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Law 18 - Do not build fortresses to protect yourself; isolation is dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 12:45 PM
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Handy to know then. I think I have mistaken it for the situation of it being in a chlorinated pool.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:58 PM
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I thought sperm only lasted a couple of seconds outside a human body before it loses its baby making potential?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:49 AM
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I'm browsing through the PDF file, and my first impression is that this is a must have for every common reader of this this subreddit. It seems to be a very thorough understanding and instructions guide on how to improve yourself and how to see certain things.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 08:52 PM
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I have a question for OP or anyone who could answer it. Social media is mentioned to share your pictures on the regular. Which social media do you recommend? Facebook? Instagram? Anything else? I have Facebook but no Instagram, and I can imagine I will have a lot less followers in Instagram than on Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 10:38 AM
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I always wonder what males look like when they constantly get laid by using Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:28 PM
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I see, but thats still 3 situations where things didn't seem to progress. So after those three times, I can see the dude being more careful opening up.
/r/seduction01/06/15 04:08 PM
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Well the first few times you have been rejecting him. So it only seems natural that he is reluctant now. Be more direct next time and no more excuses.
/r/seduction01/06/15 02:57 PM
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Girls are not used to being rejected. In today's society, females are the buyers while the males are the sellers. For every female, there are at least 5-10 males texting/talking to her, trying to get a date. They have the choice which ones to have sex with, not the other way around. Being rejected thus is a relatively new concept to them.
/r/seduction20/05/15 08:02 AM
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I think you (and the documentary) are right. Looking like a try-hard really diminished your chances. The only downside of being relaxed is the slippery slope of being TOO relaxed and dull. That is something to be reminded of.
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:26 PM
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Unexpected, but even better than your original! I have favorited this fine graphic. While more elaborated, it does not comprise its characteristics of being clear and concise. I think many people, including me, can use this as a general lay-out for their life (!) to see what's in order and what's not.
/r/seduction17/10/14 07:23 PM
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Nailed it! Posts like these in my opinion give us a lot of insight what the 'last yards' look like. I'm also happy for you that there is continuation left, instead of being it a one time only.
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:34 AM
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Nice read, and you played it well. I get the feeling I'm missing something though. You talked for a couple of hours and then BAM sex? I'm not asking for 100% details now, but I'm still about some things. Like, the party was over and she invited you immediately, or how did it go? And where did the other girl go?
/r/seduction13/10/14 07:43 AM
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Thanks for your response, I was getting the same idea about Toilette. The smell is good, but not nearly strong enough to really bring it over to someone else. I can imagine it is quite easy to overdo it with Perfume though. I guess I just have to order some Perfume and experiment a bit with the doses.
/r/seduction09/10/14 12:57 PM
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I am using some Eau De Toilette, but I heard Eau de Parfum is better, is that true?
/r/seduction09/10/14 12:45 PM
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Looks like you are WAY ahead of your average 19 year old then! Use it to your advantage, but I'm sure you will be able to do so.
/r/seduction23/09/14 07:20 PM
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This has got to be one of the best threads I have read in a long time here! You make it very clear that getting F-closes is just one (tiny) aspect in your whole life. Thanks for sharing your helpful insights. You mention that you are very young, which makes me curious, how young exactly are you?
/r/seduction23/09/14 04:51 PM
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That's the way to handle rejection! Don't make a big deal about it, sometimes they can indeed be pretty funny. I have a sidenote with dealing with rejections overall, though. Sometimes I read that a lot of pickup artists (or seducers, or whatever) are rather misogynistic. And perhaps that's true, my point is not to judge about that. The point is, is being misogynistic the way to go? Or should you value every female response as 100% worthy? So in your case, the women made a concious, honest, obje…
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:17 AM
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Well that's an interesting mindset for sure. "Getting laid" as the end goal might set you up for insta-failure: either you don't get laid, or the lay was bad etc. I will try to put on this mindset. It might take some time, but I think it will be worth it.
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:30 AM
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Good analogy, I get what you mean. In general, one spends relatively a lot of time getting out of the big pool of average chumps, to get to the actual end goal. I have made tremendous progression in virtually all things regardings social settings except for one thing yet, getting actually laid. I feel like I'm close, and insights like yours help me to better understand what I'm trying to aim for!
/r/seduction05/09/14 08:47 PM
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Well I'm 24 and am like at the beginning of practicing seduction (at least, the actual practice, not reading/studying). Thanks for your response, reading this gives me insight about what it's like to actually 'be there' where you want to be.
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:08 PM
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How long did it take you, from seriously digging into PUA, to getting laid on a constant rate?
/r/seduction05/09/14 11:04 AM
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Reading your post is like a dream version of me. I want to be desired too in a way just like you. Where did you meet the majority of these girls?
/r/seduction05/09/14 10:19 AM
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Texting is no problem, but it will when you only text. Right now, we can assume 'you lost her'. It's been some time without actually meeting up, and she is probably texting with a couple of a new guys anyway. Maybe I'm pessimistic, but that's why I assume there is no real connection left. BUT, if I were you, I would try to spark things up again. Ask her how she's doing, that it's been such a long time ago and that she should go do some drinks with you. The 'no' is already there because the conve…
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:45 PM
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You have to build rapport, I hope I spelled that right. What I mean is, the girl has to remember you for the good things. Sure, she might have given off some IOI's, and that's good. However, have you actually done stuff? Doing a nice activity, making out or fucking? If not, the you are just one of the newly added numbers in the girl's phone of this week. Numerous guys are texting her while you do, and you have basically nothing really to stand out with. Also, the longer you text without actually…
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:29 PM
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I know I should have escalated more in the beginning. Back then, I didn't read a single thing about seduction, I think my game has improved vastly over time. The goal for me is not even whether I can F-close her that night. It's more like curiosity, seeing if she is still down for anything, or that I can delete the useless number.
/r/seduction29/08/14 08:39 AM
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That's what I'm thinking too. I already don't speak to her, so the worst what can happen, is that things remain the same.
/r/seduction29/08/14 08:37 AM
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I hear you, the first one essentially is warming up. If you get anything out of it, congratulations. If not, also congratulations, since the first is the hardest and you actually stepped over that seemingly high hump. I'm getting more experienced in also getting rejected, which I feel is beneficial for both my gaming and overall life. It indeed toughens your skin by a lot.
/r/seduction22/08/14 10:17 AM
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That's what I imagined, mostly from a bar/club, since people are more open in those environment......and my daygame sucks haha. I know what you mean with those curious girls, I think I got mild success with those. I will have to look for more opportunities.......and also using them.
/r/seduction22/08/14 10:16 AM
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You make a good point. When are you more pussy? For keeping your calm, or succumbing to peer pressure? Doing what YOU want, is the key ;)
/r/seduction22/08/14 09:20 AM
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I'm a noobie regarding seduction and all that, but I think this is a relatively known side effect of actively pursuing girls. By going this journey, you generally will think that your life will become much better once you get the pussy. In reaility, while the sex will probably feel good, it doesn't really change your life generally. You are still you, with your same hobbies, friends, work/school and mood, but you just have (more) sex additionally. It's one of the good points the book "The Game" …
/r/seduction22/08/14 08:44 AM
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Thanks for your contribution OP. I would like it to be different, but I can't say I am not envious of your "performance". Could you make a short list of those 8 girls where you met them? I know it's a numbers game, but I'm failing flat with approaching enough girls.
/r/seduction22/08/14 08:37 AM
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Good to hear that you made the right decision, which ended well for both of you. That's what I like about the 'gaming' perspective, it's all about spotting opportunities and actually using them.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:07 PM
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Good read! I'm a bit new here, and what was the most fascinating bit of your post was the ending. You changed her attitude from leaving, to fucking. How did you initiate the first kiss then?
/r/seduction13/08/14 08:13 PM
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Yep, I have unblocked her again now, she probably didn't even notice. Blocking might look like a concious act of my emotions towards her.
/r/seduction04/08/14 06:42 AM
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I guess you are right. I should try to just stay cool.
/r/seduction04/08/14 06:41 AM
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That's what I'm thinking too. Not that good dancing = constant lays immediately, but it sure helps to know what you are doing on the dancefloor, instead of acting like a fool. The link you posted showed me a really good playlist of all this stuff. It looks like a pretty big list and I'm looking forward to dig into that.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:19 AM
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I have looked up some videos (prior to making this thread) and some videos are golden! Perhaps that is also a really good starting point. Remember, I'm just looking for basic stuff, not specific gimmick moves.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:07 AM
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That's something I am doing and should be doing more. See what looks good and try to do it too. Experience and time will learn me this.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:04 AM
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Thanks. Though I am not really referring to some gimmicky moves to specifically impress anyone. Just some basic rhythm stuff to not look like a fool.
/r/seduction14/07/14 06:55 PM
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Most of the time it's not as complex as we think it is. For approaching, my strategy so far is to approach within seconds of seeing someone I would like to approach. If he/she is too far to approach within that time, I could try to get closer, but it's still important to not overthink things. Also, sometimes I just don't like the term "rejection". What does it really mean? No kissing, no number, no fucking? You interacted with the person you wanted, that's a win in itself. And now you are known …
/r/seduction12/07/14 07:00 PM
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You basically started from scratch, to going out and approaching not one, but two girls in one night. That's a huge step already. I like to go out solo, because I can do whatever I want, whenever I want. No cockblocking competing friends, just you and all those people to approach. If friends would invite me to go out with them, I wouldn't say no, but I just may prefer going out alone anyway.
/r/seduction12/07/14 05:23 PM
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Very good advice of OP, and my limited experience can confirm it. You need to let a girl think about you sexually. How will she do that when you have never touched her in the first place?
/r/seduction04/07/14 05:29 PM
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gotta love "friends" with relationships cockblocking their single friends
/r/seduction03/07/14 05:52 PM
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Now this is why I like Seddit! Thank you for your true words. Seduction is not only about having those witty lines and other techniques. First comes first, try to feel good yourself with confidence and overall satisfaction.
/r/seduction01/07/14 09:26 PM
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Wait, his dick? Perhaps I should clarify, the upper line is said by a woman, the second line is said by me.
/r/seduction28/06/14 07:11 AM
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"Does your thing still work?" Puts on sunglasses "Only one way to find out"
/r/seduction27/06/14 10:00 PM
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It's becoming clear I need more women sitting on my chair........with me inbetween.
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:57 PM
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Only point of critique I can think of is that you sound off as needy, if you do it this way. Since you are doing things pretty fast, it might give a needy signal.
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:47 PM
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Speed seduction eh? That sounds pretty interesting, and also logical to try to seduce a woman at a quick pace.
/r/seduction27/06/14 08:34 AM
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Your background will indeed have a major impact on you as a person. However, judging your posts, you at least understand 'what's going on'. And that may be even more important. Having a less than desirable background probably gives you a lagging start. It's crucial that 1) you understand this problem and 2) act on it to give yourself that one final social boost. You have done step 1 more or less, now it's time to take the second step!
/r/seduction26/06/14 08:38 AM
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That is also true. I can already imagine it happening like in a cartoon. She might be so dumbfounded that she doesn't want to kiss anyway, which would be a major fail. Still something to learn from though. I'm not really sure now if I should really try it. And I love YOU, random sedditor!
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:02 PM
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haha I'm not sure how I would put this forth, but it definitely made me laugh!
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:03 PM
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You bring a lot of true points I agree with. It's indeed auto-peacocking, I'm probably the most noticeable guy in the bar! Cannot really say for myself whether I can dance, but the reactions so far have been pretty positive I think so. It's indeed fun. Riding a girl to the bar is something someone else also mentioned and I really need to try that! And I literally laughed when I read your plans for the next ride. I know that I have to do regular game, and it's indeed true that I have some gimmick…
/r/seduction25/06/14 05:50 PM
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I should have known, thanks for the clarification!
/r/seduction25/06/14 04:55 PM
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I will take a look into it, thanks ;)
/r/seduction25/06/14 04:55 PM
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Some advices given here are just pure gold, and this is one of them, thank you! Your line made me genuinely laugh, I could definitely use that in some variation.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:51 PM
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I can imagine that no matter how good and interesting you are, there will always be some girls who reject you for some reason, but that's also okay. Those are indeed mostly people you wouldn't want to deal with anyway, and there is always a sliver of luck involved.
/r/seduction25/06/14 01:35 PM
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I find it hard to decipher what your point is, but it sounds remotely positive so thanks anyway!
/r/seduction25/06/14 01:06 PM
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They indeed regularly assume nothing works anymore down the waist. Luckily I am pretty quick to debunk that myth most of the time. Getting sexual, as mentioned before, is one of the things I have to work on. That's also a good point, I should have my story both true, but also more funny in some way or another. I can't think of anything remotely funny yet, regarding having the wheelchair for longer distances, but I should come up with something.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:49 PM
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Well you have to start somewhere. I'm not much into daygame though. I mean, I have no problem talking with girls at day, but actually approaching them to game is not yet my thing. So I go out at night to bars. No friends to go with? Great, just go alone then, you have more opportunities to meet new people anyway! Go out at the time when you know the bars are getting filled up. You don't want to start in an empty bar comprised of a couple of friend groups only interacting with each other still. A…
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:44 PM
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Rambo goes fourwheels!
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:39 PM
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True that, it can go both ways I suppose! Thanks, the chair indeed doesn't bother me at all. 'It' also works, in case you were wondering. And that is my mindset too. If they don't want to deal with me because of the chair, then it's their loss, not mine.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:39 PM
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Thanks, and you keep up the good work too! Try to keep a positive attitude and pouring time and effort in it. Create opportunities every week to get a nice basis for practice.
/r/seduction25/06/14 11:00 AM
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Haha I'm not sure in what way I should ask it specifically, but it could be pretty funny.
/r/seduction25/06/14 10:45 AM
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Thank you kind sir!
/r/seduction25/06/14 10:26 AM
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I'm also pretty open about my disability. There are two risks however with it. 1) It shouldn't become a pity party. So it is important to be open and honest, while also focusing on the positive things. 2) It can be a pretty rich conversation talking about your 'story', but what after that? So your line or my line can help transition to a different subject, before they have to 'go to their friends again'.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:32 AM
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I'm certain I can play things right eventually. I just need more experience, since I have basically none at the moment. Just a matter of time and effort I believe.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:25 AM
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Thanks Spanish for letting me know also Seddit has at least one douchebag :)
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:25 AM
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I fully agree with you Kiwispam. I have yet to see an other guy in a wheelchair in the club. For the rest, I know being realistic is important. But giving up things because of my wheelchair is not really realistic and certainly not important.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:24 AM
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what?
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:20 AM
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Also neon lights, thick rims and a giant exhaust.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:19 AM
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Your first two sentences, I hear them all the time when going out. That's actually it, I also have the feeling I'm getting close to really picking up on a regular basis. That's why I asked you guys for some particular tips and I must say I am pleasantly surprised! Some really good points are made. Holding on a conversation is something which doesn't go right yet all the time, so I definitely need to improve on that. Also opening could get some improvements. Overall, it's about the conversations …
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:14 AM
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I cannot stress enough how this is such a good point, and that I need to work on this. Like other's said, I can just invite them to sit on my lap. It's easier for talking, and it creates more intimacy. Sometimes people crouch down near me, and then I can say the same thing. Surely it is much more comfortable sitting down, than crouching.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:08 AM
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His personality is certainly admirable. Other than that, I don't see a link yet to being teh ultimatez pick up artist.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:02 AM
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That is something I need to do much more! I don't really avoid it, but I'm not really on it that much of the time either. But when I do, I alo get a good deal of attention.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:01 AM
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I agree with this, but who knows what works in a crazy bar full of crazies.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:00 AM
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That's what I think too. They don't really need to smoke, go to the toilet or their friends. The conversation is virtually done so they use an excuse to not awkwardly end it all. I haven't thought about going to their friends yet. It might be a really good way to live up things again, as well as meeting even more people.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:00 AM
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Thank you! I feel the same, I already am confident and don't really give much about being rejected. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and it's their loss for rejecting me. It's indeed that I need to practice more to improve my actual game. I rarely meditate. I technically know how to do it, and sometimes have those weeks where I meditate daily, but as I said before, those are rare.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:50 AM
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I find the wheelchair being a natural filter for the people I wouldn't like to interact with anywa. I also find indeed that people who have relatives in a wheelchair are a bit more understanding of it all, although I have met people without, who were also really understanding, but not pitying. I still need to really fix my step three you mention. Sometimes I'm pretty good at improvising, but I also want some sort of template as a basis.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:46 AM
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Indeed, it's important come out as a strong individual (which I genuinely think I am, which helps). I don't need someone to push me around. Actually, I don't LIKE being pushed around. Sure, for a short distance just for fun, be my guest. But other than that, I want to propel myself, showing what I'm capable of, if that makes sense.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:43 AM
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That's a very good piece of advice! Just assume she is attracted to you, and play accordingly. She will either respond and you get what you want. Or she will back off since she was only being nice, in which case you shouldn't be wanting her anyway.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:40 AM
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First things first, what is MD? I feel like a noob........ Don't let being a virgin bring you down. And as you mentioned before, you did everything except putting your pillar in a woman's hole. I'm pretty sure you will get there! Most of the time, I too get it out of the way pretty early on that I'm NOT paralyzed. In my opinion it doesn't change much for the attraction of the girl - at that point she is still interested or not, doesn't change with being paralyzed or not. Instilling kino early on…
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:37 AM
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No it's not ;) In reallife I know a few people who think the same. Those are all people who haven't gone out with me yet. After they do, they are convinced that I can easily go out, regardless of how crowded a bar is. Even moreso, the more people, the better I like it!
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:27 AM
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Photoshop something around me as a person? Care to elaborate what you mean exactly? :P
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:26 AM
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Haha, well perhaps! Although the wheelchair in itself is already standing out from the rest with its modern design and metallic look.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:25 AM
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You hit the nail with your post. Confidence is no problem for me, going out is no problem for me. I will get enough opportunities, now I just need to utilize them better.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:24 AM
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I definitely need to learn it. Well technically I already can, but not as easy as I would like yet.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:24 AM
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However straightforward it might seem, I haven't thought about that line yet! Thanks.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:23 AM
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That's indeed probably better. It offers some 'goal', instead of a girl sitting on my lap indefinitely, having more chance to end awkwardly.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:23 AM
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I think you have. I literally laughed out loud when I read the line. Now I don't know how it will work in reallife, but there is only one way to find out! Thanks a bunch for your contribution.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:22 AM
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Glad I gave something back to Seddit!
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:21 AM
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Haha I'm not sure about that particular line, but I get the idea! Even moreso, you are totally right. There are some people asking right away with a question heavily implying that my legs are paralyzed, but they aren't. My arms aren't toned as fuck, but like mentioned before, enough already to get some comments. I work out.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:18 AM
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Brofist. When going out, I also get a lot of compliments how I'm such a strong person for going out. It's a double sided coin. I know people who hate it, because as normal people, you just like having fun too. On the other hand, I just plainly love the attention, so that is never too much for me! The pity/novelty people you are talking about, sound familiar to me. I think it's important to 'convert' those persons in genuinely interested ones. For example, if they constantly talk about your wheel…
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:14 AM
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I think in the past I asked (and sometimes just told them) to sit on my lap. Definitely worked occassionally.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:07 AM
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Oh then it's a different story! They hearin', they hatin'
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:06 AM
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That's right, having them to go for a smoke / back to their friends is just because the conversation is dying down. If the girl stays interested and the conversation is interesting, she WILL stay. I don't know about making up a story for why I'm in a wheelchair.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:05 AM
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Well that's something I'm already proud of myself. I don't give a damn if they go away again. I just try to learn from it and use that for the next time.
/r/seduction25/06/14 08:03 AM
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It is fictional I suppose?
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:05 AM
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I don't have really thick arms, but I ocassionally get comments about my muscles looking nice. Most of the time I'm doing short sleeves ;) My junk works fine! I could indeed weave that into conversation, I will have to think about how exactly. The 'come here often?' line hasn't really been giving results yet indeed. I also need to look into better ways of holding conversation.
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:04 AM
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I have seen that video many times ;) it is definitely inspirational.
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:01 AM
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Thanks for the true advice. I feel it is pretty much applicable to my situation. I need to turn the conversation into something more interesting and forth-going.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:57 AM
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Thank you for the kind words. Confidence is key, a lot of people say, and it's probably true.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:54 AM
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I'm a bit savvy with my wheelchair, but popping wheelies on the go is something I have yet to master, haha. Fortunately, I do not see the wheelchair as an impairment.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:53 AM
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Indeed, I have the feeling I know what I want, and I just need to create consistent opportunities for that, aka going out regularly. I will do this.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:52 AM
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I don't buy them drinks. Girls buy ME drinks ;)
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:50 AM
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Thanks for the tip, it all probably comes down to confidence indeed. I'm actually pretty satisfied with the attention I get, it's just that I need to direct it more the way I want.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:21 PM
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Thanks for the props. I think it is also indeed something I just need to grow in to find my style.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:20 PM
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Escalating to let them sit on my lap is something I seriously need to work on. I got it a few times, though. The line you post is really good, as well as something as 'it's easier to talk if you sit on my lap', instead of asking for it. It's from birth, I need it for the longer distances. When I'm walking, people don't notice 'anything'. You should see those faces when I easily get standing up.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:18 PM
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haha that might be a good one, if the bars didn't have loud music from their own already.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:16 PM
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It probably is. I can be naive regarding people, always trying to think they have good intentions. But that is not always the case.
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:48 PM
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Girls can choose what they want. In my case, my ex was sexually texting multiple guys during our relationship. After she broke up with me (also through text), she was sleeping with another dude within 3 weeks. I had to begin from scratch again regarding pick up.
/r/seduction24/06/14 11:56 AM
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Very good job! I hope you have a good time there, and are able to escalate during the actual date. My daygame sucks.
/r/seduction23/06/14 12:41 PM
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Huge props to you! You effectively indeed rediscovered yourself. You went through some epic trash, but you thrived through it all to become even stronger.
/r/seduction22/06/14 05:06 PM
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That's something I should be doing more indeed. Instead of hanging out with the same set, and naturally running out of stuff to talk about, I should be moving around a bit more.
/r/seduction22/06/14 01:53 PM
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Indeed the context might make it wholly different. If you respond that you are alone, and actually don't want to be going out alone, it comes out as negative and that you are a lonely creep. If you respond that you are alone by choice, since it is easier and you have a good time, then indeed people give you props for the courage.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:46 AM
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I'm pretty sure I will tonight!
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:45 AM
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I am pretty much self-motivated if do say so myself. Sometimes I hate that people ask why I am alone, but on the other hand, most of the time I'm just plain honest in telling that it's just as fun, if not more. They usually react positively. I absolutely despise cockblocking, and friends who are either 'too good' or 'too bad' all could do this. Prematurely leaving a place is also not something I like.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:45 AM
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I also agree with this. Of course I also have experience with going out with a group of friends and I definitely know what you mean. Sometimes it can help to have people around you know, but most of the time it is you who should be approaching new people. For me, regarding logistics it is also just easier to go out alone.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:43 AM
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A very good line! That's basically one of my life lessons: you should be doing what you want to do, regardless what others do. Absence of friends willing to go out should NOT stop me from doing so.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:41 AM
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I see, a lot of those threads are positive in the way that going solo is not bad at all. Making up an 'excuse' is something I don't really like though. I fear for responses such as "I have to go, but I will see you later with your friends" or something else in the line of expecting them later.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:40 AM
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