| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real? | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 01:29 PM | |
| 3 | My oneitis sent me the "can we talk" email | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 06:12 PM | |
| 2 | new to TRP. Any advice for single fathers looking to apply whats here? | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 05:47 AM | |
| 2 | Difference between being called a "good guy" & a "nice guy" Is there one? Is it all perception? | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 06:26 PM | |
| 1 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it? | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 06:44 PM | |
| 1 | "this guy im seeing" how to counter? With a response or shrug off. | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 05:29 AM | |
| 0 | HB10 giving ioi online. | shebrokemintopieces | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 07:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.hahahaha ... | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.agreed.. i cant argue that at all.. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 11:37 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.3rd & worst con... ITS A MAN BABY | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.im not new to the internet.... been rocking chats since 1990 FULLY AWARE OF THIS KINDA SHIT. Haha.. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.pros vs con.. Pro i fuck a smoking hot chick even if its one time SCORE 1 for this dude Con.. Hard rejection from someone with a higher SMV who cares, had the balls to go for it, score for me right? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.I can agree to that being a very high probability ... .. Whats the damage if i go for it... its a hard no, & i no longer chat with this broad... What is there to lose? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.i went half monk ...? but need to get over the oneitis thing its seriously fucked me up, so im working numbers.. Got a solid plate that puts out, & 2 others im working out.. this was just a thought that came about ... Maybe Im misinterpreting the 1-10 scale, & the at the wall or post wall bit.. Shes super hot, has been riding the CC, & says shes done, shes always talking about getting game ran on her for the pump n dump etc.. "shes looking for the "nice guy she can love" lmfao.. so anyway seems … | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:30 PM |
| 3 | HB10 giving ioi online.What am i missing enlighten me.. its why I am here... | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.not over the moon at all... Shes just smokin hot, & I know ill blow it if i proceed any further on my own.. LMFAO thats why I am here asking questions.. Any time in the past i go no contact shes hit me up, tagged me in shit etc.. It could all be nothing, but id hate to think i had a chance to fuck this broad, but let it slide cuz I wasnt sure how to move forward .. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:23 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.I didnt mean literally.. chatting, sharing jokes etc.. i dont consider it a real relationship,, Just lack of a better term. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.I got other broads that im working with. .. Just curious to see what the approach if any to go after someone with higher SMV .. even if its online i dont care... i need distractions. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.Fare enough... | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:19 PM |
| 1 | HB10 giving ioi online.when i say online relations I mean casual chat.. theres not a lot of time invested.. so nothing can be lost... Just getting out of a oneitis realtionship, got hit up with a "can we talk email" from her, & honestly looking for anything to keep the distractions. Ive got other plates that are coming along. Just curious about this scenario | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 09:19 PM |
| 1 | RumoursGossip is everywhere.. it happens at all age levels, & groups in one form or another. Dealing with something similar.. Only a month into TRP after a bad split but ive cut all social contact to focus on being a bundle of awesome myself, & getting over some bullshit oneitis thats all up in the same social circle. Confirmed with a friend yesterday the gossip mill is churning, people think Im bummed out depressed etc. I got mad, & defensive, but was able to explain & I told him Im doing me, & that I… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 06:25 PM |
| 1 | My oneitis sent me the "can we talk" emailshort answer HArd nexted her because we broke up and she just cock hopped immediatly after to the next homie in line ... but it was a dumb thing for me to do from the get go.. read rant below. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | My oneitis sent me the "can we talk" emailoneitis real bad. FWB turned into a shit fuck fest.. I WAS SO BLIND BY ONEITIS ITS GROSS... Im damn near ashamed.. .. same chick 2x . we were fighting cuz i was calling her out on the slutty bullshit.. so she pulled they ill do what i want broke up, & cock hopped to the next suckeralldrunk depressed, and on whatever other substances she could get . every red flag... Horrible relationship with parents and the rest of her family. single mom, estranged form her kid. all her friends are dudes. drink… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 03:16 AM |
| 0 | My oneitis sent me the "can we talk" emailthis i so need to repeat this>... i am holding strong deleted that fucking email , and have been keeping myself busy by talking to a few other girls, i got one solid plate on the hook easy 8 i just closed on sex in my car in 45 minutes to an hour.. and other prospects that helped at least distrcting me for the day. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 03:07 AM |
| 6 | My oneitis sent me the "can we talk" emailMan i need someone with this advice and encouragement on speed dial.. like a TRP hotline. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 07:18 PM |
| 1 | "this guy im seeing" how to counter? With a response or shrug off.Once again great feed back. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | "this guy im seeing" how to counter? With a response or shrug off.HAHAHA Noted.. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | "this guy im seeing" how to counter? With a response or shrug off.fair enough.. i appreciate the reinforcements in principles | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 06:01 AM |
| 2 | "this guy im seeing" how to counter? With a response or shrug off.damnit. . . you are right. I should of just closed, & if she said yes then shes down, & I would of had my answer. moving on then... should I wait a few days then hit her up? or keep it separate for some new social circles, & activtys etc. ? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/14 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Plate Question: When they overtly confront youYep. Hindsight is a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Plate Question: When they overtly confront youNo sorrys needed, I wish I would of just gone with that arrangment instead of pushing for more... hindsite is a real bitch. Like many other sad sack a shit stories... I fell hard, it was the first girl after a LTR with Baby mom.... Just thinking baout it still makes me all fucked up... Ive got a long way to go. Your posts, & coments are fucking spot on IMO .. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Plate Question: When they overtly confront you""I'm not in a place were I can honestly say I'm ready for commitment. I hope that doesn't mean I have to quit seeing you, because I like being with you."" Fuck me I got gamed.. My oneitis said something almost exactly like that to me when i pushed for a LTR, | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | LTR questionsNever argue, debate, or justify. Agree and amplify, smirk and say nothing, or leave the room. such a hard lesson to learn ... | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 06:17 PM |
| 1 | A discomforting realization I had about male SMV based on Rational Male's chart."late 20s girls (immediately pre-wall or post-wall) are a fucking gold mine of casual sex. They're old enough to have done it a few times and gotten comfortable with it (less LMR, from my anecdotal experience) and still young enough to be hot, provided they took care of themselves. If they refuse to accept the wall and still just want to get laid, they're easy. If you know where to look, 30 is the perfect age to score with these girls." Desribed my last gf spot on ... 29 just past her prime, eas… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Need to do serious work on myselfIn the meantime, get some exercise. MAKE time for it; it's important. Around TRP everybody wants you to do strength training (lift weights). But ANY regular exercise will help you de-stress and help you become less dependent on alcohol. Make sure you're getting enough sleep. 7 - 8 hours is a real need. If you do the five hour thing all the time it will pull you down. I need to do this. My dependancy is pot. it's how i destress, & normally when im not in the "funk" it doesnt effect me in a negati… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?its a sub I think it stands for redditor 4 redditor ... if i'm not mistaken? shit's depressing in there | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?ill find the post again.. and link it here... please respond with this.. !!! | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?The thought of this procreating and passing down these traits, & behavior to future generations is the scariest thing. Sure i feel bad for the guy in the story, but really the real victims are generations to come if people like this exist to this degree. I can only hope that if a child comes out of this kind of scenario that they are not fucked up for life. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 06:06 PM |
| 2 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?HAH! Feed her a healthy dose of her own crap . . . | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Tinder meetup - girl makes me sleep in Seperate bedDid you just go to the guest room, was there any response, what happened? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 5 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?All my troll flags went up, it's just to perfectly written to piss people off lol | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?I don't know if I want to know the number's. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 04:20 PM |
| 2 | I was browsing r4r and found this gem.. is this real?HAHAHa right.. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | When TRP finally reciprocates, the joy is overwhelming.im missing the bit on cold showers? I understand qutting vices soda, beer , weed, fastfood, masterbation, but a Hot shower is heaven.... whats the take away from cold showering? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 06:04 PM |
| 1 | please give me a hand with this...That's a fundamental. We act, they react. If you wait on her, you'll wait forever. A week is long enough to wait. Message her with "I'm gonna be at X place at Y time. You should come - it'll be fun." i did just that with an old plate that im replating. we reconnected i said lets meet up we did. lots of ioi.... set something up for tha weekend it fell through.. i left it alone got a text saying sorry excuse excuse.. i played it cool no biggie. I'll give you a shout next time i'm free. that was a … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Facebook, good or bad? Helping or hurting me?It's a tool, not a crutch, I'm learning that now. My situation is different, but i do feel that minimizing facebook use use can be extremely valuable to someone looking to free up time to focus on themselves or other endevors. If thats not an issue for you then as someone else said use it... I was always glued to my phone fielding messages from friends, biz contacts, my gf. etc.. stepping away has cleared my head, & schedule. I now find myself with idle hands, but lookin for ways to fix all that… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls over Facebook?Fuck facebook... Ive made errors there... Def get the hell off of it, only use it for biz, keeping touch with fam, & coordinating meetups with friends if your going to a show etc. The less you are on and available i think the better it looks. 2 days after i stopped using my facebook like a fucking journal documenting all my escapades etc, just 2 days after radio silence my inbox was filling up from all sorts of people. Absence can create value. I have not responded to any messages in weeks, noth… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Slut-shaming and TRP?Id like to think that there is a slut for every occasion. The LTR slut, the one night stand slut. The slut you go to events with etc.. Am I wrong? Again I am new. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Slut-shaming and TRP?Again, Arent they all the same. Arent they all sluts? Should we not just lump them all into the same category already. regardless if they are currently practicing sluttery or not, they all have it in them. Keeping this in mind , should we always keep our gaurd up, & either manipulate it to our advantage, or use it as a guide to steer clear of the super sluts., vs the normal sluts | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you define the term 'slut'?Arent they all sluts, they may not always be on the clock, but they are all sluts, always? At least from all my sidebar reading. Not in a angry way, but arent they all the same? Shouldnt I assume this one rule they are all lying cheating sluts? correct me if im wrong I'm new. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 11:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you resolve your cognitive dissonance with TRP?New to TRP, but one of the things I have noted in my past, is that I have had a lot of female friends. I def fell into the catagory of orbiter on a few of those friendships. Most of them just wanted to vent about their shitty life problems, & I just listened, cuz thats what friends are for. NOPE WRONG. thats a gateway to get used in all aspects. Favors, emotional baggage getting dumped on you. If you know the homie they are talking about it's WAY to much TMI, Also complete boner kill when a broa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Tantrum Tuesday - 12/09/14 - In your anger phase of swallowing the pill? This is your thread.Angry phase here.. Im angry mostly at myself. It's fucking torture, & vicious cycle. I'm trying to use it to fuel the fire. Hoping to let it go cuz I am feeling HELLA BITTER.. I dont want it to seep into my normal social affairs. It's having an impact on me for sure. Not sure if it's good, or bad, or just a normal part of the process. Either way i'm angry. The side bar, & comments from the community members, & RP certified peeps have really been the light at the end of the tunnel. Not just the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 25 - "Re-create yourself."Re-locating is not applicable at this juncture for me. I am trying to recreate a better version of myself than I was. , I have to go the self improvement route and stay where I am, yet avoid anyone, anything trying that could sabotage my mission. To stay focuised, & not let myself get detoured from immediate goals I have isolated myself from social circles, but its a lot tougher than I thought. I havent communicated with anyone other than business contacts in any of these circles for weeks. It's… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 07:22 PM |
| 5 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.She has major emotional stability issues (i.e. Bipolar, BPD, etc). When going through either manic phase (or sometimes even depression), some girls will want to fuck, and if you are not around, anybody will do. wow , depressive self loathing, having trouble with your steady so any chump willing to validate a chicks feelings gets to pump and dump.. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 06:37 PM |
| 2 | My first serious relationship with a Party Girl, and it went just as you'd expect. Need your brutal truths and honest opinions, as well as advice to help me move forward.It's like this is a parting gift of a shit test she left me with. I feel like I am doing what I need to right now, but over the next weeks and months, I need to re-establish my social contacts, & status in the network. Get back out there. I have a slew of unanswered messages from people wondering what's up. I dont feel like explaining so I havent talked to anyone outside of my Biz contacts. %100 withdrawn. What will make this more difficult, is that my social circle is all bars, clubs, & partys … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 06:27 PM |
| 0 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.I never got married, not even to my baby mom .. but ... I saw all the signs, I aknowledged them, knew it was bad from the get go, & caught feelings anyway. I wanted to LTR, move this chick in with me. Party girl slut. So glad it didnt happen, it's a blessing in disguise. But the whole scenario didnt mind fuck me any less even with the hindsight. Lots of side bar reading, analyzing, & some implemenation brings me to these conclusions. Had I of had TRP to consult, & reference over the last 6-7 mon… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 06:05 PM |
| 2 | My first serious relationship with a Party Girl, and it went just as you'd expect. Need your brutal truths and honest opinions, as well as advice to help me move forward.I too caught oneitis for a party girl, & will vent. She had tons of orbiter's guys she'd fucked in the past on one night stands, & white nights still hanging around validating her depressive moods of being a loser with nothing going in life. she had no job, drinks daily, in most cases all day, smokes, pill popper, shit realtionship with her family, & even with her own kid, she is an absent mother. All this shit didnt stop me from catching feelings. She likes to remain friends, she's a needy chic… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Difference between being called a "good guy" & a "nice guy" Is there one? Is it all perception?Do it because you want to stick your dick in somebody that's a 8-9, that's all the reason you need, and the right one. THIS right here.. Is my answer.. nobody cares but me. meh. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Difference between being called a "good guy" & a "nice guy" Is there one? Is it all perception?2 big flags, there is a substance depandacy issue which honestly when I think about it was what originally kept me emotionally unavailable to her in all my previous interactions. The other is that she's now a new single mother of a few months.. Curiosity got the better of me. I had to see what she looked like so we met up, You cant really tell. She is still a solid 8 with no make up, wife beater, & Jeans. I've been labled a "greater beta" by another group member, & from the disctription I fit th… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Difference between being called a "good guy" & a "nice guy" Is there one? Is it all perception?Given that you fucked her a lot and that she was a hot plate, I wouldn't worry about this at all coming from her. You got what you wanted, if you're hearing "you're a nice guy" all the time from girls and not getting sex at all, then you've got a problem. Got it... still had a lot of sex with a hot plate, so it's a win win for me. What about re-plating her. There's def interest on both parts, but BIg Huge RED FLAGS waving im my face all over the place. I really just want to hit it get over the o… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The Only Thing That MattersIve been there, But had a recent setback making me rethink absolutley everything about the work i put in, & the network i built. I still have a lot of heavy sidebar reading to do. Currently in my own healing, & bettering process I have abandoned what I loved doing, what has most un doubetbly defined who I am. I can honestly say that i feel that I am respected in my circles. I have haters, & envious people etc. Im just certain that I am majorly distracted by this, & feel if I dial it back, & refo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 16 - "Use absence to increase respect and honor."My social circle is tied into my 2nd income which is a small biz. I was contsantly out, & about, everywhere because of it. I have sinced ditched it " the social circle" to find better circles, & people to associate with, cutting out toxic behavior, & relationships. Hoping it helps to keep better focus, & frame on some short term goals. I am maintaining a minimal business profile in that circle. At least for a bit as I sort myself out, & decide if I wish to persue doing biz in that demographic, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it?downloaded the pdf version. Looks like I have more reading. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it?Cool that helps me have less excuses, & just do it. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it?No More Mr Nice Guy Looking into it now. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it?Im looking into running clubs, as it could potentially help kill 2 birds with one stone, meeting new people, & cricles, as well as help with image, esteem, health. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Feeling of "betrayel" from the friends circle. Don't trust anyone. People gossip etc. How to best over come it?Ya i'm working on a lifestyle change. I've been a bigger dude my whole life. Fluctuated weight a lot within past relationships. Last couple of years I lost a good amount of weight, & slimmed down to my highschool size, & weight. Need to really get into shape now that ive done a lot of cutting fat. Running/excercise social groups sound like a decent way to accomplish both goals of self improvement, & new social circles. Now i just need to commit, & drive myself to do it to reap the rewards. Just … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 07:38 PM |
| 1 | new to TRP. Any advice for single fathers looking to apply whats here?It's so simple it's genius. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | new to TRP. Any advice for single fathers looking to apply whats here?I would really like to apply TRP in my dealings with her, not to get laid, but to communicate, & control the situation better. She's batshit crazy %75 of the time, & fights me on everything. There probably is no help for that kinda shit... Maybe hypnosis ... << jk but no seriously. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | new to TRP. Any advice for single fathers looking to apply whats here?I use the Kid card whenever I can in any situation I can, Haha... its one of the percs of parenthood.. MY EX hates the idea of my girlfriends being around my kids. Sometimes in my situation it was unavoidable. This last chick I was with def. tried to make me feel bad for only setting certian times for them, becuase my priorities were my kids. Mind fucked me so bad ... Did you have to cope with any baby momma drama, or hostility's towards you dating, seeing other females etc? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | new to TRP. Any advice for single fathers looking to apply whats here?greater beta Damn That pretty much sums me up. I totally catch feelings pretty easily, & always with the unstable crazy types. They all have had No jobs, no direction which really lead to resentment in the relationships I had with them in hindsight. "f you DO decide you want an LTR, filter TIGHTLY. Spin 2 - 3 plates for several months as you get to know them. Don't see one more than once a week to keep from getting attached as you look for red flags." I would be fooling myself if I said I didnt … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 18 - "Do not build fortresses to protect yourself - isolation is dangerous."Im using isolation to eliminate distractions from goals that were set aside due to a fling, that I wanted to be more. but am concerned that im also using it to protect myself from what I just went through. Alienating friends, & removing myself from social circles has helped a great deal in focus, & frame to accomplish the immediate goals I need to accomplish for myself, but I am feeling pretty lonely in my fortress of solitude that ive built over the last month or so. The moving on part hasnt be… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 12:12 AM |
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