shbro1 Archive

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2	CMV: the fact that women complain about double standards when it comes to the number of past sexual partners reinforces the fact that men are not allowed to show insecurity Why do you even try to date women? Sounds like you can’t stand them, in general. If you’re so insecure about being a woman’s consolation prize, then maybe don’t date women who make you feel this way. Plenty of women are serial monogamists, notwithstanding having had significant romantic or sexual experience with other men. If a woman is lukewarm towards you, move onto something a little more reciprocal, perhaps. Don’t chalk up a woman’s tepid feelings for you as purely being a function of her n-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 05:22 PM
1	[CMV] Press "F" for respects I misunderstood the "F" to pay respects part of the OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 09:40 AM
1	[CMV] Press "F" for respects Ohhhhhhh... RP has been quarantined... OK, I didn't know that. I'm not that active on Reddit these days, so not really up to speed with the latest controversies	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 09:38 AM
1	[CMV] Press "F" for respects I'm speculating. Incels got shut down. I was assuming if RP got shut down, it was for similar reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 09:36 AM
1	[CMV] Press "F" for respects Maybe one day the same will be said about human females.. Why do you care? Just go ur own way, if chicks are so vexatious to you Since men that wanted to pursue women will have no place anymore to discuss about it they will massively join MGTOW. No one would miss them, tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 09:35 AM
2	[CMV] Press "F" for respects It's purely a legal concession; reddit.com don't want to get prosecuted for hosting a forum that incites violence. Plain and simple	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/18 02:04 PM
2	[CMV] Press "F" for respects It's definitely not simply a matter of community tastes prevailing. Plenty of other on the nose subreddits are still going strong, after all. r/spacedicks for example... Quarantined, but still... there... Poor taste =/= banned	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/18 01:58 PM
23	[CMV] Press "F" for respects I 'liked' r/TheRedPill because it was an exposé of gender dynamics that was otherwise taboo to discuss in mainstream channels. It genuinely taught me a lot. I gave up browsing it long ago because I grew bored and jaded with the constant nonsense, and once you've 'got' it, it just gets tiresome and repetitive. Same old, same old. Banning it? Hmmmmm... I'm guessing it was a pointed, legally protective move, not simply a matter of community tastes prevailing. If it, as a forum, were fomenting (inci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/18 01:52 PM
2	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. Meant long read. Ah! I thought it may have been an expression I'd never heard before. Honestly though do you not think it is unlikely for a woman to penetrate a man? Yes. The original definition of rape would have made it impossible for a woman to be found guilty of the crime, but it also made it impossible for a male who forcibly penetrated another male anally to be found guilty of the crime. It was insufficient to provide equitable justice to victims of sexual assaults which didn't fall into o…	/r/MensRights	29/03/17 12:10 PM
2	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. The victim does need to be penetrated, but not just vaginally, or anally. Being orally penetrated by a 'sex organ' counts, too. A penis need not be the only culpable appendage, when it comes to vaginal or anal penetration, which can explicitly be done with any body part, or object. There is another provision in the Victorian statute which explicitly includes the act of causing sexual penetration against consent in the overall definition of rape, so 'made to penetrate' would be defined as rape, t…	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 10:52 PM
1	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. There has been a lot of good discussion in this thread, generally, but I was only responding to your particular comment here.	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 07:58 PM
1	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. FTR, the equivalent legislation in Victoria, Australia, includes 'surgically constructed' vaginas as part of the definition of 'vagina'. Not sure if this is universally accepted, however. The definition itself is pretty airtight, otherwise. I disagree that the definition itself makes it very unlikely the perpetrator would be female. It's discomfittingly gender-neutral - anyone can be found guilty of raping another on these grounds, no excuses. Keep your fingers, mouth, sex organs, and wielded ob…	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 07:20 PM
1	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. This definition of rape includes male victims. The term 'vagina' is inclusive, not exclusive.	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 06:33 PM
1	Apparently Homelessness is only a Problem if you are a Woman. Sexual penetration is possible without a penis. It doesn't matter whether the recipient is male or female. Think tongues, fingers, and objects. A male forcing his penis into a non-consenting person's mouth is just as guilty of rape as a female forcing her fingers into a non-consenting person's anus is, for example.	/r/MensRights	26/03/17 06:22 PM
2	Opinion Piece Delivers a "wake up and smell the bullshit ladies!" message in a major media publication There is no doubt in my mind this would be the case. The thing about 'feminised' roles, trades and professions is that they are chronically undervalued by society, both in remuneration and in prestige. Women have the reverse Midas touch, as I like to put it - everything they touch turns to tin. Is this fair? Is the value we place on women's work commensurate with the value it contributes to society? Imma say, no. Absolutely not. Doesn't mean women are social dead-weight, however. Far from it. Th…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/01/17 02:48 AM
-3	Opinion Piece Delivers a "wake up and smell the bullshit ladies!" message in a major media publication The assumption that gender 'has something to do with it' is problematic, not the reality. Hiring, or eligibilty, policy should not be based on gender stereotypes, but on individual merit. If 9/10 times a man can do it better than a woman, then so be it. However, when it comes to matters not of pure brawn, is a man really 9/10 times really more likely than a woman to do it better? Let's look a little deeper. Is our society truly a meritocracy? I propose it absolutely isn't, and that's my beef. In…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/01/17 01:23 PM
4	Opinion Piece Delivers a "wake up and smell the bullshit ladies!" message in a major media publication Having worked in several call center/office type jobs I can safely say it is much better to be a woman there than a man. Um, those jobs are extremely low-brow office work. Speaking as an ex-call centre worker myself, with years of experience in the industry. Managing a call centre is not where the money or prestige of the corporate world is. The men you weren't seeing were all out making serious money in a serious job elsewhere. Manual labour would earn men more than those types of office jobs.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/01/17 12:12 PM
0	Opinion Piece Delivers a "wake up and smell the bullshit ladies!" message in a major media publication i said that they are not equal until they shoulder the burdens of society as men do. that means doing all the dirty harsh work. why should they be considered equal if they don't do equal work? Gee, I sure hope all the (female, duh) child care workers, aged care workers, teachers, and nurses don't suddenly go on strike where you're from, because, believe me, the men won't be picking up the slack anytime soon. Ditto, all the (female) factory workers, subsistence farmers, et al in developing countr…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/01/17 12:04 PM
6	Opinion Piece Delivers a "wake up and smell the bullshit ladies!" message in a major media publication If you can do the job, you get the job, if you can't, you don't. Sounds fair. No need to bring gender into it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/01/17 11:54 AM
2	Anyone notice how if a biological aspect is found in women that advantages them more then men it's an automatic sign of their superiority but if men are found with a biological advantage then it "must" be socially constructed? Not all men are gonna be hunting protectors and not all women are gonna be nurturing mothers. That's right. But it's not so easy for everyone to break free of these ingrained expectations, and there are ingrained expectations. I have witnessed on numerous occasions the profound angst that some men experience when they feel disenfranchised of meaningful purpose in their own, and their family's lives, particularly in relation to their role as a provider - either sole or equal to their partner. Une…	/r/MensRights	26/06/16 03:42 PM
0	Anyone notice how if a biological aspect is found in women that advantages them more then men it's an automatic sign of their superiority but if men are found with a biological advantage then it "must" be socially constructed? Thus, as male-only professions and traits are rapidly disappearing from public discourse, strength is masculinity's last hope. This is a salient point. If men, women, and robots can all manage to perform the same jobs that historically only men were fit to perform, what roles are left just for men? Women will hold their exclusive child-bearing positions for some time yet, warding off the threat of social obsolescence until then. Personally, I know quite a few men who have felt the sting of think…	/r/MensRights	26/06/16 12:12 PM
8	Anyone notice how if a biological aspect is found in women that advantages them more then men it's an automatic sign of their superiority but if men are found with a biological advantage then it "must" be socially constructed? Women are more empathetic, more intelligent, better readers, more altruistic...all because of science. As a second wave feminist and woman, myself, I bridle at these assertions, because they're so freaking sexist and misguided. Women are as equally capable of being self-interested assholes as men are. I will fight tooth and nail for this reality to be universally acknowledged. Women can be just as dastardly as men can be. (And just as insipid, too.) That's my feminist 'truth'. Recognising it is …	/r/MensRights	26/06/16 11:26 AM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted These were women who fancied themselves as being morally superior to men and the White Feathers is how they had set out to prove it. I don't know enough about the history of the women's suffragette movement to comment on this with confidence, but these aims appear to be at odds with those of the official initiators - government/military big wigs, who presumed to trade in men's insecurity over having their masculinity challenged by those whom they most wished to impress out of customary social de…	/r/MensRights	05/04/16 07:13 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted It was, in fact, led by suffragettes. Specifically, women like Pankhurst. I am robustly sceptical of the claim that this campaign was thunk up by, and so successfully inculcated into the public psyche by women suffragettes alone. This passage from the essay I linked describes what I believe is a more likely accurate account of its inception: This campaign had been started by the English military, in the form of Admiral Fitzgerald, but even diehard recruitment agents found something repulsive and…	/r/MensRights	05/04/16 04:23 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Google the White Feather Campaign OK, I did, and it definitely is interesting, shocking stuff. My response is based on the the top 2 Google searches, but mainly focused on the second: http://www.studentpulse.com/articles/151/the-white-feather-campaign-a-struggle-with-masculinity-during-world-war-i. (The top Google search result was for the Wikipedia page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_feather#Symbol_of_pacifism_and_peace.) The former source is presented as an academic essay, AFAICS, and se…	/r/MensRights	05/04/16 01:45 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Without equality under the law, those are all just different ways of saying "sexual discrimination". Fair enough, but men and women intermingle outside the law, much more commonly. As a heterosexual woman, I am actually pretty OK with being sexually discriminatory myself, at least when it comes to romantic and sexual relationships. I get the strong impression that most self-described MRAs do not distinguish legally enshrined gender equality from personally enforced gender equality, and it's to t…	/r/MensRights	05/04/16 11:02 AM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Are you denying that there is a sense of schadenfreude in this debate? No - I have seen plenty of it here in anticipation of the 'inevitable' female eligibility for the draft. Did you mean something else? Like, the reverse, perhaps? No, the schadenfreude is reserved entirely for feminists. Wait, never mind. For women, we reserve nothing more than equality under the law. As a woman who holds many core feminist ideals close to her heart, even I reserve so much more for men than what you've describ…	/r/MensRights	04/04/16 05:32 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted many years of listening to countless feminists belittle the draft as not being a legitimate men's rights issue I see this kind of argument come up a lot - feminists don't even care, therefore, boo, women, howsoever your misfortune may catch you up! Where are these feminist draft naysayers? Would you be so kind as to provide a source, or two, since I seemed to have overlooked them. Yes, I am happy to be proved wrong/mistaken/surprised/whatever. I just really need to see this exact rhetoric in con…	/r/MensRights	04/04/16 01:31 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Not to beleaguer the point, but the poll was specifically worded to get people to answer how they feel about a gender-neutral draft, independently of their broader attitude towards the draft. The answers were not surprising, either, as they follow a longstanding trend across many decades of women being opposed to a gender-neutral draft. You'll be happy to hear, though, that the trend does show increasing support among women, in spite of still being a minority. Apologies for not responding sooner…	/r/MensRights	04/04/16 01:16 PM
2	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted The truth is, men aren't allowed to hold a driver's license, receive financial aid for college, or even vote, unless they agree to be "drafted, kicking and screaming". wat. Maybe in the U.S. this is the case, but it's no way the case in Australia. We even, get this, abolished the death penalty. Like, we don't have it, at all. On principle. You claim that you understand that the draft will happen I'm pretty sure I never said that. I might've said I understood or agreed with something else within …	/r/MensRights	28/03/16 12:34 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted You don't get to pick and choose the circumstances under which you are drafted. That's not how it works. Not IRL, but that's how I interpreted the hypothetical posed in the poll's question. And if women are just as capable of fighting as man, then gender is no more of a criteria for a cut-off point than "ginger men name Jerry who were born in January". I agree, but I didn't think the wording of the poll's question was as cut and dry. I may be just increasingly jaded, but I suspect that the subtl…	/r/MensRights	28/03/16 08:08 AM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Also, you are corresponding with a combat veteran. Military veterans, including those who have volunteered are subject to a special-purpose draft known as a stop-loss policy. This means that in the event of a war, all military servicemen will automatically have their contracts extended until six months after the war ends, unless the president says otherwise. Do you know how long the Iraq War lasted? 14.5 years! Hey, I'm not unsympathetic to the effects of the rigours of military life on service …	/r/MensRights	28/03/16 06:58 AM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted You haven't explained why you believe that women should be exempt from the draft if men are not. That was the entire question and you're refusing to answer it. OK, well, based on the exact wording of the question posed, I made the following assumptions: The question of my favour or opposition to the given proposal wasn't intended as a purely theoretical exercise within a hypothetical thought experiment: my decision to support or oppose the proposition would have direct effects on the hypothetica…	/r/MensRights	28/03/16 06:07 AM
0	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted the draft is part and parcel to participation in the military. Perhaps I'm misunderstanding what 'the draft' means in this context, then. I'd figured it meant the government calling on its citizens (historically only male, at least in Allied nations[?]) to enlist in its military for compulsory service during wartime. For those citizens who are already enlisted, 'the draft', as an instrument of coercion, isn't necessary. Voluntarily enlisted military personnel have already accepted the nature of …	/r/MensRights	27/03/16 10:49 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted The study makes women look like idiots. How so? I mean, precisely. Referring to the primary source. The survey, itself, is quite idiotic in some respects. Agree, in some respects. The primary data show some interesting biases. But I don't see anywhere within these numbers where men were forcing the women to answer questions a certain way. How on earth did you get to men forcing women to do anything, purely from the context of these simplistic poll results? What an odd segue... So, you were dying…	/r/MensRights	27/03/16 07:27 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted https://d25d2506sfb94s.cloudfront.net/cumulus_uploads/document/szskgtyydz/tabs_OP_Women_in_the_Military_20160321.pdf The actual results of the poll, minus the misleading and deliberately provocative reportage provided in the OP.	/r/MensRights	27/03/16 02:47 PM
0	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted They were specifically asked if they support a male-only draft over a gender-neutral draft. They support the male-only draft. They want the vote, they want the opportunities, they want all the perks with none of the costs. [Emphasis added.] 40 per cent of the female respondents said they oppose women being drafted in addition to men. 60 per cent of male respondents were in favour of women being drafted in addition to men. Which gender is more self-interested, purely based on their respective ans…	/r/MensRights	27/03/16 12:33 PM
1	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted But we are talking about the modern west where a clear inequality has to be corrected one or the other way. Serious question, but is the possibility of conscription still a thing? I honestly don't know with certainty, but I'd have assumed... not? Either voting comes with a condition for everyone, or it comes with a condition for nobody. I am interested to learn more about this contention - that the right to vote was/is inextricably attached to the eligibility to be compulsorily enlisted. I often…	/r/MensRights	27/03/16 12:03 PM
3	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted Alternately, women could be obligated to do something equally as onerous(sp) as being forced to risk ones' life in combat, such as being obligated to have X children to replace those lost in combat, or providing "comfort" to soldiers in the combat arms. Plenty of non-voting women around the globe are, and have been, 'obligated' to do all these things, and more, and not only during times of war, either.	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 06:35 PM
9	Poll: Women Support the Idea of Women in the Military, But Not if They’re Drafted That niggling little fact seems to have gone directly over everyone's heads. Supporting the eligibility of women to serve in combat roles != supporting the reinstatement of the draft, per se. One can hold both views, consistently. From the article: "There was a large divide among gender lines on whether women should be able to be drafted, with 60 percent of men claiming they support women being drafted (32 percent responded they “strongly favor” women being drafted and 28 percent “somewhat favor…	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 06:30 PM
1	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. Specific to this sub it sends a message about men and women. The same media told us that J-law's nude photos are the same as rape, but Bieber's nob is fair game, and The Hulk's private wrestling sessions are for the world to see. Now we're getting to the nuts and bolts of this submission. Did the 'same media' really tell us that J-Law was effectively raped because her nude pics were released without her consent? Do you have a handy source for this contention, please? I honestly haven't heard muc…	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 05:01 PM
1	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. The message is that hulkimaniacs aren't to be messed with. Haha! Is Terry Bollea the ultimate Hulkimaniac? The 'right' to privacy only exists if your jurisdiction recognises it, and allows for legal action against those who breach it. Celebrities' stock in trade is their willingness to forgo their privacy, at least in certain circumstances. The accepted role of the media is to seek out, and disseminate information about the world, truthfully above all else. There is no indication here that Gawke…	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 01:08 PM
1	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. That money doesn't actually exist without selling the business The judgement is against the business, so on-selling the liability which comes with the business won't help. The only individual judgements are against Denton and the former editor (?) and these respective amounts are only for a fraction of the overall amount awarded. and there will be appeals Oh, yes! There most certainly will be. It still sends a strong message. $60 million for emotional distress and $55 million for economic damage…	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 10:38 AM
-1	Black woman compares her life in America to the guy who was sentenced to 15 years of hard labor in North Korea Cops have more important things to do. They can just get a new food license right... Yeah I'm sure this guy knew the political climate... You know your local political climate, and that's about it, I'm guessing. North Korea is an entirely different ballgame. Foreigners, especially Westerners, are only grudgingly permitted to travel as tourists there. Each visitor is assigned a compulsory 'chaperone' who accompanies them for the entire journey. Only restricted areas of the country are available a…	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 09:59 AM
2	Black woman compares her life in America to the guy who was sentenced to 15 years of hard labor in North Korea I would love to go there. I would do precisely what I was told, and not one thing else.	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 09:30 AM
0	Black woman compares her life in America to the guy who was sentenced to 15 years of hard labor in North Korea https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_American_Vernacular_English (cf. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ebonics, for the lazy linguistics interpretation, i.e. none.)	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 09:27 AM
-2	Black woman compares her life in America to the guy who was sentenced to 15 years of hard labor in North Korea She was saying that a black man from America would have known better than to steal the poster, because he wouldn't have been used to being let off the hook via privilege. She didn't say 'black man' explicitly, but she certainly implied the same, which was the ultimate gist of her argument. Nevertheless, I wonder how many people here actually believe an African American man would have the temerity to pull off such a stunt in North Korea. I'm guessing, like, none. As in, nobody here believes that …	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 09:10 AM
1	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. Among other things, yes...	/r/MensRights	24/03/16 06:46 AM
1	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. I am not well apprised of the material facts of the case, but the amount awarded is surprisingly large, as per: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Punitive_damages#United_States. $140 million seems like Monopoly money here, it's so excessive. I expect that the appeals court will overturn the trial court's initial decision. Looked a tiny bit deeper, and the plot does indeed thicken: http://gawker.com/the-hogan-verdict-1766460791. Yes, this is Gawker's own response to the verdict, but that doesn't mean…	/r/MensRights	23/03/16 10:37 PM
-8	Gawker media on men vs. Gawker media on women. A double standard we cannot be ok with. You do realise this will never actually happen, right?	/r/MensRights	22/03/16 12:35 PM
3	Facebook discussion suggests that some boys up the road were going to do something bad to her https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loitering "Loitering has historically been treated as an inherent preceding offense to other forms of public crime and disorder, such as prostitution, begging, public drunkenness, dealing in stolen goods, con games, gang activity, robbery, harassment/mobbing, etc. Especially when criminal intent is suspected but not observed, loitering provides a lesser offense that can be used by police to confront and deter suspect individuals from lingering in a high-crime area."…	/r/MensRights	14/03/16 01:00 AM
4	Why crying "Sexism!!!" is used as the perfect alibi for any failure They copied the original casting structure, but made it more slap-stick comedy. It is made to appeal to women... and that's ok. It is completely ok to make a movie that appeals to a certain gender. [Emphasis added] Is slap-stick comedy really more of a 'chick flick' thing, or did you mean this movie is made to appeal to women, more generally? I'm curious to find out what people think defines a movie as being made 'for women' in particular, over the rest of all the other movies in the world. I'm …	/r/MensRights	13/03/16 08:49 AM
6	I mean really.. Imagine if a man had wrote this. Your story about your mother reminds me of something my own mother might've cracked the shits over when I lived with her. This thread triggered my memory of a 'cheating' dream I had myself, which involved my own mother and BF, which still gives me the willies to remember to this day. I agree that it'd be irrational and childish to take out one's negative impressions left over from events which occurred only in a dream on the people in waking life. Dreams can have a lingering impact on our consci…	/r/MensRights	18/02/16 02:16 PM
8	I mean really.. Imagine if a man had wrote this. I once dreamed that my then-current, now-ex boyfriend had slept with my mum. I didn't hit him, or her, either in the dream or while awake afterwards, but I sure did have a pit in my stomach all day, and since then whenever I remember it. I couldn't even tell anyone about it at the time, the very waking concept was that horrific. A nightmare, you might call it. Hearing any other story or experience about boyfriends, dreams, or mothers is preferable... ANY.	/r/MensRights	18/02/16 01:46 PM
1	Why stop at Rape Culture? The punishment, which equates to doing labor for years as a sort of proxy slave, does not fit the crime of entering into a contract with the naive expectation that love is guaranteed to last. Alimony is a by-product of deeming marriage to be something of a business arrangement between a man and a woman. If the marriage (contract) ends prematurely, (is frustrated/breached) one party may be liable to pay alimony (damages) to the other, depending on their relative standing both prior, during, and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/15 11:10 AM
2	Two common ways of deceiving oneself. Are they gender-specific? Set it to asshole, so nobody can fault you for anything or be surprised from what you do short of murder. This would be applying this observation to all things dating as a strategy. I have definitely seen it work. Pulled off consciously by guys. I agree with a lot of your observations here, but this aspect invites the question of how baseline assholes attract others in the first place. The hot guy who is also a baseline asshole might get a first date based on his looks alone, but what about a se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/15 09:39 AM
1	Is everything here about jealousy ? Perhaps the phenomenon of 'ghosting' the author describes isn't strictly relevant to the exact topic you're raising here, but it's definitely a new 'thing' everyone doing modern online dating will need to contend with, IMO. Basically, because there is just SO much choice available now, the dating market has become more cut-throat than it ever was before. There will always be someone else immediately available if things don't 'click' perfectly on the first date. Maybe, people would've taken more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/15 03:26 AM
1	Is everything here about jealousy ? I'm an humanitarian. I really do want everyone to get laid, if that's what they want. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/15 02:50 AM
1	Is everything here about jealousy ? I've commented below, too, but in light of this info I'll recommend reading this article, which comments on the disposability of individuals in the current dating market, purportedly created by the ubiquity of online dating: http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2015/08/why-good-people-ghost-how-our-current-dating-culture-necessitates-dishonesty/	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/15 02:08 PM
6	Is everything here about jealousy ? Whoa, slow down. Maybe be a little easier on yourself? If you just got out of a LTR, then you're at least dateable on some level. Your current unhappiness and frustration right now are probably very much related to this still: ...I am in the anger phase of my breakup... Perhaps you're coming across as too desperate and needy right now because you're on the rebound? Otherwise, you seem positive and optimistic about women and dating, generally, which is definitely promising. You've still been gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/15 01:44 PM
3	All Pills: What are some "lies" you were legitimately told about the world growing up and by whom? Be specific. I went from a Rhodes Scholar to a chronic underachiever in no time. I can actually recall the time this happened for me (in my mind, not necessarily in actuality). I was in grade five, and had recently moved interstate. I got a D on a math test I assumed I'd aced. My mum enrolled my sister and me in a private grammar school, which was local to the air-force base where she was working as a dentist. As a child of the 80s, I was frequently praised for my 'intelligence'. The reality was (is) that I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/15 01:57 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. To be fair there can only be one true winner. So that would make the majority of people losers. Unless you subscribe to the eeryone should get a trophy in that case then everyone is winners. There are as many winners as there are metaphorical races to the finish line - infinite. I definitely don't believe everyone should get a trophy just for showing up, because I value the concepts of competition, and striving to do better. The two concepts are not mutually inclusive, however, so striving for i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/15 03:26 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. What do you mean by economic? The costs of adhering to RP philosophy outweigh the benefits in this respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/15 12:35 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. No other purpose for the link except for a comedic break. Ha! Weirdly on point... Yes, a good argument is fun, but I wouldn't pay for it, which is why I post on here. :D I would agree that doing those other things are more important for self improvement but I think that talking about detracting from your self respect is very biased. That implies judgement which is basically crossing the action with your belief system and if they dont match then its bad. I didn't address this point, but I realise…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/15 10:53 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. How do you know what is characteristic or not? I don't! But, I don't need to, because I'm describing general principles - 'pretending to be significantly other than one's essential self is unsustainable'. (For most people.) Going back to your comment on actors - have you seen videos of auditions of famous actors? It's quite remarkable to watch them go in and out of character. Acting (well) is an amazing skill - it's also exhausting, emotionally and mentally. I know I made a flip comment about th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/15 09:09 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Is the crux of your argument that people who change for the good of themselves are narcissists but someone who would change for the better of someone else is not? No, I am arguing (opining, rather) that successfully adopting an otherwise uncharacteristic persona is so difficult to maintain for normal people that it's pretty much impossible for such. My opinion is that the people who are capable of doing such, are usually those with deep issues - people without a strong, stable identity and sense…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/15 05:07 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. You seem to be dancing around a point you want to make but are not making it. Elaborate on what you are talking about if you want to debate this. Are you suggesting that people who change religions have a significant event that has to happen to change them? What event are you hinting at? I am suggesting that people who can make such fundamental changes probably have a fractured sense of self and identity. Continuity of general values and worldviews throughout life are the overwhelming norm, not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/15 02:41 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Wow so all people who converted to atheism are dysfunctional? The rest of your point is not supported by my experience. At the company I work at we bring people from all of our foreign offices and most if not all of those people adapt very well. So this might be true in your experience but it is not in mine. This opinion that people who change later in life have mental issues, how much of this is about gays coming out of the closet later in life? Closeted gays are under enormous pressure to pret…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/15 11:55 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. It seems like you believe that anyone who can succeed at being someone else, then that person has mental health issues. Wait, your counter example of actors was based on their pretending to be someone else as part of their job? If so, how is this equivalent to someone pretending to be something they're not as part of their everyday life? Audiences know actors are acting - that's the whole point. It's their profession to pretend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/15 11:34 AM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Actors are the easy counter here. Although you could argue that they are mentally ill. Yeah, actors are fucked, at least the ones you've heard of. This is not a counter-example, I am afraid. Adopting ways of living, religion, moving to a new region and adopting new cultures. I DO believe there's something fundamentally dysfunctional about people who adopt significantly different religions to the one they were raised in. Also, adopting a new cultural identity is monumentally difficult - see the i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 02:36 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. But yet you support physical improvements later in life, its the polar opposites, isnt it? I am not exactly sure of what you mean by this. I support improvements at every stage of life. I don't believe that there's the strict dichotomy between the physical self and the ~not physical self, or at least not to the extent you seem to believe in? ETA: strikethrough, I hope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 02:13 PM
0	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. It seems like you believe that anyone who can succeed at being someone else, then that person has mental health issues. I guess so, yes. Can you share a counter-example? With this premise though you are basically ruling out anyone who adopts a new lifestyle after their forming years. Lifestyle and identity are mutually exclusive concepts on a fundamental level, I would've thought. Someone can follow a, um, let's see... paleo lifestyle at one point in their life, then move to a, hmmm... strict ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 02:08 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Hey, I am pro self-improvement! That's the part of TRP I am especially on board with. Am I worried about being 'duped'? No, not really. I'm not really that worried about other people getting 'duped', either, so you've got that part right. People gotta figure their own stuff out, and that means making mistakes along the way - nobody is immune, IMO. The thing that bugs me about guys just pretending to be something they're not, is that it's most, overwhelmingly, likely not to work out as planned. P…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 01:35 PM
0	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Sure. I wouldn't mind either, except, in the case of the guy pretending, I wouldn't want to find out otherwise. Nice is as nice does? (But, really, how often can anyone maintain that sort of facade?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 01:09 PM
1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Fake chess players, fake athletes, fake models... Do these people learn their skill purely to impress prospective romantic partners? Apples with apples, and all that. A good con man then could pull this off but someone who is genuinely trying a new method would be outed and bad. Yes, a good con man could pull off claiming a set of values not his own deceitfully as such. However, values are things which are exquisitely personal - sure, people can lie about having those which they actually do not,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 01:06 PM
3	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. I'd like a guy who was pretending to be nice, but actually wasn't, better than a guy who was pretending to be badass, but actually wasn't, everytime. The guy who is nice because that's who he is, should continue to be so. Genuinely nice people are well-liked, as a rule - even the ugly ones. Also, pretending to be completely unlike one's actual self is an impossible facade to maintain - at least for those who are not sociopaths. Fakes get caught out pretty quickly, unless they're damn good, in wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 10:30 AM
-1	Even if TRP was 100% SJW-friendly: they would still hate it. Would your opinion change if it was split into these kinda groups? Like if a dude got a guide on what to wear but not a moral guide would that make a difference? And the opposite of course. For me, it'd be both. I DO care about what people choose to wear and/or how they choose to present themselves, physically. But, it's not because I'm assuming here that a person who is 'taught' how to dress, groom, eat, exercise, et al, would be automatically more physically attractive to me. I see some very '…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/15 10:21 AM
2	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? So you think that all incel men are only incel because don't have martial arts training and don't shower? Yeah, I figured as much from the tone of your comments. The personal hygiene one is some low hanging fruit. Most people who smell bad don't actually know they smell bad because they're used to their own smell, and social conventions don't exactly allow for giving honest feedback in that regard. Martial arts as a way of improving mastery of your own body is pretty neutral - most people could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 12:37 PM
0	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? But you choose to assume that any man who is attracted to you doesn't want a relationship with you. Where did you read that? All just to pity yourself and consider yourself "incel" That wasn't my point. My point was that mutual attraction and mutual willingness to enter a relationship is comparably hard to find for both men and women. You have the option of stepping out of your self-imposed rut any second. You're choosing this. This was my original comment: I'm involuntarily celibate because I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 11:49 AM
2	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? I'd love to get some pointers on getting laid. I'd love to give you some! First off, I'd start with how you look, except I can't see you. Post a photo, or PM one to me, and I'll give you some advice based on what I would do if I looked like you do and were also a man in my 30s. Next, I'd want to know your mannerisms, and what your voice sounded like. A bad voice won't do you any favours in any arena of life which requires face to face interaction. Body language goes hand in hand with that. If yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 11:21 AM
2	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? Not really. The only two guys I can think of are already in relationships. One of them is my long-ago ex who is in the same social group as I am. Even if I were willing to go there again, which I'm not, he knows it would never work out long-term because what we both want from our partners in a relationship is so different. The other guy I was thinking of definitely finds me attractive, and might even sleep with me if I approached him, but he would never leave his long-term partner to be with me,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 11:01 AM
2	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? What kind of flaw dooms a woman to lifetime loneliness? Ask yourself the converse question: What kind of flaw(s) dooms a man to a lifetime of loneliness? There is probably significant overlap - crippling social anxiety; profound disability or chronic illness; extreme disfigurement or physical unattractiveness, etc. Would you want to date a woman who ticked any of the above boxes? Isn't there an at least theoretical point where notwithstanding another's interest in you, you'd rather remain single…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 10:40 AM
2	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? Firstly, how old are you? Secondly, in what sense are you improving yourself? Bear in mind most men don't give a shit about your education or career as long as they can basically relate to you. I'm super old, man. Like, 34. I do work on my career, but it's because I want to be independent. (I don't have a career, BTW, but I do have an entire bachelor of arts degree, and two-thirds of an Australian law degree.) I maintain my weight, take care of my appearance, and am super fashionable! I also get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/15 03:30 PM
-3	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? That isnt involuntqrily celibate. Just pickily celibate. OMG, same thing. You should check out some of the incels in foreveralone. OMG, checked out some of the top posts. I should probably join them. Relevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/15 02:58 PM
4	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? beta male hate is strong in this one Possibly, but I may also have a different idea of what a hapless 'beta' male is. To be fair to TRP, they tell these incels to improve themselves. I like and whole-heartedly agree with this aspect of TRP. Of course people should try and improve themselves - even the non-"incel" types. I work tirelessly at improving myself everyday, and there's no willing man in sight. I wouldn't want to date a man who considered himself already 'done', because that's boring an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/15 02:49 PM
1	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? Life is transactional. Yes, but disregard the rest. If you're painfully socially awkward, and so is she, then you probably don't have: Cash to flash; The possibility of creating hot offspring together; Any social standing whatsoever to prostitute to the highest lizard-brained female bidder. Must you have them, any of them? Unlikely, since the majority of, um, people don't have either 1, 2, or 3, let alone all three together, and still manage to pair up and procreate in fuck-off numbers. Go figur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/15 01:36 PM
11	If female hypergamy isn't real, than why are there so many male virgins? I'm involuntarily celibate because I'm saving myself for a man I want to have proper sex with. Sure, I could have sex with... whoever, but I actually want it to mean something, you know? Yes, I have standards. So do men - ALL men. Even the so-called involuntarily celibate men could get laid, if they really wanted to just get laid, and nothing extra. Most people Everyone wants to get laid - but only with all the bells and whistles peculiar to their own tastes - and even the desperate have a limit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/15 12:54 PM
2	Men Need Marriage Like a Fish Needs a Bicycle Feminism has succeeded in doing exactly what it set out to do: make men worthless to women. Feminism hasn't succeeded in making the opposite sex count for more than the sum of its reproductive/domestic utility to the other, according to the non-feminist inclined types, it seems. This is a valid criticism, IMO, although I don't share the underlying viewpoint. But, was feminism meant to make men and women 'friends' if they weren't that way inclined previously? Has feminism honestly failed simply b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/15 03:28 PM
-2	What do TRPillers actually like in women ? Begging the question FTW!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/15 01:19 PM
6	What do TRPillers actually like in women ? I'm still highly averse to marriage and LTRs. But I wouldn't trust a man to be in a position where he could take half of everything I own, plus ongoing payments. You hate everyone equally. I like you! :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/15 10:42 AM
6	What do TRPillers actually like in women ? RP doesn't hate women. We just acknowledge that they don't have good traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/15 10:29 AM
2	What do TRPillers actually like in women ? Homosexuality exists throughout the animal kingdom. I remember learning in yr. 12 psychology that mice, during times of extreme crowding, (such as a mouse plague) start to exhibit homosexual behaviour en masse. It occurred to me then that homosexuality is actually quite an elegant evolutionary solution to overpopulation. Gay people not only remove themselves from the breeding pool, but remain active in society, available to provide support in other ways. (Yah, I'm making sweeping generalisations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/15 10:20 AM
4	Why do you assume Red Pill men hate women? Dissect my comment, then. Go on. I showed you mine, now you show me yours. If you're not here to debate, why bother commenting at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/15 11:06 AM
14	Why do you assume Red Pill men hate women? Why is it so hard for people to believe that women aren't perfect either? I know they're not perfect, I'm aware of all their instinctual flaws, and I like them more as a result of accepting them for who they are. I'm able to have more fun with women because I no longer hold them to an unrealistic standard, and I can understand when something they do seems harsh or cruel on the surface but is simply within their nature. You don't seem to have a genuine 'comprehension' of women as people, and it c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/15 02:50 PM
1	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. My doc only recently told me that Vyvanse was available in Australia. It's not fully subsidised by the government yet, so a prescription would be too pricey for me to switch to yet. I might have the chance to do a one month trial for a discounted rate - like $30 for the month. I was interested to try it to avoid experiencing the usual troughs and peaks associated with taking several doses of dex throughout the day. As it is, I can get my dex script of 2 x 100 tabs for... $6.60! Can't really beat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/15 08:09 AM
1	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. Maybe not necessarily better, but more simple - dexamphetamine as it's known in Australia. Dexedrine might be the brand name of the US equivalent? I'm not a gay man, but I've heard a lot about the popularity of ice in the gay clubbing scene because it apparently helps men have sex with each other for hours on end. (shrug) ETA: this is an example of what I was talking about RE gay sex + ice: http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/ice-and-grindr-danger-in-the-online-playground-20140913-10fzeo.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 06:28 PM
1	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. Ooops, I initially thought I was replying to your... wife? I didn't read your username properly. But, yes, drugs are like a freeway to wherever you need to go, mentally. Not everyone owns the same car, however. A physically awkward guy is not going to bag himself an epic dopa-fiend chick just because he takes her out dancing, for example. If he can't keep up with the pace he sets himself, how can he expect to maintain her interest on those terms alone? Maybe he'd be more successful if he egged h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 06:20 PM
1	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. Gosh, I'm missing out, then. I have a script for something better than Adderall, but I'd never snort it. I take it as prescribed, and I ain't bouncing nowhere... I understand that amphetamines are very popular on the gay scene, too, for the erection-maintaining properties of such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 05:27 PM
1	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. Ignoring the rest of your comment, because I agree on your drug analysis.... I think you are wrong in saying women don't get a dopamine hit from "Drama" particularly starting an argument. Hey, I'm hurt you thought I said that women don't get a dopamine hit from drama. (pouts pointlessly) I answered the question as posed: Do girls get dopamine just from drama though? (emphasis added) Dopamine release and reuptake is influenced by heaps of factors, not just 'drama' alone. I'd venture that the effe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 05:21 PM
3	In any one on this sub is still wondering why men won't marry let this be your object lesson for the day The government will avoid paying a nickel more welfare than necessary by enforcing paternity tests on any mother accessing welfare. If there's a man willing to front up to accepting responsibility for a child, the government will gladly accept that commitment of responsibility, regardless of biological paternity, if it's just cheaper and easier all round to do so. More (even nominal) parents for a child = less in welfare payments the government deems itself necessary to provide. Really, it's jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 05:04 PM
1	In any one on this sub is still wondering why men won't marry let this be your object lesson for the day I don't know how it came out, but I know someone said he signed the birth certificate so he's on the hook. He's been raising the kid happily for the past 16 to 17 years; not exactly sure how old he is. He hopefully won't have to pay for that too much longer. His marriage wasn't a happy one. Him and his wife slept around. Dude made his bed, then proceeded to lie in it, 'happily'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 03:46 PM
2	Men fall in love easier than women, however, they fall out of love easier than women as well. Do girls get dopamine from just drama though? Absolutely not! Girls can get ++dopamine through plain old drugs. Speed, LSD, and cocaine are what you want to offer on dates to girls addicted to the D. (Dopamine, not Dick, but with a bit of luck and a lotta acid, BOTH.) Stay away from downers, like opium, alcohol and Xanax, though. Girls who love the D don't want the Other D so much when exposed to those Ds. Dopamine, Drama, Drugs... Dick. These things all get along very well with one another. Com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 03:38 PM
1	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… I think men assume that women enjoy "chores." I swear this is a trope in heaps of family-based sitcoms. The example which came to mind first was the episode of The Simpsons where Homer and Bart trick Marge into thinking the male icon from her favourite paper towel brand was actually coming to visit her. She was really excited about it! Effective paper towel products meant a lot to her. She was profoundly disappointed and humiliated when she eventually discovered her husband's and son's plot to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 03:02 PM
1	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… Weirdly relevant? np.reddit.com/r/TrollXChromosomes/comments/36mg2x/yes_becky/crffcyu Edited to change link as per: This response was triggered because you linked to reddit without using the "no-participation" np domain. Reddit links should be of the form "np.reddit.com" or "np.redd.it"	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 12:50 AM
1	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… I was thinking of MRP not TRP. And everything is self-Interested. It took me a while to figure out what MRP was, because it's not linked in the sidebars of either TRP, or RPW! I can see how a forum dedicated to discussion of RP strategies in LTRs and marriages in particular is more likely to discuss each partner's accountability in resolving relationship issues as they arise, in contrast to the narrow 'game' focus of TRP. A typical TRP man wouldn't deign to self-analyse his treatment of women an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/15 12:46 AM
8	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… Women, rightly or wrongly, begin to view their husband as just another one of her children. Her kids won't pick up their rooms and her husband won't mow the lawn. She sees herself as being the only person who will take up the slack and keep the ship from sinking. I think this is spot on - women nag their husbands because they come to view them as on the same 'level' as the children. I guess the thing about traditional gender roles is that the man gets to leave his place of work at the end of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/15 06:38 PM
5	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… Thanks for your response. I can see your point about RP forums focussing on agreed male shortcomings in relationships. It's mostly self-interested, though, and less collaborative than the process this woman purported to undergo. She seemed genuinely remorseful for her, as she perceived it, ungrateful, petty treatment of her partner. She wanted to change for the good of her relationship, without expecting any change from her partner in return. The glaring difference in RP discourse is the complet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/15 06:17 PM
9	Woman Realizes That She’s Been Accidentally Abusing Her Husband This Whole Time… I know what you mean when you say this behaviour is present in all women. I don't agree with you literally, but I've certainly recognised the same in my own mother growing up, and myself, from memory. But why? I wonder whether 'nagging' is a way women use to exert control over their lives due to lack of genuine power over things which matter more - absolute financial independence, for example, which women lack more than men on a society-wide scale. Some people might argue that women just natural…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/15 05:11 PM
0	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? 'Low value' men probably rarely commit to single mothers either. As I've already acknowledged, dating as a single parent is tough; children are a handicap at best, and often a dealbreaker for many people, male and female. The dating pool dwindles to a puddle, basically. I don't doubt for a second that it's easy enough for single dads to get casual sex with younger women. Forming LTRs with their pick of the bunch is not going to happen in the way you might imagine it, though, even if the single d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/15 06:18 AM
0	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? I have heard stuff like that before, but in a practical sense, children are a massive burden to both parents, unless we're talking about absentee fathers who are not involved with their pre-existing children/s' lives. I can't imagine that a woman who really had a thing against kids in general would be tempted to become a step-mother, all other things being equal. In my case, I simply wouldn't find an absentee father even remotely attractive on an intellectual level, so would be more than happy t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/15 10:24 AM
2	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? Of course you can (any woman can), but as you have bitterly learned, men will not commit to you. You have now realized how truthful the red pill really is and that while women hold the gateway to sex, men hold the gateway to commitment. You're over-the-hill and the high value men you desire are looking at your 24 year old counterparts. Sigh. The father of my two children and I were together for 10 years. We own a house together. We co-parent our children harmoniously. I've never been fat, but I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/15 07:38 AM
1	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? "Virgin" implies more than mere youth; it suggests a mindset or lifestyle, also. An older woman who 'maintains' her virginity, probably has cultural and/or psychological reasons for doing so which are (probably) negatively correlated with an enthusiastic attitude towards sex, generally. This usually spells doom for the married person's sex life, make no mistake. Is investing in a virgin really as worthwhile as some men think it is? I'm extremely dubious, but also a faithful, past the wall, non-v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 02:47 PM
6	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? I think any age is fine to want a virgin. Really? So you'd 'want' a virgin who was... 40, even if you were, say, 60? What sort of person remains a virgin by choice indefinitely? Well beyond completion of puberty is something I'd consider indicative of something unattractively dysfunctional about the person, regardless of gender. I think you would have to be very confident about your own worth and value to go for the prime pussy that is a virgin 18-20 year old female. '...prime pussy that is a vi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 12:53 PM
2	Why do men care about partner count so much more than women? OMG, yes. I (34F) wouldn't date a (male) virgin now either, and wouldn't have for quite a long time. It's just too weird, and I can't understand why any man, at least in my own age group, would want to date a female virgin. Beyond a certain age, wanting a sexual partner to be a virgin indicates a deep-seated insecurity about one's own self-worth. My own partner count is well under 10, but I've also never cheated in a relationship, and wouldn't in future if I'd committed to someone. Some of the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/15 11:06 AM
1	What do you think of a Stay-at-Home dad and Business Executive mother arrangement in a family? If the roles of the two parents are so rigid, it could cause issues of resentment if one needed help with theirs from the other, or vice versa, and the other was unwilling to step up. The breadwinner might not always want to be just the breadwinner, and the home-maker might always want to be just the home-maker. Unless the pair can address these types of issues when or if they arise, then the lack of flexibility in the division of labour is a recipe for resentment and unhappiness, IMO. One paren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/15 03:38 AM
-1	If alpha/fucks beta bucks is present in society, will men not continue to be adopt more RP values? Nope. 'Good' people, i.e. faithful partners in this example, regularly deny, outright, the blatant faults their beloved is telling them about all along. It's all a huge 'lie' when the truth can no longer be ignored, but most often, it was there all along, and the 'good' partner simply refused to acknowledge it. Yes, people can deliberately act to their own detriment, and not believe they are doing so - 'good' OR 'bad' people, as the case may be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/15 12:33 PM
1	If alpha/fucks beta bucks is present in society, will men not continue to be adopt more RP values? some black holes become quasars, brightest things in the universe. Yeah, for self-obsessed narcissists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/15 12:26 PM
4	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? In the same way that I don't think religious people can pretend their crazy zealots aren't really part of their religion (ex. Muslims saying terrorists aren't real Muslims), I don't think RPers can deny that these guys are RPers. This is a side effect of what TRP is and this is what TRP helps create. I agree. It's nice to take credit for the people who do your ideology proud, but not so much when the exact same ideology results in anti-social outcomes. IMO, you gotta accept the good with the bad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 01:30 PM
2	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? You have the right to pursue the relationship you want most. Everyone does. As long as you're upfront about your expectations, and follow through accordingly, then there's no issue, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 01:04 PM
2	BP, Whats the biggest Red Pill belief you disagree with? I wouldn't want men to be replaced with robots. As a woman, I have to say I love men, and mostly because they're different to me. (Yes, this is an egocentric view, but I know I'm not alone on this one.) I want men to do what they need to do, but I don't want it to impede what women, on the whole, want to do themselves. I really do believe in equality, but it's from the assumption that EVERYONE is naturally self-serving. Hence, I believe each person has a right to pursue their self interests as b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/15 12:56 PM
5	Should Low SMV men participate in nightlife? Or should they stay in and build up their SMV? I've always hated clubbing for clubbing's sake, and only went 'out' to see bands, or to go to raves with friends. I would never go out with the sole purpose of meeting strangers on my mind. Maybe I'm boring, though. If you don't have a suitable group of friends to go out with, and hate it anyway, it probably is a useless way for you to meet new people, especially women, if that's your goal. You still need to put yourself 'out there', but maybe conserve your efforts for social situations in which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/15 01:55 PM
2	[Serious] Feminists, how do you feel about MGTOW? I think /u/an_absolute_rose meant feel free to offend others with your actual opinion. Why should you apologise for it? If you set out to deliberately offend people, then expect, 1. backlash, and 2. (more likely) nobody will care unless you're somebody important. (Are you?) Proffering your "extreme" version of MGTOW for analysis on-line suggests (screams) that you care - a lot - what people think of you. I'm not subscribed to /r/Feminism or /r/AskFeminists, so am not familiar with their posting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/15 10:36 AM
1	How do you explain the existence of patriarchy if the sexes have equal natural willpower? The question is why were they able to be denied it in the first place? If women had this great power, then why weren't they in charge of who gets to be denied power/agency/buzzword? I'm not an expert on these matters, but I believe there are matriarchal societies which exist for both humans and other animals. I would argue that women have equally contributed towards the development and maintenance of patriarchal societies - as much as men. I think an anthropologist would be needed to answer why …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/14 01:17 AM
3	How do you explain the existence of patriarchy if the sexes have equal natural willpower? I DISAGREE! I think it's just the one thing - only women can bear children. That's a pretty big deal. Denying women any other power or agency in their lives was basically a necessity to maintaining a semblance of equal contribution to society between the sexes. Ask why the ability to produce more people isn't deemed the greater power, physically, between men and women? Why is men's generally greater physical strength compared to women's considered an unequivocal advantage, despite physically str…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/14 11:12 PM
1	Redpillers, do you believe in "wife goggles"? How do you explain it's origin or purpose? Humans take a very long time to reach sexual maturity. Even our gestation takes the better part of a year. Raising a human to adulthood is resource intensive, so it's not that much of a stretch to extrapolate that individuals who provided support to their offspring for longer than mere attainment of adulthood were more likely to propagate their genetic material in subsequent generations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/14 07:26 AM
3	Is the current system of sexual dynamics bad for society? Yes it is a social experiment. It's a radical departure from what previous generations of humans have lived with for thousands of years. No one is 'testing' a hypothesis - effective, affordable, self-determined birth control is available to women as a matter of health care, not social engineering, although social concerns would likely have expedited the development of the pill, for example. Whatever the social implications, it's no longer considered acceptable or appropriate to withhold access t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/14 10:11 PM
3	Is the current system of sexual dynamics bad for society? People married more out of necessity for most of human history. Yep. Today is the aberration, Yep. and therefore largely an experiment Nope. 'Today' is not an experiment at all. as it hasn't been tested long enough with any strong indicators of success. This is not the definition of 'experiment'. Access to safe, affordable birth control is not provisional. If it turns out that women are "suddenly" having lots of no-strings-attached sex with hot guys, leaving the 'brainy', 'nice' guys (yes, my us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/14 05:29 PM
0	Advice for (male) very late bloomer? I was dissatisfied with myself for a while but TRP gave me the final push to make a lot of changes. Good for you. This is why I'd call myself 'purple pill' rather than strictly 'blue pill'. I appreciate the self-improvement aspect of TRP, but feel that it's mostly lip service when I read the average TRP post and comments. You should continue your self-improvement journey, and realise it never really ends, IMO. Always strive to be the best you that you can be. Honestly, I think this is what is ul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/14 11:34 AM
3	TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics... If I leave my wallet in an unlocked locker at the gym and somebody robs me, guess what it's my fault and I accept that. I could have prevented that from happening. If I leave my keys in my car, I should not be surprised nor angry that when my car is stolen. The digital files were not kept in an 'unlocked locker' at the (public) 'gym'. The work of hackers is nebulous, esoteric and unpredictable to the lay person, as with the work of car thieves. (Who knows how to break into a car and hot-wire the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/14 10:36 AM
7	TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics... Just like you lock your house to prevent robberies even if you live in a nice area, you just have to do the same with your private material." I think these people DID, metaphorically, lock their houses to prevent robbery (sic). (Burglary is the crime when someone enters and steals from premises; robbery necessarily involves an assault.) It's an unfortunate situation for those exposed, but it's an opportunistic act more than anything. It is definitely NOT the celebrity's/ies' fault, unless they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/14 10:25 AM
8	Women's role in marriage (and later) - a question The man can lose his entire lifestyle in a divorce. The woman has to lose nothing. I don't understand how this plays out in real life. I'm from Australia and we have very good welfare provisions, so it must be very different to the US. If a couple divorce, they must live in separate houses, so if the wife is solely relying on her ex husband to support her, her lifestyle is not going to be anywhere near the same - one income split over two households doesn't go as far as that same income spent on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/14 01:44 AM
2	What is Rape? It is indeed included in the other provisions: "(3) A person (the offender) also commits rape if he or she compels a person— (a) to sexually penetrate the offender or another person, irrespective of whether the person being sexually penetrated consents to the act; or (b) who has sexually penetrated the offender or another person, not to cease sexually penetrating the offender or that other person, irrespective of whether the person who has been sexually penetrated consents to the act. (4) For th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/14 06:47 AM
5	What is Rape? I'll comment on this in relation to the law in my state of Australia - Victoria. Section 36 of the Crimes Act 1958 provides that '... consent means free agreement. Circumstances in which a person does not freely agree to an act include the following— ... (e) the person is incapable of understanding the sexual nature of the act; (f) the person is mistaken about the sexual nature of the act or the identity of the person; (g) the person mistakenly believes that the act is for medical or hygienic pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/14 04:12 AM
1	What is Rape? I'm from Melbourne, Australia, and in my state rape is defined thus: "A person commits rape if - he or she intentionally sexually penetrates another person without that person's consent while being aware that the person is not consenting or might not be consenting..." (s 38 2(a) Crimes Act 1958). Section 38 contains other defining provisions, but this basically sums up what I consider rape to be. The legislation is gender neutral, so men and women are equally deemed capable of committing rape, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/14 03:23 AM
2	I am a Heterosexual Woman AMA In that case, a gay man who's sucked a lot of cock, and vice versa, probably wouldn't be able to coach her either. Is good blowjob technique really so ineffable? I often read some fairly specific blow-by-blow accounts of successful blowjob technique by women on /r/sex, which seem to go down well. Maybe she just needs more practice. ;) Sorry for the puns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/14 10:01 PM
5	I am a Heterosexual Woman AMA I bet you could give great blowjob advice! What you like is probably not so dissimilar to what other guys would like, and I'm sure you have the vocabulary to describe what it is that a woman does when you get a good one. Furthermore, fish would be able to tell you what food they like, and therefore what bait is likely to work. The fishing analogy fails because you'd have to assume the fish has a vested interest in NOT being caught. Women do want to be 'caught', however, just by the right person.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/14 09:50 PM
4	Wage Gap Myth LOL. I can see your point about human resources employees - I suppose the world wouldn't exactly stop turning if they all didn't show up for work one day, so low salary is perhaps justified. The same could be said of many well-paid male-dominated white collar jobs which are non-essential too, though. I was inspired to do some further reading to see if I could find some studies comparing the pay of certain jobs relative to education and skill requirements in feminised and male-dominated jobs. Unf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/13 03:58 AM
4	Wage Gap Myth A lot of typically low-paid professions are dominated by women, teaching and nursing, for example, and the often highly paid STEM professions are dominated by men. Superficially, this can explain the gender wage gap as non-discriminatory - women are simply choosing the low-paid professions, so naturally are earning less than men overall. I believe the issue runs a bit deeper than that, however. Is it just some massive coincidence that jobs which are typically female-dominated are low-paid? Women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/13 12:31 AM
8	"I can visualize every girl I see as a trashy, internet cam whore, and it becomes incredibly easy to get back into state." I'm not bothered by the device of mentally 'depedastalising' women in order for men to relate to them more nonchalantly, or whatever, but I am bothered by the implications of devaluing women by thinking of them as "trashy, internet cam whores", women who post to /r/gonewild being used as example. These are necessarily pejorative terms, and the implication is that women are lacking character, no good and not worth treating deferentially if they post nudey pics of themselves online. Using his mind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/13 08:54 AM