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| 15 | Getting What You Ask For | LTR | shes-a-cunt | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 09:11 AM |
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| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForIt's been a long time since I logged in but I wanted to say I really enjoyed and appreciated this response. You disagreed in a respectful way, and I learned how to see some parts of TRP (that in the past felt negative to me) in a more objective way. Regarding the lady who cheated- I try really hard not to judge people whose shoes I haven't walked in. But for me, cheating is a nonstarter. Completely unacceptable. I really like the perspective that cheating is less about betraying your partner and… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForBut notice how every comment that I've made that was overtly sexual is more harshly downvoted than the others. This is a male space and I'm not going to address her any differently than I would a man. FWIW, I'm not voting on any comments in here. I'm enjoying the conversation and I kind of feel this isn't my space, I'm an uninvited guest or whatever. _whistler's point is spot on. If I were "on the market" a very confident man who knows himself & exactly what he wants would be very attractive - b… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForWow, how delusional. This makes me grateful perhaps I was raised by parents who basically said, "sleeping with a man is the easiest way to ensure you'll never see him again". My husband said he took a lot of girls out who thought they were in a serious relationship or whatever after a single date. We turned up engaged and a girl in our larger social group was shooting eye daggers at me - they went on one boring date more than six months before, didn't talk again, and she still thought they were … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Ask ForWomen need to grasp that to high value men, they are literally a number until they prove themselves worthy of being more Why shouldn't a woman have to prove herself? It's perfectly fair. Men shouldn't have to treat women like pedestaled princesses. We require men to prove their mettle, generally. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForWhy don't you give us some tips on how/where to meet and recognize these women? All the ones I know are already married. Pretty much all of them married quite young, too. In that TRP is kind of straight-on. A woman who is willing to marry when she's young is one who doesn't think sleeping with lots of men is part of the necessary life experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForOne of the things I like about TRP and lurking here, is that it sometimes points out to me my own shit behavior. Nobody's perfect, right? I'm not sure why it makes you so mad that I'm happy to have a husband who isn't afraid to disagree with me or tell me when he thinks I'm wrong. I know lots of husbands who wouldn't dare. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Ask ForI never mind when people disagree with me - it's interesting and it's how you learn. :-) I'm glad you got something out of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForI think many men also don't know that some of these countries are passing laws to protect the women there. In Thailand, for example, any property a foreign man buys or transfers into the country (such as cash) immediately becomes HER property. If you buy a house in Thailand with your Thai wife, it belongs to her, as do any bank accounts you have there. 100%. The courts & the law is 100% in favor of keeping the money in Thailand and giving it all to the local. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForI don't have any 'beta orbiters'. All the men in my life are relatives, my husband's friends, or the husbands of my friends. I don't interact with any of them individually. If my husband dumped me he could have someone 10-15 years younger and way more meek than me within a week. A lot easier than I could (I'm post-wall - I have teenagers for god's sake!). Of course I know how good I have it, and that I have to provide more value for him than a younger woman would. "Trashy" and "easy" women are t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask Foryou are your worst enemy, and if you don't beat your old self every single day you will ... Second thought: this is true of women, too. I think we have a lot of power to destroy emotionally and it's incredibly easy to be a force for negativity and destruction (as a woman) if you don't guard yourself or you have the wrong influences (friends, relatives) around you. I've started to see how women can hurt men so much more deeply than men can hurt women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForI'm spoiled because I'm married to a strong & worthy man. All the time I see men who don't have a freaking clue - and I think TRP has a lot to offer. Men should know their own value. In another comment I talked about my female friend who divorced her unmanly husband. She's dating an uber-male now, and she admits it freely, how much she wanted a "real man". He's actually like 2" shorter than her (but very fit). It's all about attitude. Recently I was talking to a female friend about how my husban… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForEver think about how a lot of men don't want kids or a marriage? Hi - at the beginning of my post I stated that marriage isn't for everyone, and that if you aren't seeking it, good for you and I don't judge. Better to be honest about what you want, if you want a fulfilling life. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForI don't think I'm a unicorn! :-) I think that when you see women in a negative and one-dimensional way, you attract women to yourself who fulfill your expectations. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Getting What You Ask ForHave you ever considered that perhaps it is you who have issues with your sexuality? Why do you crave the safety that only an LTR can provide? It's how I was raised, tbh. And it's a biological imperative. I am married to a good man. Why would I risk hurting him for some cheap thrill? So yes, I am completely shut down sexually except where he is concerned. I can't remember when I thought about another man that way. For my husband I will be a wild and dirty girl. Where you (and all other men) are … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask Fordrukpa-kunley is negotiating attraction here, although I doubt that's his intent, and the woman's reaction? "Ew, Gross!!!!" = beta-male shaming I didn't mean it to "shame" - only that this sort of thing isn't attractive to me and never has been. For a virtual stranger to jump into this sort of talk feels intrusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask Formost denominations bow to the Feminine Imperative We actually got very unhappy with how the church we used to attend (we are both agnostic now) would bow to women on Mother's day and then on Father's day preach about how horrible men are. To a group of men who were up early on a weekend morning to go to church with their families. It disgusted me, and infuriated my husband. Most of the marital problems we saw around us were caused by the wives. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Ask ForWhat does a man get out of marriage? This is a great question! After living in Europe where women typically do not stay home with kids, and keep their own names & continue working - marriage is an afterthought, unnecessary. Marriages and relationships are easily broken, too. But here men are very weak, women dominate. I don't like it. I've started thinking of marriage as a legal protection, period. It's probably especially important for women who will give up careers to raise children and keep h… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 12:22 PM |
| -7 | Getting What You Ask ForUm, see, this is just gross. But kudos to you for finding success. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Ask ForWhat you've said demonstrates the best TRP has to offer. Whatever your end game is. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForThis is amazing, all of it. And pretty sad that your real-life experience backs what I said. I chuckled at how you knew going in exactly what to look for. Is the Filipina you found a LTR? I'm curious how it worked out. You would never get permission to marry one as an outsider, but a conservatively raised Indian girl would fit the bill for most of the guys here. I want to temper my comments about Russian women with the fact that many Russian men are horrible & abusive to women - and also that th… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask Forhow do you figure you find a quality woman (as if there is an abundant amount somewhere men don't know about) without being a quality man? I don't! That's the part of TRP I really like. We just watched "Midnight in Paris" this week - Owen Wilson's character is a terrible beta. His fiancé is the ultimate bitch. It was hard to watch. the system is so fucked up that the qualifications for being a good woman is "doesn't drink or sleep around" You can make your husband's life a total misery without e… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Ask ForThere is no need to be so close-minded and judgemental. Get off your high horse, lady. These are the same women TRP will make fun of and drop without a second glance. Your opinion of them is even lower than mine. At least I leave them to live their own lives - you use them and dump them. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 03:48 PM |
| -5 | Getting What You Ask ForIf you had approached me for NSA with those tactics, I would have thought "pervert" and moved away. My husband brushed my arm on purpose on our second date - it's how I knew he was really into me. He moved very slowly though and by the time we kissed it was outrageously exciting. Like rockets to the moon - and no one else ever did that for me. There's a lot to be said for slow. We weren't intimate until close to the time we married. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Getting What You Ask ForI will be able to demonstrate my value to you This is the part of TRP that I really like - men realizing their value and how to demonstrate it. My point was, if you approached me like /u/drakketon is advocating for (NSA), I would have run away. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Solipsism should be expected in almost every interaction with a woman.Interesting - because as a woman this is one way I figure out how genuine other females are (as friends). At one point in my life I realized most of my friends acted this way & sought out better women to be friends with. In some ways it's a mark of maturity, to slow down, to stop listening for a cue to talk & just listen. I don't know many people who can do this, male or female. Men don't tell long stupid stories, but it doesn't mean they're paying much more attention, IME. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy problems in Norway; or so the newspaper saysHi. I live in Scandinavia. What I've observed during my time here. (I am a stay-at-home mom from the US.) The men here are extraordinarily weak. It's unbelievable. In dating women tend to make the first move and define the relationship. Marriages are short term among people my age (30s). My neighbor is a great example. His wife left him because they both had the same career and he expected her to be the one who would be primary on childcare, and she refused. Now they each have the kids half the … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 07:29 AM |
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