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| 4 | Men shouldn’t feel bad about women preferring“bad boys” over “good guys” because those women are not worth chasing in the first placeWell, Iv been a Catholic vanilla good girl my entire life. I never got in trouble . I was reserved and my dad was a jail administrator. He was constantly checking the profiles on every guy I dated. It was annoying as hell. My first husband was supposedly a good guy. He was educated and at the time in my early 20s, he was on paper, a good catch. Right after our daughter was born, he flipped the switch. All of his childhood trauma came out and he became abusive. He was insidious, degrading and tur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(So it’s acceptable, for a boastful comment that the husband makes enough money, that they don’t have to work shuts people up that either do have to work or choose to work.. but my defense of that comment is unacceptable. Painting women with some understanding that staying home is the only path to femininity, is blatantly wrong.. It’s snobbish and it’s boastful. It’s also not true. Since I’m in the middle socioeconomic class by income. I actually have an outstanding amount of class and the upmost… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 11:33 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(I think that there’s several sides to a story. I look at situations from many different angles. The message here is that women shouldn’t work, am I correct? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 10:48 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(I’m asking what you do when you’re home? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(Ok 👍 than we aren’t in the same framework. I work with school aged children in a school as a therapist.. Have you met many people that have gone all through home schooling and got into the workforce? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 10:44 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(I’m responding to “get with the program” .. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What to do when partner stops pursuing youThan that’s a good reason to stay home.. a baby is a lot of work and it’s fulfilling. My kiddo is in college, so I’m older than you. I found out because he left the computer screen up.. I had a feeling anyway. We are divorced, I’m remarried. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 09:57 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(He makes enough money that I don’t have to have a job.. so does mine.. That’s irrelevant.. I work because I love my career. Staying at home was not fulfilling. I can work and I can do chores. What do you do on an average day? Just curious? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 09:55 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(Get with the program or not? Let’s see.. not.. that’s why I don’t like wealthy men. That sense of entitlement and arrogance is a complete turn off. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 09:49 PM |
| -2 | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(How about I don’t have shitty behavior… and yes I do belong here. What does staying home have to do with a great husband? I don’t see the correlation.. My husband gives me to freedom to work or not work.. I choose work because I have a completely rewarding career path and I love what I do.. By no means does that make me less feminine, have a crappy husband or anything of the sort. It means he respects my wishes and wants me to be full filled. I still cook, clean, do laundry, write, art , etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 09:46 PM |
| – | What to do when partner stops pursuing youI find that a red flag. Men in general have high libidos. If you’re saying it was a change when you got married, I’d suggest couples therapy. I’m only saying this because my x husband had a porn addiction and that was a huge impact on his libido. He also went on golf outings and disturbingly was away more often than he should have been. This goes back to my not staying home feelings again. I became less interested in caring about my looks and he started calling me frumpy. He would stay up late a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 09:10 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(I certainly believe it works for some people. I haven’t met these people in the flesh, but I believe you that you enjoy it. Had you not said it shuts people up, I wouldn’t have chimed in.. I think boasting about it isn’t kind because some women actually don’t have a choice. In my case at this point, I could if I wanted to but it would come with lots of consequences. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 09:00 PM |
| – | What to do when partner stops pursuing youAt the same time, she’s staying in your home and should be respecting your marriage. I understand family and catching up, but it seems like if they are spending all the time together, you feel like a third wheel, something isn’t right. It’s a lack of respect for you .. your not a servant. As far as your relationship being sexless.. is this because of you or him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 08:56 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(I don’t know any women that stay home and enjoy it. Lol.. I don’t even know women that stay home once the kiddos are in school. I work with several women who had babies and none of them stay home exclusively.. so other than this subreddit, I don’t know these women. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 08:50 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(You said it shuts them up when you say your husband makes good enough money that you can.. I’m just replying that it doesn’t shut me up.. and definitely not for that reason because my husband makes double my salary and I still wouldn’t stay home.. lol.. The statement was as though everyone who has a husband that can support them gets this luxury.. My point is I wouldn’t take the luxury that I have because it left me feeling incomplete and without sovereignty. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 08:47 PM |
| – | What to do when partner stops pursuing youAsk your sister in law to back off then.. my x husband had a close relationship with his sister that I actually thought was disturbing. It was like too much or something. They had a cult thing going on where she would actually step into our arguments and team up against me.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 08:35 PM |
| – | What to do when partner stops pursuing youHe’s trying to get you jealous to get you to react. It’s actually very insidious. Ask your sister to back off him and see what happens. They both seem to be enjoying it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 08:32 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(It’s not that we don’t get it.. we actually have had the experience.. we just don’t like it. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(As long as you enjoy it that’s all that matters. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 08:27 PM |
| – | I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :(No, it doesn’t shut me up honestly.. In my personal experience, being at home kept me in the dark from life and I didn’t exactly have anyone to talk to, because all my friends work. I’m completely feminine and I work in a feminine field. By no means does staying home give me any sort of advantage for life. It actually restricts my sovereignty.. especially in the summer months when I’m off. I’m then on a different biorhythm as my husband. Social media information isn’t reality and I actually pref… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/23 08:26 PM |
| – | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Notice the female goes down and then goes back up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Are there really 4.5% more young men than women in the United States?Men typically kill each other off too.. in the Middle East this is predominant. There’s excess women there due to this. Plus men allowed to have 4 wives. I encourage men to take a Middle Eastern woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Are there really 4.5% more young men than women in the United States?Men went to war back in the day and women died in childbirth. Yes more boys are born than girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't actively competing for older men.I find it comical too because as a mother of a young beautiful daughter, she finds men my age disgusting and so do her girlfriends. Not once did any of my friends growing up or even people I knew were in these high age gap arrangements. It’s coming across as though they are so common. Even at my age now, I’m not interested in men even 10 years older, let alone 20 years. I still have lots of life in me that I wouldn’t want to be sitting in Dennys with an old cranky ass. Sure they hit on us all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Femininity is not valued in our societyI completely agree on every level. I’m a feminine woman.. not a SAHM or anything like that but my personality and my character is not masculine in the slightest. Every woman I know calls themselves a tomboy.. I can’t say I am at all. Your correct as a feminine woman I’m not respected. I was dumped for boyish looks and behaviors on more than one occasion. Only men that want a lady are attracted to me.. the traditional lady, is not considered attractive anymore to most men. Everything is now mascu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:03 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Sent a message! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Iv never been rejected from someone new.. only my relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Well, I empathize with your story. I actually can say my experience is extremely similar to yours.. I actually am on the spectrum too, but the ADHD side.. I work with autistic children, so I’m aware of everything your saying.. I’m not implying I know your complete experience, but your history is very closely related to mine. I think I’d prefer to pm you the correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Don’t even get me started about the grinder app.. straight guys are actually in the lead, horny enough to fuck other guys.. so yes I believe you that men have no control over their genitals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.That’s the problem.. for women we don’t want new.. it takes long enough for a guy to know how to please us.. Society shames women.. and honestly there needs to be more freaking decency. It’s becoming a white trash road to hell anymore. No one even has self respect. It’s gross. Casual sex is degrading and low class. Society is going backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.No they don’t actually. Testosterone starts dropping at that age and in women it actually increases with age. That’s why men need viagra and go to men’s clinics for testosterone injections. Yes women hit menopause but that doesn’t effect testosterone.. only progesterone and estrogen. The sex drive is linked to both testosterone and estrogen.. when women get older, estrogen drops and testosterone gets higher. That’s why older women have a higher sex drive than younger women. I don’t doubt that we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Maybe you’re age range is part of the problem too. Younger people are shallow. I believe you about tinder., it’s like a 70% men 30% women ratio.. You might want to try sites that have a higher female statistic. Women hate pump and dump sites. I think match, eharmony or ok Cupid might have more women. Tinder is notorious for just hookups. You also might try going to yoga classes.. lots of guys are afraid of yoga, so women like when guys go.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.You would think.. but honestly Iv been turned down for sex. Isn’t that interesting? I’m told I’m hot and sexy from new men or men that I’m not with, but in my own relationships, Iv been rejected. No I’d never be a sex worker.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.I want to thank you for your mature responses that are very compassionate. That’s very appreciated. Are you British? I don’t know why I have that sense. Lol.. of course that’s a huge assumption. It’s hard to find Americans that have that language vernacular. I appreciate the respect of your responses as well. I can understand why seeing someone pregnant can be a trigger.. when people were getting pregnant and I wasn’t, I was a bit triggered too. Eventually I had my daughter, but I only had one c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.I don’t think that’s true to be honest. In fact research suggests that women are just trained and shamed to not express it. We are shamed into believing it’s slutty or dirty and that we should not feel it.. just like men are shamed for crying, women are shamed for being sexual. So maybe we have a suppressed sex drive but I have honestly had a higher sex drive than all of my partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Yes yes … I agree we are all speaking from our own point of reference and we can only meet people where they are and hope that the compassion is appreciated. Yes, I was never an older man that was rejected over and over.. so yes, while I can be empathetic to what rejection feels like.. I can’t be 100% understanding of what it feels like to never be desirable.. Sure, good memories that didn’t last and then they pierce the heart like a dagger of regret and questions arise of what did I do wrong?? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.I have already been down the road your sailing.. I’m in my 40s.. and my kid is now almost an adult.. lol… How old are you if you don’t mind my asking?? Why do you believe your not attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.I’m going to say while I have compassion for those who haven’t experienced even being wanted by anyone.. With the experience Iv obtained, I’d almost rather it sometimes. If you’re not wanted for the right reasons and no one bothers to even consider the person you are, it’s almost worse than never having it. When I was in puberty with acne and considered hideous, I couldn’t say I was sadder than being a grown adult that was betrayed, over and over again. Nothing worse than one failed relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Well, let me tell you.. that theory about men with higher sex drives is true for younger guys.. but when women hit 35+ our sex drive sky rockets.. and guess what, mens sex drive actually goes down with age. Of course this is on average but that’s why there’s a whole cougar thing.. older women and younger guys actually are very sexually compatible.. not relationship compatible but sexually, absolutely.. My sex drive at 25 was not even close to what it was at 35. The sperm cells aren’t what’s invo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:40 PM |
| 0 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.I don’t disagree with what your saying and I don’t disagree that as humans we do need to feel appreciated and loved., By no means am I implying that we all have to follow the oath of celibacy until the right person comes around… but if my intentions are a relationship right from the start and my intentions are not to have casual sex.. blatantly stated on my profile page in black and white, than that means don’t bother messaging me with any other intentions than that. As a woman who have given my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.There’s no shifting the conversation.. but just getting sex isn’t enough to fill a void for those in lack. Sure it proves we are desirable to someone.. but keep in mind, guys often don’t even desire the person that they are having sex with, they just want to be desired by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:36 AM |
| 4 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Empathy sure.. but it still proves that sex without love isn’t going to fix anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:31 AM |
| – | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Right.. so sex and more sex isn’t the answer is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:30 AM |
| 10 | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.“ to be sexually wanted is to be trusted”, no that isn’t exactly true. As women we are sexually wanted all the time and by no means does trust have to be involved. As women to sexually want a man we need to trust them, yes.. but that doesn’t mean they trust us.. in fact they often believe we can’t be trusted knowing that other men want us. Having sex without love is not compartmentalized for most women. We can’t have one without the other.. Are there women who will just have casual sex? Sure.. b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Being a provider has nothing to do with it. Immaturity in the sense of creating a spoiled entitled little snot. Lots of these girls that take much older men are looking for daddy. Either daddy wasn’t there or not in the picture. They don’t really want a husband, that want a father that can give them everything they want. My husband experienced this and it literally damaged him. He married a much younger woman and she abused him emotionally.. wouldn’t give him sex and expected him to buy her what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 12:17 AM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Firstly, younger women don’t necessarily have more options. My options at 40 were double of what they were at 20. I dated in my 20s and I barely had options. In my 40s, I had 30 messages a day.. where do you get your information? Your making broad generalizations that don’t apply. The failure rate is over 90% for high age gap marriages. If anyone is going for another person based on fitness and attraction alone.. than that’s the first mistake. Fake shallow relationships don’t last. Secondly, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeI’m generation X and I think I’m the generation that your referring to.. my generation had to work. We weren’t supported by anyone, but boomer women often didn’t have to work.. Our generation x was led to believe we would be smooth sailing like our parents, but never happened. We were completely misled. That said, we are a bit annoyed.. but not at service people because we all worked our way through college. Our parents didn’t go to college. The economy took a huge leap causing us to work harder… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:48 PM |
| – | Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions.Extremely feminine.. on the inside and out.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 08:12 AM |
| – | Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions.Do you like being lied to? Why would anybody want that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:32 AM |
| – | Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions.The amount of men that use women is astronomical. In fact the less attractive are sometimes even worse because they are sometimes threatened by other men wanting the women and so they end up rejecting the women before she rejects him. In my experience, dating down was a huge mistake. I went with the whole idea that the short guy that’s uneducated, would treat me better because he has less options.. yet he was the one that had zero appreciation for me and saw me as a threat because I’m educated. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:28 AM |
| – | Most women haven't experienced loneliness, touchlessness and sexlessnes. That's the reason why they downplay this conditions.Loveless sex for a man may be validating because he thinks, “ at least someone wants me” . But for a woman it’s downright degrading, especially when he was just looking to relieve stress and doesn’t want commitment. That’s where the frustration comes from. If men were not looking to use women as stress relievers, than maybe we would be more willing to do it more often. We don’t like being lied to and used. Men simply don’t care if it’s a prostitute or a virgin.. anything will do.. sometimes even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:27 PM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.I think conflict has always occurred. In fact we are more culturally versed modernly, than we were prior to social media or internet. In fact, the combination of cultures has created new cultures entirely that encompass all that is unknown or unfamiliar. The small villages of the past were at odds with surrounding communities because of the fear of what was unfamiliar.. tribes were against tribes, etc.. It’s boiling down to different perspectives and people disagreeing just either out of habit o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 05:06 PM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.Social media has put everyone’s negativity out there and it’s all venting and ego driven. How about ways to work on ourselves and our relationships with each other. It’s simple to blame the other or refuse to look within.. how about just being good to one another and the mentality that goodness is weak, has to go.. because if goodness is weak, than why is negativity the only thing people actually focus on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftAs a woman we give a code to our girlfriends if we want to be saved.. there is such a thing as a jealous friend that wants attention and isn’t getting it.. that’s why you see attractive women in groups. Typically the jealousy sucks. Don’t guys have jealous friends too? I’m sure they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 09:57 AM |
| 1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI’m going off of the, “women that think like me” commentary that was made. My political stance is moderate. I just defend radical views and stigmas that are placed on people.. There’s no black and white to any of this.. Getting back to topic the woman above is asking for a liberal, masculine man. A good portion of men are influenced by the Republican Party.. but not all men.. some masculine men are not republicans or conservatives. Lots of men are libertarians as well. Lots of men are male femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 09:47 AM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeMaybe you’re talking about your personal experience? … but by no means does a healthy person go to sex workers. If that is the case, marital counseling would probably be a better idea. A sex worker does a better job than a wife? You do know they are getting paid to do that. That’s the whole point of why they do what they do.. they are a fantasy for people that are looking to fill a void. If your wife doesn’t care about you, than maybe you need to rethink your marriage. You don’t know how I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeThe sex workers for fucks sake, don’t care about their day, they literally are getting paid for services. That’s pathetic actually. They can’t talk into their wife so they try to simulate some fake experience to validate themselves.. and someone who’s not even an actual counselor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeIt’s a matter of who holds the greatest shares.. it actually fluctuates.. as of right now the democrats hold more facebook, Amazon, and big pharma alone.. so taxes have nothing to do with who holds more stock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 0 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeLiberal women would be far more likely to participate in out of the box sexual experiences than a conservative wife would. The liberal women would be more likely to participate in sex toys, kink, everything else that’s less inhibited.. how would you draw that conclusion? The people who hire sex workers are just getting the plain old vanilla at home with no spice.. they get bored and want variety.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeWhy would a liberal wife fail them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not Conservative??? What does being liberal have to do with wanting sex? That makes no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:52 PM |
| -1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeWho do you think are dealing in the highest stakes at the moment? The liberal party.. that said, the quintessential liberal is not the far out hippie anymore.. it’s literally the most wealthy is run by a the liberal party now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeProbably not as much as some others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI’m a woman and after being in a relationship with a misogynistic republican, that had zero value for my education and no respect for my femininity, I tend to think men that can’t show vulnerability are the biggest ego driven narcissists that walk the earth. On top of that liberal men are not spineless.. Go to the NY stock exchange for a day, liberal men going cut throat in a tailored suit.. I’m from NY city metro area, you’ll find the toughest men in the country that work on a higher pace, high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Are attractive woman generally extroverted?No.. not necessarily and don’t go by social media because even the most introverted people are extroverted on social media. It’s actually a helpful tool for introverts. They don’t have to physically talk to anyone, it’s easier to type than talk in person. It’s a way for them to express themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:37 AM |
| 0 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeWhere in the country do you live? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:31 AM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI would agree but it also depends on what part of the country she’s looking. In the northeastern part of the country particularly NY and NJ there’s plenty…also California there’s plenty of liberal men that are masculine. City men are more liberal and many are masculine. Colorado, Michigan, and anyplace that’s more progressive. Most of the southern states.. FL where I am is mixed. It honestly has to do with demographics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:30 AM |
| 0 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.It’s not who they want to marry. They are the, “ sex only women. “ not marriage material. They basically want it both ways. Most of the time feminists aren’t interested in men anyway. Secondly, there are male feminists just like female misogynists. It’s not all women that support the feminist movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menSo basically your saying attractiveness is the only thing that matters? If that’s the case, why was I dumped for unattractive women because I was told I was intimidating and I made men feel inadequate? My attractiveness has worked against me more than in my favor. Men talk about how attractiveness is the key , yet if any of them finds an actual attractive woman, most of the time, they can’t handle it. Attractiveness is like that really rich piece of cake.. it looks delicious and insatiable yet o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?Men want casual sex because they feel validated by it. Somehow it boosts self esteem. As a woman it’s downright degrading. In college it was a thing to hook up and I was actually respected because I wasn’t someone that easily put out. I always was in relationships for that reason. My body is not a vessel. Casual sex felt like knives going through me and just watching some guy get off was gross. I felt violated and used. The responses I get from guys is why is it bad to have all this pleasure? Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.There’s 2 ways that atoms attract other atoms, through likeness and through polarity. For example, men who resent women attract other men who resent women.. that’s a duality… that’s how likenesses are attracted.. this is what people do that have weakness in the polar aspect of themselves. They can’t attract a polarity that’s complementary and strong.. so they attract likeness to compensate for the lack. Strength in numbers is for the weak that can’t walk alone.. Polarity is when opposites attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:39 PM |
| -3 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.The bigger question is why there are so many losers and shitty men in general? The mansphere wouldn’t exist if men weren’t treating women like commodities and objects in the first place. The men that are in the mansphere are looking for ways to get back at women or how to use them. Never to learn how to be a better person and treat women with dignity. That’s why the mansphere is toxic.. because it’s negative all together. It’s influencing men that women basically suck and it creates resentment a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:10 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenAbsolutely right.. I think resentment is actually the better word. Women have become masculinized in America and in a lot of western countries. Capitalism is probably the root cause, yet the misogynist loves capitalism. We are forced to provide, therefore we are in the position to be competed with in the workplace where this all stems. Then add dating apps, where men are so desperate to the point where they are willing to screw any women or man for that matter, they become resentful of women in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 03:03 PM |
| – | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?That’s usually the case.. they are in the mode to take because they are in a crisis. They are in fight or flight. It’s like refugees. They are in a mode of fear that is like a primal urge to attack or pass their seed. They are reverting back to primitive behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.That’s disturbing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:56 PM |
| -1 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.That’s because they are the ones that get raped and violated. They are looking for compassion and to relive the event so that they can face the fear of it happening again.. Sometimes people want to relive it in order to heal from it.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:05 PM |
| 4 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?Because most women can’t compartmentalize love and sex. We see it as both or neither. We put up boundaries because we were lied to and told we were loved, when it was lust only. Because this is incredibly painful and it’s evident when someone doesn’t actually love us. The only way to be sure it’s love is to not give it away to just anyone that wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young menIt’s not to shame it in the slightest. It’s to actually honor it. I see this opposite. Giving it away to whomever, invokes betrayal and cheating. Those 2 factors are the problem, not the sexuality itself. There’s nothing wrong or shameful about it. It just shouldn’t be shared with anyone or as many as possible. If it’s just sex and not true love, it doesn’t bring out anything other than a lack of self respect and lack of self worth in everyone. I can’t compartmentalize sex as though love is some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:46 AM |
| 6 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsRight, my last x who was obsessed with misogyny dumped me for a trad wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:56 AM |
| – | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsI was never a trad wife.. nor was I e ever in the position to be, so that topic for me is irrelevant. I never had a sole provider and never had enough money that I could be. The wealthy older guys that go for young women want them that way for control and power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".Men that successfully date younger women have lots to offer and the younger women that want older men and I’m talking like a 15+ age gap. In actuality, very attractive classy women are more likely to date within their age range. Iv seen several high age gap marriages, mostly they fail, but it’s usually women that come from low socioeconomic backgrounds that choose much older men. The men choose them because of attractiveness and the fact they are in fact easy to control. Lots of cases they are b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:12 AM |
| 2 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?You’ve never heard of a male order bride? It happens all the time. Wealthy men will pay for women that come from poverty countries. China, North Korea, Middle East, Russia Etc etc etc You can’t be serious that you aren’t aware of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:31 AM |
| 3 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?Ordering women from out of the country is trafficking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?Not just that but they are after the money.. it’s a shallow relationship.. the men are looking for a trophy and the women are looking for material. It lacks everything else. On top of that the divorce rate is 90% I have older men after me all the time, it’s repulsive to be honest.. most attractive women feel that way. You’ll see those old guys with white trash half the time or they order them from overseas which is human trafficking… it’s disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:47 AM |
| 3 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?Not all men want younger women so that’s blatantly not true. My husband was married to a much younger woman and stated it was the biggest mistake of his life. He and I are the same age. He’d never go younger again. I wouldn’t take an older if my life depended on it and most women wouldn’t. I’m not swayed by money either. So basically for the vast majority that relationship dynamic doesn’t work. Not just because it’s the highest divorce rate but most younger women don’t want old men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Both men and women would be happier if they quit using dating apps.This may be true for some situations or people but for most people they aren’t going to meet anyone by chance especially because dating apps exist and less people approach now in public because of that. We now can weed out the people we don’t want to waste time with and go directly to who we have more compatibility with. If you meet someone in a bar or random, you are taking a chance because you can’t look up profiles or FaceTime to get to know them in advance. Random strangers out somewhere are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?Absolutely, this is a child speaking above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | What are you going to do when your partner ages?Do you not understand that we don’t feel that way after we are 40. We still find each other attractive. We generally aren’t attracted to people in their 20s when we are in our 40s. High age gap relationships are not that common and they generally don’t last. It’s rare if they do. We date in our age range even in our 40s. We are perfectly fine doing so. Your thinking like a young person trying to perceive yourself with an old person. Men age the same way women do. In fact women generally take bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:15 PM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingI certainly didn’t pick the term beta male… it’s just truth. You guys talk about the top 5% all the time.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:49 AM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingI don’t complain about that. I have zero expectations from men that have no capacity to love. I don’t have casual sex, so it’s pretty easy to figure out who isn’t worth my time. Women that allow themselves to be used because they are either young, unaware or just desperate run into those issues. That’s why it’s important for women to be independent, so they don’t have to be subjected to losers that have no respect for themselves or others. They are the ruination of this society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:48 AM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingThere you go! But remember low taxes means bad education for children and unsafe conditions for everyone, because the mentally ill don’t get support and the children are not properly educated. But it’s great for retired people that just want to spurge and have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:27 AM |
| 6 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingYou have it in your head that women are stupid. We have ways of seeing things that men don’t even have the chromosomal capacity to see. Don’t forget we evolved to breed and protect young. Our vetting process is internally built, hence the reason we are as selective as we are naturally. Why pretend to be something your not anyway? If your misogynistic than own it. Besides there’s plenty of female misogynists out there too.. There’s females that would team up with you and your other ( femininity h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:23 PM |
| 4 | From 2007-2017, the percent of young women that have casual sex declined from 31% to 22%. For young men, it declined from 38% to 24%That’s a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipI can’t just have sex with people that I don’t love or doesn’t love me.. it feels mechanical and I feel used for someone else’s pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipIt’s bad because men just think that women are easy. It doesn’t gain them respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 05:41 PM |
| 0 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipThey are going on dating apps and looking to go directly for sex without any courtship. That’s why it’s now considered “ to much work “ to actually use courtship strategies. They now resent what people have done since the beginning of time. Now our technology movement eliminated the barriers to dating however in some cases, the barriers aren’t necessarily a bad thing because we can meet our spouses that way too. It’s just how people are using it. I feel like immaturity has a lot to do with this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:12 AM |
| -1 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?My brother had women chasing him and he had far less struggles dating than I did. My problem wasn’t that I didn’t attract attention.. I too attracted attention.. but the attention for an attractive girl and woman is much less safe. Plus boys would start fights in my front yard because someone liked me and the other one punched in a mailbox. I was batting flies my entire life.. and as an adult woman also.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsI majored in biology, I know this.. We don’t have this within humanity. We are all now homosapian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsThere is genetic diversity within humanity.. we have different races and differences ethnic groups. Your talking about different species, that’s not what I’m saying at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 02:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Dating is atrocious for women too. What you guys don’t understand is if you come at women from the approach of wanting them as a person instead of a sex object, you’ll get better results. We have options but most options are just out for one thing.. so that’s not really options as far as we are concerned. The amount of men that are actually looking for commitment is about the same as your options to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manI would say as a woman that depends on the man. There’s men that are extremely skilled at it and some that aren’t. It also depends on the connection and chemistry between the 2 people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsActually I didn’t know Ewan MacGregor is hot actually. He died his hair brown, I had no idea he was a ginger.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsSo are you advocating for the fact that only certain men are mating or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectshttps://www.amacad.org/publication/unequal-nature-geneticists-perspective-human-differences https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2600806/ Basically genetically we are 99.9% the same. I’m not sure why you’re trying to argue my stance on natural selection.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsAccording to studies, ginger men are the least desirable of Caucasian population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | If current hypergamy continues, there will be huge genetic bottlenecks and eventually endemic defectsOur population is far too large overall, for this issue to be concerned about. In the past, this was an issue, but we have overcome it because we have as much diversity as we do. People in America are mixing races completely. That’s why we are all so genetically mixed. If you look at the populations that are not genetically mixing such as the Amish, Hasidic Judaism, parts of Islam, they are dying off with genetic mutations that are causing disease. This is a very small percentage of the populati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexIs there really that many men with zero options? Is it really that pathetic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Polygyny is unlikely to be a reasonable solution for women in the futureThat’s why I’m against casual sex encounters. It’s nothing I would ever do. If someone isn’t serious with being committed to me, than we aren’t having sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Polygyny is unlikely to be a reasonable solution for women in the futureThere’s a difference between polygamy and polyamory. In polygamy there’s one man and several wives. I’m polyamory there’s equal amount of women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?Yes, I’d be afraid of him leaving me for a man romantically. If he can romantically be involved with a man, that crosses him over to the gay community and then him seeing a woman romantically may diminish. Im not saying I’d be pleased with either one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Polygyny is unlikely to be a reasonable solution for women in the futureThat’s never going to happen because we’d rather be alone than share someone. I’d be damned to share some narcissistic douchbag with others. I have more self respect than that. Those types of things happen in the Middle East. Not in sophisticated societies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:19 PM |
| -1 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexThat’s beyond disturbing. If someone is of such low self worth that they would engage with a machine in place of a human being, than we might as well say goodbye to humanity. That fact that’s even a title that they are unlikely to replace biological women, is the proof of how pathetic humanity has become. They are fake.. they are technology.. they are fantasy.. how could they EVER replace an actual human being? How could that EVER be entertained as an idea? The sex robot isn’t going to love anyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Do women really care that much if a guy has done gay stuff or swings both ways?I don’t care as long as he’s not justifying it being ok to cheat because it’s a guy. Thing is, guys can have sex with each other completely passionless and lacking Intimacy. If he’s bi romantic, he can make love to another guy. That’s where I’d draw the line honestly. If he told me he had sex with guys as an easy get off because he didn’t want to put work into casual with a woman.. I sort of understand. If he’s actually able to make love with a man in the same way he makes love to a woman, I’d b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Women want more sex while in relationships and men want more sex when not in relationshipsPeople want what they don’t have. I don’t think this is true at all about relationships though. I think women are just as likely to not want sex as men. In fact, I hear guys complain all the time that their wives don’t want it. The person’s libido has the most to do with it. I think it’s also true that guys are ridiculous when they are single because it’s hard for them to get it, so they tend to want it more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?The problem was that they couldn’t be friends with me without sex. That’s the part that passed me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Not only is jealousy a normal healthy part of dating; but mate-guarding is seen as attractiveI agree I prefer to see they are a little jealous. Just like they like seeing me a little jealous too. It is a sign of care. At the same time, too much jealousy where it get to the point of obsession and accusations made, can be annoying too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 11:18 AM |
| 3 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.I’m married so I’m no longer in this situation.. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.All I’m saying is that if there’s no chemistry, then there’s really no way to know if you can be with someone. I’m not saying to rush into sex, I’m saying sometimes sex determines whether or not you can be with someone. Compatibility is the most important. Chemistry is second to that and both must exist in order to be with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 09:42 AM |
| 5 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.I agree. I don’t like casual sex. I don’t understand the point of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 11:40 PM |
| 3 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.Yes… that’s how I always wondered how marriages sustain that were picked by the parents. Some Hindu cultures practice this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Relationships are for losersIn general, women come at it from a completely different perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:43 PM |
| 5 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.Sort of I guess.. There’s 2 factors that matter.. chemistry and compatibility.. in order for a LTR to sustain, both must exist. We can have great chemistry with someone but without compatibility, the relationship won’t work. We can have great compatibility but with no chemistry, the connection might not be quite right. Compatibility is actually more important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 20 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.I disagree. Sometimes the sex is the determination of whether or not I would be long term with someone. If there’s no chemistry than it can’t work. No, definitely not the most important thing but certainly important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?No, I don’t have sex with people who aren’t committed to me in a relationship. Secondly, I wasn’t attracted to them in a sexual way. I just wanted to be friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:26 PM |
| -1 | Relationships are for losersWhat else can I give examples about but myself..? You gave examples about your self and experience too… why did your one x only want once a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Relationships are for losersYes it’s a fact that my libido is outstanding with someone I have chemistry with and terrible with someone I don’t. I have a high libido for a woman but my partner at hand contributes to it immensely. For example, my x was just about getting himself off and could care less if I was pleasured. He then wondered why I wasn’t getting aroused. My husband is all about my pleasure and less about his own. My libido is off the chain. There’s many factors involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveI’m going to disagree with this. I dated down in my past because of my low self esteem that was invoked upon me by the previous man with low self worth. I avoided attractive men because of their high number count capacity. I wanted someone that couldn’t find someone else as easily. Well it backfired in my face. The man with low self worth is far more likely to cheat than the man that’s self assured. Cheating comes from a need to be validated. My husband now who’s my second husband is absolutely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Relationships are for losersI’m an actual woman and I’m speaking on behalf of my gender.. it’s 100% true.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Relationships are for losersIf your relationship has unequal sexual drive, than it’s that particular relationship, not all relationships in general. It has to do with the chemistry between the 2 people. Also, whether or not there’s resentment towards each other. If the sex is bad with one person doesn’t mean it’s just bad with everyone in every long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Relationships are for losersYa and 90% of those women had low self esteem and eventually regret it terribly. Even men end up hating themselves for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are for losersOver 40 here.. I dated more in my 40s than I dated in my 20s before I was married to my first husband. I met my 2nd husband in my 40s. Dating in my 40s was actually far better. People come at each other from a different angle and it’s an angle of wisdom and experience. We have the knowledge and strength from our struggled past and we can put together a better foundation because of it. People get divorced in their 40s because they realize the foundation of their first marriage was never really es… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Relationships are for losersAmen to that! The women that casually put out for free on a regular, aren’t the catch! The women that value themselves enough to be respected are the actual gem. The guys that want low body count yet they want casual, are contradicting themselves. There’s no such thing as both. Low body count women don’t have casual sex.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Relationships are for losersThe irony of this is, the men that won’t commit believing that they have this advantage because they get high numbers of sex partners, are getting the absolute worst quality women that exist.. While the “ losers “ you say that’s in a relationship, are getting the low number count, self respect, and might I add CLEAN women. The loser gets the catch.. I’m sorry to break your bubble. That said, you get what you pay for… lots of free shit, creates a hoard of useless space. The items that we save of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Back in high school, I had a girlfriend that had a ton of guy friends. They all just accepted her as a friend and never really hit on her. I would hang out here and there they would hit on me and then when I rejected them they didn’t want to be friends anymore. They would tell my friend not to invite me to hang out because they were embarrassed about being rejected. It sucks because I did not make any effort to lead them on or give an indication that I wanted them to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?No your perfectly fine.. I usually write a lot too. Lol I agree with you on all accounts.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Lmao 🤣 honestly it’s pathetic. It’s so important to them to be validated and sex seems to be the only thing that they feel validated by. Half the time it’s not that they want all these women.. they just want women to want them. They say women are jealous of each other. I couldn’t disagree more. I see a bunch of whining men that are jealous of Chad ( whomever he is ) and jealous of women for getting sex when we want it. It’s never about the people we are or our character but how we can make them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?May I ask, are you a man or woman? Also, may I ask where your experience is coming from? Are you a tomboy or a man that likes tomboys? Lol No one asked me to change, but it’s being argued that men prefer tomboys.. that men can be friends with tomboys, but not with feminine woman.. I find it disturbing that just because I’m feminine, men can’t relate to me on a personal level. It needs to be that the woman has to join quintessential male activity in order for men to want to be friends. I find it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 0 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?They are less likely too.. that’s all I’m saying. My opinions here are based on my experience… I’m not going to change who I am.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?I hear ya girl… good for you that your good at sports. I’m like yoga or belly dancing but nothing competitive.. I guess that’s where I can’t be a sports person because I lack that edge. lol.. I get along with women as friends better than men. I relate better with women because my dad didn’t spend time with me growing up. He elevated my brother and said, I needed to go help my mother. I was raised with very defined gender roles. My father wouldn’t let me hang out with boys either so that definite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?If a tomboy acts like a dude, he’s looking at her like a buddy. There’s a huge difference between a woman that might have some sports interests and a woman that is straight up manly.. Generally straight guys that are more alpha are looking for a feminine woman.. masculinity is attracted to femininity.. if it’s a masculine woman that can’t be alluring, sexy or sensual, most masculine men don’t want that. That was my point.. straight guys are attracted to me. I’m not a tomboy but I do yoga and bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Your feminine side is stronger than your tomboy side. In otherwords, you might be athletic or knowledgeable about sports but you express more femininity than you do masculinity. It’s completely a spectrum. Ya it’s disappointing because they can’t get their minds off of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:15 AM |
| 4 | People should dress modestly in publicIt’s not the responsibility of the women to appeal to everyone around them. If I’m comfortable in what I wear, than I’m not entitled to explain myself to others or placate the egos of others. If a man doesn’t have enough self control to prevent himself from acting inappropriately around women’s clothing, than he has a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Sorry I’m corrected.. younger men might not have a potentially larger penis but because they can sustain an erection, it stays larger longer. Those situations with the occasional stronger older man is not of the normal.. And young women don’t want old men.. even the rich ones. They are using them for money. They aren’t attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Most older men already have kids and don’t seek out more opportunities willingly. Older men want younger women for ego boost and validation. Despite the ability to sire sperm until death, they lose their capacity to win the mate biologically. Nature designed younger men to have higher sperm count and more muscle mass pushing the old man out the back door, lol. The female is picking the fittest male. She naturally, whether he has money or not, is far more likely to pick the younger, stronger and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 10:07 PM |
| – | Just realized women today only want guys paid salararies, and not guys paid hourly wages.Do you understand what apathy looks like collectively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:52 PM |
| 13 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?In my experience as a woman. I haven’t been able to be friends with heterosexual men very often. I would have loved to, but they usually ruin the friendship. It’s so disappointing too. They lead me to believe that they want to be friends.. I have believed them. I then start to let loose a bit more, start to let my guard down and it never fails.. bam 💥, they try to have sex. I then am appalled because I know once that line is crossed the friendship is over and so I almost pretend not to notice th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:49 PM |
| – | Just realized women today only want guys paid salararies, and not guys paid hourly wages.Communism produces an apathetic culture. When people lose incentive, they lose drive and they lose the sense of purpose.. Spend some time in a communist country for a bit and see if you still support it. It’s absolutely terrible. No luxury, no sense of accomplishment and pure apathy… People leave communist countries and move to America. People don’t leave America for China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyMen are sexless because they won’t commit. Women will be far more likely to have sex with a man that’s willing to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:25 AM |
| – | Both genders would do better in the dating market if women did not insist on marriage and weddings so muchIv been a provider for most of my adult life. I don’t need a man’s assets. I have a career. I have made better money than most of the men Iv been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:23 AM |
| – | Both genders would do better in the dating market if women did not insist on marriage and weddings so muchI’m not debating that people can have a devoted commitment without the actual marriage. I can just speak from my own experience. I was in a relationship with someone that said this exact thing and said being married wasn’t necessary for him to be committed. Our relationship was going fine until he flipped the switch.. He had all his ducks in a row, he just planned his escape and in one quick turn he abandoned me in a horrible situation. He had no reason to.. he was treated well and cared for, nu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Both genders would do better in the dating market if women did not insist on marriage and weddings so muchMarriage may just be a piece of paper, but it also shows your level of devotion. If you love her, you’ll respect her wishes and what’s important to her. Otherwise, you said it first on your list “ sex “ . There’s a difference between having sex and making love in complete surrender. If your unable or willing to participate in the mutual surrender, than your simply not ready for marriage and what it actually means. Marriage ties the bond between 2 people. It’s a mutual trust held accountable. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Just realized women today only want guys paid salararies, and not guys paid hourly wages.I’m curious about what you meant when you said entitled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Just realized women today only want guys paid salararies, and not guys paid hourly wages.If it’s a professional job, both men and women have the same exact necessities to qualify. If it’s a job that requires physical strength, than the women has to be able to perform the job tasks set by the standard that the company has preset. If she can’t do it, as for examples, some construction work, some other labor types that may be difficult for her to keep up with, etc. Iv seen women do a great job at construction in many cases. I knew a woman that was a fantastic iron worker.. she got lots… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Just realized women today only want guys paid salararies, and not guys paid hourly wages.Why is it such a problem to have women in your field? Is it a very masculine job that a woman can’t do? In my field, which is healthcare therapy, is completely non gender bias. It was predominantly female dominated, except that changed within the last decade. We have to be able to lift a 50lb sack from the floor onto a mat to simulate a patient transfer.. anyone that can’t do it, can’t perform the job qualifications.. that said, women are far more likely to fail the practical… yet, we don’t comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | The drug problem broken down: the reason people use drugs is that life is miserable. Life is miserable because men are supposed to have meaningful work, a wife, and children to take care of. They are supposed to be surrounded by beauty.Maybe a controlled drug situation can be the difference of someone’s functionality vs total dysfunction. It’s kind of judgmental to say that everyone on a drug is an addict. Maybe people on the particular drug absolutely need it in order to do their job, parent their children, etc etc .. It should be worded “ abuse of drugs “ where the drug itself is debilitating. If the particular drug is given controlled or in moderation, it can be completely life saving.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 10:24 PM |
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