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1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. No, a sample of people, presumably mostly online, gave disagreed with you, and many or most of them are Westerners. The point is that watching porn doesn't make one a cuck. That's not what cuck means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 01:58 PM
1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. No. That's the point. Only within the narrow scope of view of Western sexual culture would most people on earth be cucks, but that just doesn't reflect reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:06 AM
1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. No, it's completely normal. It happens to people all over the world, all the time. If you are not aroused by people you are attracted to having sex, you are in the minority (that doesn't necessarily mean it's abnormal, though)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:02 AM
1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. This only makes such good sense of you're coming from a very specific cultural perspective (which I understand and am not trying to delegitimize). When you look at it through the lens of Western sex culture, it definitely seems to be the cuckiest thing imaginable, but there is nothing inherently cucky about being turned on by watching people have sex. First thing's first, "cuck" can mean different things. Being tricked into raising someone else's kid is the common origin of all modified uses of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 10:43 AM
11	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? I wish more men would take notes from you. As a man, it creeps me the fuck out when dudes do that persistent harassing shit, it's just kinda pathetic and gross. I would never sleep with a woman who did that to me. It really is as simple as paying a polite compliment and leaving your phone number, unless maybe you're quite apparently unattractive or something like that I guess. Either way, I really can't see how desperately pestering women would ever get someone laid, but a lot of guys act like i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 02:39 AM
1	Have women become more sexist over time? Okay, I definitely understand where you're coming from, and I'm not sure that I agree, but you have a reasonable argument there. I would say that sexually harassing women is still definitely a form of sexism though, because it is directed specifically at one gender and because it is a demonstration of a lack of respect for that gender, not just that individual. It isn't specific to one person in particular, but to one gender and not the other (in the case of a man sexually harassing a woman). If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 09:37 PM
1	Have women become more sexist over time? Gender-based sexual harassment is sexism. It's --gender-based--	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 06:57 PM
1	Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory" I'm sorry, should I delete it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 02:15 AM
1	Close Friends and Activities Ah shit. You got me. I would have a problem with most of these things to some degree, but I don't think it's right to have a problem with these things (except maybe my wife talking about our marriage to this dude: I should have a right to a certain amount of privacy I think). I think I would only have a problem with these things because I'm insecure, so it's more my problem than my wife's problem, and I couldn't reasonably expect her to work around my insecurity. irl I lived with my partner and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:53 PM
4	The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as men Hahahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 10:17 PM
10	Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory" This is the root of their woman troubles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 06:31 PM
3	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Hell yeah, you and Frank get it. It was kind of a mind fuck for me when I realized that throwing on boring clothes from the top of the pile still counts, I guess I just want everyone to know through fashion communication that I don't care about my appearance to the point that I do care enough about my appearance to let everyone know that I don't care about my appearance haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 05:09 PM
2	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Yeah, it can lead to all sorts of unhealthy standards people try to hold themselves to, leading them to assign themselves worth based on how well they conform to those standard or not. It's a whole fucked up thing, and makeup is as guilty as anything. It's not just women and makeup though, it's a lot of different things for both sexes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 05:43 AM
3	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Does he mean that in the way I just explained it? Because that would be pretty fucking cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 05:40 AM
1	Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” are Oh no, I was gaining weight, you just couldn't tell by looking at me. I gained about 30 pounds in a year and a half, but I didn't look bigger really, just more defined. At the time, I was eating enough for two people, several thousand calories a day, lots of protein (but no supplements/protein powder). Edit: wait, what is recomping at maintenance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:44 AM
5	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive This is too narrow and definitely not entirely correct. Women can wear makeup for reasons that aren't about attracting a mate or increasing SMV. For examples, women wear makeup because they think it makes them more attractive, and that can serve as a confidence boost, a self-esteem boost (not the same as confidence), or a social signifier to people who aren't potential mates, like communicating general self-respect/self-care, conforming appropriately to certain social settings like work or a wed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 12:12 AM
0	Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” are OP is talking about an "aesthetic body", so I'm just guessing he's talking about the conventionally attractive male body, as in the ripped/defined/buff gym dude. I know that the majority of men don't go to the gym enough to look like that, but I'm assuming he's talking about something along the lines of that sculpted body type. As for me, my body type is more inclined to become defined than bulky, so if I hit the gym hard, I would mostly just get definition. I stay around the average weight for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 10:12 PM
0	Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” are I'm okay with getting a little bulky and a little bit of definition, but I would never want to have the body of someone who really hits the gym. I think really defined men look like arthropods or something (just my strange opinion, no disrespect to you jacked guys out there), and I have pretty low body fat as it is, and with my body type, I get only a little bulk and mostly definition when I work out enough to get visible results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 08:41 PM
1	Why is promiscuity encouraged? Sex with tens of partners = mental illness? Having hundreds of sexual partners is one thing, but not having enough sex is also indicative of the possibility of mental illness. Our species has evolved to have sex with multiple people. It's apparent when you look at our biology. Probably wiith exceptions, it is the rule that more sexually dimorphic (the two sexes having differences in their bodies) species generally tend to be less inclined towards monogamy. We aren't as sexually dimorphic as some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 07:09 PM
1	Have women become more sexist over time? Haha no, sexism towards women usually sexual harassment, not mean words. Maybe you just don't know, because I didn't either until fairly recently, and since then I've come into contact with a lot more women in my life, and I was pretty surprised to find out how often young women get threateningly harassed and casually assaulted. We men don't have to worry about the things women do, I'm telling you man. We've got it pretty damn good as men. Unless you're one of these dudes yourself or something, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 04:57 PM
1	How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women? Yeah... And I said I disagree with that? So... I'm not sure what you want me to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 04:01 PM
2	Have women become more sexist over time? You're putting words in my mouth, or otherwise assuming I'm saying something I'm not. I never said all forms of sexism against men by women can be dismissed as pointing out how shitty men can be towards women. But, I will say that a lot of what you might consider to be sexism towards men is actually just generalizations about men that have some truth to them. Is child support a sexist convention? Yes. Is it due to a sizeable portion of the male population being shitty towards women? Not necessar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 03:52 PM
1	Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace? I don't see the problem. It doesn't involve me that a 20 year old woman fucks an older man. Is he really competing with me? I don't really see it that way. Seems like he's just getting laid, unless we're going after the same girl, which I wouldn't feel too happy about regardless of the guy's age. Power to him, sounds like he's living his best life haha (although, in my experience, some of the older guys that go after younger women tend to be kind of obnoxious a lot of the time; it's like they're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 03:11 PM
3	Have women become more sexist over time? It is perfectly relevant to the question of if women are becoming more sexist to discuss how each if the sexes experiences sexism. It seems fairly obvious to me that sexism is often caused by the experiences of one sex with the other, so if one sex has worse experiences with the other sex, it is predictable that that sex may become more sexist. Female-on-male rape is equally as evil and violating as male-on-female rape, it is completely disgusting and absolutely no different than men raping wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 02:58 PM
3	Have women become more sexist over time? Yeah, me too, and it is inexcusable and nothing to dismiss. But, imagine that all those women who groped you were huge muscular men who could easily overpower you. Do you think that a woman groping you is equally as bad as a being groped by a man who could easily overpower you? Again, I want to emphasize that women groping you is equally shitty as men doing it, but I don't think it's the same thing. It's unlikely that a man being groped by a woman could be perceived as dangerous for the man, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 02:36 PM
0	How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women? "We have a situation where the woman has 100% of the authority over whether to have an abortion, and the man is held legally responsible for the woman's choice." Women should have 100% control over getting an abortion or not, because a woman is the one who has to carry the baby. Besides this reason, women generally get abortions because they don't want a child and never agreed to have a child with their sexual partner, so since there was no agreement between the man and woman in the first place,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 02:21 PM
3	Have women become more sexist over time? I definitely believe that women have touched you without your consent, women seem to feel more comfortable with it because they think it is okay for women to do that shit (it's not). However, it's not comparable to a man touching a woman in the same way, because a man will usually be strong enough to overpower her and take things to the extreme using violence. I've been groped and kissed by women without my consent, but if a woman tried to hold me down and rape me, I don't think she'd get very f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 05:44 AM
2	Have women become more sexist over time? I didn't say it wasn't sexism, because it is. However, I am minimizing it because it's a joke to think female sexism is worse for men than male sexism is for women (in general, not on a case-by-case basis. There are men who are victims of heinous acts of sexism, and there are women who live their lives relatively unscathed). I'd liken sexism against men to first world problems. Sure, they're real problems, but they don't even compare to problems the average person in Haiti or Somalia might face.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 05:36 AM
7	Have women become more sexist over time? Haha how many women have smacked your ass while you were walking down the street this year? Stuff like stuck up women turning you down in a bitchy way and being expected to pay for dinner doesn't really compare. But, since I don't know exactly what you consider to be something sexist that women do that compares, for example, to a man groping a woman, I have to give you the benefit of the doubt and ask you, what shitty things do you think women do to men that on par with the shitty things men do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 05:04 AM
8	Have women become more sexist over time? Really? Wow, thanks. I didn't think I was being particularly empathetic, but hey I'll take it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 01:33 AM
9	Have women become more sexist over time? Maybe the more women gain the freedom to express themselves, the more they will express themselves honestly. I agree with a lot of women who say things about men being shitty. Sometimes it's just ridiculous, sure, but most of the time, women's "sexism" is just pointing out how obviously shitty men can be towards women in particular. I never knew until fairly recently on my life how much bullshit women have to put up with from men, especially random men they don't know. When it's random men that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 11:36 PM
2	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? Women should be legally prevented from wearing makeup and men should legally enforced to wear makeup. Why? Idk lol No, but I think makeup (conventional beauty makeup, not costume makeup, etc.) has a pretty misogynistic (or at least patriarchal) history in the West, and women are obviously conditioned to want to use it for some reason or another that usually leads back to wanting to be attractive, but also, I think it should be up to women to figure out if they think makeup should have a role in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:37 PM
2	Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist? I don't know about becoming more sexist, but a lot of young men seem to be sexist in a different way than the older generations. I think the internet and progressivism have each made available to them different things to be sexist about. It seems like the newer generation of sexism often comes from a place of insecurity, whereas old fashioned sexism comes from some kind of sense of dominance by men. In this way, these kinds of sexism are very different: one comes from feelings of inadequacy, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 04:33 AM
1	A large percentage of women are undeniably drawn to assholes and men who exhibit toxic, abusive behavior, but lie and say they just want a guy who will treat them right How is it undeniable if it is easily denied? Simple way to deny it without even needing to get into the details: what constitutes an "asshole" who exhibits "toxic" behavior? Well, that is different all over the world, and has been different throughout time at least since societies became agricultural. This is not even to mention individual conceptions. You talk about millions of years of evolution, but you don't even talk about the role of social conditioning aside from some internet memes that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 06:23 PM
1	Online Dating observations: Tinder’s Algorithm is broken and optimizes for Dark Triad Traits (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy) Pretty sure tinder is for hookups and not actual dates, but idk. I've never used it, but my friends who use it have told me that it's only really good for meaningless hookups. If that's the case, it doesn't seem so bad to fuck an attractive narcissist and never see them again haha if anything, this sounds like the best way to sexually interact with a narcissist	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 10:56 AM
17	The whole “nice guy” narrative that women bitch about completely ignores the large number of men who simply react out of frustration with women less attractive than them acting stuck up and rude Loooool dude if you're DMing girls and they're shooting you down, it's because you're the problem. No one wants to get with someone who thinks they have a shot just because they sent a DM. Best to just learn this lesson now so you can move on with your life, and maybe develop your social skills to find what you're looking for, because thinking that sending unsolicited messages is gonna lead you to love or sex or positive attention from women shows a lack of awareness. Seriously, heed this advice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 02:41 PM
12	How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth? Probably good social skills or lower standards, maybe a combination. I have neither of these. I also don't have great looks. I also don't have any money, at all. I have none of the things that make men successful in dating. Take advice from me anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 12:29 PM
3	If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men? When a lot of men leave the western dating world, it's very often through mail order brides or going to poorer countries, like the Philippines or countries in Southeast Asia for some examples, to take advantage of the circumstances of women living in comparative poverty. Obviously this isn't all Western men who date outside of the West, but this is common with Western men who date outside of the West. This is not to mention that much of the non-Western world is much more patriarchal than the Wes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 12:06 AM
4	Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes? I'm not implying anything or taking a position on this, I just wanna point out that supporting sex workers doesn't necessitate supporting sex work buyers, just like supporting buying sex work doesn't necessitate supporting sex workers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 07:39 AM
2	Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get? Had me until you said alpha/beta male. You don't believe in that stuff, do you? Is that a thing in this sub?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 07:22 AM
1	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" Yeah, so there's no problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 10:17 PM
1	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" But being boyfriend material is meeting requirements. If you are super against being labeled as boyfriend material, that's something that should be clarified before dinner, because people aren't mind readers. It doesn't seem like anyone's wasting anyone's time except the person who is so particular about how the relationship develops, the person who doesn't wanna be boyfriend material. If you go into a romantic encounter with hooking up in mind, there's no way of knowing that will happen except …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 09:35 AM
1	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" Yes... So what's the problem? Why get upset that some women will inevitably think you're not hook up material? Why be insulted by some women thinking you're boyfriend material? Why take it as a compliment that some women think you're hook up material?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 09:15 AM
0	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" Is that well established? I've never heard of that for it being so well established, and I'm not super inclined to believe it for a few reasons, but I'll just take your word for it here. I would say that if women generally have higher physical standards for hook ups, then whether or not a man is "hook up material" all depends on the man's physical standards for women and the self perception of the women around him. All men, and I mean almost every single man on earth, is hook up material to some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 09:10 AM
3	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" None of this sounds right. Women fuck less desirable dudes on the first date just because the woman is lonely. Conversely, if you're not good looking, that's less of a reason for a woman to want you as a boyfriend. There are only circumstances, not absolutes like you're talking about. Also, you didn't really explain your points, you just stated them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:56 AM
1	I never wanna talk to women again Damn well sounds like you can do exactly that: just don't talk to a woman ever again. I wish you hadn't deleted before I finished reading haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:31 AM
2	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated I agree that a lot of men have lower standards than a lot of women. Surely "undesirable" people are not just invisible to each other, and if some are, it's probably largely because they keep themselves invisible, either because of mental or health problems, shyness or fear, whatever the case may be. Also, for men in particular, I think a huge component of sexual/romantic desirability is simply social skills, which I of all people generally wouldn't fault someone for lacking, and I think social s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:08 AM
1	Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustrated How do you reconcile your theory with the fact that women outnumber men (globally), and the fact that there are plenty of women who might be generally considered "undesirable" (I don't think this even a thing, for many reasons, but I ask only for the sake of using your terms)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 04:50 AM
3	Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside? Hooking up while drunk af < hooking up while not drunk Try not being shit faced next time, and you might have a fun time if she's also not shit faced. The point is just to have fun, but it's not the only option for having sex either. You can go on dates, you can get a steady partner, there are options other than drunk hookups. That's just the easiest way to get sex, which is probably why it's the least rewarding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 10:00 PM
1	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Oh yeah I don't feel bad about it, but it definitely goes to some people's heads, unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:15 PM
1	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. What? This is exactly equally true the other way around. Of course physical attraction is prioritized, it's a sexual relationship, not a roommate arrangement or a job interview haha what is even the point of this post? Would you fuck the ugliest woman on earth even though she's super awesome in every other way? This is where friendship comes in. Besides, your social competence can make you much more sexually attractive, even if you're not very physically attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:23 AM
3	Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininity Idk man, it's not some movement that people get onboard with, it's the conditioning of women from childhood to fulfill a specific gender role, and that isn't something that you can just reject in the way you're talking about. Also, this gender role was definitely created in a male dominated world, largely through male influence. It was only in the 60's that women gained the right to open their own bank account, and gender based credit discrimination wasn't even outlawed until '76. To the point, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:10 AM
1	Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininity Are more and more women really rejecting the traditional gender role of the "inferior" woman? I don't know, I don't think so, traditional femininity seems pretty alive and well to me. Would be great if more women would reject it, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:01 AM
5	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material There is no "relationship" on the first date, it's an acquaintanceship, and the point of the acquaintanceship is to develop it into a relationship if things feel right. So, if you fuck on the first date, the relationship might not happen because fucking acquaintances can be awkward. Of course, fucking on the first date can just as easily lead to a relationship, it just depends on the people. The point is that some people fuck on the first date or not depending on the circumstances. Personally, I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 05:54 AM
3	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material It means it's not actually just right, or maybe that it is just enough, but could be more. Source: my dick is "just right"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 05:44 AM