. Testosterone is lower than ever, they're out of shape (men should undertake gruelling exercise on a regular basis, not just going to the gym and watching their diets), they're addicted to porn and jerking off, and above all (though it's kind of reaching breaking point now) they're totally content with their feeble lifestyles. It's not like most of these men had much dignity before getting married. Boomer and gen x men in particular are petit-bourgeois who play…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:29 PM
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The wall is real. Signs of aging are unattractive. Baggage is unattractive. Being cynical about the world is unattractive. No one prefers that over the younger and more beautiful girl. That shows in the fact that women over 30 do generally struggle to date, and don’t receive the same treatment as the younger, hotter girls. I get the impression that most single women in their 30’s aren’t happy about it, so much as they are just coping with it. If you run in married circles, maybe you won’t see it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:39 AM
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I felt connected to the girls I had 'flings' with when I was a late teen/very early 20's and when they were about the same age. Probably due to a lack of experience on both party's parts. Can't say I could feel a quick connection to any girl who's been around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:42 AM
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I don't think they're 'handling it better', as much as it is that general apathy eventually just breaks it down. When a guy is sick of a girl he stops trying or caring, begins acting like the exact opposite of what women want, and when a woman gets sick of a guy she starts more and more arguments and acts out more and more hoping for a reaction that either leads to some kind of passion, or far more likely, a breakup. So it's not so much that they're making a smart decision, most of the time peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:29 PM
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To not wank my willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:19 PM
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'Revenge' against your shitty ex is never satisfying, surely. The best revenge is when you kill the guy that killed your dog or something, not hoping your self-centered ex spends a few minutes being pissy at you before going back to only thinking about herself again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:01 AM
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First of all, how does your post argue that men are doing this more than women are dating guys and then breaking up with them/branch-swinging after a few years when they're done with them? This happens because barely anyone qualifies for marriage anymore, men and women. It's not surprising that people are being in relationships for a few years and then breaking up, because where are these relationships meant to go? Neither party is cut out for marriage, why should they continue? I've been in rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:03 PM
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Yeah, wamen does sound like ramen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:23 PM
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Literally isn't the word. They don't literally run into a physical wall. The wall is when girls lose their youthful look, usually when their thin/hair starts to thin, they get a grey hair, wrinkles start to appear etc. Youthfulness is really really important with regards to male attraction. The nature of attraction is different when it's a younger woman. Older women can still attract men because men may want a partner, or kids, or just want to get laid, but they've totally lost the draw of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:50 PM
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The wall is when girls start to develop unattractive signs of ageing. Sure, eighteen year olds are generally hotter than twenty-six year olds, but there's nothing wrong with a twenty-six year old. If she's unmarried, I still see her as a 'girl'. But not long after that they might get a little wrinkly, get a few grey hairs, their skin and hair looks less lively, less full etc. That's what people have called 'the wall' for ages, but people keep trying to redefine it I guess. Guys will try to fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 10:54 PM
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It’s amazing how apparent it is that women naturally gravitate towards other women with similar sexual habits. You wouldn’t actually notice it until you saw women who are forced by circumstance to spend time socializing together. Sluts are friends with sluts, and/or have a legion of guy friends. It doesn’t matter how slutty her demeanor or general attitude is, that is how it plays out. I’ve known girls who were really really lovely, but none of the other girls wanted anything to do with them, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:39 AM
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