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Nice ty
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:36 PM
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Been chatting up this girl now and then: -She called me beautiful 3 times total. Instead of handsome. -Called me compassionate man, instead of passionate. Am I making this a big deal? How do you guys deal with friendzonie compliments?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:49 PM
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jesus christ dude. nice fantasy.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:32 PM
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lol it would explain the source of the anxiety perfectly, but i asked her about him to make sure of that. She seems to light up talking about him, though maybe i didn't do that good of a job finding out the truth. thanks.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 01:06 AM
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Wow really messed up the grammar here. Apologies.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:59 AM
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I already do that rule via texting. It seems my definition of investment was wrong. Sorry everyone for the stupid post.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:25 AM
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1 on the way! Finding other girls is the best thing I could do, I understand that. The questions are still valid: At what point is attention too much attention. What is attention defined as? At what point will taking away attention draw them in? How do you get girls to contact you on their own via texts or calls? What are some good ways to get them to invest in you.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:06 AM
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A man living in the west gets naturally emasculated overtime, it doesn't matter who you are or how "alpha" you are. It is going to be a constant fight to recover from it. A life-long project.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:32 PM
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I've been there recently, still pissed at myself. It sounds different in your head, but if she is gently saying no, then it IS a shit test (not a firm NO). She clearly wants it, you have to deal with her objections. That simple. Persistence would be key. Play it as no big deal. You bring her over. Fool around, anticipate her resistance because if it happened before I garunteed you it will happen again until you pass the shit test. I also noticed you have been complaining about "too much effort."…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 10:13 PM
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ould be down, provided I love you guys.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 09:55 PM
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Right on point
/r/askTRP24/04/16 07:15 PM
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seems i had a different definition of sexual innuendo in mind. never mind folks.
/r/seduction08/02/16 11:33 AM
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Do not sneak in the fact that he is engaged. Either do it plainly or don't. Your friend being engaged isn't going to kill the attraction, just put him off-limits. I believe the best thing to do is tell her everything about your friend, this should make him less interesting (no mystery) so she can focus her attention on more mysterious guy who hopefully happens to be you. I don't think you will succeed, lots of rookie mistakes here.
/r/seduction08/02/16 11:06 AM
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Thanks phone autocorrect: I suck at sexual innuendos*
/r/seduction08/02/16 06:17 AM
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He will suffer, just to learn such a basic lesson in life. Lost all respect for him.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:34 AM
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Exactly, even when he makes stupid comments/points and gets questioned on those he deflects effortlessly thanks to holding frame. Would like to see two people holding frame like trump while going at each other instead of the rest of the republican candidates which are way more beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:26 AM
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So what if they are the "hottest" if you aren't getting laid.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:36 PM
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Any resource that looks at human nature from an evolutionary POV (ie. men are hunters and women are gatherers). Any resources that really hits the point home that everything humans do is inherently selfish with the purpose to ensure their genetic material to the next generation. Anything action that seems to lies outside that goal is to preserve relationships that may one day help them out. After that you should read the Torah/Bible/Quran to get an idea of the "sins" that people are so prone to …
/r/askTRP20/11/15 02:19 PM
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Scandanavia doesn't count because the women there hate men in general. Feminism to the extreme. As a middle easterner myself I have had no problems in Germany (pre-migrant crisis), Netherlands, Austria. In fact it was easier to meet women than back in Canada. Even with an initial language barrier. My rational is that they have higher SMV because overall they are more alpha and redpilled than native europeans and asians. Though I can definitely understand what you mean by the whole reputation thi…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:35 AM
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where have you been and for how long? I've lived in Germany for 6 months and traveled Europe. In Deutschland german men were dating non germans and so were german women if given the chance.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:34 PM
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not many east asians. not many south asians. I imagine their SMV is based on how dominant they are compared to the european natives... indians and asians don't strike me as dominant. Middle eastern men and turks have higher SMVs.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:12 PM
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Honestly guys if you want to be completely Redpilled, you need to study the fundamentals of human nature from scratch to truly purge yourselves from any bluepill thinking lurking deep in the subconscious. After the basics are done, go to more complex issues like the differences between men and women, their different nature, their respective attraction switches. Then the redpill/PUA material will make perfect sense because a lot of it is based on human psychology (ie. dread game is super effectiv…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 11:04 PM
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Amen.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 05:48 PM
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Or you could start with a story of an interesting day at work that reveals something positive about you. Always best to have a few answers planned before hand since this question always comes up. Anything to prevent the conversation from going into autopilot mode.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 05:44 PM
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If you were going to send her flowers you need to buffer that effect somehow so she doesn't think you are pedastilizing her.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 05:41 PM
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Reminds me of watching my colleague try to convince this girl to donate to a good cause (door-door sales). The girl said she has a boyfriend but her body language was showing signs of attraction in neon lights hahaha. So if saying she has a boyfriend means nothing. Then not mentioning him is a good sign.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:08 AM
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You are asking the wrong question. People with curly hair want straight hair and people with straight hair want curly hair. Indians are into skin whitening while white people want to go out there and get tans to become darker than people from Latin America or the middle east. Latin men/women want European men/women that aren't hotheaded, European women/men want Latin men/women because they are 'passionate'. Do you see the trend here? People want what they can't have and are fascinated by differe…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 08:55 AM
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You need to travel to non-feminist countries like Italy/france/middle-east/austria(?) to find out, preferably countries where there is a larger difference in what it means to be a man or woman. You may find it surprising that in these countries people have been redpilled all along. In other words, they never started overdosing on the bluepill. By people being redpilled I mean men and women. For example, women are very much aware that they need to secure a husband before a certain age, unlike her…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 08:33 PM
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first, keep your cool just like 48 laws says you should. not sure how you should counter though.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:22 PM
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Beautiful. "If you text her just to text, call her and talk about nothing or hang out with no definitive end goal, you're orbiting." So if i do the last sentence, once a month, am I orbiting?
/r/askTRP01/08/15 02:00 AM
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wow some butthurt beta cucks on this thread. Reminds me of this jealous dutch fellow complaining about 3 dutch women flirting with their arab co-worker who is fat and significantly older. So let me contribute at an x-muslim arab who has lived in Germany for 6 months. OP you define as "Muslim Culture" is actually a collection of many different, diverse, eastern cultures. Let us generalize for a moment to prove my point: -indians/pakis: mostly super betas. -turks: ultra alphas. -arabs: overall mor…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:51 AM
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so by your own logic, you are a loser by responding to me. nothing to say here, not worth my time.
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:13 AM
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this sounded so beta
/r/seduction18/07/15 03:35 AM
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hello Bob is speaking. hello this is bob calling. was that so hard.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 03:32 AM
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helps avoid onetitis too even if they are platonic!
/r/askTRP18/07/15 03:09 AM
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you are right doug. For me it is just a respect thing. I always return my texts 100% of the time. never been in the recieving end of a needy texter though.
/r/seduction18/07/15 02:15 AM
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looks like the cologne coat of arms... never going back there again.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 10:40 PM
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to add some context. a girl adds me on fb and when i asked why she tells me that next time i'm around she will give me a tour, etc. now i have actually decided to move to the city because it is my favorite city to live in and she wont respond back. she was the one persuing me, so it kind of blows my mind on why she would flake unless she is fucking another guy.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:01 PM
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i have lurked in the male section for a bit months ago, it is still not clear. i will check it out the sidebar though and thanks for posting
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/15 01:29 PM
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no need to act like a baby throwing a tantrum.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:55 PM
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It sounds like you have anger issues lol. What i am talking about is that the anxiety that i have once conquered is coming back. I sat back yesterday and made a plan and things are going well. Step by step. Your post was unnessisary, counter productive, and inflamatory. You come across angry and your critism isnt even coming out of a place of tough love.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 05:23 PM
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Maybe ask /r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP01/02/15 10:45 PM
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You know lemon, i think you are on to something. I went to a psycologist back when i dropped out of university and he drew me a paper of pretty much what you said. Positive momentum was a straight linear line while the negative momentum was a line that started spiralling out of control. So thank you for the input!
/r/askTRP01/02/15 08:04 PM
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What parts make it seem like i am childish?
/r/askTRP01/02/15 08:00 PM
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Please ignore the bolding at number 8. Not too fimiliar with reddit, i unintentionally bolded it.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 06:36 PM
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Yes you guys are right, i never considered the ratio to be this high... it is rediculus :)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 01:26 PM
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Oh just wait till these uglies are in the work place, they will make your life a living hell. It is a common trend that i noticed, the hotter girls treat you better.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:22 AM
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So how do you propose that men sleep with so many women while women keep their partner count low. That isnt mathematically possible, thus retarded.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:07 AM
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They arent faking it when they are ridding themselves of social conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 09:00 AM
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Agree with the first paragraph, but not with the first one. How can an alpha be as fake as a beta 'nice guy' exactly? It ia impossible unless we both mean different things by alphas. Being yourself is great advice, if at the very least you attract people who like you for who you are which boosts your confidence, inturn boosting your attraction.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:10 PM
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Don't neglect your hobbies. Whatever happens, happens.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 01:11 PM
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Well i think it is the polite form of saying: "just have some balls"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:37 PM
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Many people here are horribly wrong. This whole "women dont know what they want" is PLAIN WRONG. The only exception to that rule is when they want or expect you to lead during an interaction, date, LTR, etc. they arent clueless idiots and know exactly what they want in a man. Go on dating sites, they practically spoon feed you what they want, and what they want is a guy that will not bend over for them. Women tell you to be yourself because most guys they meet are fake, women call these men "nic…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:33 PM
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Lol. You apologize if for example you made a cancer joke and the girl's friend/family-member died of cancer. When you cross a line it is a mark of strength, not before hand.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:01 PM
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How do you know this without talking to attractive girls. I was bad with lesser attractive women and great with attractive ones.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:25 PM
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I'm not sure if what i am writing below can be contributed to femininity or the novelty effect that comes with travelling. As a man who travelled through europe i noticed this phenomenon. 5/6's there would easily beat 8/9's at home because i felt that they were treating me as a human being. I brought this up with another guy i met on my travels and we both agreed that looks do not seem as important as they were back home. Girls were elegantly dressed, sweet, and classy (when it came to flirting,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:24 AM
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Time to make it a habit then :)
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:28 AM
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I think the mere factor that so many think of it as "cold approaches" makes it hard to approach women. It becomes super difficult to initiate the approach and maintain it if you are thinkong "how can i approach this woman." It is better to think, "how can I make this fun." You just have to be social with everyone and the women part will come naturally.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 09:17 AM
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Are you living in canada where docs can do w/e they want?
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:42 PM
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Go for the low targets? Only 2 MAJOR PROBLEMS HERE: It is more effort. Good luck breaking the ice with women who are shy, insecure, and possibly socially retarded. Especially considering that you will be (cold) approaching them as an alpha, not a beta. If a 9/10 approached you tomorrow and you have little to no experience, how would you react? You'll just freeze. They are easily offend (due to being insecure bitches). Goodluck not offending her during the teasing phase. Maybe I am just bad at ca…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 09:37 PM
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Tl;Dr Be a touch person that touches everyone
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:13 AM
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Try holding eye contact 95% of the time during the first meeting. It will amplify rapport like crazy. You will feel like you knew them for months before hand.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:07 AM
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Lol had to google what cold approaches are. Not totally sure but here goes. Stop books reading and go practice Get a door to door sales job Attitude: starting the convo you should assume without doubt that she wants to talk to you. Tips (all about positioning and picking yiur targets): 1. Talk to women that are relaxing/stationary 2. Talk to women that are drinking a cup of coffee (relaxed) 3. Do not talk to women that seem worried, unhappy, or in a rush. 4. Be yourself
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:21 PM
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Solid performance. She has a bf. Her friends knew number 1 and intervened. Loved the ending, you didnt turn beta at the end.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:56 PM
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OP framewalker has the only half decent advice here. Just dont french kiss her when it is your first kiss ever.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:29 PM
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Best way to teach is be that rolemodel.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 02:27 PM
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Lol um wut? Obviously you set the date first before getting the number. After the date is set up getting the number is the natural thing to do and she would look like an idiot if she didnt give it to you. How how my conversation loop goes: Find something about her profile that caught your eye to start a convo, build rapport and break it with teasing. She will try to establish rapport gain by qualifying herself. Approve of her or deny her which makes her try to qualify herself even more. Repeat t…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:34 AM
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I mentioned the first sentence because some people have different sexual libidos. Some want sex every day and some every week. This problem sometimes leads to sexless marriages. I brought it up so you can think about the importance of matching the sexual libido BEFORE marriage. Obiously if you never had sex you don't know how often you would like to have sex.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:22 AM
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He may not have the life experience to fully understand TRP so start with the fundamentals: lifestyle choices , how to build his image, and to watch out for how modern day feminism de-programs men to be men. Some interesting twitter hashtags for that are: #womenagainstfeminism #feminismisaweful Finding some youtube celebrities that deconstruct feminism is useful to. David D had some materials about masculinity and how to be a MAN, i highly recommend it. Examples of lifestyle choices topics: Heal…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:11 AM
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There is a delicate balance between reading and applying what you read. The more you practice, the easier you read. The more you read, the less you practice. You need to tune this. Have you ever learned a language? Surely you learn the basics, apply them with practice, then move on to higher level material. Same with most science courses. Skipping to advanced material without the fundamentals is a very risky move... which is what i feel is happening in your case.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:33 PM
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Just dont kill yourself on the voicemail. Say: "hey, it is mark. Cya"
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:04 PM
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Wrote an essay first time around. Lets try again. There should be no respect for betas that enable these golddiggers and parasites to thrive. They deserve to have their hard earned money wasted. You could say that these betas and parasites are a perfect match for each other because a parasite cannot latch onto a non-beta. Money is not the main key to happiness. Just a tiny one. Side note: stupid people exist so others can make money off them. By looking at these betas this way, you should just f…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 10:04 PM
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Google: times mood map united states.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 09:25 PM
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This. ADD here, can vouch for what he says. lack of sttucture KILLS us.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 08:05 PM
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So what if she wants to have sex everyday and you every five days. Do you see why it is wise to test out sex before you commit? Also you need to get with and experience as many girls as possible so you know the value of your future wife, so you can respect her more. Religion makes you withold sex in order to make marriage more binding. Because you will only have that deep bond with your wife and will as a result, be less likely to divorce. Ie. Your wife is a bitch, you are hesitant to leave her …
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:54 PM
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It comes down to this: 1. Brush it off as if nothing happened, under the excuse that you were drunk. If you feel beta doing this then look at option 2. 2. Break up. Just say you need some time alone, that your arent feeling like yourself (vague is better than specific here). Avoid contact for a month. Focus on yourself and get that group of 3 hot girlfriends around you. Then you can ask to meet your ex (that is if you are still interested) and start from scratch. Pro-tip: we all get mad at our s…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 03:33 PM
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Id like to add to jtromo's point. Yes it is a shit test of sorts, that is why you need a mentality of abundance even if you are in a relationship. Also i had a friend from europe come and room with 2 men for 4 months before heading back home. How do you think her LTR boyfriend felt? Well he sure was not beta about it. I can further confirm he was not beta when i met him in europe. Mad respect for him. They are still together today.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:37 AM
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Wow. I'm no expert so just my opinion. Maybe next time it would be better to tone down the drinking so this kind of behavior doesnt happen. Just drink enough so that you are tipsy. Also, make sure to keep around 3-4 hot girlfriends (just friends), it helps us not respond in a beta way should anything go wrong with the LTR. Second, it may have been a better move to LEAD (emphasis of being a leader) the gf out of the club rather than respond in a beta way to the guy. Im sure you know that even if …
/r/askTRP18/01/15 10:34 AM
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Excellent, this is exactly what i wanted to know! Also, thanks for letting me know about the festival too! I will come to Köln on feburary 1.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 10:11 AM
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You don't have the right to stop her. Whatever happens, happens. Find a new LTR if it comes down to it. I think she will flirt for sure, mabye not go on a banging spree.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:52 AM
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Beautifully said.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:42 AM
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Did throw around sexual teases, bring up sex as a topic or bait her into bring it up? Did you escalate the touching? (Hand to arm, arm to arm, hug). Rather than show 0 interest, you should get her to work to earn your interest. Have her qualify herself to you.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 11:59 PM
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