shimoumura Archive

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2	The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexuality I'm a man and i believe that women lose more in sex than men. Their fertility time is limited compared to men. Uplifting women's sexuality is not a bad thing. The issue is that some women behavior is just unacceptable towards men and sometimes towards themselves. A mature man can avoid them. As for men's sexuality, i agree that it becomes quite repressing and masculinity (even fertility) in men is going down. I see that men are way more depressed than the previous generations. Relationships are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 03:10 AM
1	Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female Player I gave an example where influencers have the ability to get multiple partners, while engineers/doctors cannot, simply because the former is more present online and attractiveness starts with the physical aspect. You mentioned those who can have multiple partners are high value (influencers are.. this is modernity i don't have any issue)... but an engineer/doctor who isn't present / successsful online is not simply because he doesn't have options... He has traditional status, but women would look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 01:40 AM
1	Why Women Can't be Players and What it Means to be a Female Player Today everything is online. With this logic, the value of an influencer (100k+ follower) and no real job is way more than a doctor/engineer who builds/maintains society and has not much in appearance. We're doomed :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 01:21 AM
–	Men who envy women dont appreciate what they have I can be the example of "he does"... or I probably cannot pass women test. I believe that women are way more attracted to rich/funny/muscular people rather than tall/kind/hard-working with status. I've been raised relatively poor, but I studied and worked hard to be where I am. That's societal expectation. Women are different, but generally speaking they are ruled by their emotions especially in their fertility age - and that's why the tall/kind/hard-working dude with status is just valued for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:50 AM
–	A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive. Thank you... I feel better, probably because of making my lifestyle better, having less hormonal nuts, or both. As a man, it's not easy to talk about emotions, even with close ones... and especially with a potential partner. It's seen as weak. Based on theory and personal experience, it repulses women. So yeah, I had to do it myself... probably so many men can relate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 10:45 AM
–	A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive. This was one of my biggest challenges in my 20s. In the real world, I couldn't communicate it properly with close ones, and even professionals like therapists, since I've been raised to "sex is a taboo thing". I was in degradation.. watching porn and procrastinating. I had dates that lead to nowhere... until I reached my 30s and told myself. I'll start a self-improvement journey and I don't care anymore about sex. It is what it is. My mental and physical health have drastically improved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 08:54 AM
2	Men who envy women dont appreciate what they have Men and women have different challenges. To me, the issue in modern dating is that - I dislike to say it - many women are playing way more than men and it sounds like it's done with purpose. The (probably) fact that a minority of men - rich, very fit, funny and sometimes good looking men - can have it all (multiple partners at once), while an average tall, kind and hard-working dude with status struggles to start a family is an enormous problem. I respect what you say, but imo, what you mention …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 08:35 AM
1	Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies I think women are different. It also depends on many factors.. like age, environment/culture, type of relationship. Overall, I think you're right on not being attracted to "weak" men, but most of them are attracted to an emotional and disciplined guy. It shows he masters both masculinity and femininity, both rationality and art... He can easily make her overthink many scenarios while he continues to focus on himself. So, imo your theory is partially true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 06:58 AM