| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Dating App Horrors: The Untold Story | DISCUSSION | sher0355 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:26 PM |
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| 22 | What sex/hook up experience helped catalyze your FDS ideals?Hilarious, my most recent ex was also butthurt when I tried to tell him how I liked oral. Unsurprisingly, it never made a difference, and we continued to fight about it every. time. we had sex. Most recently, in a moment of weakness, I tried to contact a fuckboi I used to know but hadn't slept with yet. He was FDS by the book. Kept pushing relentlessly for nudes/video (probably shares them with friends), only wanted to meet at my house or "somewhere" (his living situation is probably fucked in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:27 AM |
| 19 | Pre-order your copy!Perfect. I'm going to go to a field to read it. Or maybe an alley behind a parking garage.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:30 AM |
| 6 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.What is an elo score? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:29 PM |
| 31 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.Wow, it took me 20 failed relationships to figure out what you said in 3 sentences. Recovering 🤡 right here 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:29 PM |
| 7 | The low value men in my life have confirmed that everything FDS says is trueThank you @ very damn BEGINNING!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | "hE iS hUmAn": pickme vs. random guy's perspective on these kind of liesBack when I did OLD, I was messaged by a man who had a newborn. Although I was posterwoman pickme, even I called him out on that one. His response? "yoU CanT AssUMe iM NoT DeDiCATed tO My CHilD JuST bEcaUSE iM DAtINg. sO WAnT tO f**K?" 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 18 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮I'm so glad this video made it to FDS!! Like fr.... a pedi, milkshake, and chicken sandwich? Girl please. Get it together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 134 | Pickme pickme pickme !!! 🙋🙋🙋There are points I agree with, and I ultimately want every woman to feel welcome and learn FDS. I am also curious if its men pretending to be female. I was recently contacted (harassed) by someone with a female-sounding screen name who impersonated a woman, only revealing himself after I responded. At any rate, let's all stand together and share our experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Engagement closing in (hopefully) advise on how to handle home ownership!!!!!!!!! -WHY did you move in together? -WHY are you begging this man to marry you and wasting your time with ultimatums? -WHY are you in a relationship you label as "okay"? Engagement closing in "HOPEFULLY"??? -WHY are grown-up, life changing decions and his actions based on you "circling dates on calendars" and "putting your foot down"? -WHY are you not able to afford your own place nor able to afford the houses he's looking at? I'm 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 13 | "child free" Men are manchildsThaaank yoouuu..... my ex's response for every child-rearing hypothetical: "We'll just get a nanny." 🙄🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Can a “Couch Creature” be a HVM?Only you know what is right for you, and if you follow FDS, then you should be used to making major life decisions on your own and in favor of your personal success/happiness. Because if you haven't been, and consistently seek validation from others/men, then dating should not be your priority #1. Flying him out seems a little pickme. So does being grateful he "buys you dinner".... any LVM will pay for dinner. Who pays for all the incidentals on these vacations? Is it ur hotel room, ur rental ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 25 | Correct me if I’m wrong....I completely feel you. Even in this sub, I feel like some women are quick to label a man HV because he pays for things and is nice to them. 1... unless he's NVM, it means nothing to a LVM to pay. Men expect to pay for sex when they meet a HVW. #2... thats the bare minimum!!! My LVM ex was super sweet and paid for 80% of everything. It was the hard sh*t he was selfish and lied about, leading me into a fake relationship for 2 years. Ask the hard questions and don't let them put you off. Assess all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:33 AM |
| 3 | My(19f) bf(20) didn't let me see his phone. I saw her best friend's name (it's a she) what to do?Oh my gosh, best advice right here!!!! 🔥 🔥 🔥 I wish could I could go back and slap the sh*t out of my 20 year old self for wasting nearly a decade on low grade dick. MEN WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE AT THIS AGE. RUN. Run straight to your nearest college, professional job opening, financial advisor, female mentee, etc. and build a good life by yourself, for yourself. Don't spend your 30s playing catch-up like me 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 7 | Do some of our mothers want to see us fail romantically?I too think its because they are pickmes and they way they were raised. Both sets of my parents want to see me married asap, and they care very little to whom. They roll their eyes everytime I break-up with another NVM. What they truthfully want... grandchildren. At my expense. Despite having little interest in me or my siblings growing up, very little in interest in me now as an adult, and nowhere near set up to handle children for any meaningful amount of time. Its like.... do you seriously wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 6 | Have you ever regretted blocking someone? Share your story to encourage other women to block the LVMs that they're being too nice to right now. How did you feel when you blocked him?Blocking is the best thing ever, and something I've always done consistently, even before FDS. There is always lots of trash to take that loser's place, so don't worry about that, and the relief you get from not having to hear bullshit is worth its weight in gold. The only thing I regret is when getting a new phone all the numbers become unblocked so you have to go through the hassle of blocking again when they INIVIETABLY message you again waay into the future. Dont be fooled- if men think they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 6 | If this isn’t how my boyfriend reacts, I don’t want itReally........... Maybe I'm different, but my perfect guy would be like "Awesome! Where are you going and when will you be back?" Get your own life dude 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 15 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.Absolutely disgusting. The PS is what got me. 🤮 But you know what? You're a stone-cold Queen 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 4 | OLD match forgets about our arranged date & claims to be unavailable for the foreseeable without an explanation, but still continues to try and talk to me on Instagram 🤷♀️🤷♀️Are you familiar with the phrases "on the hook" or "breadcrumbing".. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 52 | What are some things that you used to think were normal/cute but now realize are red flags? 🚩Not "being able to control himself" because my pussy/body is sooo "great". "Missing you" texts out of the blue. Any excuse as to why his life isn't together already. Any first date at his house or my house for whatever reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury....... wasnt there a post on here recently, similar to this but in reverse, where the group was blasting the girl for being a pickme and staying with a spinal injury victim? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:59 PM |
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