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This. When I watched it I thought it could easily be me or any of my friends in our early 20s, when we didn’t know how bad and dangerous the dating world could be. And in a pool of unkept dude that all they have to offer is a McDonald’s date you’ll pay for, this kind of guy is gonna come as prince charming. This kinda guy is the stereotype of the « good guy » that your parents want to bring you home. As you say, white collar crimes is not something you’re necessarily aware of when you’re young. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:22 AM
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I am on the same boat. I have ADHD and need to have my space clean and organized a certain way, I am also prone to sensitivity overwhlem, when I’m tired just talking to me or tiny noises can drive me to the edge, so the idea of living with a romantic partner isn’t one bit appealing to me. The logistics of changing flat, were I to split with the person, would also be an ADHD nightmare. So I think it’d be much better for both parties to live seperatly in my case. I also like the idea of not changi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:32 AM
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I’ve known met who were hot into their 20s but became sluggish and ugly into their 30s due to not looking after their appearances and living unhealthy lifestyles. And vice versa, guys who in their 20s you wouldn’t pay attention, who later got into fitness, healthy lifestyles and changing their wardrobes and up their games. Guys I know who looked good in their 20s and still do at 30s are men that were extremely conscientious about their appearances and taking good care of themselves, in my circle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:44 AM
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All of the men I met who were like this turned out to not do anything at all for their girlfriends, and people who did not have much to offer from the beggining and were lacking in socia skills. And when confronted with their own lack of efforts, they would brush it off as “that’s just not who I am. You/She shouldn’t try to change me”. In my pickme days, I was always the ones doing the most in the relationship, trying to be the cool girl, and show men that girls can take initiative, but my effor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:30 AM
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This show was a pleasant surprised to me as you said it differs vastly from similar shows in the West that are centered are sex and crazy drama. Something I enjoy about the ladies is that aside from being beautiful, they all have successful and pretty high level careers, running their own businesses and have healthy lifestyles. That changes from the shows in my country where they tend to pick wannabe celebrities with no much educational and professional background, and portrayed women as dumb bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:28 AM
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I have to disagree with this view point in that you can’t really step up in life if you’re not confident and well kn your shoes first, which women lacked to due to our socialization to being agreeable. Sure, we could definitely use more straight forward and pragmatic life hacks, investments for women etc. But the two go in hands, if you do not know how to set boundaries, it’s going to be hard to say know to a manager who is for instance constantly asking you to work unpaid overtime, to step up y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:28 PM
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This is spot on! Agreed with everything you said. I have two « friends » (they are a couple) into that lifestyle and their life is just constant drama after drama, jealousy, pettiness and yet they will still go on about the greatness of such lifestyle and how it can enhance your relationship blablabla. Meanwhile completely dominating their entire life, their main two hobbies these days are basically chasing prospects and partying (those usually go in hands, everytime I went somewhere with them m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:02 PM
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Really like this man standing up for his fiancée and wanting her to be happy for their wedding, saying he’d support her decision if she wanted them there, how they are her only family, even though they do not seem to be pleasant to be around and has the awareness to reflect as to whether his actions might come off as out of line (even though here seems perfectly reasonnable), demonstrates emotional intelligence and willing to do the best to support his partner. I sure would have appreciated a pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:14 AM
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Oh man, how many times I have heard this one. I hate how they use this to make us believe they are taking responsibilities for their actions and care meanwhile aiming to do the exact opposite, paint themselves as the victims who are trapped in this awful “Bad Boy Persona” prison from which no one can save them, not even you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:33 AM
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Personally, if someone is going too fast for my comfort or/and they are not catching up, this becomes a red flag and I usually move on. Agreed with another user that the first one should be blocked and deleted. As for the rest, I understand your intentions, but this is putting too much thoughts for men who are already showing signs of not being a good fit. “i don’t know” /“ I don’t use social media” / changing topics etc should be enough for these men to get the hint if they are worth it, if not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:27 AM
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That place was one of a kind, to this day they're still notorious for being bad, but it's good that they're getting called out because they're ruining a wonderful activity. May also have to with my country, having spoken with horse ridders from the US there seem to be much different and better approaches there. And thanks! I'll definitely check if that is available in my country, I'd love to be able to be around horses again and have an activity that can fit in my schedule, which horse riding pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:16 PM
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I did horse riding lessons for 9 years from primary school to high school, and it was absolutely not my experience. Probably had to do with the place where I took lessons being very elitist, instructors being downright nasty especially the higher level you got, practising favoritism (usually based on social class, students who could afford their horses and take private lessons on the side were treated like God’s given) and looking down on students that didn’t fit into their ideal of a rider inst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:16 AM
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Agreed. It’s a waste of time and energy, that creates unnecessary brain clutter, mess with your mind and lead you to think that expecting the bare minimum is something crazy. Whenever I felt compelled to do this, my original demand or issue was always simple and reasonnable « i don’t like you lying » « i’d like to show more efforts and take me on dates ». Having to think about why I wanted such simple things that are no brainer, writing lengthy paragraphs about it made feel and why it seemed rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:20 AM
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Welcome back and happy to hear about negativity being tackled down. It's been a bit depressing to read this sub lately, with all the negativity, every positive and encouraging HVM stories being followed by comments 'ugh, he's probably just a sociopath', having to scroll through a massive amount of highly triggering content to find one positive or strategy centered posts, and redundant lectures. Prior to finding this sub, I had completely given up on dating, but reading about women's positive sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:47 PM
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Oh man. What a mood and inspiration, thanks for sharing! We really need to be hearing more about older women rocking life because it's probably one of the greatest inspiration we can get to get over pick-meism and the propaganda set against us to make us settle. Prior to joining this sub, I used to worry so much about aging, ending up alone as I grow old if I don't marry (and have family), but reading about older women still living their best lives in old age, being healthy, and finding themselv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:52 PM
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She's not entirely wrong, in a world of pick-me who will put their lv relationships and/or stranger men they're attracted to or whatever before other women, it's hard finding meaningful and consistent female friendships. Although, she's clearly one of them, as that's not the way to illustrate it. It's ironic how these women can't see that their problem is lack of standards, both in their choice of men as well as choice of friends. If the only women you attract in your life are women that will "s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:34 PM
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Ugh, it feels painful to read that wanting the basic expectations of a relationship is considered a standard and a luxury one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:31 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken. There is also something very hypocritical and ironic in the way they’ll say “don’t demonize sex work” but will demonize every job as “exploitive capitalism” to make their point. Consistently taking examples such as Mcdonald’s job and what’s considered “low level” position by the capitalist standards they so claim to detest, patronizing people as stupid and lazy for setting up for jobs they see as not offering as much “perks” as they believe sex work do. Their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:07 PM
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Not a fan of her after reading some controversies about her elsewhere. As said she used to be a party girl, and was apparently working as an escort (when she was a ´dancer’ at some club), she used to have a blog and community where she’d share tips with other girls, but that she deleted now. Most of the advice she promoted were taken from there from other women, which she refused to credit. She gets everything mentioning her past on the internet deleted, and that got some people and other women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:50 AM
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While men are still being paid more than women, it’s still possible for women to live very comfortable lifestyle on their own. There are industry and works that will still pay relatively well, nowadays more women are starting to become more ruthless about wage negociation and helping each other through various networking groups to succeed in the business world as women. Besides, building financial independance isn’t just about wage, it’s also about managing this money you make, living slightly u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:09 AM
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Sis, if you have adhd, this kind of relationship is going to make it worse. I have adhd myself, and one advice I commonly hear from therapists it is very important, should you get in a relationship, that your partner will help and support you especially regarding cleaning and organization as these things requires a lot more energy for us than a normal person. But it’s also important regarding a lot of other aspects of adhd, like being able to have alone time to recharge mentally and not getting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:14 PM
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Never understood where this idea of 'aging better' actually came from, when women actually live longer than men, the numbers say it. How living shorter can be considered 'aging' better. And more 'subjectively', women still tend to look a lot better than men, even when not doing anything particular to appear younger, I've even seen women with not so 'healthy lifestyle' still looking better than men around their 50/60. Myself I don't have any wrinkles, while I used to smoke, drink and party often …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:03 PM
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For me the current problems with beauty standards is that not only they are unattainable and very subjective (trends and stuff), but there are an expectation and are mostly geared towards and decided by men & male gaze. They are considered a public matter and used as tool of control & of considerable profits. I don’t think it’s inherently wrong & nice to want to care for your appearance, I don’t wear make up nor heels anymore, but I like dressing nicely, taking care of my skin and hair. Clothes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:54 PM
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I would not trust this so easily. As we discussed here, men are aware of what they are doing, they know how to manipulate. Could be another form of deceit on their end. Respect and empathy are not built overnight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:30 AM
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How delusional can men be. They are not even capable of pleasing one woman in bed and they think we’d care for one when we have the luxury to be with another woman? Give me a break, scrotes. 🤡 But yeah, this is exhausting. I’m so tired of their pickme entertaining this fantasy and saturing wlw pool on dating websites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:53 AM
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The wall is yet another projection of men. My grandmother had four children and mostly raised me, but she barely showed any of age both mentally and physically. She had a very active lifestyle in her 60s & 70s, yoga, singing, she often had friends visiting. She went through some rough path, but she made the most of her late years and maintained a healthy lifestyle (drank in moderation, healthy eating, active lifestyle). My aunt has also a neighbor who is 80 and is dating women within his age ran…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:19 AM
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Sounds accurate 😂😂👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:44 AM
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Thanks for sharing! Never heard of this website before, sounds like a really good ressource. I'll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:26 PM
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Thanks! And very much agreed about meds, can be a way of vetting as well as seeing as to how they react to you being neuroatypical (I'd watch out more for the latter). In my personal experience, people who abuse drugs recreationally, especially coke, are easy to spot. Men who use coke on regular basis tend to be a particular kind of insufferable and narcissistic, and don't particularly care to hide it these days (where I live offering a line a coke at a party or dinner is like offering a glass o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:38 PM
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High efforts isn't so much about spending cash as it is about making an effort to make a good impression (showing you're a generous man, that you're finally stable), putting thoughts into the dates. Going over the top for a first date could also be a red flag (potential narcissistic personality and love bombing). There should be a a right balance between making an impression and being comfortable. I know what you mean, this one can be tricky for neuroatypical because common high value dates may …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:08 PM
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Thanks! Happy to be of help and save ladies from the absolute nightmare of dating scrotes when you suffer from this kind of anxiety. Women's mental health really to get talked about more. I hate how society wants to minimize the impacts it has our lives so we can continue to be slaves to the patriarchy and lvm at the expenses of our well-being and sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:04 PM
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Agreed it’s unlikely that it’s been written by a woman. That shit sounds far too depraved and out of some porn scenario. Sleeping with your wife’s sister is borderline incest. Can’t think of a woman who would be cheerful about this and not legitimately creeped out, disgustef and heartbroken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:26 PM
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A mood. It’s getting incredibly popular here too amongst 30s high middle class people. A former friend of mine and her bf were into that lifestyle. She’d constantly told me how feeling attraction to others people was natural, that they live a more honest lifestyle (even though she’s had many encounters on her own they did not agree about and she lied to about LOL), that my standards were unrealistic etc. Meanwhile her relationship was a complete mess and they were both very unhappy. She reached …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:30 AM
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I'm 29 but ever once in a while I get ask for my ID at clubs or liquor store (in my country, people don't ask unless they have suspicion you're under 18, I know in some countries it can be different). But I have a 'resting bitch face' and death kinda stare that apparently work nice at keeping the scrotes off (I've had guys telling me the cold vibe I give sorta scared them from approaching me at first). In my personal experience, the way you carry yourself can sometimes make a difference in the w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:46 PM
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Because it reflects insecurity and low self-esteem on their part I believe. They don't think they deserve more than they have so everybody must be on the same level so they don't have to self introspect and reflect on themselves. I used to be that person who would lecture people about being having 'unrealistic' standards in various areas of life (just not dating) in the name of 'pragmatism' because I was very insecure and jealous myself, as well being influenced by closed ones who were of that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:18 PM
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Why do people care so much about what we say here and changing our minds, when for one sub likes ours, there are 182928282 subs preaching hook up culture, open relationships, kinks and the likes? Almost as if they were insecure about their own lifestyle and standards, huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:02 PM
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I deleted Tinder a while ago and had almost some moments of relapses when I thought about giving it another shot again, even though I've never met any man worth my time there, it's easy to get trapped into the thinking that this is now the only way to meet potential dates and partners (even more so in this pandemic times where our social circles and activities are limited). Then, I asked myself would a HVM really be on those kind of apps? Do I really want a man swiping onto women like they're in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:39 PM
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Why are these scrotes so shock she's reconsidering this relationship? It's his fault, he should have CoMmUniCaTed about being a pig earlier, women are not mind readers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:21 AM
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I can't believe in an era where intimacy, mutual affection, respect, boundaries are becoming a rarity, that will make you look like some kind of weird 'outcast' for wanting those things, whereas depravity and gross kinks are the norms. I feel bad for younger women who have to grow as adult in this era, thinking this how you're supposed to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:26 AM
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Not to mention the money & time spent on nice clothings, make up, nails, perfume, skin care, when dudes will basically show up in plain shirts and jeans, and not even bother to compliment the efforts on your part, spends most of the date talking about himself and completely waste your time & efforts. How is that 50/50? Men who says they want 50/50 are liars, they do not want 50/50. What they want is actually for you to do all the work and their part, get minimum inconvenience and reap the maximu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:07 PM
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That's absolutely true. If he wanted to, he would, as the saying goes in this sub. I recently got back into gaming with lockdown and pandemic still going on, and was looking up tips on youtube to improve at the game I'm playing, which requires a bit of strategic thinking. And boy, was I stuck by the amount of dedication, analytical thinking & time men would put in those games and the content they made about it. If they put half of that into dating, relationships or just really life in general, o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:03 PM
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I know, right? So tired of the LVM & pickme narrative that 'monogamy is unnatural', 'that it's normal to be attracted to other people' and if you don't agree with that, you're a conservative and controlling party popper who is doomed to be eternally miserable in relationship if you put up with this shit. Had some many arguments with Cool Girls Pick Me friends about that, saying 'I was unrealistic' to expect my partner not to go such things, 'would you rather he does it behind your back'. Sorry, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:52 PM
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Oh yeah. One trend that makes me particularly cringe is gaslighting women into thinking they're controlling when they're asking for boundaries, reciprocity and efforts. 'My bf never compliments or say anything sweet to me': 'well, love isn't a soap opera, honey. if you want to be compliment by your bf that is insecurity on your end. respect that he isn't into compliment.' Ugh. If you want something out of a relationship, basically according to dating subs these days, you're just controlling and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:36 PM
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Indeed and I have never not felt any better in my life, regardless of the back lash I can sometimes get from my peers, being called a bitch or selfish for putting myself and career first. Learning to block and delete without any second thoughts has probably been the most liberating thing I've learned and done from this sub. The mental space it's liberated in my mind, knowing if I don't want to deal with someone, I can simply cut them off instead of wasting time & energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:07 PM
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I agree. I'm tired of the idea that because feminism promotes sisterhood we have to be supportive and agree with every breathing women unquestionably. There are patriarchy brainwashed women that can be just as toxic, and if they won't listen & open their eyes, then I don't want anything to do with them until they do because as you say they'll do anything to make us second guess our choices, standards etc. I've started distancing myself from friends who are major pick me, as much as it hurts, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:57 PM
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This. I'm so tired of men thinking if a woman is not wet enough it's her body's fault and jumping straight to lube instead of y'know maybe pull out, give us foreplay, wait until we are ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:42 PM
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Boohoo woo is me. How dare these evil cunning women dared be trafficked and abused by other men when it’s hurting my pathetic entitled self who don’t have an ounce of basic emotional intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:43 PM
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Same. The mental load of consistently second thinking of what I should wear in public, whether I’ll be left alone if I wear this or that, is really exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:48 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree. Best to secure your own investments and future. My ex LVM kept talking about buying a flat together in the 'future', meanwhile dude was already in debt though he made more than me at the time, because of heavy partying and kept throwing the money he didn't have. Meanwhile I was a pickme at the time, I still had to clarity of mind to think that I would never ever put myself in a position where I could risk having to pay for someone else's debt or financial inability. Life …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:45 PM
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Yeah, if he doesn't ask whether date location is convenient for you or knows in which area you live and proposed something that is much more closer to his than yours, for me it's a pretty good sign of someone who wants to put minimal efforts and someone who might potententially just want to get laid. I wouldn't waste time on men like this. In pretty much most cases where it happened to me in my pickeme days, the places they would suggest would be just as low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:04 PM
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This. If men are such visual creatures, why do a good portion of them live in literal pig houses? Doesn't seem to be bothered by their ungroomed appearances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:42 PM
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It depends on the kind of lifestyle you have, if you like travelling, going to nice restaurants often... But I would not recommend dating someone who makes much less than you. They might end up resenting you for it or expect you to pay for their shit. It’s better to date someone with similar salary and a similar lifestyle. Every time I dated guys who made less than me if they did not grow insecure over it, they would not really understand my lifestyle, why I liked to spend money on stuff they co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:01 PM
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This is definitely a good technique. Their humor can tell us so much about themselves, their level of intelligence, garbage and sociopathy. Recently went on a date with a scumbag, all was going well, until we were talking about housing and the thrash decided to take itself out by making a gross rape jokes about his basement « maybe i should bring you there with 3 other guys ?What, this is not how one is support to flirt? Durdurdur » You bet not you sociopathic piece of shit. Problematic humor of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:12 AM
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Your friend sounds extremely toxic and dangerous to me if she is going to push you onto someone who abused you in the past and to negate what happened to you. I’d drop her this instant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:55 AM
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Absolutely not. I no longer bother with men who can’t bother to be interested in what I like in bed. I no longer bother demanding either. Men are not babies, if they aren’t sure what would work, they can ask. If one has to demand from men pleasure in bed, it’s a pretty good indicator to me that is a selfish person in also many other areas of his life and is probably porn obsessed if he doesn’t know what the clit is and think jack hammering women is one bit pleasurable. And being pleasured in bed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:48 AM
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OMG. Truer words could have not been spoken, sis. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:34 PM
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Wanting to move too fast and wanting too much too quickly, usually. Men who lovebomb early on also tend to push boundaries in other areas, trying to get physical quickly, appearing needy wanting to spend a lot of time together, meet your friends/his friends/fam in early dating stages, suggesting activities like going on a weekend that are not appropriated in those stages either, etc. Those guys tend not to be very patient, in my experience. They will quickly get impatient with you /passive agres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:57 PM
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Lmao. Scrote just betrayed himself when he admitted it to be fairer to share housework chores, dude probably just looking for fellow’s scrotes validation not to feel about wanting to put minimal efforts and getting the highest ROI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:33 AM
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Preach, sis. It’s tirying how we are always told to CoMunIcaTE our needs or feels, while we are still doing most of the work here. And the whole ‘MeN aRe NoT MiND ReAdERS” BS. Indeed there isn’t much to gain in arguing with a man to exercise basic empathy , show interest and doing his part in the relationship and at home, when we know deep down he won’t bother to put in the efforts, or it will be for a short time period to keep you at best, or at worst will gaslight you into thinking you demand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:33 AM
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It would depend on the situation and where he lives, what he does. I live in a very expensive city where finding accomodations is extremely challenging (you must earn 3x times rent price, have guarantors etc), it’s not uncommon for people on their late 20s and early 30s to live in shared places. Personally, I’d prefer a guy who lived with roommates and is consenscious aboht his spending and money, than a guy who lives on his own and can’t manage his finances. But if he’s above 30, has a few year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:06 PM
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Yes, I have been. I had this friend who has been in toxic relationships most of her life as well had problems with her toxic relatives. At one point, every time we hang who would turn into me beinf a therapist for her and listening to the same long rants and monologues because she would not take any of my advice to work on herself. It became extremely draining to listen and to be surrounded by so much negativity all the time. I’ve gradually stopped hanging out as much with her, especially one on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:56 PM
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THIS. It’s hilarious how it’s always men of low income accusing women of being gold diggers. I think it’s more about these lvm projecting their fear of being unable to fanthom the idea of a woman earning more than them and being able to afford nice stuff on her own. I’ve been called a gold digger a couple of times by random men on dating because of various travel pictures around the world, apparently by their fucked up logic this makes me look like the typical gold digger looking for a man to fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:06 AM
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Because men love to project their own short comings on us. They want women to meet their irrealistic standards, but we are the ones who get called shallow for wanting attractive and financially stable. They lie and cheat, then call us bitches for rejecting them. They critcize, judge and belittle every god damn thing we do, even when it has nothing to do with them, but we are the man haters when we called them out on their BS. Their fragile egos can’t stand the ideas of reflecting at their own fl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:16 PM
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Depends on how you define 'bad'. In my experience, most men who were bad at sex turned out to be out of pure selfishness and lack of interest in my pleasure. I used to give men the benefit of the doubt in my younger days, assuming it could be lack of experience and they needed to be taught. But most of the time I'd tell them what did and did not work for me, they'd either mansplain women pleasure - I had one ex literally telling me that men's pleasure and women didn't work the same, that orgasms…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:48 AM
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