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| – | Women Get way more than men in relationships and Marriages.Yeah and in prison males who give up booty benefit the same way . Your point is what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Would you share a man in a poly relationship.Sure, if I didn’t like him. Or rather, if I liked his resources more than spending time with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/26 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"Your anatomy tells you that your sex is pleasurable if you do things beyond PIV. Your sex and a man’s sex is therefore different, which you acknowledge. You can’t accept though, merely defining sex and it’s enjoyment in male terms and experience only. Men and women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege"The clitoris proves to me that women are owed pleasure by default and thus if it’s not happening for you then your man is trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Men Want Us To Be Better Than Them (from “Fascinating Womanhood”)I was being condescending even though she was assuming I’m single because I can’t make a man happy or soemthing? I wasn’t man-bashing. I was asking a genuine question asking for a genuine answer from the RPW perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/26 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeAgainst unnatural interventions yet say why doesn’t a woman work to take care of kid by herself?… you’re trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:49 PM |
| 7 | Men are not responsible for babies, women makeYou nut in her. She grow baby so baby survive. You make money so baby survive. Got it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Polygamist Cults?You want a femboy uncle to look after your kid instead of it’s own mother? You gay dudes are weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:58 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Polygamist Cults?Yes because the men pushed out were probably forcing themselves on the side on the most vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?The dads. It’s easy to know which woman a kid came out of. establishing paternity is done so by name and places rights on the man from the kid on the basis that he accepts the child has his (even though realistically it might not be…) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?I think name changing is a conspiracy to detract people away from their lineage. So they feel more homeless than ever before with little reason to stand firm and protect what they’ve got becuase everyone is in this perpetual state of hedonism that doesn’t take into account that they come from a long line of tradition and meaning. The most traditional communities in the world see Muslim communities it is FORBIDDEN for a woman to change her name after marriage. EVERYBODY’S surname must reflect the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:51 PM |
| 2 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageNo you’re the asshole who gives women bad sex! That’s not cool! It’s mind blowing to me and really offensive to think men like you walk around thinking something that overall makes the experience objectively better is some kind of prison sentence from women? Like really dude? You’re inconvenienced by having a harder hard on and her being wetter? You’re inconvenienced by getting your dick sucked before sex? You’re inconvenienced by dirty talk making things hotter for BOTH of you? It’s insane that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Women’s willingness to date older is a massive advantage when it comes to dating youngI can’t think of a 22 year old that wouldn’t bang a 30 year old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:29 PM |
| 4 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageThe point here is that you think sex is as boring as in and out lol. And that you hold a resentment that women aren’t satisfied with just an in and out.. you’re really outing yourself here as shit in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:25 PM |
| 7 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:17 PM |
| 5 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageI have 0 doubt that woman was performing and also had a mental problem like BPD. The majority of non-ducked-up women do not walk around wondering how they can get men pussy-hooked by playing a role for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:17 PM |
| 6 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageI really can’t understand this. It is really that inconveniencing to you to be a good lover to women that you’d rather be gay? Oh no you have to be sensual and engage in foreplay for your woman to be really down… what a horrible problem… tf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any groupYou’re missing his point entirely. He is scratching his head at the societal wide narrative that the young women in relationships are victims of a power imbalance that is never in their favour, despite them holding immense amounts of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | It's better to be the mistress than the wifeYes it is better to be the mistress if you’re male centred. But if you had kids, you’re better off having had those kids! In my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 04:35 PM |
| 11 | How to tell if my boyfriend still watches porn?Ewww . Like dude if you’re gonna be stuck with a pornified man then at least he should be able to f*** . What are you doing | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/26 04:55 PM |
| 5 | "5 Faces of the perfect wife" by SouthernAthena repostGood post | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveI have kids lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveWhat’s ignorant about me saying he should take over with kids after he gets back from work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveFor clarification you should make bins your chore regardless of whether or not she contributing to bills. It’s a nice thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveChores should be done whilst your husband is at work if you’re not working. Why would you have a problem with that? What do you do all day? Unless you have children in which case when he gets back from work he is with the children and you’re doing chores. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveIf she isn’t working then don’t help with chores unless it’s something she really struggles with. I can’t pack to save my life- like it’s almost a disability. So my man does it and I am at his feet for it. I get mad if he does dishes to help me. I love when he makes an occasional meal it is very sexy and romantic but it has to be something that tastes amazing and something YOU wanna eat. If you both contribute to bills then you both need to be doing chores. A chore you could make your own is tak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 02:06 PM |
| 4 | How to be dominant and independent as a man so that my wife becomes submissiveJust be extremely competent. That includes competent with her affairs. Be helpful. Outwork her. Be emotionally intelligent, when she says stuff like complaints, repeat your understanding of it back to her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 01:39 PM |
| 10 | Is 19 and 25 way to big of an age gap?Yeah I get u and I’m being Forreal. It’s not even like an office job, it’s something you can have a proper trad relationship from. U wouldn’t expect ur fireman to come home from work saving lives and shih to needing to cook his own dinner bc you didn’t, ya feel? Point is, I think the dynamics remain in tact despite age. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/26 01:31 AM |
| 17 | Is 19 and 25 way to big of an age gap?Yeah it makes a difference he’s a fireman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/26 01:27 AM |
| 11 | Lauren Sanchez - Married 3x now to a Billionaire - strategyWhat does keep it tight mean lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/25 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: I haven’t been as good a wife as I thought I wasI’m so sad because I relate to your examples but it feels like making men happy just means to not share with them and to make yourself small. I wanna talk about my everything with my man and have all kinds of fun. Why can’t it happen without me acting docile | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/25 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Is it cringe or unfeminine to ask a man out, and when you do, what should your expectations be?Ask a guy that knows both of you to express interest | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with being kinda mid looking with "high standards"?I see you’re Chinese. You just need to find someone who is in to Asian women if you’re actually a 6/10 and the rest of you is a 10. Also try looksmaxxing. Also work on yourself internally because idk the way you come off doesn’t seem like you’re the most pleasant person in the world although I know you covered that. Truth is men become attractive to women. You are going about life with the mindset of a man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 2 | i’m 20F I want to find a husband young, 30s is not the new 20s.Ooh frontal lobe development? And what about the fact she is a sexually developed adult female? She should just sleep around and not get married? Or should we ignore one type of development (the most driving one) and worship another type of development. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/25 11:57 PM |
| 0 | 900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discussThe fact is most women will never know what it’s like to be denied personhood. Nor will most women ever know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 09:35 PM |
| 4 | 900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discussWhat an insufferable claim. Of course made by those that happen to be some of the most privileged in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I continue to wait for marriage?Did I say Christian premarital sex app or did I say Christian marriage app | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Are there certain sex acts you'd perform with some men but not others due to how hot you find them?To me it’s obvious it’s because the woman felt more pressured in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.If we had a culture of segregating the genders, making extra marital sex punishable, reinstating male chaperoning for women, establishing a waiting period between marriages to ensure paternity better - then this would negate the need of mass DNA testing . If someone did slip through the cracks and establish paternity fraud in these circumstances it would be unknown and unsuspected and the child is spared as well. Women in society have to be pretty much in line though to reap the benefits of this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child.True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:48 PM |
| 6 | Cooking dilemmaI would strongly consider eating meat during pregnancy | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateAnd if u don’t want kids. Or don’t want to look after an old person whilst you’re still young. Or don’t care about giving your woman novel experiences. Etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | how to make my dominant man listen to me.My man is dominant. His word is the final say. And his expectation of me is that I obey him and speak to him well and don’t ever raise my voice louder than his own. …. And he loves to give me what I want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 03:36 AM |
| 5 | how to make my dominant man listen to me.This sounds exhausting seriously what should be the problem with saying ‘hey let’s meet so and so for dinner it was cool hanging out with them last time’ like if every little basic thing is some mission impossible style thing then hell no. Husband should be willing to treat you well and make u happy. My husband has a habit of going thru my purchases with me to make sure I’m buying the best thing, I recently told him I don’t want to have to justify every purchase and sometimes if I say I want som… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 03:32 AM |
| 8 | Dating as a fat girlThe slimmer you are the less calories you need. The fatter you are the less calories you need to eat. You just need to eat less. Permanently. And it’s not that it’s a diet. It’s that you’ll be eating the amount of food you are supposed to eat. Our portions nowadays are so effed up and out of control | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 07:43 PM |
| 12 | Dating as a fat girlYeah but why can’t you do it? You can, and then you stop. You need to not stop. Like dude the reason you keep gaining the weight back is because you think you can go back to the way you were eating that made you fat in the first place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 07:42 PM |
| 7 | "Women would rather share an alpha than settle for a beta" Does this extend to marriage?You’re Muslim and having premarital sex with him. If you don’t do this for the sake of making things halal rather than just ‘getting the best guy’ and offer repentance then I will be less inclined to say all of this will work out for y’all. If he knows you have been cheating on others for him that let’s him and everybody else know you aren’t loyal and the likelihood of him keeping you in his roster of 4 for life probably depletes. Idk though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/24 02:47 PM |
| 4 | "Women would rather share an alpha than settle for a beta" Does this extend to marriage?I was open to sharing in the past. But then I met my man who I believe is the GOAT, and I would rather die than share him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/24 02:42 PM |
| 10 | Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is buildingIf he is Muslim then he is being even more reasonable and nice about it than I initially thought 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/24 03:16 PM |
| 48 | Fiancé made me quit my favourite hobby and resentment is buildingHe is being fair in my opinion. He is telling you if you did it with women privately then that’s fine. You want to do it publically for men to see you. He has more respect for you, your body, your reputation and your safety more than your other partners in my opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/24 01:55 PM |
| -1 | Is SMV real?The sentence ‘structure’ wasn’t complicated at all. Your intention/what you were trying to get across is. I was merely explaining to you why she thought you had a problem with truerateme, in case that was too complicated to tell. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/24 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Is SMV real?Well you’re telling her not to go there again.. I doubt that’s what a proponent of it would say | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to have sex with him anymore?Why would you even allow sentences such as ‘when I get married’ instead of ‘when we get married’ well done you have already resigned to the expectation of a failed relationship ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/24 08:40 PM |
| 0 | single mother by choice?It’s not that different. Those outcomes aren’t because ‘mom has to work’ it’s because mom can’t discipline or scare like dad does. And it’s because mother smothers. It’s evolutionary. Is what it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/24 04:14 AM |
| 4 | single mother by choice?the outcomes for those raised without fathers is very bad | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/24 09:20 PM |
| – | Do you consider it a red flag when a woman is a feminist?I don’t find advocating for the destruction of the family unit and submitting to my boss instead of my husband in my best interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Should I continue to wait for marriage?Oh… Why is that? I’m Muslim and Muslim marriage apps are extremely successful | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Should I continue to wait for marriage?Christian marriage app lady! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/24 01:00 AM |
| 7 | BF (26M) that I (26F) have been dating for 7 years says he should have more say in the relationship than I do. How would you react?If you feel like dehumanised like you are cattle by him bringing up having more authority because he puts in more and takes care of you more then haven’t you been dehumanising like he is a work horse | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/24 10:12 PM |
| 9 | Was I wrong? Husband had 1 hour sports massage (I bought him for Father’s Day); I got nails done. Both had 1 hour free time, rest spent with our child together. He wanted an extra hour for playing a game on his phone and said the massage didn’t count as free time because it was a gift.Not everyday needs to be completely fair. You should have said yeah sure but I expect the same from you next time I ask. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys have any workout advice?There are 54 weeks in a year? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/24 11:20 AM |
| 5 | Women who are provided for by their husbands, how did you / he ensure you'd be okay no matter what?Him ensuring you’re okay and are able to live out the fem life of your dreams within reason is totally his job. However it’s not his job to try and keep up with whatever appearances you’re trying to match this week bc u have seen how other women live on TikTok and Instagram. I’m Muslim and it is well established that a man must a) give his wife the same lifestyle he enjoys himself aka quality/quantity of clothes and food he himself wants for himself as a minimum if not exceeding the quality/quan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/24 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Women who are provided for by their husbands, how did you / he ensure you'd be okay no matter what?People assume that’s how they naturally are until it comes down to it. Women think they are agreeable and love making others happy / taking care of others up until a disagreement/ difference of opinion comes about and then it’s raised voices, saying hurtful things, saying unhinged things, my way is the best way type attitude. I know because I have currently seen this with myself after marriage. You will always be able to justify it to yourself unless you have a religious obligation on you to obe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/24 12:33 PM |
| 9 | Women who are provided for by their husbands, how did you / he ensure you'd be okay no matter what?Totally exists. Religious man is the answer to that. It’s the fairest. He takes care of everything and in return you obey him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell my friend that she needs to change her bad habits to get a boyfriend?Did you tell her they stank? She would save a lot of time if she didn’t wash clothes by hand. She only needs to wash bras by hand. If she washes stuff by hand well, it can be totally fine and not cause infection. In fact I’m sure because she is washing by hand that she specifically goes ham on the booty juices part more than a washing machine does. I don’t know where u got that from really. Living in a quirky way is fine if you’re a fully functioning adult. Her not having a washing machine seems… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/24 09:12 PM |
| 3 | How can I tell my friend that she needs to change her bad habits to get a boyfriend?How does she wash clothes?? Does she stink? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/24 07:57 PM |
| 8 | I need help being more dignified, feminine and hygienicI don’t recommend keeping long nails ever OP if you prepare food for others. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/24 06:54 AM |
| -2 | Disagreement about school routineMen and women aren’t the same. Stop trying to analyse how he feels through your lens. And then depriving him of his perspective and feelings because you have deemed them not important or normal enough. He is far from crazy. So you should probably chill out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/24 04:38 PM |
| -3 | Testosterone Level Decreasing in Men, Increasing in WomenI think the female reproductive cancer vaccines might explain the rise in PCOS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:37 AM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenAh so you ignored every bit of nuance lol? The gist was that age gaps are fine and aren’t inherently wrong. However, to be fixated on age should only apply to if you want to wife a young woman (totally reasonable for lots of reasons), instead of wanting a conveyor belt of 16-18 year olds to run through and ruin mentally for no reason apart from your pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 12:49 PM |
| – | There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger womenMy absolute pet peeve is when women are like ‘he was 20 and she was 16. He is LITERALLY a pedophile’. Such blatant lies. We all know that pedophile means attraction to prepubescent children. But of course if Karen says that attraction to YOUTHFUL, FULLY DEVELOPED WOMEN WITH ROBUST VITALITY AND FERTILITY is pedophilia then it must be. Literally nobody looks at 18 year old girls and thinks of children. Girls stop looking like children so many years before then, it’s such a joke. I’m a woman by the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 07:56 AM |
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