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| 88 | Why are so many women like this? | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:24 PM | |
| 61 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men? | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:32 PM | |
| 47 | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work? | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:13 AM | |
| 11 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene? | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:25 PM | |
| 3 | [Q4F] What do you envision the average male PPD user to look like? | Question For Women | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Why should women today deal with the averаge man? | CMV | shanshkrishur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 07:21 PM |
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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion for men: Would you consider the US dating pool to be toxic poisoned waters - in keeping with the analogy - to find suitable fish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.Even though I don’t agree with the framing of your question, here is the answer: Because it is more beneficial for us. However, as selfish as that seems, and it is, it seems even more pernicious because of your framing of it as clearly biased towards the woman: 1) “entitled” lmao we don’t owe you a god damn thing, especially a stranger. 2) you’re making it black and white and removing any agency from the women. What if she wants things to he casual, what if she doesn’t? You are assuming without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSorry, I’ve just been jaded by seeing so much. Like I said, it’s like when extroverts were literally breaking down during the pandemic… it just made me think “you poor pathetic fucks, imagine if you had to be in my/our (introvert) shoes, welcome to our daily existence…” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would say that’s a strawman, but perhaps since the algorithms are infamous for pushing things that piss users off, I suspect you are correct and you are seeing the more extremist male side of it while I see the more extremist female side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are bonafide, world-renowned guys in Turkey that are more expensive than the “butchers” but still way cheaper than anything in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLess than $100k if you go to Turkey or somewhere outside the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s just funny that this is the standard mode of most men, and most women don’t give a shit. Just read the responses on the male loneliness epidemic “lmao male tears”, “just kilo yourselves already”, “boohoo poor men”. When we see how much of your gender takes our issues as a joke and a type of Schadenfreude, how do you expect us to have any empathy for yours when most of y’all don’t extend a shred to us. Even more so when you experience the same thing most of us deal with. It’s like when extro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThought experiment regarding height surgery and hypergamy: Let’s assume for the sake of this hypothetical that all of the following come to happen: Height surgery becomes relatively cheap & painless. A plurality (33-40%) or even majority of men get height surgery or will eventually get it, and thus the average height artificially becomes 6’2 (but natural average is still 5’9). Most women and naturally tall men DON’T get height surgery, let’s assume the average height of women stays the same and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh honey, if you think this is tough, this is what the average man goes through. No one cares his issues, they’ll tell him to “man up”. Ever read the headlines “men lonely: women most affected”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy are the only white girls that are into me are always brunettes? It seems like blonde girls are never into me… hell, even redheads have been more into me. For context I’m Mexican. Is it because blondes have more SMV and/or they are usually just into their own race, even more so than other white girls? I wish I didn’t like them so much but I do, white girls are my favorite type 😔 Inb4 the “what are you talking about bro I’m Mexican and I always have blonde girls into me” 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 06:34 PM |
| – | Artificial womb in the next decadesFunny, if the roles were reversed and it showed single fathers being worse, I’m not sure how many people (particularly women) would be trying to find charitable explanations for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 09:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLegit question for the guys: Would Chadfishing on dating apps and getting a lot of matches so I can practice texting them work to increase my text game? Have any of you guys tried this and did it help? I live in a suburban area full of mostly boomers and families and it’s hard to meet singles organically (no real nightlife or anything here). Because of this, dating apps mostly suck and I get too few matches to really “practice” my text game. The matches I do get I end up pissing away because my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Artificial womb in the next decadesWe have mountains of data The “mountains of data” we have suggest that single parenthood is overwhelmingly negative when it is single motherhood. The data shows that single fatherhood has pretty much the same outcomes as two parent households. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?So those of us that have social anxiety and get nervous approaching women, we should just rot and die right? Maybe next life we’ll be reincarnated as a supremely confident guy who never had to grow up with any issues that might have led him to become anxious or otherwise not the king of confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:17 AM |
| – | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Notice how she justified her answer and moved the goalpost to “well the studies show” … bullshit! Most women don’t know about the studies about women victimized by men vs. a race victimizing another race. Obviously, if you would cross the road to avoid a black person or Muslim because you have been hurt by one before or because you’ve read or seen bad things about them, that would be bigoted. But when a woman crosses the road to avoid a man, women will twist themselves into knots explaining why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?I mean, regardless of whether it’s merited or not, they are spineless and terrified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketI’m starting to think that the real salvation of the dating market will lie in VR “female” AIs that will completely resemble women without any uncanny valley or fake shit. That is easier and more cost effective to produce than sexbots. Not only that, VR AI females could produce the type of validation and intimacy that a sexbot wouldn’t be able to do (at least not for the foreseeable future). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themI completely agree with you. We should also say that to women though. It doesn’t matter how much women argue that her accomplishments, education, money, and to a lesser degree intellect should matter to men over, say her body shape or body count, it just won’t and no amount of shaming or arguing about it will ever change that. That being said, I do enjoy seeing guys argue against female preferences bringing the same energy and using the same tactics that feminists use when they argue against men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 08:51 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.I see you’re annoyed that he’s blaming almost all women, and yet you come here saying “most all” men are “dirtbags”, absolving the woman of any responsibility. Jesus man, the jokes write themselves! Make it make sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:48 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.a love life was never in the cards Fuck that shit, get your passports boys, when you see how much nicer women are in foreign countries, you will see how gross the local dating market is here in the West. Also, what an awful shitty, defeatist thing to say to men. Shame on you. Don’t fall pray for the stupid arguments of “she’s just using you for a green card” or “lmao muh 90 day fiancée”, as if a stupid reality TV show reflects real life (such NPC thinking and talking point). You never bring them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many women like this?If that’s true then why don’t we just socialize women to find men shorter than them attractive compared to tall men? Why don’t we socialize men to find women who sleep around with the whole town to be attractive as long term partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women like this?The fact is most men — whether subconsciously due to the “afraid to raise another man’s child” biological theory, or socialization (probably a bit of both) — find any and all forms of sex work to be repulsive when it comes to choosing a long-term partner. So sure there will be exceptions but the majority will not be cool with and probably never will. Same reason why women still largely detest the idea of having a stay-at-home husband, no matter how liberal the society gets or how much money a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many women like this?A man watching porn does not cause the same deleterious effects to your relationship nor to your mental health that taking part in sex work does to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many women like this?I’m neither frustrated nor single. Nice try though ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Why do men feel entitled to romance and or intimacy?Why do women feel entitled to controlling men’s preferences? Most men don’t want to seriously date nor wife up promiscuous women (aka whores/sluts), single mothers, drug users, women with tons of tattoos and piercings, sex workers (YES, including OF), combative women, loud women, women taller than us, and girls with high body counts. Those are our ”anti-preferences” by and large. Why do y’all feel entitled to telling us what we should like? Who the hell are you to tell us what we should like? Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsGood hobbies to get are those that are filled with women so you can meet and date/fuck them. However if you have poor social skills you will likely come across as creepy and/or will be relegated to friend status. The only useful hobby in my opinion is to do fighting (MMA/boxing/etc.) and/or do pickup. Fighting will give you life changing core confidence whereas pickup will give you life changing social skills. Of course, you will want to find people to do these hobbies with, otherwise your learn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 06:05 PM |
| 0 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?Good for you but your experience is not indicative of the whole. Most women prefer men significantly taller than them, this is one of the most studied and confirmed preferences amongst women. You’re not even that short; at your height you are still taller than most women. And again, even if you come back and say you dated women taller than you, statistically you’re still the exception. Also, the fact of the matter is that you did do some “convincing” because it sounds like you are charismatic (“… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 05:54 PM |
| – | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?Tinder. I don’t have to work as hard because I’m very attractive, but I don’t have great social skills and I’m very socially anxious and not very confident (have insecurities due to this). Because of this odd combination, I’m only able to get relationships with women I have to “settle” with, to put it lightly. And because those women are not exactly the type to write home about, it makes things even easier for me and I put in less effort and I don’t learn much :/ If I do fuck a worthwhile girl o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?Because men and women are attracted to different things. We had to be in order to survive as a species. It’s like asking why aren’t most men attracted to tall, muscular women? Or why most women aren’t attracted to unassertive, submissive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | The best city for dating menLA is an awful place for dating as a man because the beauty standards are through the roof due to all the hottest and highest status men who flock here. This is even reflected in OLD, where the ratio of men to women is nearly 9 to 1, much worse than the average. Miami suffers from the same issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:11 AM |
| 3 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?As a modern man, I’m just glad I don’t have a woman leeching off of me because “I’m a man and I’m supposed to pay”. If she wants me to adhere to outdated gender roles and pay for everything she’d better be traditional too and know how to cook and clean otherwise take your goddamn double standards to hell. We’re tired of some women wanting to be liberated from their gender roles while still expecting or even demanding us to strictly adhere to ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:42 AM |
| 2 | What exactly does it mean to be a "modern day woman," and what kind of alternative women does the RP community prefer?Good on you mate for being so open minded but understand that most the vast majority of men are not like that and will never be convinced to be. It’s like trying to convince women to date and/or find attractiveness in short, physically weak men because women can carry guns now and don’t need tall, strong men in the current year in our civilized society... good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYWhen you think of Asians When Americans think of Asians. When Brits think of Asians they think Indians and Pakistanis. When Australians think of Asians they think Arabs and Persians. All are stupid. Asia is too big to assign to one racial group. Chinese, etc. should be East Asian, Indian, etc. should be South Asian, and Arab, etc. should be West Asian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why should women today deal with the averаge man?It’s nobody’s problem to help you, unless there’s so many of you that you guys start a revolt like you have in past societies. Women respond first and foremost to one thing: their emotions. If you can control your own emotions, and then learn to control theirs, the world opens up to you, and so women’s legs. There’s a reason why there are tons of broke, short, semi-ugly dudes leave multiple women as single mothers in poor communities, or the case of a homeless guy who was able to use new women d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 05:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Location is more important than looks or anything else when it comes to datingTo add to what others already said, part of it is just what the male competition looks like. And if you are using dating apps, it’s how that competition affects the dating apps’ algorithms. I’ll give you an example of my location and methods to illustrate. For me, I’m in SoCal and I rarely match with hot girls on Tinder. I don’t get very many matches and when I do, it’s usually with mid girls and below. The competition in LA is fierce, and the algorithm takes this into account and shoves me towa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 09:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do women who hate on passport bros always use the talking point that foreign women can’t “even” speak English? SO WHAT if foreign women can’t speak English well, or at all? Does that make them stupid, or otherwise mentally inferior? Are these specific women from 1st World Anglophone (English-speaking) countries so delusional to believe that concepts such as lies, manipulation, gaslighting, etc. don’t exist in other languages & cultures and thus these women are more vulnerable or less intelli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.“If a man has a problem, we ask ‘What can men do to fix themselves?’ If a woman has a problem, we ask ‘What can we do to fix society?’” Very insightful video on this topic: “Why is supporting men seen as a threat to women?” https://youtu.be/6YQtzDolEDU?si=bq_1n_t2kNo74BUQ If y’all really care, you would see the video before answering that question with a strawman answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingIt is though, most men (even attractive ones) take shitty pictures of themselves for online dating whereas they would normally present better irl. Online dating is overwhelmingly male users. Imagine going to a sausage fest of a party that is 70-90% male and expecting to have the same success you’d have at a party that is 70-90% female or even just 50/50. There’s a reason frat parties keep the ratio of men to women so low. Maybe you won’t get approached, sure I’m an outlier in that regard, but yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingYou seriously don’t know about shadow banning? Dating apps do it all the time to make sure you don’t know you’re banned so you can still pay them money for the premium versions. Look it up. It’s a real thing. If what you’re saying is true, then I wouldn’t have one of my new Tinder accounts with an unflagged phone number get tons of likes and matches with hotter girls while my old shadowbanned account only matches with the bottom of the barrel, even if I switch that account’s location to a new ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:34 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingThat’s not always true. You didn’t even bother reading what I wrote or can’t even comprehend it. If you have a flagged account, even using male model pictures won’t help. Trust me, I had a flagged profile and I tried saving it by replacing my photos with that of a literal IG male model with a million followers, the algorithm still kept my profile in the gutter, only showing me bots and the lowest tier “women” (including trans). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Misandry and Misogyny fuel each otherPeople have to understand that insulting or mocking people and hiding behind the fact that it’s “punching up” will result in a self-fulfilling prophecy where those people will actually come to hate you because you’re an asshole to them. For example, as an average height man, having massive amounts of women post things mocking or literally (in their own words) dehumanizing men under 6 feet (“you’re not a real man”, etc.), plus all the other shit women post online to put men down, even to tell us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingOn Instagram it’s looks and clout. If you don’t have looks, you can make up for it with clout, as long as you’re not very ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingIt is possible. It’s called medication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:46 PM |
| 2 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingI don’t know man, online dating put me in the league of morbidly obese and ugly women while real life (parties, hangouts) had beautiful, fit women literally approaching me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | As a male you won't know your true league unless you quit online datingI don’t think that’s always true, and it’s often due to dating apps’ algorithms. Sure, if you are shown to all women on dating then you would right, but guys are often times put at the bottom of the stack and never seen for different reasons. Not to mention that your area counts. For example myself: I have a bad Tinder profile, not bad because of pictures or bio, but bad because my profile has been flagged before (for having multiple profiles). Thus, I get put at the bottom of the stack and most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?That’s not true. Femininity isn’t inextricably linked to hypergamy. They can be decoupled during the programming process, and they will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomIt’s about the absurd levels of effort (not to mention luck of the genetic draw) involved getting sex as the average male. This is something you women would never understand or empathize with because sex for you guys is always just a swipe away. To put it in perspective, the average single woman has the sexual pull (ease of access to sex) of a male celebrity. Also, y’all make the cardinal mistake of assuming our opinions we publish on the Internet reflect how we behave in real life. Do you think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:10 PM |
| 0 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?There is a phenomenon in the human brain that is well documented, a form of placebo if you will, where you can trick your brain that something is the real deal. It’s shown most clearly in visualizations that high-level performers and top athletes do, when they visualize themselves in the performance or on the field. Their brain processes these visualizations as if they were actual real world experiences that it gains knowledge (and confidence, which is the point of it) from. Thus, it’s no stretc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?Nah, I specifically said they won’t be hypergamous in this scenario. Like literally hypergamy is the thing that fucks over men, especially the target market and probably creators of these bots. Why the hell would they insert female human hypergamy into the robots? That kinda defeats the entire purpose of the bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:26 AM |
| -4 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?I mean, in this scenario we’re assuming the vast vast majority of men (including most of the normal men) will leave y’all alone. Maybe that’s ok with you traumatized misandrist weirdos, but that’s not the case for most women. Especially the ones that thrive on social media and irl attention (i.e most women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 10:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCome on, we both know men and women will have wildly different levels of acceptance and contentment with this technology as relationship replacers, not to mention the monetary (and thus production) incentives are vastly geared more towards men than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTheoretically yes, but remember the makers of AI have billions of dollars on the line so they’ll do their best to make sure that doesn’t happen. If it does, then men not getting laid will be the least of humanity’s concerns… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s an evil crazy world we live in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:16 PM |
| – | Women create "red pilled" men regularly.I feel like this isn’t that tough. Let me guess, you have good social skills? You do know that most people here don’t have good social skills and have no avenue (nor at least know of any) to develop them right? Also something tells me you’re decently good looking and maybe above average height to make such “it’s super easy trust me bro” comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 07:28 AM |
| – | Dating for men is a race to the bottomI do have a girlfriend, and a degree, and am pursuing further education :) What, does having a gf or having sex with women supposed to make us into good little boys who are anesthetized to women’s bullshit? But I like how you assume things and just straight up avoided nearly every point I made by writing if off as “incel” shit, must be very nice to think you win and are in the right by throwing around buzzwords and useless labels while avoiding actually addressing shit. And clearly you care enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 07:03 AM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsWow, it’s almost like men are human beings with a complex and wide range of opinions. Crazy right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 06:48 AM |
| – | Dating for men is a race to the bottomYou say this as if we are all just entitled manchildren who demand a gf, what a silly strawman to construct so you can easily dispense with this complicated and nuanced phenomenon. Do tell us, how exactly is the average man (<$40k a year 5’9) going to “fix” his height, or his facial aesthetics? You know that most women aren’t going to date much less marry the mid 5’6 guy because he’s super emotionally intelligent. The only way is surgery and we all know that women find these things icky (“eww he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:57 AM |
| 27 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomIt’s going to get far worse for women. They can lie to themselves and society and say men ain’t shit, but the reality is that MOST women (since they are still normal human beings like you and me), desire a life partner, regardless of their “independent boss bitch” and “dog/cat mom” kope. And if most men really ain’t shit, she’ll still be yearning for the man who IS the shit, and she will never be getting his commitment, maybe only his dick and his empty promises if she is lucky. Meanwhile, men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:34 AM |
| – | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?Good looks, status, money, confidence, and social skills. IMO you need at least one of these to get laid (without being “lucky”), and you need at least 2 to have sex with multiple women, and then 3 or more and you’re in stud territory. Having only 1 or 2 puts you in a certain category like sugar daddy, himbo, etc. Although I would say that social skills when paired with confidence, particularly at a high level to where it’s charisma, gives you the ability to do what pick up artists do: bypass th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:31 AM |
| – | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?Again, if women held these positions of power, but accumulated resources to themselves (as we see rich and powerful men do in OTL) and screw over the remaining 99% of women, would this make it a gynocracy? Why not then just call this an oligarchy? I’m not even an MRA, nor do I deny that the people who have historically held positions of power over the masses have been overwhelmingly men. However, this is the problem with arguing with people who hold tight to ideologies, because any deviation fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:05 AM |
| – | The dating game has changedand don’t need men for money or “protection” so physical appearance matters more Umm… their “lizard brains” (subconscious) still do care about it. That’s why surveys and studies still consistently find that women prefer men who: (1) Make more money than them. It doesn’t change no matter how much they make. If a woman makes $100,000, she thinks she deserves a man who makes even more. If she makes $1,000,000, then she wants men who make even more. There’s no logical reason other than backwards rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 07:35 PM |
| – | Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)?Now this convo is already off to a bad start, because you’re making a statement that presupposes that your ideological theories are objective truth, and making that ideologically-charged statement to others who do not share your ideology nor accept its premises as truth. That’s like starting off a convo by saying that “Women suffer the most without accepting God’s grace”… however that statement presupposes that God and God’s grace are objectively true, thus such a statement would be absolutely m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 07:10 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?I’m not a conservative red piller. Also, I love pointing out these double standards because many liberal blue pillers who do believe that men and women are the same still hold onto these rather conservative attitudes, thus demonstrating their hypocrisy of how they are in fact cool with traditional societal norms, as long as it benefits them. When it doesn’t, then that’s when it’s bigotry/misogyny/sexism/etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?I think using ovaries instead of pussies hits harder ngl. Sounds petty but if they’re gonna hit us below the belt then we reserve the right to verbally hit right back where it hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?That’s actually not true at all for the new methods like Precice 2 and Precice Stryde. You’re thinking the old method, called the Ilizarov Technique. I kid you not look it up. The new methods are much less invasive, relatively painless, require much shorter recovery times, and btw your leg will NOT get weaker. As welders know, a rod that’s broken and then welded together is much stronger at the weld point than an unbroken rod. The biggest major risk is nerve damage, which is already an issue in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Just like women love to mock our innate biological preferences and tell us to “stop thinking with our peepee”, it’s time to tell women to stop thinking with their ovaries. It’s 2023, guns are a thing now. You don’t need le oogabooga big chungus 6 foot stoic man to keep you safe from enemy tribes anymore. Also, if the surgery eliminates your insecurity, then why does it matter that the person was “insecure enough” to get the procedure done? It worked to fix their insecurity, so what’s the problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Just like women love to mock our innate biological preferences and tell us to “stop thinking with our peepee”, it’s time to tell women to stop thinking with their ovaries. It’s 2023, guns are a thing now. You don’t need le oogabooga big chungus 6 foot stoic man to keep you safe from enemy tribes anymore. Also, if the surgery eliminates your insecurity, then why does it matter that the person was “insecure enough” to get the procedure done? It worked to fix their insecurity, so what’s the problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:32 PM |
| – | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?that are not shitty Women make the just-world-hypothesis mistake of thinking that most older virgin men must be shitty human beings and that’s why they can’t find a girl. That is hilariously wrong considering some of the men who are actually the most shitty in the world have great success with women, just think of drug dealers, serial killers, and the local douchebag jock or bully. The real (most common) reason men are virgins when they are older is that they simply don’t have sufficient social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:35 AM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Again, nonsense. Modern techniques are relatively painless and safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 09:59 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Because heels are women’s shoes, and you know everyone will make fun of you if you show it off vs. hiding it with shoe inserts. I mean, I assume you know this so what’s the point in saying to just wear makeup and heels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 09:54 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Lol why would men know women’s community rules? Like, are you well versed in the bro code? But thanks, I guess you learn something new everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:15 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?No, no one said makeup. Look at all the other shit though, like shoe inserts to be taller for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:15 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?It’s not insane anymore. The newer techniques require only a few weeks of healing and it’s mostly painless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:14 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Call it disingenuous all you want, it’s what I’ve witnessed on other subs, Twitter, IG, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?But then this goes back to why are we men not allowed to have insecurities? We are humans after all, not soulless automatons. If a man feels happy and fulfilled by “growing” from 5’8 to 6’2 via surgery, who the hell are we to judge him while giving support to the woman who “grows” her titties from A-cup to D-cup via surgery? Either be consistent in shitting on both, or be consistent on being at least open-minded towards both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:02 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Yes, men shit on other men over dumb shit that limits us, I will not deny that. However, I have seen women be utterly disgusted by men who get jaw implants or (especially) height increasing surgery while society at large (men and women) mock men who undergo these. Yet society (and of course women at large) are supportive and cool when women get vain cosmetic surgeries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:00 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Fuck that, if the other side gets to wear makeup, heels, push up bras, filters, surgeries, then you bet I’m not coming into this knife fight with a plastic knife when the other side is using rocket launchers. Before any of you go off on a tangent, “knife fight” is just an analogy for the hypergamy arms race between men and women, with women having ever higher standards and men doing whatever they can to meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:50 PM |
| – | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?I know this is anecdotal, but hear me out: I’ve seen enough women say they would break up with their bf or be disgusted if they found out their partner or potential partner had limb lengthening surgery. Like the energy is totally different in posts where a woman says she got a cosmetic surgery, all the women are cheering her on whereas when a man gets a cosmetic surgery the energy given to him is “I feel sorry you’re so insecure”, or “stop being so insecure”, etc. Even literally for the same lip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV This Subreddit is the best Dating Strategy Forum on the Planet.Let me modify that real quick: if (trauma) { honesty != truth; } else if (trickery) { honesty != truth;} else { honesty == truth; } | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?I appreciate you asking, it just so happens that a lot of people on this sub (men and women) typically aren’t acting in good faith so I am wary that people are setting up a “gotcha” so I apologize if I came off as combative. That aside, anecdotes are still not really something that tells us anything on a macro level. My point is that relationships always have ups and downs. They are never always happy like in a Disney fairytale because relationships come about from two imperfect beings who will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:53 PM |
| 0 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?Notice I said “all relationships” and didn’t specify marriages. Obviously with marriages it’s much less likely so I don’t see the point in framing my point as just speaking as marriages unless you wanted to set up a strawman. And even if I did provide you with a firsthand example, it would be nearly worthless because it would be an anecdote. Also anyone could just make an anecdote up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?In some ways, but all relationships have their ups and downs. Jumping ship after a prolonged period of downs with no prospects of ups is understandable, but people these days jump ship at the very first instance of strife, which is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?But the conundrum is that a man who would meet her requirements is most likely not looking to date her because his SMV (that he would need to clear her bar) would enable him to date a younger or less demanding woman. It’s almost the functional equivalent of a short, broke neckbeard posting “no fat chicks” in his bio. You may not like that or think it’s unfair or wrong, but it’s just the way it is regardless of your opinion on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:42 AM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?You misunderstand Mr. Alpha Man, I am not bemoaning their requirements. I could give a shit about what they want because I don’t go after older women who want relationships. I’m in my 20s and whenever I go after older women, it’s only cougars who just want to fuck. But as a consequence of having my dating app range set all the way to 45, it allows me to see all the delusional bios of older women who DO want relationships. I am just confused as to why they set these absurd requirements when they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:40 AM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?Well, I mean yes. That’s the whole point. The banter and socializing is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:28 AM |
| – | Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work?I don’t go out with older women who want relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Why Don't Passport Bro's ever ask Guy's living in PPB Paradise for advice?Hey there, what is your opinion on a minority (Hispanic) dating in SEA? For context, I am fairly brown-skinned but not overly dark, and could reasonably pass off as an SEA hapa (half white/half SEA) or even as a darker Caucasian (southern European/Middle Eastern). I am conventionally attractive (7 or 8/10) but not tall by Western standards (5’9). I’m also introverted and shy. I don’t know if this matters, but a significant chunk of the matches I get on dating apps here in America are from Americ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 06:37 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn this case would you choose a shorter but more robust/stout man over a tall but stick-like/lanky man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 10:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4W: Who would you prefer: An average height man with a good-looking face or a tall man with an average-looking face? Last time I asked about this, I compared a tall but ugly man to an average but model looking man. This time I’d rather make it tall but average looking man vs. average height but good-looking man so it’s more of an even face-off, pun intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Weight vs height, is a huge double standardHuh, wow this is actually a very insightful response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:38 PM |
| – | Weight vs height, is a huge double standardI disagree. Most woman care about height it’s true, but most just want a man taller than them and that’s realistic for like >90% of couples. What’s unrealistic is this obsession with the nice little rounded number of 6’, which applies to only 15% of men (including underage and married men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion for the ladies What would you prefer: an average height (5’9) man with a model-looking face, or a 6’+ man with an ugly face, assuming all other things (wealth, personality, how they treat you, etc.) are the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion for women: If a man was 6’2 but every man (or at least most of the men) in your area were 6’5 to 6’6, would you consider him either “short” or unattractive height wise? I ask this because many of you have previously stated that a man’s height relative to other men’s height matters vs. just his pure height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's problematic for men to prefer petite women?I’d give you an award if I had one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenI mean if society is going to call men who can’t get women or any man who has the audacity to critique women as “incels”, surely society has the emotional resilience to call their functional female equivalents as “spinsters” or better yet for the forever alones on Twitter/TikTok that spew the “kill all men”, etc. rhetoric as “involuntary spinsters” or “inspins”, no? But, I agree with you otherwise as I think any reasonable person would with regards to providing a good environment before having k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:25 AM |
| – | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"So you have an argument to rebuttal or you just going to keep saying I’m emotional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:04 AM |
| – | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"There is nothing emotional here and by refusing to engage the argument based on a baseless accusation and deflection, you are tacitly admitting you that have no argument. It’s so transparent that everyone here can see that. If not, then prove me wrong. Engage my argument. I’ll be waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 02:44 AM |
| – | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"What’s funny is that while the feminists are hurling all sorts of insults, shaming tactics, and baseless accusations of exploitation, these passport guys are living their best lives, finally having relationships, community, and getting laid by women far more beautiful than their haters meanwhile these Western women are glued to their phones spewing bile and/or getting pumped & dumped in a late-stage capitalist, corporate-ruled dystopia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:37 PM |
| – | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"That’s an absolute lie and he had a livestream where he literally showed receipts (police reports) that the woman along with several men started assaulting him and he was let go by Japanese authorities on the grounds of self-defense. This is why men no longer believe the bullshit that women and mainstream media tell us about guys like the Tates, etc. because y’all lie so much to character assassinate anyone y’all don’t agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | When average man will know what Chad can get away with, they'll never put up with BS women put them throughAs this technology progresses, and given that lonely men are the most likely to be basement dwelling nerds obsessed with pet projects, it seems to me that even if this did happen, there would be basement dwellers out there creating their own AI to take over the robot and then either sharing the AI online for free or behind a paywall. An AI sexbot can’t be that hypergamous if it’s being bought and paid for by a customer otherwise there’d be no business. And we know the clientele for these robots … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | When average man will know what Chad can get away with, they'll never put up with BS women put them throughThe only solution is to create female sexbots that don’t possess hypergamy. Ideally create them with only one metric of attraction: if you are a good person or not. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesHiding behind historical oppression against women to justify having your date pay for you when you have your own money is really weird and sick. Get help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesAt least the European women seem to be more real feminists who don’t just pick and choose when to be feminist and when to be traditional when it suits them like many American women do. Prude can be a good thing, it means she isn’t sleeping around and isn’t promiscuous. But that other shit you mentioned is pretty crazy. I also hear that European women rarely ghost or flake like American women do. Have you found this to be true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesHow is it suffering? I’m American so I don’t know what the dating scene is like in Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:00 AM |
| 5 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesEastern European women demand to be paid for and that you take on traditional male gender roles, but at least you get in return a loyal wife, who is willing to take in traditional female gender roles. But in America you don’t even get that, you get the worst of both worlds. You get a woman who ditches her gender roles while expecting the man to keep his. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesIt’s not luck, it’s just those women had ethics and probably didn’t feel good hiding behind historical injustices or making up other excuses so they can get a free meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesI am good looking lol so maybe/probably there’s that. I think there are American women with good ethics, and then there are American women (like the ones trying to justify this hypocrisy to you in this post), who use any number of excuses or justifications to be cheapskates, including hiding behind historical injustices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesI find it curious that you think that because women aren’t fully equal to men (which I don’t know how American women are less equal than European women), you wanna take that historical injustice out on some random dude you’re going on a date with by having him pay. And just in case before you bring up Roe v Wade, we both know that if it was still upheld by SCOTUS, that wouldn’t impact your opinion on this matter. I’m American too and my experience is different than what you’re describing. Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:34 AM |
| 6 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesAs an American man, I don’t think I’ve ever paid on a first date and I’ve never had issues resulting from that (with both short-term and long-term relationships). The only time I ever paid on a first “date” was after we already had sex, because I was feeling generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesThankfully European women don’t have that silly mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:07 AM |
| 7 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesThey’ll always hide behind historical injustices relating to “patriarchy” to hamster their argument (as you can see one commenter in this post already did), but in reality they just want to have their cake and eat it too. The funny thing is if you question them any further then they’ll start shaming you and calling you an incel or a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:06 AM |
| – | Do Chads ever get annoyed at too much female attentionBackground: I’m not a chad, purely based off of height (I’m 5’10) but I got the goods in almost all other departments. I’m in a weird space where I’m facially attractive enough to get attention but I’m mogged height-wise by more than half of the men where I live since most residents in my town are of German or Nordic descent, the average height here must be like 6’ since even literal children (14 year old zoomers) are taller than me. And getting mogged by other men height-wise makes women rate y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 04:56 AM |
| 0 | It is truly bizarre how completely average girls think that good looking dudes are beneath them, and in the end the current dating disaster will mean trouble for everyoneAs morbid as this sounds, how come the gangs of male mice only rape weaker male mice and not female mice? | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | It is truly bizarre how completely average girls think that good looking dudes are beneath them, and in the end the current dating disaster will mean trouble for everyoneThis actually shows how fvcked and implicitly biased against men the US divorce court system is, because despite women making more than men in almost 40% of cases, men getting alimony from women is still in the single digits percentage. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | It is truly bizarre how completely average girls think that good looking dudes are beneath them, and in the end the current dating disaster will mean trouble for everyoneWould a Hispanic person do well in the Philippines? For context, I am brown skinned , semi Caucasian (can pass as a dark Caucasian like a Sicilian) but still exotic looking enough. On OLD some of the most “enthusiastic” matches I’ve gotten were from American women of Southeast Asian descent (born and raised in America, so not geeen card seekers). | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?I think we should step us as men. We are the problem solvers, no? The supposedly logical gender. Then let us solve the issue of runaway female hypergamy by “creating” a female with NO hypergamy. Let’s create the female robot that is exactly — or as close to exactly — the same as biological women, but without hypergamy and its consequences (needing the man to make more money than her, be taller, etc.). This is the only permanent solution to female hypergamy. Let’s stop whining and start creating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Question for passport bro'sDoes this include black and brown men from the West? It seems like white men will always do better, but does this extend to non-white Westerners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:11 PM |
| – | [Q4F] What do you envision the average male PPD user to look like?You misunderstand the point of my reply. It’s not that I am policing what you envision them to look like. It’s that you seem to deride people in your other comments for having traditionalist views on women and what they’re allowed to do or sport meanwhile you clearly have traditionalist views on men and what they’re allowed to do and sport. For example, if I said women with short hair are not “real” women then I’m sure you and others would find such a statement absurd and misogynistic, yet you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4F] What do you envision the average male PPD user to look like?I appreciate your honesty, however, I don’t understand the shaming language. I say shaming language because you have posted the same types of ad hominems in other posts. For example, what is wrong with a man bun? Judging a man as less than because he chose to grow his hair out and put it in a bun (often done for professional reasons or because the weather is hot) wreaks of “toxic masculine” gender norms. Moreover, a massive segment of the human male population is (East) Asian, and the men of tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyou should go aboard All aboard the plane to Thailand! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?Men can be so pathetic. Why do you throw your own gender under the bus? When do women ever throw each other under the bus? Very rarely. And on the rare occasion they do, they get called “pick me” and lambasted to hell and beyond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 06:56 AM |
| – | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLIt’s not that you don’t look at anyone. It has levels and must be within reason and within PROBABILITY. I can look in a woman’s way because I want to (nothing to do with the woman) and I know there is a HIGH PROBABILITY she thinks I’m being creep, then either I can (A) not give a fuck and do it anyways OR (B) not look her way. Which should I choose? Well, if the woman is alone and there’s no reason to worry then I choose (A), but if she is with a big buff black guy as her bf then I would be stup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 01:17 AM |
| – | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLGod it’s like I’m talking to a wall, no offense. Last try, last chance: imagine I look for “view seconds” to a thug as I am walking by a por neighborhood. It’s not my fault what he thinks, but if I know that thugs don’t like to be looked at by other men, and I look at him, and then he beats me up, then I would be stupid to look at him knowing what will likely happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?That doesn’t make sense. Don’t they have to pay child support? How would they be able to afford a party lifestyle if they have a sizable portion of their income removed by the state under penalty of imprisonment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?I love how you’re strawmanning their argument by saying if they don’t accept their standards, they must be dating “garbage”. So there’s nothing in between a woman’s absurdly high standards, and garbage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?Woman out here really do be saying that women have everything to lose? And that 4/10 man is going to have mental issues and struggle to keep a job. What do you think that makes the 4/10 woman?! Have you heard of divorce? You know, the one that occurs 50% of the time in a marriage and that is overwhelming initiated by women? The one where women can get a free lawyer if they claim abuse and they never have to present evidence? The one where women get primary child custody >90% of the time, and whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLOk but you keep missing the point. How do you not understand? It doesn’t matter that “it’s easy not to assume that.” Like how do you not understand? If I came up to you in the library asked what you’re reading and called you cute, would you assume I’m romantically interested in you? Well by your logic “it’s easy not to assume that” because I could just be a gregarious gay man who was actually interested in what you’re reading and thought your outfit was cute. But even if I was gay, I would know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner not to dress provocately in a serious relationship is not toxic.Yes, it is toxic and controlling and let's face it, sexist. No woman is lecturing a man not to dress a certain way because it'll get women looking at him some sort of way. Are men and women the same? … i.e Do men and women generally exhibit the same behaviors when it comes to sex and relationships? Are women the kind that generally pursue men and try to court them and get aroused by men wearing skimpy outfits or even just showing some muscle? Do women generally proposition men for sex or make ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLLook up the “woman are wonderful effect”. In general, human beings have a bias towards attributing good and/or righteous intentions towards women’s actions and behaviors. This leads to people generally siding with the women in conflicts or other situations. This can manifest in, for example, a man asking on Reddit if he’s an asshole for a certain situation, and people will tell him he is, meanwhile a woman can post the exact same situation on Reddit and mainly get the opposite response. Or if an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLMy whole point is that it doesn’t matter what you think or what your intentions are, what matters in these situations is what the other person perceives. Again, if I was sitting in a library with a buff, scary-looking mofo sitting in front of my field of vision, staring in his direction would be foolish, regardless of my intentions, because knowing human nature and context (it’s an aggressive-looking man), there is a high likelihood that he will have one of the following interpretations of me (a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:24 AM |
| 14 | If a man is really attractive, women will ignore his glaring red flagsthe bar for men is in hell Correction: the barrier to entry for men to even go on a first date with the modern woman is in the highest heaven, and of those men who passed that barrier, the bar is in hell because those men have options and they can afford to have it rot in the lowest hell. There are plenty of well-adjusted, kind, equitable men who would be the perfect partner on everything except they don’t have the looks, status, finance, or “game”/social skills/“confidence” to pass that barrier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLHmm so you’re just gonna ignore the psychology behind this (that has scientific literature behind it) and attribute some random stats to a hypothetical situation. Sounds like you’re the one with autism here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLNot everyone is privy to the “women are wonderful” effect and the psychology behind these phenomena, so I still don’t think its autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLWell yeah, men almost never have women looking at them repeatedly so that response is the logical conclusion of what a man would interpret, regardless of what you think “should” be. I mean you could have always looked to the side, you didn’t need to look at him, it’s social context. If I know a buff, roided out gymbro or aggressive thug-looking mf is sitting directly in front of my field of vision and I want to look into the distance, I’m not going to stare in his direction because I know there’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:39 PM |
| 19 | Reddit gives completely different answers depending whether a man or a woman is doing the asking for the same exact thing LOLI don’t think this has anything to do with autism. It has to do with when women do something that could be considered bad or inappropriate, they are usually given the benefit of the doubt and assumed to have good intentions or good reasons for doing so. Men do not get this privilege. I’ve literally seen videos on gore subs where a women murders a man and the top comments are all along the lines of “what did he do to deserve this?”. Imagine the shitstorm if guys were saying in response to a femic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | If a man is really attractive, women will ignore his glaring red flagsWhere is that husband now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldNo it’s not, unless you’re an idiot. I wear height boosters all the time, ESPECIALLY on dates and I’ve never had anyone call me out and I’ve noticed that my dates have gone better when I do wear them. Because you know, women cant get over their primitive caveman wiring to desire the tall man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men in western society should reject marriageWhy do y’all always bring it back to “oh you’re such a negative woman hater”? Detach your emotions from this topic for just one second and think with a cold, rational mind. Marriage is a contract with the government. A contract that either partner can break for whichever reason they choose at whichever point they please. The stats we have available show that women initiate the vast majority of divorces, and that divorce courts overwhelmingly side with the women in matters such as child custody a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldThats why you wear shoes with thick outsoles plus some height boosting insoles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:03 AM |
| 10 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldShe pretty much admitted she wouldn’t have gone out with me if I was under 6’ Ok idk about you but I find that incredibly repulsive. It shows she doesn’t really care about who you are as a human being even after she now knows you as a person, such that she would be unwilling to overlook an arbitrary height measurement if you wouldn’t meet it… so that pvss better be good because that’s the reddest of flags. I once had a gf tell me she would dump me if I got fat (I’m like 9% body fat with a visibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldIt’s not short, he’s just saying that women find it short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldCuriously enough they’ve “dated” short kings in the past (emphasis on the past tense) …meanwhile their current bf or hubby is tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:20 AM |
| – | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.hahaha bro needs to level up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:37 AM |
| 3 | The response to the Jonah Hill situation has demonstrated that women will demonize men at every turn, and take zero accountability for their problematic dating behaviors/role in making dating what it is todayShe literally posted this in a calculated manner after Jonah’s child was born to tear him down. If you still defend her after that, then it just shows what many men on here have said before, “the sisterhood über alles”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:01 PM |
| 0 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Women control who has sex. They choose who they have sex with. Men don’t just choose in the same way. Most men can’t just go up to most women and say “hey let’s have sex” and it happens. Men pursue, women don’t most of the time. Therefore, if most women are not giving it up unless they get married, then men will adjust accordingly. However, if men know that women will give it up to a guy without any commitment, as long as that guy is attractive enough and/or has enough “rizz” (charisma/social sk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityHey to each their own, I’m sure you felt a sense of dread thinking you might knock her up so it makes sense. However, to be fair to both genders, imho leaving her forever over hearing someone else’s kid is unreasonable, if that’s what ended up happening. Sure it’s reasonable in the moment to feel an ick over the dread of getting her pregnant, but to cut off dealing with someone in perpetuity over a moment like that is imo unreasonable. But as I said to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininityYes that might be an ick but it is more than that. The reason you gave for leaving the person is rooted in logic. It wouldn’t require me to have a visceral turn-off feeling for me to not want to continue dealing with a person once I found out they’re a single mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:22 PM |
| 6 | CMV : Most “icks” women feel are justified as they are symptomatic of a weakness and femininitySome “icks” are probably justified, based on what she finds attractive. Some however, are symptomatic of the hivemind women do tend to actually have, despite the sarcastic & ironic “women are a monolith 🙄” replies that women make online. [Men largely also have a hivemind, it just more often tends to be fractured into different “niches” of hiveminds so it appears as if we don’t. Humans in general are very hivemind creatures, but I digress.] Such hivemind nonsense icks are things like (as another … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:01 PM |
| 7 | CMV Man didnt get worse if you compare men from 1950 to 2022, but if you compare Women from 1950 to 2022 you will see a INSANE decrease in "Dating Partner Quality." I am very curious if someone can prove to me that "back in the day" men were better, but i dont believe it.Women are the gatekeepers to sex. So if women are willing to give it up without marriage or even a committed relationship, men (being the testosterone-driven apes we are) will take advantage of this new order in the dating market, especially since sex is a rare opportunity for most men. Edit: You can downvote but you know it’s true. You know that if women collectively withheld sex until marriage, that a lot of men would be more marriage and relationship-minded than today. As someone said in anot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:30 PM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.I’m AGREEING with you No you’re not, you’re saying that women NOW don’t care about men’s essence but my argument is that they NEVER did. You yourself outlined it that women only dealt with men because they had to. Where is the “essence” in that? In fact I’d argue women are more likely to actually pursue a man’s “essence” (i.e character and personality) today because they are financially and socially liberated from men. There are always plenty of short, broke, or otherwise low socioeconomic/physi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:28 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.More projection. And you said it yourself. The POTENTIAL for resources, etc. so you still don’t give a damn about the guy’s “essence”. we have stupidly fallen in love Your naivety cost you, because of the things you are attracted to. You get no empathy from (many of) us because y’all wouldn’t provide a shred of empathy if the shoe was on the other foot and some dude was famoosed by some chick and you know that. Why do you think the “Tinder Swindler” was made a whole documentary/film when that ty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:46 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.That’s far less than 1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:31 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.Wow so much bitterness, as y’all like to use as a shaming tactic, but this time used unironically in a serious manner: who hurt you? Or at least how many men hurt you? it’s just a list of what all that woman does for him. You are incapable of the type of love that women give That is some hardcore projection. Most women ONLY EVER love men for the value they provide resource-wise, status-wise, and/or sex-wise. Women rarely ever love men idealistically as men love women. Why do you think 99% of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | When Queens from TwoXChromosome or Twitter reveal their misandryI never use tiktok. Damn you sure invalidated his point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out?The ONLY viable cure is realistic sex robots infused with AI. They can be physical, or for those who can’t afford them, virtual via VR/AR, one day we will get to the point that either will provide a realistic enough sexual experience such that men will feel sexually satisfied as if they had had sex with a woman. I can see feminists and their ideological allies trying to ban these however, on grounds of being “problematic” such as “de-humanizing women” and “misogyny”. Some well-intentioned and/or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeExcuse my ignorance, what is UMC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 06:50 AM |
| 2 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosOh so you’re not gonna engage you literally have no counter to foreign women on average knowing more languages, learning English, and more knowledgeable on world events. Instead you’re gonna write off my defense of foreign women against your ignorant and Euro/Americentric beliefs as being “misogynistic” and then suggest I read up on intersectional feminist theory and ideology. Holy shit you can’t make this shit up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:16 AM |
| 4 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosAgain with the assumptions. A Romanian or Filipina woman who can speak 3+ languages fluently, probably knows basic English (English is taught as a second language in grade school almost everywhere except parts of Africa & Latin America), and has more knowledge of world events because she has to given her nation is not isolated like the US is, you’re telling me this woman is more uneducated than the average American (man or woman) most of whom can only speak one language and a large percentage of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism?I can now obtain sex from most women without needing to commit nor marry any of them. In other words, promiscuity has gone way up and the barrier to entry for sex is lower than it’s ever been in human history. Now, that’s terrible for relationships and society as a whole, but for someone who has given up on relationships (at least with Western women), it’s irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:03 AM |
| 10 | When Queens from TwoXChromosome or Twitter reveal their misandryComplaining…funniest thing ever There are tons of TikToks of women complaining about the same thing and how they hate men over it, do you bring the same energy to them, or just to men? clear indication That’s just how you feel about the statement. Nothing objective to back it up. When you do it like this, yes you will. First of all, making a satirical post is obviously an indicator of misogyny who would have guessed. Second of all, per usual, “it’s not what you say it’s how you say it”… so I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanIf it makes you feel better, women feel the exact same way about unattractive men. They either don’t see them at all or if for some reason forced to acknowledge their existence, they view them with utter disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | PPD Meetings.Fat and STILL no big boobs? Oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:48 PM |
| 19 | When Queens from TwoXChromosome or Twitter reveal their misandryWhat is incel about pointing out this hypocrisy? Funny how anytime you criticize women it’s misogyny and accusations of being an incel. As if the only reason a man is capable of being critical towards women is because he doesn’t get laid or has had relationships with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:47 PM |
| 6 | When Queens from TwoXChromosome or Twitter reveal their misandryAnd that makes it ok for them to spew misandry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:45 PM |
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