shifu_shifu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	EU Human Rights Court takes a step back regarding the rights of biological fathers to take care of their children		shifu_shifu	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 07:28 PM
2	Honesty vs. Neediness		shifu_shifu	/r/seduction	24/08/16 06:11 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Germans are Forced to pay for Anti Men propaganda and hate speech no male rapper could do thathat and it would be called satire. I kinda get it but also, have you heard of KIZ? The ZDF show was cringe AF though.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/26 09:27 AM
1	Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men. There can be exception but in general family members do not pressure their loved ones into going into therapy for no reason. Second, don’t come here insulting me by calling me an idiot. I did not. Don't worry 99% of people are too dumb for that. Everybody has emotional or behavioral blindspots they fail to see themselves. Third, she thinks it’s going to help with my so-called trauma, and that’s all there is to it. You refusing to even entertain the notion that something might be worth looking in…	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 09:34 AM
4	Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men. Being able to be responsible while not being fucked over by our own dumb childhood trauma makes it actually a lot easier to handle. Not being afraid or triggered by random shit actually makes being the Rock that holds everything together muuuuch easier. In fact, you can process your emotions properly and still save the day. Just not at the same time...	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 05:52 AM
0	Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men. To put it bluntly, since your sister "forced" you. You are too dumb to be properly introspective on your own which makes you unable to not be a burden upon the people around you. The point of Therapy is not to fix the kind of problems you are thinking about.	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 05:46 AM
6	Are attitudes towards abused men this bad across reddit? People also care about their own in-groups more (eg: men care about men, women care about women) https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8226295_Gender_Differences_in_Automatic_In-Group_Bias_Why_Do_Women_Like_Women_More_Than_Men_Like_Men Looking at the research it is very likely that female in group bias is far stronger than male in group bias. Anecdotally I would agree.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/01/25 12:27 PM
3	I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean I know the US and Canada had this as a crime before, when they were theocracies, but they don't, now. Adultery is very much a crime in some US states. To Quote Wikipedia: In general, 3 US states criminalize it as a felony (Oklahoma, Michigan, and Wisconsin) and 13 states along with Puerto Rico criminalize it as a misdemeanor. Canada has never had it. Also neither Canada nor the US were ever theocracies. Though there were some puritan settlements way back when that can be considered as such. Howe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/12/24 08:57 AM
4	I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean He was. Also 50 year old married dudes hitting on 18 year old exchange students is iffy at best. The icing on the cake is the possible cheating.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/11/24 09:16 PM
8	I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean As a leftie westerner that has actually lived in Seoul: These people are deranged. I love the korean people and their culture. Some guys are pretty misogynistic, ngl. I went clubbing in Hongdae, it was honestly well behaved apart from some pushy guys. Are there some parts of korean society that are not compatible with womens freedoms? Sure as there are in any culture.For example the way some of the staff at my University has behaved towards the women on campus would never fly here. The guy(50+, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/11/24 07:37 PM
3	I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups and men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’t No abortion rights is equality with men, not oppression. You clearly said your preferred position is both sides being dragged down to "equality" because men have it shit in this regard and that this is an oppression free outcome. That is an issue. Making both things shit instead of making both things better is simply worse overall. Stop clowning, you know this. EDIT: Blocking is for weak minds, friend.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 10:20 AM
-8	I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups and men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’t No bro, WE, as men, have to make it good for men too. Talk to your local representatives, get engaged, be active in MRA groups.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 09:53 AM
3	I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups and men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’t No abortion rights is equality with men, not oppression. This kind of thinking is wild to me. The way to go is not make it shitty for everybody. The way to go is make it good for everybody.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 09:39 AM
-1	I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups and men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’t While I agree fully that men's right to choose parenthood is a serious issue, so is bodily autonomy in women and the right to have an abortion. Instead of immediately bringing up some rights men do not have in this area how about we just fix both? Instant whataboutism is rarely a good look.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 08:51 AM
2	I was telling my sister that I’d been engaging with lots of feminist groups and men’s rights groups, but she was saying she doesn’t think calling them men’s rights groups is the right terminology because there’s a lot of rights that men have had over the years that women haven’t I agree with you but that is not the point. The current way the US Law changes in this regard is clear case of discrimination against women regarding to abortion. Whether or not there is still some work to be done regarding men's rights in abortion is a very important but entirely separate discussion.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 08:45 AM
18	I’m starting to worry that the discourse is pulling me to the Right. In germany we have a meme about leftists: "Treffen sich 2 Linke, bilden sich 3 Splittergruppen" or "2 leftists meet, 3 splinter groups are formed". It is true in germany, but applies soooo much more to the US imo. I am congruent with roughly 95% of american "leftist" talking points, because to me as a german they are just slightly left of the center, very much common sense, opinions to me. During my time in the US I realized quickly, that lefty political motivated people in the US require you to…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/06/24 04:04 PM
1	A Contradiction: A Little Self-Criticism What do you think about his other statement that Men are incapable of truly empathizing with women?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/05/24 03:20 AM
1	A Contradiction: A Little Self-Criticism You are misreading this. I as an asian looking german living in korea now can certainly sympathize with black peoples struggles in the US. But I can NEVER truly understand it. Because I do not live that reality. How many cases are there of trans-x suddenly "getting it" from the others point of view after living their experience. Empathy simply has its limits.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/05/24 02:48 AM
1	Thoughts on Dadvocate? She apologized for attacking a female abuser that had thrown a knife at her boyfriend. Granted the man was not completely innocent either. He made some misogynistic remarks to her and drunkenly demanded sex. But the dadvocate brushed over her domestic abuse while overexaggerating his jackassery. I watched it on 4x and this is a gross misrepresentation of what she is saying in the Video. Hitting your woman and only telling her to "suck my cock" while she is clearly unraveling because of it is not…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 03:40 AM
1	Thoughts on Dadvocate? Instead of linking multiple 20 minute long videos with claims please link the video with a timestamp. Do not make me guess what you are talking about. I do not have time to guess what you are talking about. Be mindful of peoples time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 03:21 AM
65	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? I am so sorry you went through that. That is just downright evil.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 02:57 AM
14	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? Back then lots of regions had clear legal texts separating the household into husband, wife, children and slaves. This Distinction in Law makes no sense if "wifes were basically slaves". With Codes of Law in Mesopotamia clearly stating that women would be payed money for infractions against them and being heirs to their fathers fortune etc. EDIT: FYI What kind of child do you have to be to answer a comment and immediately block the person you are replying to so no conversation can be had...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 02:55 AM
2	Man Bear Megathread Yes I tried to find something but the only studies I could find are about general crime. It comes down to 1% of the population commiting 63% of the crimes. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24173408/	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 07:05 AM
2	Man Bear Megathread Ain't that the truth. I used to be decidedly and unabashedly left wing. Not US left wing. German left wing. Being Antifa and hunting Nazi's in the streets at night is a badge of honor in these circles left wing. Here the "Linke" or "Left" party has lost a lot of followers and will not get into our parliament next term. Because basically during wartime they chose to openly support Putin and call for Ukraine to just give Russia what it wants. The funny thing is, the only other party that supports …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 07:01 AM
26	I wonder where the Skittles Analogy originates... oh I think that the fascist rhetoric where it subscribes this analogy to any race or particular subsection of people is wrong, but it is fair play for men. If it is something cultural then people do stereotype to keep themselves safe and their lives matter more then some men's feelings. I am german with migration background. I can count the times I have been attacked while partying or on the street on my fingers. I have also not once in my life been attacked by a "german" german. I have had run ins…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/24 04:21 AM
9	Trans Men Are Our Greatest Allies I like to explore new places.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/24 10:14 AM
19	Ironically enough male feminists kind of perpaute the worse stereotypes about men. Left wing means supporting Palestine against the Israeli genocide. Can we stop with the "2 left-wingers meet. 3 splinter groups are formed" meme. Just because you are left wing does not mean you have to support every other left wing position. That being said: Support Palestinian people? Yes. Support Hamas? No.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/24 08:21 AM
1	I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynistic Misogyny is what makes these guys equate women to a tool that can be used as the means to meet their sexual needs For a small minority maybe, but mostly in the case of these guys it is not even about that. It is about being valued and desired for something intrinsic. They are angry because they feel and are made to feel worthless. Patriarchy is what makes these men feel entitled and angry that they didn't receive what they feel they were promised, as men. Patriarchy has a little to do with that …	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/24 07:16 PM
2	Can someone explain the psychology behind agree&lify and amused mastery? It always depends on the concerns. There are valid concerns. Making light of them and not taking them serious is a sign that you should not be around this person. And there are people making things up and blowing things out of proportion. Someone making light of these and not taking them serious is a sign of a a well developed human with some growth potential.	/r/ExRedPill	17/04/24 06:49 PM
4	Why are males more likely to be conservative, and females more liberal? I can only speak for myself but being more ambitious and "manly" without making it my whole identity has helped my in almost every area of my live. But you do not have to bundle conservative values with that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/04/24 04:41 PM
1	Man is awarded just £20,000 after his penis was chopped off during botched circumcision What are alternative treatments then? Cortison salves do not work for everyone.	/r/MensRights	21/09/23 07:56 AM
1	Man is awarded just £20,000 after his penis was chopped off during botched circumcision What, phimosis is not real?	/r/MensRights	20/09/23 11:47 AM
5	She did me dirty In court there is an element of building the proper narrative. If the other side does not know you have certain evidence they might lie about specifics and you can show them to lie. Judges don't look favorably on truth benders/liars. Also a dumb strongly worded remark here can paint a picture you might not want.	/r/MensRights	16/03/23 08:45 AM
8	She Poured Boiling Water On Her Husband's Face After He Said He Wanted A Separation. She Received No Jail Time. Because you can look at any country and as soon as somebody tries to instigate a law that requires sex parity in sentencing you will see a huge outcry by feminist organizations about how we need to protect women evem when that has nothing to do with it.	/r/MensRights	26/05/21 06:21 AM
3	Women have problems, men are problems. True. And they even have a history of celebrating male suicide in the face of failing societal norms.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/21 05:52 AM
33	'I served 17 years in jail for a horrific rape I didn't commit - and now the DNA evidence proves it' Rights? what rights? This makes me feel physically sick I do not understand the logic behind offering this deal? Like if he is innocent he wont take it so let him rot in jail but if he is guilty he is good to go?	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 07:22 AM
1	DEBATE: A VIDEO arguing: Even in Afghanistan, women are not MORE oppressed than men are.... throughout history women were not MORE oppressed than men either Good read. I love how they always conflate harsh punishments for everybody, because thats the law, with harsh punishments for women. And without fail it always turns out that it is actually men being sentenced in the majority.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/12/20 02:56 PM
2	Apparently men can't even enjoy their hobbies anymore without women tearing them down 🤦‍♂️ Thanks	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/07/20 08:58 PM
–	Apparently men can't even enjoy their hobbies anymore without women tearing them down 🤦‍♂️ Link? I cant go through all of your profile and find it blind 😂	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/07/20 08:38 PM
1	Fempathy: a characteristic of women who only care about men's problems when they negatively affect women I do not care what you believe about me. If I challenge your view even for a µsecond that is enough for me. You are talking the exact same way I did a couple of years back. Why are you so obsessed with the term "friendzone"? Its literally just a way of saying a woman has zero romantic/sexual interest in you. Its easier to just type out that one word than to say "she has zero sexual/romantic interest." We all know what it means. Because there is a difference in a woman rejecting you and just want…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/20 08:50 PM
5	Fempathy: a characteristic of women who only care about men's problems when they negatively affect women 30 ish. Solid average in the looks department. I feel a rant coming... I hate the friendzoned concept. In my experience: You don't get friendzoned for showing emotions. Friendzoned is a dumb expression in any way. The girls who friendzone you most likely do not actually want to be your friend. They are just letting you down easy. You get friendzoned denied because you are moving faster then the girl emotionally and this creeps a lot of women out. After a good decade dating and being in relations…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/20 04:19 PM
2	Fempathy: a characteristic of women who only care about men's problems when they negatively affect women As a guy showing plenty of emotions, even getting called a pussy from some men I get plenty of dates/fucks/ltrs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/20 02:25 PM
6	Women try to silence other women who don't subscribe to their ideology, which 100% confirms the idea that they don't give a fuck about equality of opinion or 'hearing womens voices'. Sorry to break it to them. Trying to rule over other peoples bodies is not being brainwashed. It's a choice. And a very shitty one at that.	/r/MensRights	23/07/20 01:41 AM
6	To any former right-wing men here? What won you over to the left? Abc can be said about any political movement because every movement attracts clowns that just try ro get theirs by value signaling the right crowd. Not sure what the hell the rest was because I could not follow these ramblings.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/20 10:21 AM
8	I (male) was expected to risk getting infected by being made to run errands while my sister was excused because she had 'prior commitments'. I've just found out that the prior commitment was a visit to a nail salon. Oh boy. She has lost every right to "good ideas" for you to do by pulling this shit. For life. She goes for a manipedi while bossing you around while you have abandoned your own family to care for your parents. You are a grown man. You decide what you need to do or in which ways you can and want to help them. Ofc. Listen to the people you are helping but just because it needs doing does not automatically mean you are the one that needs to do it. And if you do help out and people are ungrateful t…	/r/MensRights	15/03/20 06:57 AM
1	I complained to Google, and you could do the same. I wasn't mean about International Women's Day, I just pointed out their hypocrisy. Since they have been ignoring the auto translate issue on YouTube for 3 years I doubt they will care about this.	/r/MensRights	09/03/20 06:28 AM
2	Survey further proves that most women don't actually want equality, and just want a free ride through life. Don't get blinded by zealousness please.	/r/MensRights	03/03/20 08:56 PM
2	"Creepiness" is more of a predictor of social undesirability than of danger/threat level. Please listen to the people that describe the "creepy" people. Especially their tone of voice and their word choice. For most girls that have ranted about "creeps" to me, if you would exchange "creeps" with "immigrants" and kept their tonality and everything else the same sound just neo-nazis. There is a large subset of women that truly hates these "undesirable" men, especially if they try to act like "normal people". I don't date unatractive (to me) people, because that just makes no sense. But…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/01/20 09:12 PM
2	One Bright Spot To The Sanders/Warren Spat I mean even if he said that I do not understand what the big deal is anyways. "A woman cant beat trump in the next election." That's not saying he personally has a problem with a woman beeing president, it just means that, as seen with Hillary, obviosly the pussypass is not enough to counter the low key doubt that apparently a lot of americans have when it comes to women as leaders. Also Hillary stole Sanders Candidacy nomination, has everybody forgotten that? But no, muh sexism! And from an out…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/01/20 10:24 AM
1	I thought it was just a clump of cells 🧐 #Feminism is female supremacy Nope, in my opinion that is too much of an offense to the mothers right of bodily autonomy. Just because you shot your load into her does not mean you get to dictate whether or not she gets to have an abortion. I know the whole abortion/child support thing is fickle and kind of unfair because of obvs. Biological matters that prevent this from being a simple same rights for everybody.	/r/MensRights	13/12/19 05:35 PM
2	Now this is true equality She is.	/r/MensRights	19/03/19 01:53 PM
0	Men should be allowed to sign away parental rights without the consent of the woman during pregnancy. If she can choose to not be a mother, he should be able to choose to not be a father. There is progress in steps you know. I would rather have women having a choice than no one. Societal Change just takes a lot of time...	/r/MensRights	17/12/18 07:54 PM
3	UK: Female student rep at Southampton University sparks fury after vowing to tear down 'mural of white men' honouring those who left university to fight in WWI but never returned, they died fighting for Britain. In german the latin Patria is translated to Vaterland (fatherland, or land of our fathers) or just your country of origin. Never learned latin but it stands to reason that the latin route for both words would be the same.	/r/MensRights	27/10/18 04:59 AM
1	The Kavanaugh Smears Broke My Decades-Long Support For Feminism He was on a list of 30 names and was basically picked ar random.	/r/MensRights	12/10/18 09:30 PM
2	Actor Jimmy Bennett speaks out about abuse by #MeToo figurehead Not trying to take agency from people is fair. No matter his shitty choice in partner however, you can still blame her for being a negative influence on his condition. To me it seems that what you are saying is that even mentally ill individuals have to bear all responsibility themselves in every situation, even though they might not be capable of that at that point. Instead of saying " dont be an asshole towards already vulnerable people". Not my first language, please disregard mistakes and we…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/08/18 07:26 AM
2	I guess this where we’re at now. “Men are scary. End of story” Sounds like semantics to me. Government... by the people, of the people, for the people .... Because right now the people own the means of Production, just not all of the people.	/r/MensRights	11/04/18 07:16 AM
1	Elizabeth Holmes defrauds investors for 700 Million Dollars. She gets a fine and 0 days sentence. Martin Shkreli defrauds 100 times less, gets 7 years. Double standards destroy lives Nope, he fucked over sick people that have no way of doing anything and nothing happend. Then he tricked a couple of rich people and suddenly he goes to jail. That is not Society punishing him, that is rich and powerful people looking out for their own.	/r/MensRights	03/04/18 11:08 PM
1	Australia's Workplace Gender Equality Agency could you post a link to a news article please. I have searched and all I can come up with is some old lady who is suing for banks to use female forms on their forms.	/r/MensRights	05/03/18 11:23 PM
1	A young man at my local high school killed himself after being treated like a pedophile for having consensual sex with his girlfriend. This needs to stop. In Germany it is lawful to have sex with anybody that is older than 16. If one party is 14-16 the other should not be older than 21. If one party is under 14, the other should be under 14 as well since theoretically sex under the age of 14 is forbidden.	/r/MensRights	31/05/17 03:08 PM
1	Snapchat News This Morning: "If men wish to procreate with beautiful, fertile women they're gross." Good point, but please don't use the BMI Scale for determining if someone is fat. I have around 10% bodyfat and a BMI of 27,6. If you have any muscles the table gets screwed up fast.	/r/MensRights	13/05/17 07:10 AM
–	My drunk friend just danced alone and from behind and apparently the girl kissed him She was drunk as well. Simple as that.	/r/seduction	09/02/17 01:10 PM
1	How can I learn to get better with women, without having to become a "pick-up artist"? I agree, however you actually don't have to look like a freaking adonis or stop being nice to get girls. When I started on my self improvement journey I was nice, kind and generally very laid back. I also had a bmi of close to 30. Then I changed, almost everything but the very core of my personality. I became a jerk, saying mean shit just to get a reaction. I started stupid hobbys just to be cool and to have something cool to talk about. Suddenly I had success with girls. I lost my Virginity. I …	/r/seduction	09/02/17 01:03 PM
9	How to kill it on a date Exactly how you get to any other subject you wanna talk about. Example: She tells some childhood story about the beach. If the story does not require a negative emotional reaction from you just go with this: "Yeah there is something magical about beaches, don't you think? I think I have never had an unpleasent memory while at the beach. Watching Sunsets, having a picknik with my Family,the Ocean cooling you off on a hot day, Having Sex in the Dunes. Afterwards was horrible though, you get sand e…	/r/seduction	03/01/17 01:06 PM
1	How to kill it on a date Concise Summary, you hit all the main points. you should format this correctly though. It would make reading it not such a pain. Why are you on a Date with a girl that is not your type ?	/r/seduction	03/01/17 01:05 PM
2	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? Good for you mate. Messing up is how we learn. Trust me if you are anxious like this when you fuck up your relationships it's not going to be better when you actually hook that dream girl of yours. I am in a open, yet stable, relationship with a gorgeous girl that hits all the markers on my list. The Sex is fucking amazing. I am still a fucking wreck sometimes. Getting needlessly jealous, unable to sleep, inabilty to concentrate, the whole shebang. The only way to beat this shit is to rise above…	/r/seduction	02/01/17 08:16 PM
–	is there anyone who is unsuccessful? First of all, today roughly 20% of the guys fuck 80% of the girls. To get good with women you just have to get ahead of the curve. Think about your situation and then how you can actually get ahead, then do that. Sidenote, that's how you actually develop a happy life, just by trying to become better for women. When you somewhat achieve that you suddenly feel the need for validation from random women subside all by itself. That's when the magic happens and you will be pulling left and right. Seco…	/r/seduction	02/01/17 08:09 PM
3	Should I Continue Reading The Mystery Method? Mystery Method is solid for outer game fundamentals, you just can't take the a1-c3 or whatever it is these days for gospel. There is a common structure to all first interactions and you should know about it but the Mystery Method alone is seriously lacking in depth in all areas. You have to combine "real" game with the structure, which worked really well for me in the beginning. It's pretty easy to move on from there once you get enough experience.	/r/seduction	02/01/17 10:26 AM
1	Girl probably thinks hooking up will go bad... how do I make sure it's amazing? Who gives a shit if you blow her mind away. It's New Years, just have a good time for yourself. If you put her enjoyment of the situation above yours it will be awkward and then even your "hookup skills" won't save you. During the "hookup" that kind of goes out the window, that's where you do focus on her enjoyment. However you still are the Boss. That means you make the timing, you make the decisions. Be Dominant! Stop from time to time and tease her. Almost kiss her, so she can feel your breat…	/r/seduction	31/12/16 02:46 PM
–	Been a PUA for years. Done it all. Now I got jawline surgery and suddenly girls are much more receptive. I feel like my game has improved a lot Yeah, no. You went from maybe a 4 to a solid 8 judging from your pictures. Of course looks matter, ALOT! It is just that in our current society even if you actually are good looking, it is possible to get your self-esteem crushed until you actually believe you are ugly. There is just no other explanation for how the world treats you sometimes except that the world actually is this fucked up. And it is. That's why saying looks don't matter is still solid advice for newbies, since most guys percep…	/r/seduction	29/12/16 05:51 PM
–	How do I flirt as a shy guy? Stop being shy! I speak from experience, it is easier than it sounds. You are only shy if you are not comfortable, so get fucking comfortable. You have to do it more often, almost up until the point you get bored. I also don't get how you get good leads without flirting, you must be really good looking. When I don't "game it up" while approaching and just talk about some dull shit I get flakes 9/10 times.	/r/seduction	28/09/16 09:35 AM
–	A quick tip on making a move on a girl you already know for the first time... from the girl it worked on (21F). First of all, thank you for taking the time to write all of this. It's interesting to see the process through the eyes of the "other" side. That being said, this dude is taking forever. 8 Months? If you have not lost 150 lbs in those 8 months I am willing to bet that he wanted to "get together" with you since the day you moved in. I don't want to mess anything up here, but common "Seduction" wisdom is that if you wait too long to make your move you get friendzoned. What are your thoughts on that…	/r/seduction	28/09/16 09:18 AM
–	**Help, should I let go? I don't know, the only experience with asian women I have involves exchange students and from that subset the ones that go partying. Like I said, if you enjoy spending time with her even without the possibility of sex just keep seeing her but keep escalating. Don't be pushy or grope her but use stupid shit to touch her. Last night I was explaining to some girl how to get to the best Burger Joint in Town and I drew the directions with my index finger on her hand while holding it, instead of drawi…	/r/seduction	25/09/16 03:32 PM
2	Sit down next to her or sit down across from her? Kino IS Seduction. The talking and the silly games and the playful banter is just there to give you a chance to start touching.	/r/seduction	25/09/16 02:43 PM
–	**Help, should I let go? I would drop her. She does not hug you? Where I am from that's a pretty clear sign that she either is insanely neurotic(childhood trauma or sth.) or she's just using you for that free food. Where do you live? I skipped over the no hugging part, that changes the situation. I'll still leave this up. (Is she cool enough to hang out with as a friend? If yes, just be friends with her but keep the sexual banter going. Sometimes beeing unfazed by her shit turns her around even after you have given up. …	/r/seduction	25/09/16 02:34 PM
–	Don't let this take over your life I feel like I have to make pickup my number one priority to get that shit handled once and for all. Of course I focus on my studies too and I am active in various clubs, do sports etc. but getting good at seduction/being social, that's where I engineer the rest of my life around at the moment.	/r/seduction	25/09/16 02:25 PM
4	When girl you recently interested in ask you to do her a favor ( something in your capability) First of all girls play helpless sometimes with guys they want to bone. That's not important though. Don't ask questions like that, without details, how can we help you. Would you do the same favor for a male friend? If yes do it. It's that easy.	/r/seduction	18/09/16 05:33 AM
1	I think i had my first IOI today! did you get punched in the face or get kicked in the nuts in broad daylight? Stop scaring him, that does not happen. Drunk people, clubgame, sure you gotta watch yourself a little more but during the day? come on.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 05:16 PM
1	I think i had my first IOI today! Yeah you should have. Always go for the close. Also IOI's don't matter, get comfortable with getting shot down on your close attempt and it will not matter. If you did good before the close will work, if not then it wont. Who gives a damn if she gave IOI's you are going for the close anyway.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 05:14 PM
–	Meghann Foye has never had a kid, but believes childless women are entitled to a "meternity" leave of their own to reflect on their lives. I do not know how the numbers are in the US, but in Germany we get it stuffed down our throats every other day that there's not enough children born per female citizen. So society has a stake in people going to pound town and not using a wrapper, without thinking about how this might affect their careers. Also honestly, half a year is a goddamn joke compared to the 40 or so you are working regularily. Sure, you are going to have to find your groove again after you start working again, but there …	/r/MensRights	03/05/16 12:21 AM
–	Dad get beaten hard by his ex-MMA fighter girlfriend over having a friend over too late. She then blamed him and filed for emergency custody. And this would change the situation how?	/r/MensRights	01/05/16 09:55 AM
1	Black student who attacked white student for his dreadlocks is under investigation yeah I would not count on left terrorists being "too dumb" to carry out an attack. Just look at what the (Red Ribbon Army)[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_Army_Faction] pulled of in the 70's. Most of them were left college Kids when they started and I would argue that they did some serious damage, both physically and mentally to Germany.	/r/MensRights	31/03/16 12:09 PM
7	My son is 12 - how can he be a rapist? Nightmare ordeal of boy's 'sleepover sex' In this time he was asked to give a semen sample, a DNA sample, had his fingerprints taken and had pubic hair collected. Does a Police Officer watching a 12year old jack off not constitute some sort of child abuse?	/r/MensRights	28/03/16 09:44 PM
–	I am a slave I get that the doctors should give a very clear picture of the risks and effects of the procedure to the patient and make sure there is no doubt if it is not medically needed to operate right then. I guess its like renovating a house, if your first contractor cannot do it the way you want to go to another one.	/r/MensRights	18/03/16 10:08 AM
–	I am a slave Is being refused a vasectomy a thing in the US ?	/r/MensRights	18/03/16 09:57 AM
1	Is marriage slavery? Comparing marriage and it's fucked up implmentation in the US to slavery is definatly over the top. However pretending that a 20-year old kid is at fault for the legal system fucking him over a decade later, after events that are ultimatly not even close to foreseeable(with the notion that marriage is for live "till death do us part" and whatnot) and would void any comparable business "contract" is pretty insolent.	/r/MensRights	01/03/16 10:08 PM
1	She Was Asked to Switch Seats. Now She’s Charging El Al With Sexism. (NYT upset when a woman is forced to switch seats. Men regularly forced to do this on many airlines.) Both instances boil down to : I have a problem with your gender, therefore you can not do things in a public space I do not approve of. That outrageous entitlement and the nerve of people that behave that way is just plain ridiculous and should not be indulged in any way. Everybody is free to believe what ever they want, but if it is used to diminish the freedom of other people that freedom of believe has reached its limit. I am very sorry if that was not clear from my argumentation, again Engli…	/r/MensRights	01/03/16 01:22 AM
2	Germany: 17-year old man/boy grievously injured by 18-year old woman for sexually underperforming. It's all well and good up until the last paragraph (Aside from the fact that assaulting anyone is just a sign that you are fucked up in the head) German "Von nun an sollte der junge Mann vielleicht etwas länger darüber nachdenken, wen er mit nach Hause nimmt oder sich beim nächsten Mal einfach ein bisschen mehr anstrengen." Englisch : " From now on the young man should think longer about who to bring home or make more of an EFFORT next time" That's just fucked up beyond relief. Victim blaming at…	/r/MensRights	01/03/16 12:06 AM
1	She Was Asked to Switch Seats. Now She’s Charging El Al With Sexism. (NYT upset when a woman is forced to switch seats. Men regularly forced to do this on many airlines.) I got my "Authority" from the Easter Bunny, like everyone else. Jokes aside, do you really not see the resemblance between the two statements ? Men are evil/dirty/bad because reasons, so they can not sit next to children. Women are evil/dirty/bad because reasons, so they can not sit next to men. The reasons in 1. being "All men are predators, i.e. have dirty dirty urges to molest children and if so can not control them, which is why placing a man next to a child will result in the molesting of t…	/r/MensRights	29/02/16 09:34 PM
1	She Was Asked to Switch Seats. Now She’s Charging El Al With Sexism. (NYT upset when a woman is forced to switch seats. Men regularly forced to do this on many airlines.) like there is a difference, it's both mostly based on makebelieve	/r/MensRights	29/02/16 07:45 PM
1	There are 4 times as many scholarships for females as there are for males. I guess it makes sense then. It is still fucked up though.	/r/MensRights	29/02/16 06:00 PM
3	There are 4 times as many scholarships for females as there are for males. You are right, it seems I kind of lost my point while looking up words ;) I know why I would Donate to my University(It is free for everyone, It is governemnt funded and despite this does really great Research in my field, which I would like to encourage to do more). But the point is I did not pay a single Dime for my education therefore it would be fair if I gave something back, later when I have the means.	/r/MensRights	29/02/16 04:52 PM
–	There are 4 times as many scholarships for females as there are for males. That's something I do not get about American Universities. You pay a fuckload of money to attend. After you are finished and through a lucky break you make a shitton of money you are still expected to donate money to them. How in the world can those Universities not "provide" for their expenses and investments in the future with the incredibly high college tuition and governement subsidies they already receive. Edit: I have stumbeled upon this on reddit : College Presidents make more than CEO's …	/r/MensRights	29/02/16 04:28 PM
–	Romania just outlawed parental alienation. It looks like sensible law making is not dead yet. Do you have any insight about the political backround that led to this law? For example, which party proposed it, how it is seen in media, was that already a talking point in the last election? Were there already Civil Rights groups lobbying for it ? etc. As it turns out it is kind of hard to find information on this in english.	/r/MensRights	28/02/16 06:16 PM
–	Feminism Tell the Truth I get where you are coming from but consider this: What is the difference between believing the "patriarchy" is the source of all evil that befalls women/men and believing that the Devil is the source of all evil? It both sounds like religious ideas to me.	/r/MensRights	26/02/16 11:59 PM
–	Australian senator calls out feminist for using the word 'mansplaining' how do you pronounce that word? Like Bong, the pipe, or with an u sound like in boomerang ?	/r/MensRights	11/02/16 09:34 PM
-1	Female privilege in action - she is free to act like this because she knows nobody will fight back. Holy shit, females getting away with less punishment is not your problem then at all. If I as a male under 25 would pull shit like that here and it was a first offense I would be free tomorrow morning, had a court date in 3h months, maybe pay up to 500 bucks and do a couple of hours of community service. Maybe 10 days in jail if I attacked a cop, as a first offender. Sure this woman was a grade A asshole but having your life ruined over shit like this, regardless of your gender seems a bit much.	/r/MensRights	21/01/16 11:57 PM
1	German Town Bars Male Asylum Seekers From Its Public Pool I do not believe that this is a Men's Rights issue or an instance of misandry. If anything this would be racism. Since the occurrences on New Years Eve there has been an influx of anti-refugee/anti-brown people sentiments in the population. And not entirely without reason. I was in Hamburg over New Years Eve and I have heard from a witness that there were groping attempts, thefts, intimidation etc. Though personally I do not think it is the right call to ban people that are supposed to get integ…	/r/MensRights	16/01/16 05:29 PM
–	How to eliminate the "gender wage gap" [repost] Like there are more women than men that get college paid for by their parents. Citation needed.	/r/MensRights	30/11/15 12:43 PM
–	Well done, feminism. Now men are afraid to help women at work. News that men are too frightful of a trip to HR to help out their female colleagues is final proof that the gender equality project has backfired, Could you elabortate on how history has shown that progressivism leads to men not doing their job in society?	/r/MensRights	02/10/15 09:02 AM
1	[FR] Dancing with a girl nearly got me a make out. Man that dancing is intense. I love it. Good find and props for implementing it.	/r/seduction	26/04/15 05:59 PM
1	The problem with false rape accusations is that rape accusations bypass the standard code of presumed innocence and standard evidence requirements. False accusers should never be able to succeed in the first place. If someone in the governement wants to imprison someone unlawfully and succeeds, the fact that the imprisoned is anonymous or not is the smallest issue the society should keep an eye out. On the other hand, if there is a known fault in the legal system and it could at least partially be corrected by anonymizing the defendant, why not.	/r/MensRights	04/07/12 06:09 PM
–	The problem with false rape accusations is that rape accusations bypass the standard code of presumed innocence and standard evidence requirements. False accusers should never be able to succeed in the first place. In germany it is forbidden to release the full name of a fellon with the only exception if there is a public interest in the case (e.g. a famous meterologist charged with alleged rape). However, this poses some serious problems: namely that it empowers the state to secretly detain people (i.e. something I really don't want since states tend to abuse that power). And as far as I know there's nobody secretly detained in germany. However with all the Patriot Act and similar things that went down in…	/r/MensRights	04/07/12 12:59 PM
–	Dear /MR: I'm a Wikipedian. I'd like to see high quality men's rights related content on Wikipedia. This is what everyone sees when they enter a wiki entry: Feminism : Wikipedia Women's Rights : Wikipedia And here's Men's Rights Nuff Said	/r/MensRights	12/06/12 01:45 PM
2	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life OK, im still learning ;)	/r/MensRights	23/03/12 12:56 PM
2	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life Watch the Date, The Blog entry was made 2010 and the N24 news report is from the 22nd march 2012	/r/MensRights	23/03/12 12:15 PM
2	EU Human Rights Court takes a step back regarding the rights of biological fathers to take care of their children As far as my experience goes things are not as bad as they are in the U.S. And in the areas where things are not good men are only slowly coming to conclusions.	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 07:37 PM
–	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life did it, i hope this one is better http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/r8sdg/eu_human_rights_court_takes_a_step_back_regarding/	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 07:34 PM
2	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life Will do in the Future	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 06:11 PM
–	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life If your name comes up in the Birth Certificate, you have to pay child support.There's also something like shared or single custody which is not tied to the payments. There are cases where the father pays full child support and still gets no visitation rights whatsoever. If your name does not show up, then by law, you are not the father of your biological children. However if the woman wants to get child support you can get a court ordered paternity test AFAIK and if it is positive you have to pa…	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 05:05 PM
–	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life You are right. I did not read this whole article since i just looked for a English Comment on this : german original ; google translate (which shows the recent development) and skimmed through it. Plus i seem to be unable to change the Title, sorry.	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 02:51 PM
2	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life You are right. I did not read this whole article since i just looked for a English Comment on this : german original ; google translate (which shows the recent development) and skimmed through it. Plus i seem to be unable to change the Title, sorry.	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 02:51 PM
2	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life Yes, that pretty much sums it up. If you want to be the legally acknowledged father you have to file papers ALONG with the mother. If she refuses you have effectively no chance in hell to be regarded as the legal parent.(see several court rulings) If you are male you are fucked, when it comes to this matter. And don't worry, after all you were right.	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 02:47 PM
–	EU Court of Human Rights rules that German fathers can not demand access to their biological Children if there's already another man present in the Mothers Life You are right. I did not read this whole article since i just looked for a English Comment on this : german original ; google translate (which shows the recent development) and skimmed through it. Plus i seem to be unable to change the Title, sorry.	/r/MensRights	22/03/12 02:25 PM
3	Fuck this mentality This came so unexpected, i actually died from laughing	/r/MensRights	01/02/12 02:56 PM
1	Fuck this mentality So Fucking True !	/r/MensRights	01/02/12 02:51 PM