shesacarver Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	PSA: Beware of “no shave November.” As for bras, some of us have big boobs that are very heavy. I get back aches if I don’t wear them. Of course you shouldn’t have to wear a bra if you don’t want to, but there are legitimate reasons why some women need them for comfort.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 08:45 PM
72	and that’s on periodt I wish childfree women would be able to just say that they don’t have kids partially because of what it does to your body WITHOUT body shaming moms. I don’t have kids and I don’t know if I will but that doesn’t mean I’m going to make fun of another woman’s body after she literally grew a human and then birthed it. Body shaming moms is just kind of evil to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 09:50 PM
3	A trend I've noticed among LVM. Yeah, I had all of these since middle school. The idea that these are only things that older women have just makes teen girls feel more abnormal even when they’re not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 10:51 PM
14	She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about? I mean, I’m a woman and some people (like me) started getting wrinkles in their late teens/early twenties just because of shitty genetics. Wrinkles aren’t a personal failure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 06:22 AM
10	She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about? Yeah I agree. Being expected to age “gracefully” is another standard that only women are held to. We shouldn’t have to spend our whole lives constantly worried about how we look.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 06:20 AM
98	Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!! Ugh. My brother is crazy emotional and sensitive. He threw angry tantrums up until his twenties, and my parents never did anything about it. Meanwhile I was the calm one so if I ever got angry (even when it was justifiable) or argued with my parents, I got punished for it and sometimes even kicked out. I was the emotionally mature one so I was held to a much higher standard because I “knew better”. Well, maybe my brother would’ve known better too if my parents had actually fucking disciplined hi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 02:46 PM
21	'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anything I have a friend who told me that she had casual sex and did sex work as a way to cope with sexual trauma and also that sex work is empowering and good in the same sentence. I couldn’t believe the cognitive dissonance there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/20 09:01 PM
3	PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person! Oh, I am. I’m thankful that I haven’t had to deal with harassment, but unfortunately it’s drilled into women’s heads that we need male validation even when it hurts us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 05:52 AM
68	PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person! The thing is that some of us have never experienced getting hit on or sexualized. Not that those are good things, but when every woman around you has been dealing with it since middle school, you start to wonder what’s wrong with you. And then it’s really easy to think that you NEED attention from men, even if you absolutely don’t. I’ve just recently started realizing that I don’t need male validation, but it’s a real hard cycle to break out of.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 11:58 PM
45	“Just because he non-consensually took the condom off doesn’t mean it was non-consensual sex! That is NOT rape” -men And sometimes not even then.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/20 10:32 PM