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Men in here, men on random internet threads, men I know in person. Doesn’t matter, they all do exactly the same shit. They’ll argue for hours about what it is women want, when women are right there saying exactly what they want and find attractive. At this point, men just want excuses.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 06:43 PM
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It doesn’t matter. We tell men all the time and they just talk over us women and tell us what we allegedly want. It’s like dealing with children.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:24 PM
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And how much money did your dad have in order to get your mom?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:23 PM
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This is such bullshit. Women don’t require any of that. If that were true, no one would ever date. Can we please just for once stop acting like it’s anything other than these dudes having any sort of excuse humanly possible to blame everyone but themselves for their shit personalities that make women run for the hills.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 07:21 PM
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That’s not TikTok- it’s the internet in general. I don’t use TikTok and I come across this bullshit every day.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 12:42 PM
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I’m one. Not married but in my last two relationships I took the lead and the ones before that it was 50/50. All women are not a monolith.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 10:59 AM
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Yep, sure doesn’t sound like you believe it. It’s insane that you have been led to believe that a woman is somehow magically supposed to know that you will enter their life and that they are whores if they have had relationships prior to meeting you. What exactly is gained by believing this shit, other than cock blocking yourself? Like, you’re not a garbage person because you at least realize the thoughts are stupid and want help, but have you ever thought about the fact that those beliefs that …
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 04:04 AM
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You’re 17. You can’t afford a family, that’s not happening until your 30’s. Cute you view women as useless unless they incubate your children. No girl your age is going to want to fuck you, not when you feel so comfortable just saying that women are useless. Sadly, you’re the one who is useless. Your views suck, you’re certainly not an x-red piller, the idea that you can just get laid is ridiculous. Better get used to being an incel bro, because that’s your future.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 04:17 AM
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You said what does it mean And i explained it 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 07:11 AM
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Thanks! I think having some idea of a way to say it makes it less … intimidating. Here’s the basic idea of how to address this where you aren’t insulting the woman or being too eager/demanding. Now add in your own words, ect so it sounds genuine.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 06:56 AM
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You’ll get there. In life, there will be lots of people who don’t see you that way or who are involved in relationships. Rejection blows, but it happens a lot in life. And fwiw, I’m a woman who has often told guys im into them and I’ve had more rejections than you’d expect. Also do your best to keep in mind that there’s nothing wrong with you or that you will be doomed to being alone. I promise that you will get some yeses! Rooting for you, friend.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 05:33 AM
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Thanks for the lecture on how I don’t speak for all woman kind - I never said I did. I said “the vast majority” because the vast majority of women aren’t hanging out with celebrities or “bad boys” whatever that means. And the women who are around them aren’t all going to put out. At shows I’ve been to, musicians sometimes bring chicks from the audience backstage. It’s not like just one hot woman, it’s a handful. And that handful aren’t lined up waiting to take dick. Like - Timothy chalemet (sic)…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 05:29 AM
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If you can ask women out, i assure you that you can bring up sex. After however many dates where you are actually kissing the person and not like a peck - you can casually ask. So hey, I don’t know where you stand in regards to sex. Do you feel comfortable sharing with me? I’d love to know your thoughts! I think you are really hot and I really like you. I want to keep getting to know you, but I also want to make sure I don’t do anything that you aren’t interested in doing. I’m an old, but I rece…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 05:16 AM
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Bro, the vast majority of celebrities do not have “body counts” in the thousands, my god. Having been around pretty well known musicians, I can assure you that no one was even sleeping with hundreds of women on tour. And even actors - most actually want relationships. It might be shocking but a lot of guys find it kinda weird and gross. It’s not safe, either. I don’t know how it is obviously in other music communities, but the music I was actively part of did not think any of that was cool or fu…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 05:03 AM
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Your personal opinion of what women are “participating” in doesn’t mean it’s the actual reality. The age of men who buy red pill bullshit are what - late teens to 20 somethings. Statistically, Gen Z kids are much more conservative. Especially compared to older generations. Not only that but tech usage has been pretty much constant during their formative years, which means that there’s a weird gap in social skills and interaction. My god, none of this stuff would have become so ubiquitous if the …
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:52 AM
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They pump out oil dude.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:43 AM
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Your post makes the assumption that if the guy is “a bad boy” or famous that women don’t need to feel valued or respected. That’s absolutely absurd. I dated a lot of “bad boys” but I didn’t just open my legs for them. And I worked in music when I was younger and I also never once slept with anyone because of their fame. I actually had to know them first. And I did have a fair amount of casual sex but it was with people who I knew and at least had a sense of who they were and if they respected me…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:42 AM
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Offline - Participant in hobbies you really enjoy. Do meet up groups - there’s meetup online that will list events. Like board games or dnd? Theres weekly groups everywhere for them. Use facebook too - it gives events in your area. I loathe facebook but I use it for that (and oddly fb dating has had the most people I actually want to get to know or am attracted to - the other apps have been trash.) because it gives me all of the things going on near me and in the cities I’m somewhat close to.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:30 AM
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Tbh, any time you sleep with a new person, there’s anxiety. The upside is that both parties tend to be anxious. If you are dating someone, and getting to know them, it’s worth just being upfront and honest about sex. When you are younger, it can kinda feel weird but I wish to god that when I was in my 20’s I had asked the questions I now ask. The truth is, sex is enjoyable. It is even more so when you feel things for the person. I don’t think anyone would react poorly to talking about it once yo…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/24 04:24 AM
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“Ugly” Is relative though. I grew up in a conservative town, and was told constantly I was ugly. Then i moved to an actual city, and was asked to model and be an extra in tv/film. I now know i was never ugly, i just happened to be around really terrible people whose standard of beauty was blonde hair, blue eyes and happy.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 02:52 PM
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Dude, No one is obligated to date you. It’s like you think there’s some sort of cheat code for human connection and there isn’t. Everyone struggles with dating. I know you don’t want to hear that but even the people you think have the best lives imaginable- they get rejected. Because not every person is going to match with you. So yeah, liking who you are matters a lot. Because you will get rejected. And you can’t take that rejection personally, as a statement on who you are as a person. You jus…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 02:03 AM
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Also ffs, Don’t ever let any of these women know that you are asking them out because you think they’re ugly enough to date you. You are coming off like you want an award because you’re willing to date the ugly ones. It just says that you aren’t a very good person.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:26 AM
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No, you should never date someone you aren’t physically attracted to. That defeats the purpose of dating. What she was saying to you is that liking yourself is attractive. Being who you are is attractive if you genuinely like yourself and have confidence. I’ve dated guys that at first i wasn’t super attracted to. Like on first glance, it was an ehhhh. But then i got to know them. And I loved them as people. The more time i spent with them, the more attracted i was to them. You start to notice th…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 01:24 AM
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What state are you in? Texas ?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 06:22 AM
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Omg that comparison is so true. I never thought of it in that way before, but man it’s 100% accurate !
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 03:27 AM
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Pretty easy. Say - hey I like you, let’s go out on a date. She either says yes or no. If she says no and you’re already friends don’t drop the friendship unless you truly think you can’t get over it - most people can understand that. I don’t get why people spend time trying to decipher codes. It’s a million times easier to just ask and deal with the rejection (which does suck) and then move on, or find out they feel the same way and then yay, a date.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 03:23 AM
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Cowboys? What? Like… what modern woman is out there pining for a cowboy? That’s most certainly a very niche group of women. And you can say you want swimsuit models all you want - so long as you understand the reality of that fact which is that you won’t ever date one.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 03:15 AM
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Yeah, he’s not hideous and I’m not hideous. But hideous means different things to different People. I once dated a guy who broke my heart. He was not attractive at all. His brain was. We liked the same things. He made me laugh a lot. He became hot to me as I got to know him. I often was told I was dating down. People couldn’t believe I was with him because again, I’m not hideous. I found all sorts of things about this dude attractive as I got to know him, and i wasn’t sure i would. But I’m a per…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 06:16 AM
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Nah man, Sometimes you meet someone and their brain is so amazing - the way they see the world, the things they are interested in, the things they care about …. And it becomes hot. Currently experiencing it. This guy - who he is, makes me want to fuck him until my body quits. But I also got lucky because I find him physically attractive. Thing is, a great brain can make you see someone who you weren’t originally super attracted to as attractive. Key there is that you have to find aspects of how …
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 03:10 AM
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✋🏻 twink lover over here too.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:12 AM
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We don’t. Men enforce patriarchy on each other via red pill bullshit. Then we as women suffer through comments like these.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 04:10 AM
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You think you know, but that’s not based on interactions with actual women in front of you. I sure as fuck don’t want a man to be superior to me. Think about that for a minute. I am not a child. I absolutely loathe men who think they are superior to me. Blah blah blah, biology. You are not viewing women as human beings. You know what women want? It’s so simple. We want men who treat us as valuable people. We don’t all seek resources and domination. Is that true of your female relatives? Your mot…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 04:00 AM
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So, It seems to me that you just want people to say that you are right, as some way to justify everything you said in your post. The internet is not real life. It is a manipulated narrative that feeds you more and more of the same shit, in order to further profits and nation states. It absolutely radicalizes people. Have you always thought what you said above about women? My guess is not, because there are a lot of tell tale signs that you have been conditioned to believe the things you said. Wh…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 03:48 AM
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But it doesn’t. You think it does because you don’t know any different. I’ve read your replies - you don’t like yourself at all. You expected that going to the gym will get you laid - it won’t. You have decided that women don’t care about how you dress - as a woman, if a guy dresses nicely, but isn’t some stunner, the dressing nicely adds to his appeal. If he can’t dress himself, it’s a negative. It says he doesn’t care enough about me as a person to put in some effort. You state that there’s no…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:06 AM
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Having a girlfriend isn’t going to magically make your life better if you are already miserable and hate yourself. It’s a hell of a lot to put on a person. If you aren’t adding to a person’s life in a good way, then you’re dead weight. Expecting a magical woman to appear and heal you is not how life works. Discuss the idea of the magical other with your therapist. Seriously.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:44 PM
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You just replied my dude. I have not at any point said women are always victims. You need to quit being disingenuous. My comments have consisted of replies to things you have said. You can act as though I’m making blanket statements, but I’m not. My saying that guns won’t stop someone you know from raping you because the reality is that if you trust someone you aren’t going to have a gun near by is actually logical. I don’t view myself as a victim. I am a survivor. I get to decide that, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:12 PM
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I haven’t refuted anything. So don’t come after me. My comments are directly in response to the things you have said personally. Men complete suicide because they usually use guns. Women on the whole overwhelmingly use overdoses as their method. So, being that you clearly aren’t stupid, which method ends in death and which method has time to get help? Once again, you aren’t debating anything here. You are now throwing out other strawmen. Ones which, by the way, are the same thing said over and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:50 PM
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Thanks, I’m ok with saying things online. It doesn’t mean shit to me when men decide to tell me my experiences are wrong or my fault. I’ve dealt with everything I’ve been through and I know I’m not wrong and I also know that saying what I’ve experienced doesn’t make a difference to most people in here. I say it for other women, and to maybe maybe have one guy in here think for a second about their views. I appreciate you looking out! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:47 PM
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No, we don’t. Within this context, it’s hard to have any empathy for you as a human. You have none for us. Absolutely NONE. Being raped is not at all the same as maybe being rejected. It fuckin isn’t, and you know it. Killing someone is not the same as a woman blowing you off, and you know it. Which brings me to the point that I have said in here over and over again- you don’t care about this topic. You want to be told you are right. You have no empathy for women. Hell, you have stated you feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:22 PM
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Also having read your whole comment, I don’t believe you. Unless you are a sociopath, you will feel something for having killed someone, even in war. And don’t tell me I don’t know, I’ve done work with plenty of vets and my father was in the military. Further, war is a totally different circumstance than being a civilian, but again, you have decided you know everything about how women should behave and it’s just hard for you to approach women because they treat you like a predator, right? So sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:17 PM
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So, because I’ve already engaged, I’m going to again. Despite knowing I am utterly wasting my time. I grew up around guns. I’m a liberal who knows how to use them and shoot them. I have been raped. I have had countless men tell me it wouldn’t have happened if I had had a gun on me. Because that’s what most men say, because they don’t understand and don’t want to. Most rapes, the vast majority of them, they aren’t strangers. Everyone assumes that rape only happens when some random man grabs you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:12 PM
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Found the 2A lover. Might want to look at the actual voting stats on gun control because it’s not some universal standard that ALL women want it. It’s like everyone here is incapable of an actual discussion. All women vote in a way I dislike so fuck them! Jesus Christ listen to yourself. You guys will find anything humanly possible to justify your low key seething about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:00 PM
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At my father’s funeral, my stalker showed up. He wouldn’t leave and my dad had just died and I was a mess. I had to hide in the funeral home until he left and it took over an hour. Everyone who came continually asked where I was. The day of the burial, he was there. My mother and brother went up to him and screamed at him. I had to stay in the car because I was so anxious. That’s just one of a million things I’ve had happen with creeps. But sure, I guess I’m just irrational and a dumb bitch for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:25 PM
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Can I ask a very serious question here ? Do any of you who post actually want to hear what women have to say, or do you all just want to have a circle jerk whine about how terrible women are? Because any time a woman actually answers truthfully, you all just lose your shit and down vote like a bunch of rabid dogs. It doesn’t matter what we say, there’s no real debate here because all of you have already decided what you think. For this post, it’s “I’m a good guy, how dare women be afraid! It’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:14 PM
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Hey, I’m pretty sure you and I have talked before. I know that nothing I say will change your view, but part of the reason why you are alone is because you believe that is your lot in life. You don’t have to go full on positive thinking bullshit, but seething about women isn’t going to help you. Any woman who does interact with you and treats you decently in normal interactions is also someone that you are projecting all of your generalizations of women on to. Do you think we can’t tell when a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:27 AM
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I’ve “hit the wall” and I have no problem getting dates. I know that flies in the face of all the propaganda you guys in here consume but it’s true. Get this - I’m more than my ability to pop out kids. All of you in here go on and on about female fertility and yet none of you can even afford to have children and have the woman stay at home. The cognitive dissonance is astounding. Legit, it’s not all men my age either. I have men in their late 20’s wanting to go out on dates. It’s almost like no …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:05 PM
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What constitutes a “good guy?” Theres no universal truth that women only date “good looking cocky douchebags” because all people have things they find attractive that others don’t. For instance, by default, I’m really attracted to men who are thin/scrawny. What all of you here think by default means the guy is a beta. I am 100% not attracted to gym bros with massive muscles. Just like some men find women who are more curvy hotter than a thin woman with small tits. The problem in this sub is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:53 PM
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Forced child support? If you impregnate a woman and she has the kid, you are on the hook for helping to take care of the kid. If you don’t want to end up with a kid that gasp - will cost you financially, don’t get a woman pregnant. Condoms exist. Vasectomies exist. It’s not that hard to take precautions so you don’t knock someone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:58 AM
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It’s not that women don’t have empathy for men - it’s that entitled men who constantly complain about how terrible women are because they can’t get a girlfriend while doing zero self reflection on why that might be are hard to feel bad for. Low key, the majority of men in this group really do dislike women. If you are going to talk over us, and tell us what it is we want in life and who we want to date, despite us very real women in here saying otherwise, yeah, sorry, but no one is owed empathy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:52 AM
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Well you can tell them what you actually think, but they’ll just downvote you into oblivion, and then tell you what it is exactly that you think. While they screetch about feminism and how women are “biologically” lesser and happy to take care of man children because hello - biology!!!!
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:12 AM
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I started asking them in the subs if any of them have actually dated before. I did it nicely and as you’d expect, the answers I got were always a variation of no.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:10 AM
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Well that’s refreshing. I see it all over the internet and I was hoping it would die out soon.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/24 07:50 AM
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Guy, patriarchy isn’t blaming men as a whole. It’s a word. It literally means a system where men are dominant. You want men to be dominant, you believe that they are superior, yes? That’s you advocating for a system of power wherein you keep the power. And you want women to like this? You want me to advocate for beliefs that are telling me I have no right to a say, because dumb woman. There’s no scientific fact that men are superior. Controlling through violence isn’t superior. It’s subjective. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:01 AM
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Please don’t talk down to me. I’m not an idiot. And I’m not part of the woman hivemind, unfortunately there aren’t any spots open so I was waitlisted. At no point in my response did I ask for a soliloquy on all women. I asked you what your beliefs are. End of story. Instead of having that discussion, you are lecturing me as though I need to pay for the sins of the female hive mind. It’s insulting. You are talking AT ME, with disgust. If I were to react to that treatment because let’s be clear, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:01 AM
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Uh Where did you get that I was talking directly about YOU? I simply asked about the standard older man, hot young woman thing that everyone here is under the impression that they’ll get to do. The trope in here is that every woman who rejected the man will “hit the wall” after having tons of dick in her, and then she will have even less “value” because she’s old and a whore. Then she will wish she had gotten with the guy that she ignored but nope - he raised his value now and he can now be 40 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:38 AM
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I’m not a hivemind woman, my dude. I don’t think men are trash at all. I am friends with amazing men. I’m friends with crappy men too. My father was a complex man who had issues but ultimately he was my best friend. My brother isn’t a garbage dude either. The problem here is that you guys find a bunch of idiots on tiktok who are women saying entitled shit and then it becomes a truth about all women. Garbage men are the same as garbage women - selfish, manipulative, immature, abusive, narcissisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:11 AM
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What is an older guy who wants a younger woman, then? Is he not using her to signal his status to the men around him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:30 PM
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Explain to me why a woman can’t enjoy sex and why she is supposed to remain virginal until she just happens to find you and your magic dick? While you were able to sleep around regardless. Why is that ok? I’m trying to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:28 PM
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What does the cult of feminism consist of? What are the tenants?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:27 PM
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FWIW, I’m really so sorry you had to experience that. I’ve been there. Hugs ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:21 PM
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Nope, You ride to the occasion because you love, respect and value your person. A relationship isn’t just one person always getting what they want. If you don’t bother, you don’t get a relationship. Pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:21 PM
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Yeah this comment shows you don’t understand how relationships work. Happy romantic relationships aren’t the norm. Just because I have tits and social skills doesn’t mean that I can and will fall in love. That’s not how it works. There’s so much unspoken in regards to falling in love. It’s a spark and either it’s there or it’s not. Just because I have a bunch of choices that frankly all suck, doesn’t mean by default I’m going to fall in love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:19 PM
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Feminism doesn’t tell me I need to sleep with men and not vet them. I’m a thinking person and I’m not brainwashed by an ideology. We aren’t naive either. Sometimes women just want to date a shitty dude, and do. We aren’t a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:15 PM
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Are you sympathetic towards anything women go through? If so, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:12 PM
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Feminist. I don’t believe men are trash. But the ones who very obviously state garbage views are. Why is it the responsibility of women to get with trash men? If we do then we are “just going for bad boys” while “leaving good guys behind.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:11 PM
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Sooo Because I get a bunch of thirsty bros who offer nothing, I should be thankful? Literally this is all I see - women get more matches! Uhhuh. And I have to go through them, read their profile, see if they even bothered to say anything of substance, see if we share anything in common, or see if they just want to fuck me. Then, I have to carry on a conversation with them and there has to be something there intellectually and well, that’s rare. This isn’t having an over inflated ego. I don’t giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:08 PM
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Thank you. It’s absurd to me to continually see these kind of vast generalizations. I remember having a conversation on here about the fact that we all have deal breakers. You aren’t entitled to forcing your position on someone. A relationship meets in the middle. The rest of this shit is just the usual garbage where a bunch of men without significant others who have never had a relationship period, opine on HOW IT IS. It’s always the same talking points that are bitched about. Why am I raising …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:46 AM
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Have you read the comments by these guys? They’re exhausting. They’re entitled. They low key hate women and they seriously think we can’t tell. Being alone is a million times better than dealing with … these guys.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:19 AM
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My point still stands. Every post in here can have the question “And why do you care?” I wasn’t trying to argue with you one way or the other, despite being a woman. I literally just don’t understand why so many men in here give a shit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:34 AM
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Lol fair point. I just have never known anyone who gives a shit about someone’s height. I never have, no woman I’ve known has and I know a lot of women. Yet I’m supposed to believe short men are just left by the road, because women refuse to date short guys. Weird too because all the short guys I know also are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:20 AM
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Who said that? Where are people saying this? No one is entitled to a relationship, period. No matter how they look, or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:18 AM
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In your life, have you ever rejected a guy for being short? My last bf was like 5’5 which I think is hobbit sized in this sub. The guy in currently dating is 6’3 All through my life, I’ve never given a thought about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:09 AM
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My question is - why do you care? Why do any of you care if someone says you are fatphobic or whatever other -phobic in there? It’s the internet, who gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:06 AM
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It’s pretty hard to find a thin man, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:05 AM
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I’m one of those oh-so-old has hit the wall, rode that cock carousel and oh my god, am currently single women. Why? Not because I have no desirability, but because like most adults, I was in several long term relationships that in the end didn’t work out. At no point did I settle for any of the men I’ve dated because of my age, because allegedly I spent my younger years not getting with angry sad men. Here’s the thing that you guys don’t understand - men don’t look at me and say I’m some used up…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:51 AM
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It depends on what morals you hold as a person and if you expect her to be some vessel of virginity. I think your whole rationale for this is really flawed, and I think you aren’t going to find what you are looking for via sleeping with a sex worker. But I have never personally shamed anyone for trying it because I get it.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 10:41 PM
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This is a vast generalization. First, I was not talking about people who hold power over me. It is in my best interest to play the game there. I was speaking about random men, in regards to dating, as that is what every conversation here is about. I wasn’t talking about my boss, or the government, or anything of that nature. I would hypothesize that the reason men don’t care as much comes down to the fact that in general, they hold those positions of power. I’d also hypothesize that the reasons …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:33 PM
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Yep. I mean I’m not going for someone so young they’re obnoxious, but if we share similar interests, and he’s an interesting person, what does it matter? I don’t want kids. I’m not looking for a “provider” and in general I find men my age are bitter and generally have let themselves go. Why would I want to deal with that shit? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:18 AM
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…and you know older women who think like this or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:14 AM
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And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:08 AM
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Lmao. I can assure you that absolutely no woman who is a grown adult gives a shit about what guys like you think. Wild I know, but women can want to fuck you and not want anything else. The whole point of being a “cougar” is that you aren’t looking for a relationship with these guys. Once you get older, you aren’t going to waste your time and energy with people who weirdly expect you to be some virgin. You very obviously aren’t compatible together. There are a plethora of men out there who reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:05 AM
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What is this political element
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:55 AM
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Huh? This isn’t true at all. I tend to date younger men. Younger men will approach me. Younger men still have their hair. But I guess if you are in your 20’s, no why on earth would you want to date someone younger? For the record, every woman I knew when we were in our 20’s thought men in their late 30’s to early 40’s were creeps. I remember lots of men that age hitting on me and it was just.. sad. A guy at that age still going out to the “club” in order to meet women has something going on with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:54 AM
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Unfortunately I interpreted it as sarcasm because nearly all the replies I get to anything I say is that or just outright insults. So apologies for that. But i don’t agree with the notion that slavic women are so demure. The culture is pretty sexist, not a single woman in my family tolerated that shit. Not in the old country and not here in the states. I have actually never met a slavic woman who fits that stereotype, and that’s even in passing. But I understand what you were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:11 AM
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Society isn’t doing anything to you. You are responsible for your own actions and your fantasies. No one is going to know this is your thing unless you tell someone. If you don’t say anything, no one is going to destroy you. I had a friend get real drunk. He told me that he got off all the time to my picture, and he specifically sought to find this alleged porn he heard I had done. I was never in a porn, but he felt the need to tell me this info. We were not close friends, and he often creeped m…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 07:35 AM
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Learn how to edge, my dude. Beating off isn’t some beta male thing, everyone masturbates.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 07:21 AM
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It’s splitting hairs. I know humans are animals. I meant it in the context of animals that aren’t like humans. And that these studies aren’t coming from human behavior, it’s mammals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:47 AM
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Omg dude. That’s not how anything works. First off, intimacy generally requires an actual connection. If we are operating under the assumption that this is some “healing” experience, there have to actually be feelings between both people. A sex worker doesn’t feel anything for this person. They’re just a client, and they are buying a service. This is delusional- raise your confidence? The woman IS PAID to fake orgasms, to make the client feel as though he’s the best fuck of her life. I can assur…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 06:44 AM
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Oh yeah, no way at all would I ever be cool with that. That’s just …. No. It shows how they see women, and it also would be something in the back of your head if you were ok with it.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 07:49 AM
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Great retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:09 AM
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I really don’t think you should be telling me anything about my culture, and unless you are slavic, you really are clueless. To assume we are all submissive little things is a cope by men who desperately want to believe we will tolerate their shit. It honestly also just shows how utterly naive you are if you think you run a relationship because you have a dick. A relationship should involve two people who are partners. What you guys want is a slave who has no option of leaving. Again, not someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:57 AM
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I highly doubt that. No one wants to hear they look terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:40 AM
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Healers? Honey, it’s not an escorts job to heal you. Her job is to get you off, not raise your self esteem, or solve your issues. That’s what a therapist is for. It’s also trauma dumping on a sex worker. My god, just get therapy.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:21 AM
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I did, and the explanation was they were curious. I understand doing things just to do it once. They were in their early 20’s. The reason I was ok with it was they were safe about it, it was a one time thing and they left feeling really awful about what they had done, because they didn’t get this idealized version of the experience. They both got two women who were in really desperate situations, and neither actually got off. They said they just felt dirty and like a terrible person. So it wasn’…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:13 AM
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I uh, wouldn’t ever tell those women you are beating off to them.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:09 AM
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You need a therapist not an escort. It’s not the escort’s job to help you deal with your emotional issues. I don’t think sleeping with an escort =being adventurous in life, either. That’s such a weird sex focused way of looking at the world. Bragging about paying for sex is not, I repeat, not, going to make anyone who knows you jealous. This is a weird ass cope. What you need to do is get help for your trauma, put effort into getting that sorted out. If you want to sleep with an escort, do it. I…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 05:07 AM
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Aww thank you! ❤️🎉wooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:42 AM
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Hey, thanks! I’m feeling charitable, and the comment wasn’t for him. He won’t respond, and we both know why. If this is a debate, it requires that I don’t go into the conversation by assuming that all the men here are worthless trash. I don’t believe that to be the case. I think like all of us, an easy answer can justify why you are miserable. If men in here constantly see women in here trading insults with them, they’re just going to believe that women are emotional and incapable of debate, rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:41 AM
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I have had abusive relationships. I’m not going to give the details but they were awful. In the worst one, he systematically destroyed myself esteem, who I was as a person. He cheated on me constantly. He would tell me how much better those people were than me. He would fuck me, while talking about the sex he had with other women. (There’s a reason I am telling you this) There was nothing left of the person I was when I met him. A normal person will read what I told you, and ask me why the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:28 AM
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I got curious about you, so I read your comments. Let me ask you some questions because I want to understand your perspective. You say you are a 30 year old virgin. Have you had relationships with women before? What kind of relationship do you want? What are the ideal qualities you would like to find in a woman who you would like to date? You say you got sick of being the better person. What was the final instance where you interacted with a woman and you said fuck it? Do you view being the bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:58 AM
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Yeah trust me, I know I write A LOT. I know it can be really overwhelming and most people need to digest it and think about it. I’m just here to give a different perspective, to hopefully have the men here examine their beliefs and question why they believe them. The truth is we should all do that with all of our beliefs. If you want to continue talking, feel free to DM me. I’ll keep an eye out for you. It’s easy to fall into echo chambers. They offer simple solutions and explanations in a chaot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:42 AM
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Well, from what you said, you wanted validation via thirst traps. Post your thirst traps, tag them with whatever is culturally relevant at the moment. #hot woman #model #bikini #gaza #israel You will then show up in other places. Instagram will read it as hot woman and the thing people can’t stop talking about. I don’t know… #taylor swift, #swifty, ect You get my point. For pretty cheap, you can buy some bots for engagement. If you have $20 you can do it. You’ll have more followers, so your post…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:47 AM
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I’m getting off topic but you are talking to a nerd - What’s the worst thing you have ever seen, and what did you do surgically? What made you want to be a surgeon? What made you want to study medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:41 AM
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No, I am saying that that shitty experience is something most people will have. And it is gut wrenching. When you love someone and they toss you away, it is a death. The person you thought they were is dead. You mourn that. My first love destroyed me. At least I viewed it like that at the time. Upon reflection, I was also an asshole and I was 19. I was in a new city, in my first year of university. For a very long time, all I could do was think of him and cry. I remember very vividly, being curl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:40 AM
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Oh no shit? What is your speciality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:55 AM
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Love and commitment isn’t dead in the western world. If you read and only associate with people who believe western women are (x), then that becomes your world view. Stats on divorce can also be used to say what you think. Women might initiate divorce, but what are the reasons? Go beyond the talking point. The idea of marriage is that 2 people make a commitment to each other, no matter what. In the case for people here, they have kids, or at least that’s the idea. So, if I am a stay at home moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:50 AM
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What is it you like to do? What are you passionate about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:44 AM
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I def give bad selfie men a chance. They have to intellectually interest me, because that’s what I care about most. When you really like who a person is, they will become attractive to you. You’ll notice things about them that you think are attractive. Where as you might not do that right away if they are incapable of carrying on a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:42 AM
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What is it you are trying to do with Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:39 AM
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It’s not just that but that attention isn’t always wanted. A hot woman goes out to dinner alone to have a moment for herself. The guys in here have said that she wants male attention. Because I guess our whole existence comes down to men. You know what I hate? When I’m doing my own thing, and I want to be left alone, and some guy saunters over wanting me to talk. If I want to talk, I’ll talk to people. I’ll go to a place where you talk to strangers, like a bar. There’s a time and a place. They d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:38 AM
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Not an unattractive woman at all, with social media accounts, and dating profiles but i don’t look at them currently - I’m not swarmed by 8,000 messages or anything like that. I am however, intelligent and very capable of refuting stupidity. That intimidates men. And again, im not unattractive. I have a good personality and i am fun to be around. I still have to usually make the first move and sometimes that’s completely fine. Other times, it’s just annoying. Men reject women and I’ve been rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:33 AM
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Yep. I had my friends tell me I needed to solve my shit before I subjected a man to my issues. At first I didn’t, but it became really really clear that I needed to examine my feelings and deal with them. I’m a much better person because of that and I know what I don’t want to do again, and I am very much aware of my shitty behaviors so I can usually catch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:12 AM
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Any person who sees their next partner as a person who is just like the person who hurt them should indeed work that out. If you dated a woman who consistently told you that all men are assholes because she had experienced men who are only assholes, would you stay in the relationship? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:09 AM
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We aren’t animals dude. More and more people are opting out of having kids. Yet, they are in committed relationships. I don’t know anyone who continuously trades up because of hypergamy. That’s not how it works, and it’s not how a relationship where both partners love each other works, because the world is not black and white. Further, according to your ideology, I would still be with my x. He has a ton of money. He’s not unattractive, but he’s let himself go. He cheated on me constantly. He was…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:06 AM
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People can have shitty traits. The OP has the same fears we all do. Loving someone, not being perfect, and then being discarded. No one is defective. Serial killers find love. Everyone has good qualities and bad qualities. What matters is that you don’t actively want to harm your partner and that you work on your shitty traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:53 AM
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But you are telling yourself a bunch of bullshit that a bunch of men who have not been in a relationship tell each other. My “biology” doesn’t determine who I am or my morals. I’m not an animal (which is where most of these studies come from, behavior of animals and not humans) I’m a thinking person. I don’t want children. I can’t have them, it will literally kill me. So, I am not looking to trade up for someone with more resources. Most people don’t throw people they love away. You guys all tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:22 AM
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Instead of dropping your feelings, the right thing to do is to communicate. Often, our assumptions are wrong. We view the world through the lens of what has happened in the past. Relationships that work and last and are happy, they consist of a respect for one another. When you respect each other, you trust that your partner doesn’t have ill intentions. And that is really really hard to do. Because all of us have experienced hurt. And none of us want to hurt. You have to enter a relationship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:04 AM
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How am I more emotional? What is this emotion that overrides my loyalty and morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:52 AM
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Nope. If that holds true, why do so many men cheat? It’s like you guys can’t fathom that women have loyalty, that when you love someone, you don’t throw them away. It’s easier to just say that women have sooo many options so they’ll cheat on you. All this is doing is blatantly showing that you guys are insecure. You don’t know how to be in a relationship, so you cope by saying women always want to trade up, mostly because men will usually ditch their partners for someone hotter and younger. Reme…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah, the relationships I’ve had where I was cheated on were all really serious ones. I think cheating is wrong, and haven’t ever done it. I used to tolerate men doing it when I was younger but I don’t now. If I want to be with someone else, which has happened, I end the relationship because cheating on someone is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:43 AM
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Ok. I’ll debate this. The insecurity and echo chamber of the beliefs in this group are showing. On the assumption that most of the members in here have not had a loving relationship (or any relationship) here’s how it works According to the logic here, I am constantly trying to trade up. I can’t possibly be loyal and love my partner. My whole existence in life is to score one of those top 20% men. Perhaps you all believe this drivel because it’s exactly what you would do if you had the opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:40 AM
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Vulnerability within this context is showing emotions, trusting your partner to not destroy you. Letting them see who you truly are, both good and bad. But yeah, no one wants to date a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:20 AM
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I’m fine with sadness and shame. So long as I am supported and heard when I experience the same emotions. The problem is when the person refuses to do anything to make changes, to try. Do you enjoy being around miserable people who don’t listen to anything anyone has to say? Absolutely no one wants to be around someone who is like that. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:18 AM
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If you guys are picking a woman who allegedly views sleep as weakness, that might be a you thing, because it’s absurd, and she needs to obviously get a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:16 AM
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I don’t agree. It’s not about masculinity. It’s about reciprocation. How do men support women according to this view? If I am not being listened to, if I am being talked down to, if I am told that I can’t possibly understand because I am a woman with too many fee fees, why on earth would I want to take on the emotions of a man? This just played out with a guy I am seeing. He is I guess “masculine.” He had shit he had to deal with that involved feelings and reactions to those. He decided to just …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:14 AM
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I mean, use your brain. A guy doesn’t want to be told he looks shitty either. Sometimes life calls for a white lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:18 PM
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We aren’t toy addicted. There’s just an epic amount of bad dick out there. If a man doesn’t want to learn what gets his partner off and work on it, the least he can do is let her use a toy. It’s wild how personally men are taking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:00 AM
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Hedonism? Again, you are the one arguing for men to care only about their pleasure. Hedonism is literally “the pursuit of pleasure.” The only pleasure you care about is your own, and that has fuck all to do with feminism. You aren’t very good at debate. You respond with attacks, you repeatedly blame women for everything, that’s not debate. That’s just insecurity masquerading as confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:57 AM
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Our clits don’t get desensitized. We’d have to spend all day masturbating. No one does that. Just say it makes you insecure and your cope is to say that you don’t care if a woman gets off because it’s all about you. I bet you have tons of fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:50 AM
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Lol the 5 minute orgasm woman is faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:46 AM
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Me too. Masculine men are secure and they want women to feel good, because sex is about mutual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:43 AM
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As a general rule, the majority of stats here are made up. Usually in defense of something they already believe, as a justification. This guy should just say that he is not concerned with another person’s pleasure and that a woman using a vibe makes him feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah that’s a stellar way to keep women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:22 AM
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Someone more intelligent than her? Women aren’t “biologically wired” to want men with money, ffs. Not everyone wants children. There’s no biology to anything you just said. Further, it’s cute you infantilize women. I’m intelligent and I look for intelligent men who can debate with me and tell me their interests and thoughts. The men who have dated me have done so because I’m intelligent- not because I needed someone to tell me what to think and believe. Seriously think about how that sounds. Wom…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:12 AM
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They’re unattractive because of their shitty personalities and entitlement. Not having confidence factors in, but a shitty entitled personality will kill it even if they happen to get a date.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:07 AM
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I’ve never really dated older men. I usually end up with ones who are younger. You said she had a crush on him. She’s not only into him because she can get whatever it is you think she wants - she likes the guy. He likes her. Age isn’t a factor in this.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 04:59 AM
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No, I’m not butthurt about shit. You literally are of no consequence to me. I get that you want to believe you really upset the silly woman with your masterful use of words, but you don’t matter. For me to be upset, you would have to mean something as a person and well, you don’t. Congrats though on using a big boy word like projection. Your mommy must be so proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:17 AM
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I have no emotions towards you, other than disgust. You are a repulsive person who shouldn’t be able to adopt kids, nor go near a living woman. Then again if you had a woman interested in you, you wouldn’t be here. Regardless, I don’t care about you. You are words on my phone. Go bother someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:12 AM
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You’re a bit worked up bud. Your emotions are showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:06 AM
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Get this - there’s an easy way to not get fucked in a divorce. Treat the woman with decency and respect and she will do the same for you. In all these imaginary scenarios you all just assume that the divorce is going to be some knock out battle. Most divorces are amicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:59 AM
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Reproductive rights? What does that have to do with men taking care of their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:53 AM
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You aren’t being stopped from adopting. The government isn’t actively saying anything. There’s an overwhelming amount of children in foster care. If you can provide a stable and loving home, you can adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:52 AM
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Suicide isn’t about whether or not society is good or bad. Society is irrelevant. It’s what is going on in the moment that the person wants to escape, or it’s a long slog of being miserable and fed up with being that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:48 AM
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Sure. You all think it’s just about tolerating someone. I was abused in a common law marriage for seven years. I would rather be in prison than be raped on a regular basis. Take away my rights and I’m taking the asshole who has left me with trauma that will never go away. Depending on how much I hate him, I’d either off myself or gladly be in prison. You know, those silly fickle female emotions!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:45 AM
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It’s wild that people think we wouldn’t leave or murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:41 AM
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Your analogy here is terrible. Drinking and driving can cause very real deaths of innocent people. Divorce doesn’t lead to innocent people dying. Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:39 AM
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Bro - Stop acting like women are incapable of being rational. I don’t know any women who are led by their emotions. I am perfectly capable of making good choices, regardless of my fee fees. You were literally up there saying that women deserve no rights. You were advocating for that. And because she called you on that, you are now trying to weasel your way out of it by saying womens fee fees are irrational and that’s the reason for divorce. It’s clear you don’t know how relationships work. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:38 AM
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Jesus Christ. Yeah, we can’t let women have rights, and letting them work and vote and have independence is what has ruined society? So you essentially believe we are lesser beings who need to submit to you. Tell me you don’t get laid without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:30 AM
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But one of the reasons is that children cost a lot of money. People of childbearing age have less money than their parents did at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:06 AM
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I mean yeah, humans can be terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:09 PM
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If I were you, I wouldn’t go into comedy. Hurrdurrr bitch make me food! Wow, so creative. Such an insult. Just say you have absolutely nothing of substance to say, and that the silly little women here made you look stupid. There’s no recovering from it, honey. You’re just going to have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:56 AM
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You aren’t factoring in a lot of things. Immigrants by their nature don’t necessarily have the same cultural influences than westerners who have been living here for generations. You also aren’t factoring in life satisfaction and happiness. People can be married and absolutely miserable. In the real world, people don’t look at or read a stat and then massively change their lives. They go… oh that’s interesting, and move on with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:16 AM
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….and who does statistical analysis? Usually the fucking government or a university who got government grants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:08 AM
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Aww it sounds like you are miserable so you think women should also be miserable. Cherry picking antidepressant use as your data point is well… it’s dumb. It says that you also don’t understand depression. 8.6 million people take antidepressants. They take them for a variety of reasons. I’m on them, and yet I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. My antidepressants exist so that I can function and be happy. Where as, without them, I don’t function. That isn’t a measure of my over all satisfaction with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:05 AM
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Me too! I’ve never been happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:52 AM
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Yeah, my great aunt was exactly like this. There have always been women who have done their own thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:50 AM
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The vast majority unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:48 AM
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I am going to assume that I fall into the cat lady demographic. Here’s the thing - what counts as “old?” What is the marker for happiness? Regardless, the trope that because a woman is however old she is undesirable and only has animals to love is so lazy. Studies have shown that it is single women with no kids who are the happiest. Why? Because we don’t have our personal lives revolving around children and a husband. I get that no one here is going to want to hear this, but the vast majority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:46 AM
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Ahhhh ok. Yeah I don’t know about the optimism. I’m not an optimist by nature. All I know is that when strangers are confessing their misery to me (I’m one of those people that people feel comfortable saying things to that they’d not say to those close to them) that something needs to drastically change. It can’t keep going on like this. But I have no idea how to find the political will to get shit done to change things. I’m open to any ideas if you have some!!!!
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:50 PM
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You missed my point. My point is that pretty much everyone is miserable and at some point wants to end it. I wasn’t saying that everyone wants to end it because they aren’t getting laid. I was saying that universally, people want to die. Late capitalism, isolation, lack of mental health care, lack of a future that doesn’t look like a dystopian nightmare, ect ect If strangers come up to me and talk about how exhausted they are and how they wish they could get cancer and die - both men and women h…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 10:35 PM
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What is your point? They blame women and “feminism” is the catch all for women, on why they aren’t getting laid. Then they point to studies of men committing suicide, cherry picking it, and saying that the rise in suicide via men is because women 1) won’t date incels 2) incels aren’t getting laid 3) feminism made it so women can provide for themselves so only top tier men get women and it’s women who are to blame. The point is that everyone is miserable. Suicide and drug addiction are as high as…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:58 PM
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What is your point? They blame women and “feminism” is the catch all for women, on why they aren’t getting laid. Then they point to studies of men committing suicide, cherry picking it, and saying that the rise in suicide via men is because women 1) won’t date incels 2) incels aren’t getting laid 3) feminism made it so women can provide for themselves so only top tier men get women and it’s women who are to blame. The point is that everyone is miserable. Suicide and drug addiction are as high as…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:58 PM
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Go into any of the pill forums. There’s always a post about how men are committing suicide and it’s because women won’t fuck them. It’s literally pill101
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:43 PM
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It’s not an “only men want to die” thing. The universal truth here is that everyone wants to die at some point. I know the pills go on and on about male suicide and then link it to how men deserve sex because otherwise they’re going to end it - But it’s frankly a terrible talking point. Men blow their heads off or go do a violence and suicide by cop. Women usually OD.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:41 PM
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Because men tend to use guns when they want to end it, and a gun is usually going to get the job done. Women are just as miserable and attempt as much because society is miserable. Women just don’t use guns because of the mess. It’s easier to survive an attempt in the methods women choose.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 09:38 PM
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You aren’t getting anywhere near a woman to put your sad little dick in her. All of this is a fantasy. Keep advocating for nagging a woman into sex. The fact that you think this kind of thing is pleasurable shows how little experience you have with actual human beings. It’s wild that you assume relationships are based on your needs alone, and that truly loving someone means you have a right to their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:20 PM
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Yeah the women who are already ignoring their very existence are definitely going to be big sad that they are leaving. Oh god no, please don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:14 PM
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Im really sorry that you have experienced that. It fucking sucks. I’m not going to lie - confidence is attractive. But, I think to be confident, you also need to like yourself and know for a fact that you are worthy of love. I don’t know your situation, but she was attracted to you. She saw something in you that she liked. So unless you were absolutely faking those aspects of your personality, you have things about you that women find attractive. I would cut yourself a break. Relationships that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:28 AM
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Why is it that when a woman dares to question anyone in here, you all move the goal posts? You said straight up that things can only be one way - that when women had their “sexuality controlled” men in this forum could marry a “top tier virgin woman who cooked, cleaned & had some class.” The way you are trying to do a gotcha on me is by saying that you didn’t directly say it, so I can’t challenge your assertion. It’s honestly a weak argument. Your original post states that women ruin the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:33 AM
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Those are not facts. They are your skewed perception of reality. Do you realize what you are actually giving away about yourself as a person? You are advocating for women to have no rights. You seem to romanticize the days when women had no agency - because at least back then, women were reliant on men in order to survive. I assume you are nostalgic for what - the 1950’s? Legit what era are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:32 AM
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Is that what I said? Nope. I simply said what they said, adding in the disdain every guy here feels about single moms. Your response needs to get real because it makes absolutely no fucking sense. If I’m reading it right, you are implying that single mothers are too dumb and desperate to see incel types for who and what they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:24 AM
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Your original comment is gone and I don’t remember it so keep that in mind. It seems to me that perhaps you view it in this way so you don’t have to deal with whatever she was unhappy about. If you put it in terms of using and being used, it’s easier to deal with. If you view everything as transactional, you can protect yourself from ever being hurt by truly caring for someone. Adults can and do have transactional relationships. But as someone who has had both, the transactional left me feeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:20 AM
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So, what you mean is - if women can go back to having absolutely no rights and independence and men can decide her value and her life goals. Just take away women’s agency and then absolutely terrible men will get laid because the women have no choice in the matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:42 PM
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The low status men want to become high status so they can get their revenge on every woman who ever dared to reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:37 PM
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These guys get really EMOTIONAL over women having thoughts and freedom. They are incapable of rational thought, for a variety of obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:30 PM
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What exactly constitutes a masculine alpha male? What traits does he have that everyone on this sub lacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:26 PM
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Nah dude, once the incel revolution occurs, they’re all just going to gulag every single chad in existence. Then the women will be so desperate that they will now get laid. See, after the revolution, there will be a law passed that says that every incel is entitled to the woman of his choice. But if the woman has two men who decide they are entitled to her, they have to fight each other to the death, while a sea of chads tell them both about how great it felt to deflower the woman he is entitled…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:23 PM
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Pretty sure women know men are individuals dude. How many women are currently using you as an ATM? Or using you as a human dildo? Speaking of, wild to think that women are just out there using men’s dicks as dildos. We have vibrators. The majority of women in the world don’t get off from penetration. This is another absurd argument where you sit around imagining all women are horrible gold diggers who use men… for sex? And also, if women are all using men as personal dildos, where exactly do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:08 PM
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Pretty sure women know men are individuals dude. How many women are currently using you as an ATM? Or using you as a human dildo? Speaking of, wild to think that women are just out there using men’s dicks as dildos. We have vibrators. The majority of women in the world don’t get off from penetration. This is another absurd argument where you sit around imagining all women are horrible gold diggers who use men… for sex? And also, if women are all using men as personal dildos, where exactly do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:04 PM
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It’s wild that you all assume women are just running around getting knocked up by Chads, and that they will all become single mothers, whom all of you look down on. Wild too that you all assume these single mothers are going to want to date you, let alone let you be a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:57 PM
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God that’s a horrible life philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:54 PM
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Not sure about you, but it’s bad enough just listening to these guys. I can’t imagine being forced to do anything sexual with them. They need to just buy sex dolls and leave us out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:52 PM
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How’s that work with the whole being a Jesus follower? It’s the opposite of being a Christian right there. Punishing men whom you are jealous of is definitely what Jesus would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:49 PM
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So this is your rah rah speech about how you guys are supposed to do what, again? Are all of you incels going to unionize to then get sex, are you going to go out into the streets and organize and protest because… other men are fucking and you aren’t? Yeah, you’re well on your way to your government given girlfriend now! It’s absolutely absurd for you to state that women don’t have to do anything to attract men. You guys rate women on a scale of 1-10. You seriously think the chick who is dubbed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:45 PM
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“Ruin the bodies and minds of our future potential partners….” This way of thinking is why you all have no partners, let alone any potential ones. Let’s also add in here that you state that women are ignorant of their fertility (seriously, a virgin male is going to say he knows more about women’s bodies than they do. Classic!) as well as ignorant of settling down to start a family… which is at what age, again? You can say it until you turn blue, but no woman in her early 20’s wants to marry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:29 PM
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Where are all these women who have kids, hate men, look terrible, got a divorce and now need someone to leach off of? Because I’m 42 and my friends are younger than me. I know no one whose life is like that. And I know wealthy people, dirt poor people and people in between. So what is the actual number of women over 30 who fit this stereotype of yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:55 AM
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…..this wasn’t obvious right away?
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 07:49 AM
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I’ve been here for a few weeks, mostly because I’m a glutton for punishment but also it is fun to refine my insults, you know? I’m going to self eject from here soon because it’s no longer useful. There’s no “debate” here. If you point that out, it’s because as a woman, you just can’t handle the truth. Part of the fun of a debate is acknowledging someone’s point and refuting it. I mean, that’s literally how debate works. Yesterday, I made one of these guys really unhappy by pointing out how abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:12 AM
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You really do live in a weird world. We all know that politicians manipulate the truth. That’s a basic fact that you figure out as a kid. I don’t know who out there believes that celebrities tell the truth. They’re celebrities? Most people with a brain know that their job is selling an image and promoting whatever they released. People aren’t going to suddenly be enraged if a celebrity lies in an interview. People have better shit to care about. I would hope, honestly, that someone who is tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:47 AM
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But… again, They’re social retards. Women are here in this sub. We talk to them and tell them what will work. Every single time, they just ignore it or say we are wrong. All these guys have is their echo chamber and fantasies of revenge. They don’t want to hear that the problem is actually them. You know this. If it’s actually a them problem, it means they might have to put in the work to attract women. They really and truly believe that we can’t tell straight away after a short conversation whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:32 AM
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I donno, if I sleep with you on the first night, I’m going to be pretty aware that sex is all that is on the table. I’m not going to be pining and then writing poems about how unfair it is that I fucked a guy and he ghosted. But some people are stupid 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:25 AM
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Well, here’s the thing though. All of you pill guys are socially retarded. Period. You aren’t getting laid because you are terrible at talking to women. Do you seriously, seriously think that magically you men who are again, socially inept, are going to be able to pull off this lie? It will be absolutely transparent. And, I’m just talking about getting in the door, where a living breathing woman acknowledges you and speaks to you. Oh yes, I know what I want as a woman! A 30 year old male virgin …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:23 AM
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It’s not irrelevant. Do you know what is beyond unattractive to women? Desperation. You know what is attractive? Someone who stands firm in their beliefs and knows who they are. You guys seem to think that the reason “assholes” get laid is because they are assholes to women, because deep down women love assholes and not nice guys. It’s not about them being assholes. It’s that they are confident in who they are. If a man is secure in who he is, he will attract women. A guy who will believe and sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:29 AM
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Ah here it is again, the old emotional trope where I’m big mad at you, so I attacked you, and then you tell me to calm down because I’m acting like a woman with all my fee fees. Once again, I didn’t attack you personally. I said that your thesis is wrong. You again, decided that you know the psychology behind all feminist women. Remember how I told you that you really shouldn’t go into psychology? This is what I mean. It’s cool though that you did just openly admit that you saw my SN here and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:10 AM
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I’m not angry, so let’s get that out of the way. You had no idea what you are talking about and so I told you. I dumbed down what toxic masculinity means, because you were wrong. I used the Royal version of “you” as I was addressing what you said. I did not mean “you” as in who you are. I know it hurts when a woman makes you look like the retard you actually are, but if you are going to post things, it would behoove you to actually know what you are talking about. I mean, hey, cool, if you enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:53 AM
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I was personally asking you, yes. Thanks for your answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:41 PM
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I have a legitimate question. Why would you as a person want to lower your own values - if you aren’t a misogynist, why would you want to be like one? Because shitty men get sex? Isn’t integrity worth something? Isn’t a true sign of masculinity when someone has the ability to stand for what they believe in, even if it’s not easy? Because that takes a lot of guts and self esteem. It takes confidence. And confidence in a man is attractive. If your one and only goal is to get your dick wet, then ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:42 AM
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Here’s a woman, telling you why these men aren’t getting laid, and here you are talking over her, telling her exactly what it is, and dismissing what she has to say. How do you not understand that your exact behavior is why people like you don’t get women. Women don’t want to be around men who dismiss what they say and treat them like they are idiots. It’s patronizing and no one wants to be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:50 AM
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Weird because I consider myself a feminist in that I believe that I am not less than a man, and that I’m an equal. And the women around me also believe that. None of us look for stupid men. Stupid men are men who refuse to have their views questioned. They’re men who think that because they are men, they’re automatically right. We aren’t dateless old hags. But you know, whatever you need to tell yourself to get through the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:43 AM
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I don’t think any of you guys know what the fuck toxic masculinity means. It’s wild to see so many people bitch about something they don’t even know about. Toxic masculinity is when men enforce what they believe to be the correct masculine traits on other men, which harms both men and women. It’s literally this forum, where everyone here reinforces the idea that women only like “chads” and if you aren’t a chad, you don’t have a chance. That’s toxic masculinity. Women pointing out shitty behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:35 AM
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It happens so many times. Say it here though and they’ll just talk over you and say it’s not because of how they look, but their shitty ass personalities and beliefs and they’ll just continue to tell you that women are at fault. It’s easier to blame others instead of actually taking a hard look at yourself and working to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:20 AM
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Because this is just a sub for propaganda about how we are all evil because we won’t fuck them. It says “debate” but I’ve yet to have any sort of debate. I’m just dismissed and lectured.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:24 AM
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I have a large social circle consisting of many people who are absolutely unlike me. I know how anecdotes work, I’m not stupid. Expecting me to pull up statistics while writing an essay on a topic I’m indifferent to is absurd. I am not choosing a side on a debate stage dude. I gave my personal opinion and experiences because Reddit is based on people sharing opinions with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:20 AM
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I don’t think you get it. You are assuming that I wasn’t once undatable, or whatever. Bro, in high school, guys barked at me. I didn’t have it easy for my whole ass life. I completely understand what it is like to feel “ugly” and I know how cruel people can be. I don’t need to have direct experience of being a 20 something undatable man to understand and have empathy for what they are experiencing. I really shouldn’t have to give my background for you to listen to what I have to say. And I’m pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:49 AM
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But my response wasn’t about that. If you are happy with the person you are dating, isn’t that what matters? I’m going to guess that you both share things in common. You both have similar levels of wealth or whatever. So you clearly aren’t her sugar daddy, because she doesn’t need or want your money. No one is entitled to another person, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:42 AM
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You asked me how I would know or not know what it’s like because I haven’t had similar experiences. I gave you my answer. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:37 AM
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You’re correct, i don’t have an issue getting dates. But, that wasn’t what I was trying to get across. To generalize, women really do talk to each other. And like men, we complain about relationships or lack there of. If you go into majority women spaces online, and you observe the conversation, you’ll find that everything I said in my original comment is true. You can ask women what it is they look for, what it is they want. It’s perfectly reasonable to ask those things in a female oriented spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:22 AM
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Actual adults don’t sit around asking for the exact number of dicks that have been inside you. No STDS? Cool. That’s legit what adult conversations consist of. The reality is that immature men are focused on shit like “body count.” Those same men then seethe because no one wants to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:42 AM
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No, absolutely no one is owed anything. It’s on men as individuals to not go off on rampages. Using that as a threat implies once again that men are by default owed relationships because otherwise, mass shootings and suicides. To put sociopathic violent behavior on women because these guys aren’t getting what they want is absolute nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:34 AM
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No, they really haven’t. I gave a personal anecdote, but to assume that I’m out of touch is absolutely ridiculous. I’m not. The part of my comment that says perhaps it’s worth asking oneself why getting a date is so hard. What is it about “you” as a person that could use improvement? Why on earth would any woman with a brain want to be with a bitter, angry, resentful person? Do men find bitter, angry, resentful misandrists attractive? Oh right, they don’t. Because UNIVERSALLY, no one wants to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:27 AM
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My point is that even if you want to tear through pussy, you have to actually be someone a woman wants to be around. Which means not having a terrible personality. You can be “ugly” and you can absolutely get laid, so long as you aren’t fucking awful to be around. But the idea that 20 something hot as hell women are going to drop their panties for a guy in his mid thirties just because he has “money” or “status” is ridiculous. There will be women out there but dead ass, the guys who are that old…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:22 AM
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I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Instead of focusing so much on finding someone who has no experience, you would be better off just focusing on finding someone you have things in common with. Someone you actually like and who likes you. Because I can tell you from life experience that plenty of women will be understanding of your situation if they truly enjoy you as a person. I know that isn’t likely what you read, but it is true. We all bring positives and negatives to our relationships. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:15 AM
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Thirties. You can find them. But if your sole qualification is finding an “inexperienced” woman, you might want to go where they generally are. Which is more conservative places, or places where “nerds” are. But, Iet me ask you, why is it that you care so much about being with someone who is inexperienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:55 AM
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Men aren’t having sex for a variety of reasons. Younger people don’t actually hang out with each other like older generations did. In fact, most younger people are terminally online. If you don’t have a group of friends to physically hang out with, and you don’t actually socialize with strangers, you end up… 1a) with crippling anxiety and depression. With crippling anxiety and depression, your focus isn’t on anything other than surviving each day. The pandemic also didn’t help Gen Z in regards t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:46 AM
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For what? Not getting laid? Seriously, it’s not as amazing as these guys think it is. It’s hollow. Cool you fucked a bunch of women, but what does that mean? Because I was once young and I did sleep with older men occasionally, and it wasn’t some amazing experience. Most were terrible lays, because they didn’t give a shit about me, they only cared about getting off. Which fine, but again, there’s a reason why once you are older you stop having casual sex. Sex with someone you care about is amazi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:34 AM
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Hello. I’m over 30, and I can assure you that no woman I know is having a big sad because fuck boys don’t “want” us. As actual adults, it’s not hard to know what one wants. If a guy is looking to just get laid, great. There’s plenty of women out there who are absolutely looking for FWB situations. If a guy wants to get into a relationship, there’s plenty of women looking for that. It’s a big world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:26 AM
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Every guy I knew when I was in my 20’s was getting laid. Not everyone looked amazing either. Assuming that younger women only care about how hot someone is, is a huge and stupid generalization. I’ve dated men who are models, and I’ve dated men who are considered “ugly.” In my 20’s I didn’t give a shit about what you looked like. I cared and still care about who you are as a person. It baffles me why men continue to whine about how young men are “sexless” without ever ever asking why that might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:18 AM
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Why exactly does it matter if a woman is 30? You’re 30 and yet what, you feel entitled to a 22 year old woman, why? Are you aware that being a “sugar daddy “ is transactional and that you might get to put your dick in a living woman, but that the sex you are having isn’t anything to brag about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:00 AM
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What can they do? Stop parroting bullshit. Stop low key hating women. Stop assuming that every guy should be given a virgin to fuck based on incel “logic” about “biology.” Stop treating women as your mother and therapist. Stop viewing women as nothing other than an object. Stop assuming that saying the bare minimum in regards to dating means that you are entitled to a partner. Have interests, passions, a sense of humor. Connect with women who share those same interests. It’s really not that hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:57 AM
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Cite your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:47 AM
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I mean, no one wants to hear someone going on about their x, but in your scenario, you took it well, you asked actual questions and you did so with a great sense of humor. It might not make a relationship happen, but I know if I was in that situation, I’d definitely want to be your friend. I don’t get why people find that so insulting. Shouldn’t we all want to be friends with someone who in theory we have things in common with, and who we can talk honestly to? You are correct tho, they don’t wan…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 08:21 AM
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The date you described sounds great. I’d be all in. You’re a good writer, as well.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 07:14 AM
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Yes. We know. We might not know right away, but we know. If we are uncomfortable around you, there’s a reason. You might think you can hide your toxic thoughts about women because you don’t say them outright, but trust me when I tell you that your views will seep out in other ways, just with casual conversation. It’s not hard to clock a misogynist.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 07:08 AM
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It’s called “repetition compulsion” in psychology. Subconsciously, the person is trying to heal/fix the past. Say, dad was an addict who was distant and or not around. Generally, that means that the men she dates will be emotionally distant, cold, have addiction issues. That’s just who she ends up drawn to. So she will repeat the same sort of relationship dynamics because she wants the closure, or healing ect. Some people never get out of that cycle. Others understand what they are doing or at t…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 05:09 AM
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I know all of this has likely already been said but I’m going to say it again. You want to know why she is still there? Because the guy is an abuser. No relationship starts out with the abuser flat out saying who they are. That’s not how it works. Abuse starts slow. Some insults here and there, calling her a whore. Then it ramps up. To where he’s verbally abusing her a few times a day, telling her she’s stupid, that she’s lucky he is willing to settle for her. The verbal abuse will start with sn…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 04:52 AM
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The stereotypes applied to you seem to racist. I would dislike those people based on principle unless they genuinely felt bad. It’s not on you to teach us white people what it’s like to be racially stereotyped. But, barring being a racist scumbag, most people are just doing their best. Some people don’t care about how they look or who they are around. Some people really do. I used to assume that most people were their stereotype when I was younger. The thing is, I was a goth in the late 90’s (an…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 10:40 PM
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I’m so happy that you found something you love to do. I’m one of those people who cares way more about animals than humans, as a whole. I completely understand you. My dog is absolutely everything to me. I have no words for what you had to go through there. My brother is also gay, but no one has ever said anything like that to me, thankfully. My brother said no one harassed him as we were growing up because everyone was terrified of me and my friends, lol lol lol. I guess a small goth teen is pr…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 03:40 AM
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Jesus. I am so sorry you had to endure that. That’s an example of a miserable ass person, right there. Hugs!
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 06:02 PM
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You have zero clue about my happiness buddy. And I’m not going to defend my existence to you, because I don’t care what you believe. The pill philosophy isn’t a fraction of people, it’s everywhere. If I cared about dating, I’d be actively doing it. Just because I gave a thought out reply about the things women have encountered doesn’t mean I’m some old hag who is bitter because I can’t get a man. I’m not doing it because I’m not going to subject myself to shitty people. I actually do things, and…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 06:01 PM
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Lotta projection there in that comment. Like repemptionhappens said, I’m here because I find human interactions fascinating. I follow shitty incel stuff because I am interested in propaganda and how it spreads. I sub to a gazillion subreddits. So many that you can’t make a blanket statement about what I care about from looking. Assuming that I am miserable because I’m on this sub is absolutely ridiculous. I don’t hate men, and I have no issues with dating, other than that shitty pill philosophy …
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 05:56 PM
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Hey! I replied to you but saw you deleted. Here’s what I wrote: Reddit isn’t the real world. I can understand that it feels like you are “average” in most things in life, but here is what I know. If you are a kind person, and you don’t talk to women like any of the guys who are pilled, you will be ok. Despite what all of the pilled guys say, women don’t just not date people they have things in common with because the guy is short, not a chad, ect. If you meet a woman who does that, then you know…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 05:51 AM
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I made a lengthy comment above about it. There might not be data on it, but as a single woman who has plenty of female friends who are single, it is 100% because men have lept backwards in their beliefs. Not all men are vile human beings, but a ton of them have no problem saying they think you are a lesser being (amongst other things). My friends and I are happy to not have to sift through a bunch of garbage humans in order to find one that maybe isn’t a terrible person whom we also have things …
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 04:53 AM
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No, we just see what absolute disasters the men are, and we decide to opt out. I’d rather be single than have to be with a man who low key hates women, thinks it’s feminism that is cock blocking him (it’s not, it’s his Shit personality and beliefs), thinks that women should be seen and not heard, that our purpose is to stay home and raise children and that is the only way we can ever be happy because “biology,” thinks that he is owed sex because he’s a man and it’s sooo hard to be a man who isn’…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 04:47 AM
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Yeah I like thin guys who are sarcastic, witty, and intelligent.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 11:02 PM
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You know who I turn down? Gym bros. I find that shit unattractive. You know who also does this? A large amount of women, because we are all attracted to different things.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 11:00 PM
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They use incel science, where they cite bs stats and facts that don’t prove anything in regards to humans.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 10:58 PM
5

Woman here, obviously. I think dating apps suck. Gamifying a potential relationship is disgusting. I’ve met plenty of people in person that I went on to date. It’s absolutely possible, but it takes effort and leaving your house. This idea that all women want the same things from men is ridiculous. I date men based on if they actually have traits I like. In fact, some guys can be completely unattractive but if you end up liking who they are, they will become more attractive. My last x isn’t what …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 10:51 PM
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Oh sweetie, DTMFA. This is glorified abuse. He might be pretty but looks fade, stupid is forever. Add to that his toxic personality and I’m really unsure why you are still with him? Seriously, don’t settle for this. Being alone is far better than ever, ever having to hear this stuff on a regular basis.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 04:21 AM
5

Virgin/whore complex
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 07:15 AM
2

Woman here. I found “the game” at a garage sale many years ago. It was pretty horrifying to read.
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:57 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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