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Yes absolutely I am. I don’t want to necessarily but it’s the best thing for me. I’ve been on one date with him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 09:42 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 09:19 PM
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Thanks for this. I am talking to other guys on the apps and I will look into scheduling dates with a few of them. My question isn’t mainly surrounding him - it’s more in general. Because I’m going to have to assume that these other guys are also sleeping around or dating while single, and I’m just going to have to learn to be OK with that until we are exclusive. I guess there’s no other way.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 09:14 PM
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He broke up with his last ex in April because she didn’t want children. He is ready for that now. I will continue to date around, but I don’t agree with the insinuation that because he’s looking for casual sex on a work trip — while he’s SINGLE — he’s not ready for a serious relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 09:11 PM
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Sorry. He’s 31.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:54 PM
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He’s 31 and divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:52 PM
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I think if we continue to see each other over the next few weeks and I see a potential future with him, I will bring up how I feel, and that I’m not comfortable with him seeing other women. And if he doesn’t feel the same, I’ll end it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:50 PM
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Thank you. I was never planning on sleeping with him or with anyone until exclusivity but I really have to get a handle on my physical urges 😅
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:30 PM
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I meant “we” as in womankind. Not him and I. Many girls also experience this. Haha well I’ll let you know if you’re right. He did text me today confirming that he will be coming home tomorrow so I don’t think that’s not for nothing. But honestly, what the hell do I know 😅 Cheers and thanks for taking the time to comment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:25 PM
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At the end of our date he said he wanted to continue seeing me to see if we could grow into something long-term. He knows my goal is a relationship and marriage, and that’s his goal too. But don’t we, as RPW, expect high quality men to sleep around until they’re in committed relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:18 PM
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He is looking for a relationship and he’s away on a work trip looking for casual sex. What happened on our first date was initiated by me, but I knew he wanted it. He was a gentleman. But, I’m confused. are we supposed to lie to ourselves? Profile change or not, it’s normal for high value men to sleep around until they’re in committed relationships. I’m looking for strategies that help me cope and look past that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 08:12 PM
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It’s a turn-off for me too but plenty of other guys hook up and see other women while not changing their bio on their profile. I feel like I have to assume the guy I’m seeing is fucking other girls, but it feels different knowing he’s looking for it. It’s hard. I unmatched with him btw. I don’t want to look at anymore changes he makes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 07:58 PM
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He lives 15 mins from me. He is currently away on a 5-day work trip.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 07:56 PM
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I’m sorry this happened to you girl 😭 Yeah, I’m talking to someone new now.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/25 04:19 PM
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Yes, sigh, I think you are right… I do appreciate the advice. I’m being dumb. I just downloaded Hinge and I’m gonna see what else is out there and behave better next time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/25 04:48 PM
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I’ve truncated what turned out to be an 8-hour date into, like, 12 sentences. I’m not sure either of us could fake having a good time for 8 hours. His intentions aside - it was a really great first date. If it ends there, fine, but the date wasn’t the issue. You’ve never ended up on a patio with someone new and shared intimate life stories deep into the night with a bottle of wine? Not even in a romantic sense only, but with brand new friends at a random house party, or with people you’ve met on…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 09:53 PM
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My dad and brother are both skilled tradesman and his salary is not out of the ordinary based on his skills and experience and overtime. He even mentioned his salary progression, including what he made a few years ago when he worked at a mine up north. I’ve worked in mining for seven years. It all tracks. Thanks for your comment though. I have my guard up now.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 06:09 PM
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I was the one who brought up deleting the apps and I was joking. Something along the lines of, “Damn, this is going so well and you seem in love with me already. Why do you need the apps anymore?” It was supposed to come off as flirtatious, I expected him to laugh and change the subject. Not take it seriously!!! I regret ever saying this 😅
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 04:19 PM
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Go to school and get an education or a skilled trade. It’s never a bad thing to be financially self-sufficient. What if you get involved with someone, move in and become financially reliant on him, only to realize he’s an abuser or, at the very least, someone you don’t want to spend your life with? Makes leaving VERY tough. Especially for someone with little family support, as described by your opening statements, OP. Also - there’s a well-studied phenomenon in family economics called Marital So…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 01:41 PM
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I’m really hesitant to buy towels online because I love to feel them first. I’d go to your local Macy’s and get your hands on their Hotel Collection towels (super nice). Even seek out TJ Maxx/Ross/Marshall’s. They carry good branded towels there for good prices. I have Ellen Degeneres towels and they are amazing. I also use Glucksteinhome towels sold by a Canadian department store and they’re pretty luxurious.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 09:03 PM
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I have a few to recommend! -Tom Ford’s Black Orchid is a heavy evening perfume that blossoms into a sweet, sexy fragrance -Hanae Mori’s Butterfly EDP is my everyday perfume... it’s a bit gourmand, somewhat fruity, and so warm and enticing -Jessica Simpson’s Signature EDP is a really nice budget-friendly option for the fall and winter months if you’re looking for a gourmand scent
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 11:59 PM
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I’m just sharing some of what I know - I took an economics of sex and love course once, which was totally fascinating and I had a lot of RPW takeaways. Anyways, I’m an advanced degree holder and so is my partner, and I’m not sure if I’d ever leave my work for good. I don’t have a high stress job, though. I imagine female lawyers with kids leave the profession for good because they just can’t have a proper work-life balance.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 03:10 AM
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You’re right - statistics show that highly-educated men marry women who are similarly educated, but many women with advanced degrees end up leaving their profession, or never entering it to begin with, to stay at home and have children. I mean, if one spouse is high-earning and very busy, and there’s no need for a second income, it makes sense. here’s a Pew Research link :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 01:19 AM
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Lmfao. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 11:35 PM
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I didn’t meet anyone else. I’m truly loyal to a fault. An old flame of mine texted me out of the blue last year and I sent one respectful text back: “Hope life is well with you, but I’ve been in a relationship now for a long time. It’s not respectful to my boyfriend for me to engage with you.” And that was that. This ex-flame is a former Wall Street finance bro, now living in SF making crazy amounts of money. Ambitious doesn’t even come close to describing him. I just.... have lost that spark an…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 08:34 PM
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I haven’t. Yes, I can orgasm alone. I can also orgasm while we are having penetrative sex. I think the problem was that I was no longer feeling as sexually attracted to him, unlike in the beginning, where we would couple multiple times a day. We also didn’t engage in much foreplay. As a result, it hurt, and it put me off of sex even further. One upside is that we’ve worked on it and penetrative sex feels good again. Not as spectacular and awe-inspiring and toe-curling as it was in the beginning,…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 08:08 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. You’re right. But I cannot shake this feeling in bones that I’ve had for a long time... for years, if I’m being honest with myself... that he is not the one for me. I don’t think I can live the rest of my life like this.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 06:40 PM
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Since we began working at it, the act of real intercourse has started to feel much more pleasurable, and I am enjoying it a lot. That’s why I’m like “F***!!!” because I thought if we fixed our intimacy problems, my nagging feeling would go away. It hasn’t, and now I’m also faced with this sinking reality that the problem is much more insidious. He’s a great guy - loving, kind, selfless - but I am still suffering internally because I know he is not the one for me. I just know it. Fuck.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 04:25 PM
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How did you look into my deep subconscious and tell me literally everything I needed to hear? Good lord, I am so scared.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 04:05 PM
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I appreciate your comment. I said goodbye to hormonal birth control four years ago and never looked back. I’m back to my normal self again, thank God, but the nagging feelings about him not being the one for me have always remained deep inside of me. They surface every once in awhile, and I have always pushed it down, deeper and deeper, willing myself to work harder and love him and appreciate him. And now I’m 27 and the feelings remain. I don’t have all the time in the world anymore. I have nev…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 03:49 PM
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Hi! Thank you for your comment. I have a nutritious diet and excellent sleep hygiene. I don’t smoke and drink only occasionally (2x month). I will work on getting much more physical exercise though. I recovered from my birth control-induced depression a few years ago. I am a happy and expressive person. Unfortunately I’m incredibly guilt-ridden and anxious that despite my good relationship, I dread the thought of marrying him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 03:21 PM
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I appreciate your response, but the problem is I’ve had this nagging feeling for a very long time... instinctively I pushed it away and forced myself not to dwell on it. Now I’m older and I realize I don’t have all the time in the world, and I need to make my mind up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 03:13 PM
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