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I cannot stop laughing at this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:27 PM
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“More stressful if he makes more money.” No. Lots of people who make a lot of $$ have easier jobs than those who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:52 PM
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Do people understand what being a sahm actually is? It’s very boring, repetitive and mind numbing. Lots of moms lose their identity if they had any to begin with and get depressed. It may be due to hormones, but it also may be that you basically become trapped in a house all day with a baby. I’m the type of person who wanted kids forever, worked with them, didn’t really have a career I was passionate about, and I still got tired of being a sahm. People need a balance in life. I think the zoomers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:13 AM
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Marrying a professional athlete honestly seems like the worst deal after following most of them in the media. Always a disaster. I’d never marry or date a guy who esp plays basketball.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:28 PM
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This is really sweet and sort of reminds me of big Mexican families. You can be rich but will just end up outsourcing things to make your life easier that you can get family/friends to do for you for free with a support network. Even though they get made fun of for being church goers, I kind of think these people have it figured out & seems like a pretty good deal if you actually want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:38 PM
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I have 2 but would have 4 if I lived in a large detached house, didn’t work and had access to a large amount of $ in an account that I’m free to spend however I choose. I come from a family of 4 and wouldn’t wish to recreate that unless the conditions were perfect. We live near the beach in a high COL area so will probably stop at 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:30 PM
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Most men want to help. Even as a married mom I had a guy the other day basically beg to carry my stroller down the escalator when I could just use the elevator. Old dads have offered to fix my car if they see something wrong like not enough air in the tires at the gas station or wherever. As a woman i don’t usually go helping random people I’ve never met but it’s so nice when men do that for me out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:50 PM
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Dude for real. Go over to ask womenover30 and there’s a post every day about how much they hate kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:46 PM
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Well depends who you’re asking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:58 AM
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Because it’s easier than going to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:36 AM
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Yeah honestly I’m glad my parents are old. They have hella $
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:50 PM
1

A mother having kids at 37 probably will have friends with same age kids. Where I live in CA the average age for FIRST baby is 31. Anyone who is having more than that has a good possibility of TTC at 37 if spacing kids 2 yrs apart. In my baby bumpers group a lot of the women who had an oct2020 baby are trying for #2,3,4 etc and most of them are in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:40 PM
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2 can happen in 2 years. Not saying everyone wants to do it this way but mine are 15 months apart and no problems. My dr gave me the ok to get pregnant again at my 6 week checkup. I could probably have like 5 more by 40 if I wanted to. My mom had 4 starting at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:33 PM
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Definitely not. I’ve always liked guys that just wear t shirts. Anything too fancy or stylish seems gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:54 AM
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Do a mix of both. It’s more unpredictable and men are attracted to a bit of crazy even if they won’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:19 PM
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Definitely communication style. The most intimidating man I ever worked for was a rich middle eastern man. He was very average looking in every way and was a man of few words but when he spoke it was scary af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:10 PM
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I’m only responding about the drugs part. Addicts shouldn’t try to integrate or moderate. It just doesn’t work for a lot of addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:20 PM
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They look the same to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 PM
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You can tell if someone is materialistic or not just by looking at their face? I’ve seen lots of unattractive girls act more materialistic than attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:55 PM
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Lots of people are terrible at it. Like if you never had to do it you might not use the proper cleaner, actually scrub or clean the entire area. My husband will do a half ass wipe, not remove or get under any objects and call it cleaning. He always had a housekeeper or his mom do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:51 PM
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Addicts do recover and not all of them are white knuckling recovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:45 AM
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This is what I did. I was 28, he was 41 when we got married. No regrets. I’d definitely recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:55 PM
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I have a 14 year age gap with my husband and I don’t really see it as that large. He was late 30s and I was mid 20s when we met and I found him attractive, tall, good family, good morals, has $, wouldn’t lie & cheat, etc. Most people probably assume he is late 30s and I’m early 30s at this point. He will probably still be attractive/youthful in 60s. Even if he dies sooner, I’d rather get decades of happiness with someone who was good. I’m in a lot of mom groups and trust me when I say these ladi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:50 PM
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3-4hrs wk/yoga, 1 hr weekdays doing hair, makeup,am/pm skincare routine, 2 hrs/wk walking track on my lunch break, 20 mins/day shower or bath, 1 hr weekend doing hair/skin masks, ~1hr/wk shopping. Id estimate 15-20 hrs/wk on self care..Less if I’m not getting ready for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 06:27 PM
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Maybe just chose poorly? Too young? Dumb? Not enough life experience? Bad luck? Was the best they could do? Desperate for a baby? Poor self esteem? $? I’m not really sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:00 AM
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I agree housework doesn’t take 40 hours a week. I can thoroughly clean our smallish house every week if I have a 4 hour chunk of time to myself and I cook healthy dinner almost every night which takes 30mins-1hr. I don’t really expect husband to do it but I do expect him to have a relationship with our kids and I would be pissed if he was a lazy, shitty dad that played video games all the time, cheated and never helped with the babies. (Lots of moms complain about this in my mom groups)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:59 AM
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I agree with all your points. I’d love to stay home and raise kids but I’m not going to move to bumfuck nowhere to do it. My husband makes average amount of $ that would probably be enough for me to be a SAHM in other places. Still I’d rather live in my insanely high COL hometown near my retired mom where she can babysit for free and I can have a job to help pay for our life & mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:19 AM
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Yeah I’m having babies so I’m in baby bumpers groups on fb and go stalking a lot of women’s profiles having a baby the same time. Lots of them don’t work and their husbands just have average jobs and they can still afford it since they live in low COL places. Blows my mind since I always needed to work AND get married just to be able to afford the basics in my hometown if I want to stay here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:03 AM
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I was just reading that nowadays it’s just as common to want a girl as it is to want a boy, if not more so. Having a daughter makes it less likely for parents to continue to try for another and it is the more selected gender when doing IVF according to The NY Times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:28 PM
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Find another program then? Or maybe another meeting? I don’t really care if a person likes 12 step meetings or not but to say the people who go there drive clunkers just makes you sound retarded lol. A lot of people are very successful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:53 PM
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Stick around long enough and 12 step programs will teach you how to stop driving that rusty old car..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:22 PM
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Probably moving to Texas since young people can’t really afford it it seems. If they were born and raised here or got rich somehow, they might get to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 03:34 AM
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I live in a beach city in Orange County and barely ever see any fat people around here. Just a bunch of fit white boomers with $$
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:55 PM
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I was always around this height and weight too and people would say I'm "so skinny" I have hips and boobs and would not describe myself as "skinny" but with so many people overweight, I guess that's what people see
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:51 PM
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Meh plenty of guys who studied complex subjects have been interested in me and I never really have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 01:48 PM
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Nah like he wouldn’t answer my question about the product I wanted to buy without sighing and rolling his eyes. Acted like I was wasting his time when that’s his job. I’ve worked in customer service before and I never acted rude to people for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 12:56 AM
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I’m female and spent a while painting a mural for a welding program at a community college and the head instructor was practically begging me to join his welding program & telling me how much $$ the last girl is making that he mentored. This school had one of the best welding programs but there seemed to be a big push to get females
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:34 AM
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Yeah I’m 31. Working out hard cuz I refuse to be a fat mom and I can’t let people treat me that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 11:46 PM
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It’s so true that if you are fat people are meaner to you. I’ve never been fat but had a few extra pounds after I had my baby. Went into a dispensary (to get cbd) and the bud tender was a young cute guy that seemed like he didn’t want to help me and I think he even rolled his eyes. I walked out shocked since I’ve never been treated like that before and I swear it was cuz I looked fat& frumpy. Big huge reality check right there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 11:32 PM
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I forgot about trans people. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:55 AM
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I have never once met a man who said they wished they were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:43 AM
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Probably why they both divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:54 PM
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What’s weird about Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes? I don’t know Tom cruise but seems like they got stuck with a controlling Scientology psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:53 PM
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Nurture. It’s easy to be hypergamous just by swiping on those dating apps if you wanted to but if youre in a relationship you don’t do that. It’s set up so easily it’s kinda like shopping for shoes. Want to get married and have kids tho? You should probably stay with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:09 PM
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It’s to your advantage to be a chameleon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 09:09 PM
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Was just going to write a comment about this. A lot of rich guys are hiding out and you wouldn’t even know they’re rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:55 PM
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Oops forgot the title said SAHM. I guess that’s kinda different if you’re not working, but you don’t really need a rich guy to be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:36 PM
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Yeah this makes it sound like all rich guys are controlling a-holes and women are these unemployed meek little submissive things that do whatever he says. In reality, lots of women are married to well off guys but they still have their own jobs and shit and no one is abusing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:17 PM
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Control. You can just start doing it and it doesn’t require any long term investment/commitment. You don’t have to go searching and hoping you will find a provider when you can just start making $ from taking your clothes off on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:48 PM
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I had a very similar experience. Went on seeking arrangements when I was in a tough financial spot, met up with a man for coffee and felt so weirded out I deleted my account ASAP and never spoke of it again. Sometimes I lay in bed and just cringe at myself.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 11:19 PM
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It’s no secret people do shameful things for money. Anyone can do it and it’s low level energy. People get beat, raped and killed. Read the sex workers sub. Do you really want to be pushed down some stairs and spit on because you pissed the wrong person off? Maybe if you had a couple regulars that treated you well it would be okay. Despite what you might hear from a few workers, let’s not pretend getting fucked by randoms is a good time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 10:53 PM
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So men are the pursuers? Whoda thunk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 11:48 AM
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Life changes so much as time passes. People get degrees and jobs and then get different degrees and different jobs. His job and the way he is now could be completely different than in 10 or 20 years. I would not care a lot about it if it was me in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:11 PM
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Bill burr gives advice all the time on being an older dad and how to have a happy family. My husband likes it cuz he’s an older dad and can relate to these older guys on podcasts. It actually helps our marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:32 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head with this response. My sister is a realtor and the inside of her house looks exactly the homes she is trying to sell. Grey, plain & boring but that’s what she sees on a regular basis so to her it’s trendy and “nice.” To me, the style is just completely devoid of personality so as not to offend anybody.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 05:54 PM
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At 25 I would have disqualified a similar aged guy with a kid but at 35, I'd be okay with it just because it's a whole decade later and life happens. I wouldn't necessarily chalk it up to a poor decision when they were too young. Happy to have found an older-ish guy with no kids that wanted them with me. Ideally, I wanted my own family and didn't want to be step mom to another woman's kid/s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:56 PM
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That’s dope. I’m going to cry the day he grows taller than me. We also do yoga so I’ll teach him that young for his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:07 PM
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Lol I keep getting comments like this implying I’m alone and having trouble. I’m married to a hot 6’4” guy and we’re kind of old. I’m just sharing my observations of short girls and what I’ve heard from them now and during my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:09 PM
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Doubt I’d have a short son since I’m really tall too, but of course I’d love all my children the same. My husband wanted a daughter really bad since he didn’t want a son to be anything like him, but at least he’ll be really tall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 06:50 PM
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Short guys do match with short girls. But short girls want tall guys and then there’s less tall guys left for us tall girls. Sort of frustrating tbh when short girls have so many options of guys their own height and slightly above. Ridiculous to say he needs to be like 6 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:43 PM
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I’m expecting a baby and I’m so glad I’ll likely have a really tall son. It sucked as a female. Middle school and HS made me feel awkward af and I still have bad posture from it. At least my son likely won’t be slouching and from what I’ve read& heard, gain some advantages from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:30 PM
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Too difficult of a question to answer since there are too many factors to consider and it would vary from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:42 PM
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“Like”meaning id want to pursue a long term relationship with. I definitely wouldn’t move away from family/friends to live in a big house unless I actually saw myself getting married to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:04 PM
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I would for sure live in destitute financial circumstances before dating someone I didn’t like that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:50 PM
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Want to hear something even sadder? The bill for my D&C when I had a miscarriage last year was 33k. My insurance paid a lot of it, but I still ended up paying thousands out of pocket.. to lose my pregnancy. They just kept sending me bills for this and that (anesthesia, multiple ultrasounds, lab results, etc) I think my mom ended up paying a couple of our bills just to be nice since I felt so bad. The US healthcare system is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:06 PM
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We don’t get any health insurance provided by our employer, even though we work a government job. They like to keep us @ 29.95 hrs to not give any bennies and then people just sign up for mediCAL or covered CA or whatever. If you are poor and single enough, you don’t pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:22 PM
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My coworker always likes to say how she didn’t pay a cent for her pregnancy or childbirth since she was a “single mom,” even tho she’s not really single and her man makes bank. Then says the rest of us ladies should pop out a kid or 2 before getting married since it’s “free.” Here I am getting married 1st and feel like I’m getting punished for it since the system figures husband can just pay, even tho as a couple we make less than my coworker and her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 01:18 PM
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I felt strongly about having a boy since I would never want a daughter to be the way I was when I was young. My husband wanted a daughter really bad since he would never want a boy to be anything like him. We are having a son. My husbands first comment when I told him was “can we send him back?” But I think he’s warming up to the idea now. When I mentioned about the family name being carried on since he’s an only child he said “doesn’t need to be carried on” hah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 07:44 PM
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Die off? Most people don’t die at 57 and have about 3+ more decades
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:40 AM
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I married so I could start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:06 AM
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Most addicts in general have shit personalities until they get get clean. I’ve even heard you will stay at the same emotional maturity level you were at when you starting using. I felt like a baby learning how to live when I got clean. Good new is people can and do change
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:12 AM
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This is ignorant and superficial. You don’t get to be the judge of who has an easier life since you literally can not experience another persons life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:10 AM
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A lot of bums were the rich girl, or the guy who used to have a wife, house, 2 cars, a job and 2.5 kids. People’s lives and circumstances change all the time. I know former bums who are now teachers, doctors and lawyers. A person is not just one thing or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:07 AM
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you can’t measure someone’s pain like that tho or say who has it better or worse because you literally cannot experience what they are feeling or how they perceive things. You are making a judgement based on something that is superficial when the reality is withdrawal is miserable for everyone and an addict doesn’t care if they have a fancy facility if they can’t face being sober. Most likely they’d just walk out. Lots of rich parents will send their kids to a nice recovery place but their kid m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:34 AM
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The work is the same and it’s free and available to everyone at 12 step programs. All you have to do is walk in the door. They even have it in prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:05 PM
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Your needs are met in the sober living house. If you need help you get a sponsor, talk to the house manager and find assistance which is everywhere in the recovery community. Giving back to addicts who are still suffering is part of the 12 steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:29 PM
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From what I’ve seen both rich and poor people get addicted and both rich and poor people get clean. It truly is a mix of people who find a new way to live when they are ready and willing to do the work. I stayed at an action alliance sober living for over a year and they took lots of homeless women in who had no place to go and we all did meetings/stopped doing drugs together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:26 PM
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What kind of answer is this? It doesn’t directly address the question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:04 PM
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The secret is to learn how to deal with it without being angry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:02 PM
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I don’t understand this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:54 PM
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How’d I miss the point? Having access to a nice facility doesn’t mean you will get clean/learn how to not be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:52 PM
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How does it not address the question? Humans feels pain and suffering regardless of race, sex, gender, socioeconomic status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:50 PM
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There are more men than women addicted to illicit drugs but more than twice as many women are prescribed antidepressants and anti anxiety meds. I got off the illegal stuff first and then the pharmaceutical stuff a couple years later and that was just as much of a head fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:29 PM
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Not really. That’s why there are places to go and social events to meet and mingle with other recovering addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:08 PM
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I’ve met lots of people who did the Salvation Army program because it’s free or got clean in jail. Just because someone goes to a nice facility with their insurance doesn’t mean they will stay clean and all end up together in the rooms which are “anonymous”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:56 PM
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Most of the time its caused by wanting to numb pain and trauma. The drug is just a symptom of an underlying problem, which in a lot of cases wasn’t a choice. Getting clean is a choice but it doesn’t change the fact a lot of people had a horrible childhood and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:50 PM
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There are ugly disenfranchised dumb poor men in recovery as well but we all work a program everyday so we don’t end up in jail, an institution or dead. The point it to figure out how to not be miserable and then share the message, regardless of how you look or what you have. Addiction does not discriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:42 PM
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Life is easier when you’re mentally healthy. Many people would probably assume my life has always been easy but don’t know I was an addict for years. I’ve met some beautiful, privileged, smart and rich women in recovery who are just as fucked up as anyone else and have had very bad shit happen to them. It varies by person to person. Take the time to listen to people’s stories to understand we are all human and we all feel pain and suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:04 PM
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Pretty much. I own my condo but I had to get married to do it. That wasn’t the only reason I got married, but it was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 08:23 PM
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I’m a woman and when I was young and at my worst, nobody gave a shit about me, except fellow addicts in recovery. I lived in a sober living house with 15 other women while I transitioned back into normal life. One time one of the girls, who had been clean several months, got beat up on the street and the cops did nothing and harassed her even more. She came home all bloody and bruised. I concluded it was probably bc she looked like a crack head and was living in a halfway house. Nobody cares abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:14 PM
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This is generalizing too much acting like young people’s problems aren’t valid. Esp if they were dealing with stuff like trauma and substance abuse in their youth. I’ve been in recovery for 8 years now and know lots of old timers who are grateful and happy nowadays just to be alive, no matter what bad shit happens in life. I hear things in meetings about all the bad stuff people deal with clean like death, illness, divorce, child loss, unemployment, etc. There’s a saying “my worst day sober is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:30 AM
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I was kind of naive to the perks of being married before I said "I do." For example, before I got married, everyone would ask when I was going to get a better job, which used to irritate the shit out of me since I felt judged and I like my job. "What are you gonna do after this? Are you going to try to get a promotion? What's the next step? Do you want to move on to be xyz.. This job is just a stepping stone. I don't know how anyone can live on this salary. You can make 6 figures if you just bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:53 PM
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One of the perks for my good friend who was chronically ill growing up is her now husband has more rights at the hospital than he did when he was a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:47 PM
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Currently she’s worried I’m eating too many bananas and it’ll make me constipated but I just looked it up and they only do if you eat them green. She sends me decaf coffee and books to read with laminated book marks that have children playing in a field. She wants to come to every drs appointment with me but I told her sorry cuz covid. She calls her son on the phone to make sure he’s being nice and taking care of me. She seems very excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:04 AM
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Yep before I got married I was just “Dave’s girlfriend.” Now that I’m married I’m “family” and the in laws are already moving $ around for their 1st grand baby on the way. This “piece of paper” meant everything to my MIL. For so long she thought her only child would never get married and she was literally crying tears of joy when we got married b/c she was so proud. She loves to talk about us to her age 70s friends and has pictures of our wedding all over her house. I think I could be just as ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:41 PM
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My dad did this shit.. always sleeping with other women as a married man with 4 young kids. I’m in my 30s now and I never forgave him. He’s just a joke to me now and we have basically no relationship and never will. He fucked me up bad for YEARS. He’s too much of an oblivious idiot to contemplate whether or not it was worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 12:15 PM
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Well I’m talking like creative hobbies. Coming up with things to do on your own. Not like.. going to the gym or riding your motorcycle. Most of the artist types I know are loving it.. chefs, painters, artisans, woodworkers, musicians, etc. Wanna know why the wives are fine? Cuz they learned how to bake different stuff to entertain themselves. People who are addicted to their jobs and don’t do anything else aren’t having a fun time either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:14 PM
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Some people can’t just sit with themselves for a minute cuz they’re so used to running around spending and consuming. The people I know who are doing fine are the ones with hobbies and interests to fill their time at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:54 AM
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Maybe if they are both completely average looking. But a beautiful woman who is at her peak at 23 is still going to have higher SMV than an average or ugly guy will at 36. And a handsome man at 23 is going to have higher SMV than an ugly or average girl at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:02 PM
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Were they ever really that “hot” though, or just young and youthful? Lots of girls in hs that guys called “hot” were so average looking to me, especially under the hair and makeup. Most of the ones with natural beauty and good genes don’t all the sudden get unattractive imo, just older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:13 PM
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Depends entirely on the person. An attractive man in his 20s with a good build, nice features and confident personality is still going to be attractive as he ages. Same goes for women. You can tell the ones who have natural beauty, which will still be present as she ages. lots of girls who were considered “cute” or “hot” when they were 25 are just fat and not that attractive now since they never had good genes to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:54 PM
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If a guy is independently wealthy for whatever reason, wins the lottery, has an inheritance, invested smartly, sold a business, etc, I doubt a woman would really care where he got his money from or if he "works hard." I'm not saying being lazy and unmotivated is attractive, but tons of people spend their days doing stuff they want that doesn't involve "going to work."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:03 AM
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True. Using actors probably wasn't a good example, but someone mentioned Matt Damon so I had to give other examoles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:31 PM
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65k is great average pay for 180 days/year, all major holidays, thanksgiving break, winter break, spring break, summer break off and beating rush hour traffic at the end of the day. Almost everyone I know who isn't a teacher is smarter, more talented and works longer and harder and gets paid less. Teachers aren't poor by any means like they claim and many just like to whine. Also I got my source straight from the human resources page and not "salary.com" saying 1st year teachers make 60k. Experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:17 AM
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True, he probably doesn't have autism lol. Would be interesting to see how he scored on an IQ test. He is tall, attractive and rich so is able to get women, but I honestly don't understand how anyone can stand his personality. His most recent gf is pretty lame. They say girls pick guys like their fathers, but I basically married someone the complete opposite of him. I just couldn't take a lifetime with anyone like him, regardless of how good they might look on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:54 AM
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She's a narcissist, I believe. But my dad is worse and did more damage imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:16 AM
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I think he was having a mid life crisis. He's also always been very ungrateful and had multiple affairs our entire lives, even with 4 kids. Just a dick, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:12 AM
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Alec Baldwin married Hilaria Thomas who was a yoga instructor. Patrick Dempsey married Jillian Fink who was a hair stylist. Jerry Seinfeld married Jessica Sklar who was a PR lady. Vince Vaughn married Kyla Webber who was a real estate agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:32 AM
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Sounds like it. I make $22.50/hr as a special ed aide and will get raises. I don't even do any work. California also has a higher cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 04:36 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/90lFb5U This is my district for a gen ed teacher. Special ed generally requires more units, so you would start at higher pay. If you had a masters and lots of units, you would be compensated more and go up the salary scale with years of experience. This isn't even the highest paid district in the area. Not sure about the rest of the country, but about 62k starting is accurate where I live. A teacher working 20+ yr brings in over 100k https://imgur.com/a/WbeqjQn <-- the teache…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:59 AM
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My dads a pretty big idiot for as good of a job as he has. Blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:57 AM
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Yes. It's definitely not easy to land a teaching job around here, unless it's special ed. I've met lots of substitutes who just stayed substitutes forever and let their credentials expire since they couldn't find a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:55 AM
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Apparently wasn't happy with a life most people only dream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:51 AM
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In southern CA, a 1st year special ed teacher starts at 62k in my district. 180 days/year. It only goes up from there with years of experience and more education. Most teachers at my school make over 100k, besides the brand new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:45 AM
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My dad is a higher up aerospace engineer and left my pretty blonde mom who was a school principal for a mentally unstable, unattractive fat checker at Mervyns who ended up smashing his windows and pulling a knife on someone at the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:04 AM
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What?! Where do you live? I'm a special needs aide, do absolutely nothing, only work 5.95 hrs/day and make $2300/month
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:41 AM
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Gross. Would not have married and had a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:39 AM
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Literally tripple the income of someone making 40k and requires 5+ years of education. Big difference imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:31 AM
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Not on the same level as a waitress or secretary making $18/hr by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:28 AM
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Why do people call teachers low earning? Every teacher at my elementary school in CA makes over 6 figures, except the 2 brand new ones. Check out transparent CA and look at some of their pensions. Granted, they've been doing it 20 years and many have masters degrees, but that's not bad pay for working 180 days/year and being done by 3:30. Nurses get paid well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:23 AM
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Artists, musicians and interesting creative types can get higher class men easily, especially if you're pretty. Rich people like art.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:16 AM
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This is why I married another sober person. At least for us, it's a reason to celebrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:52 PM
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Having a previous problem does not always indiciate a person is going to relapse. Many addicts in recovery have years and years clean time and have done the work to stay that way. Trust me, we're out there and most of the time no one even knows since anonymity is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:46 PM
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Many, many people are sober and have had previous substance abuse issues you wouldn't even expect or just decide not to drink for whatever reason. At least for me, not drinking would be a bonus. When you're in the drinking culture you think everyone's doing it, but as soon as you stop and make new sober connections you realize that no, they're really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:42 PM
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People always overestimate how much $ they need to live. They want it, they don't NEED it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:41 PM
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Thank you so much! You as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:52 PM
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You can be "hilariously mediocre" and still be successful. I have a job coming up moving some artifacts in a museum on Catalina island and getting paid $400/day for doing it. We got paid $2400 to spray a space man at Coachella that took us about 7 hours total. We got paid $300 to spray a box on Lady Gagas state white. You get the idea.. Jobs like this exist and artists are doing them, you just don't realize it. There are entire housing communities built just for working artists who are getting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:21 PM
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The post is about doing what you are passionate about. No one can stop you from making art if that is what you are passionate about. Doing your passion does not make you an outlier. It just means you made a choice to do it when others who weren't that passionate decided not do. Creative industries employ many many many people. It is not uncommon to be an artist and make money for it. We just work with paint instead of on a computer. If I tried to be an engineer, didn't like it & quit, I wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:42 PM
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If you were actually passionate, you wouldn't give up. People who want immediate pay off then quit when they don't get it probably weren't that passionate in the 1st place. I know lots of artists who aren't that good but just kept doing it, made connections, etc and now they get work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:18 AM
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I do not believe we are outliers. I just think we kept doing it when others would have quit cuz it's too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:49 AM
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For many people what they are passionate about and what they're good at DO intersect. My husband and I, along with our entire social circle, make a living doing what we are passionate and good at. Scenic painters working for the union in Los Angeles average $40/hr with lots of overtime. These jobs are readily available through networking, which you can only really do if you're working as an artist. My husband has been an electrician, construction worker, teacher, UPS driver, bartender, swim inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:40 AM
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Seriously the gig economy gets you nowhere. That's why it's a gig.. cuz your resume doesn't matter and you could just make up doing random gigs if you wanted to pad your resume 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 12:24 AM
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Some peoples jobs don't have much upward mobility in the first place. I work for a school district and could take off 5 years to have kids, come back and easily get the exact same job. Maybe if you're tryna climb the career ladder it's a different story but many people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:23 PM
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That's a beautiful view 😍I like the pink lights 😍
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 10:45 PM
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One guy told me 5'10" and best friend 6'2" "wow are you guys like the twin towers?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:03 AM
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I definitely agree that education is invaluable. I think I noticed a comment above about the arts and philosophy not being on the same academic level as a math or science degree that more men do. But for many going to school is a chance to pursue something they like and it really isn't about making a lot of money or trying to get ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 08:24 PM
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I think people get all screwed up because they somehow got it in their head that you go to school , then you get a good job. But that's not really what higher education is and it's never been , unless you are going to a vocational school training for a specific job.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 07:11 PM
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