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shemayknowmyusername/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:22 PM
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It's true. I think I've only really felt "love" when I had the underhand in the relationship, or there was still uncertainty about it.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:27 PM
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You got me. You're so knowledgeable and helpful. Thank you for your precious time. Your username is so deep. You must see things so differently from everyone.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:25 PM
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It's so hard to determine what 'better' is. I had been single for 2 years before dating this girl and she had high value as determined by our social group ("your girlfriend is awesome", random guys/girls approaching her in public to compliment her, etc). As my girlfriend she went above and beyond compared to any woman in my life. She was supportive of my dreams, my lifestyle, she cooked for me, she did everything for me. I was truly spoiled. I think I'm pretty good at meeting girls but I have a …
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:14 PM
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So what happens if I have a good woman, the love chemicals have worn off (and I'm content still), and I just have to put up with her needing reassurance all the time? Is that really worth me moving on?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:04 PM
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Fuck man, you got it. I first read your post, then the comments that were made, and I was able to think of it from the outside perspective. You have identified all the options that I saw, and supported my initial reasoning behind the breakup through your explanation. I so want to make things easy for both of us by getting back together, but it's true that her longing for my reassurance will not come from me without a concentrated effort and I know I can't genuinely engrain that into my nature. I…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:02 PM
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OHHH. Yea I did, but I obviously felt the need to bring in my own personal matters for discussion. I guess everyone who posts these things is always looking for an easy answer that will make them feel better, but the answer is almost always to work on yourself. 'Man can not remake himself without suffering. For he is both the sculptor and the marble'. Can't remember the source for that one but I think it's appropriate.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:59 PM
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I'm not sure what UTSFE is, but this is a throwaway.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:47 PM
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I appreciate your words of encouragement, but I feel you might be misinterpreting my concerns. I believe that my problem is that I always think I can do better. That there must be a girl out there who brings out my beta tendencies, which in turn makes me feel like I am in love. Or have I established myself so well in my current relationship, that I think it must not be good enough? I'm starting to confuse myself.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:42 PM
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