shenaniganry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
240	A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approaching	Outer Game	shenaniganry	/r/seduction	10/10/12 05:15 AM
1	This is called a contradiction of terms		shenaniganry	/r/seduction	30/09/12 06:59 PM

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3	What dating companies DON"T want you to know about pick up. Attraction at its core is self confidence and when you actually talk TO a girl instead of talking ABOUT her Can you elaborate on this? I feel like there's a lot of interesting material behind this statement and I'd like to hear what you have to say about it.	/r/seduction	01/11/12 02:48 AM
6	A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approaching I wouldn't call this science. I never claimed it to be. It's just an argument from analogy. My point was that it seems like a lot of guys on here obsess over routines and witty lines and inner game without actually making any attempt to apply in the field. Sorry if I offended your sensibilities and tarnished the good name of science.	/r/seduction	10/10/12 05:07 PM
13	You're Asian, I'm White shit test? If you feel like you've got solid rapport and attraction built... Turn the shit test back on her. Make her feel bad for screening you based on race. Suddenly, the situation becomes you screening her for having shitty outlooks on life and relationships. Something like this, but less harshly worded: Her: "This won't work. I'm white, you're asian." You: "Yeah, you're right, it wouldn't work. On top of that, you're racist, I'm not."	/r/seduction	05/10/12 04:17 PM
-1	Books to read after The Game and How to Win Friends & Influence People Like Delightful_White said, definitely start approaching. However, I'd also recommend picking up The Mystery Method. It'll give you a nice framework to work with that you can modify and adjust as you learn.	/r/seduction	04/10/12 08:42 PM
1	Extended Field Report From a Crash and Burn. [FR] Good FR. I will NEVER again make my move too early This one stuck out to me. I've been thinking lately that the key to every escalation is to build from previous steps. Basically, my theory goes like this. Every time you escalate, you need the girl to already (at least subconsciously) want the escalation. Let's say you open a girl at a coffee shop. If you go directly to asking for her number, you've not made any indication that you're valuable beyond a very mild display of confidence. Ideally, y…	/r/seduction	03/10/12 02:24 AM
15	I am Tripp, dating coach & creator of TrippAdvice AMA. I don't really have any questions about game etc, but I was wondering if you could share some fun stories from your PUA experiences. Have you ever met any of the big gurus like Mystery, Style etc.? What were they like?	/r/seduction	03/10/12 01:11 AM
1	Seddit, a serious question wanting a serious answer... How many girls have you F-closed since you discovered "Game"? Three. Plus a two other dirty hookups that couldn't be escalated to sex for logistical reasons. I started PUA stuff in like, July. Until that point, I had had sex with three girls, plus numerous other hookups. I'm 19 by the way.	/r/seduction	01/10/12 04:00 AM
6	How do you respond to: "I'm ugly?" This is the right answer. Regardless of whether she actually believes she's ugly, she's asking you to validate her. If you validate her without first getting compliance, you turn into another one of her low-value boy toys.	/r/seduction	22/09/12 11:57 PM
8	I feel like seduction needs a big overhaul Field test it. I think the important facet of game that you're glossing over here is mindset. If you approach the interaction as you trying to impress a woman, you're setting yourself up for failure. The correct mindset, in my opinion, is that you are giving the woman an opportunity to impress you and you're screening her for the qualities that you appreciate. If you internalize that mindset, the women around you will pick up on it, and then BAM. Alpha.	/r/seduction	16/09/12 02:08 AM
1	This guy makes some great videos and I feel he doesn't get the views he deserves. This is one of his videos Yeah, that's a good starting point, and I'm sure there are ways to make it work. The only problem I personally have with that is compliments don't really build attraction, and that's what your opener is all about. If you open with a compliment you'll be sure to have her attention briefly, but you don't need to give up that value to get a woman's attention. That's why I go with either indirect openers (day game) or neg openers (party game). Thing is though, these are mostly situational, so you've…	/r/seduction	15/09/12 12:48 AM
1	I am confident in my ability to talk to women, however my exposure to them in social settings is limited because I'm not in a fraternity and all of my friends are only friends with each other. How do I get out of the antisocial cycle? Befriend someone who lives off campus and throws parties. Don't be a pest. You're gonna need to bring some value into their life if they're gonna invite you places. There are three main currencies in college - drugs/alcohol, party locations and girls. They probably already have the first two in spades. You might be able to help out in the third category. That's how I got myself into the party scene on my campus. When I show up to parties, I show up with girls. And then I invite some more. I also…	/r/seduction	14/09/12 10:23 PM
2	How old is everyone here? I can see where you're coming from as a lot of this stuff is very club and party oriented, but there are certain universal ideas like confidence and abundance theory that tie all types of game together. If you're gonna take something away from the PUA community, take away the basic principles of being a man and learning how to give women not what they say they want but what they really truly desire. You've got a huge opportunity to jump ahead of the curve - most guys in high school are fucking c…	/r/seduction	14/09/12 10:10 PM
1	I don't like kissing until I know the girl...is this weird? Yes this is weird as in it's abnormal, but I don't think it's necessarily bad. In fact, I think it can possibly work in your favor. If you internalize the idea that the girl has to earn kisses from you, then you're placing yourself in a great position. Not many men (myself included) can consistently reach that state where they're of such high value that they get to screen applicants for the position of 'girlfriend' (I'm using that term loosely). I would be cautious, though, of using this idea as…	/r/seduction	14/09/12 09:59 PM
1	This guy makes some great videos and I feel he doesn't get the views he deserves. This is one of his videos Direct openers instantly validate your target. If approach a woman and say "You're so beautiful I just couldn't resist coming to talk to you" I'm affirming her value and ego without asking for any compliance from her. Ideally, you shouldn't validate your target in that manner until you've gotten some compliance - she does something you like, so you reward her. I generally refrain from complimenting a woman's physical appearance until after we've gotten pretty intimate. This is also how a woman's…	/r/seduction	14/09/12 09:36 PM
10	Kind of a lame way to get in state, but I'll share it because it's worked for me EVERY time. Oh god. I can't stop laughing. Oh lord.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 05:21 PM