shinebrightmister Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is there beauty in the struggle? I'm one of those "enjoy the process" guys and I've been working to erase that shit from my psyche. None of the process should feel like a process. It should feel like breathing. Do you have to enjoy breathing? Guys are out there talking to women, marketing themselves, getting lean and jacked, looking styled and edged the fuck out, and going out with girls every day with no need to talk about it or cope about how much they enjoy it in any way. The more you need to enjoy the process, the more over…	/r/seduction	09/08/26 04:28 PM
2	What to do when everyone around me is getting action but not me Bro...you're fat by womens' standards in this dating market. Check my profile. I'm like 15% BF and still aiming for 10%. Even at 15% BF, I had a girl the other night keep calling me hot and rubbing her pussy on me and feeling my abs. I had to kick her out because it was annoying. It gets weird bro. Ignore all the fat game-obsessed losers or antisocial gym guys. A super lean guy who markets himself will slay. I'll give you a direct example. Last summer I was at your body fat. I slept with 9 girls…	/r/seduction	09/08/26 04:18 PM
1	Tall black dude struggling with dating anxiety, rejection sensitivity, and feeling behind. How do I rebuild? It took me 30 lays to finally see myself as a hot attractive guy. You need more experience also.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:54 PM
2	Tall black dude struggling with dating anxiety, rejection sensitivity, and feeling behind. How do I rebuild? You need to start off with a wing and then spam approach and always go for the number. If it was easy, everyone would do it.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:53 PM
1	Is there beauty in the struggle? There is no beauty in the struggle. We call that cope. The less you struggle on the way to your goals, the better. I've noticed most of the guys who kept talking about hard work and effort would typically do the least compared to guys who said nothing but did all the work and more. In fact, even in dating, the goal is to make your results seem effortless and seek the least validation for them. That's what differentiates a cool person from a tryhard.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:50 PM
1	Why are women attracted to jason statham even though he’s bald? The same reason why amber rose is still considered hot despite being bald. Not having hair doesn't suddenly negate being hot. It just nerfs your level of hotness.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:46 PM
1	Tall black dude struggling with dating anxiety, rejection sensitivity, and feeling behind. How do I rebuild? Night life is hell mode bro. My friend has 100+ lays and still hates night game and sucks at it. I'm at 30+ and don't have a single lay from night game specifically, unless you count going out on a first date near the club, going to the club, then pulling. I would start with day game and dating apps first. Dating apps = training wheels Day game = basic bike Night game = motorcycle parkour	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:44 PM
1	Ego and laziness??? Waitress is serving you bro. Its in her best interest to act like that for a tip. Just use apps and do CA and dont overthink this shit.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:41 PM
4	What to do when everyone around me is getting action but not me Do everything you can to make yourself as hot as possible. Keep gyming. Style max. Look edgier. Fix your hairline and hairstyle. Get lean af. Dating as a below average looking guy is hell mode. The guys who do the best without being the hottest at least look average and use status to gain an edge. Having elite level game is also unrealistic for most guys. Highest ROI is getting hot.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:39 PM
1	Do I need to go to the gym? Are you KIDDING me!? The gym 3x my matches and 2x my quality of girls both looks and personality wise. Hotter girls and greater volume of matches. Also better cold approach reception when dressed in a tank top or nice fitting shirt. Any guy who says gym doesn't work either sucks at taking pictures, isn't actually jacked, or is literally brain dead or straight up malicious in sabotaging the competition.	/r/seduction	09/08/26 01:34 PM
1	Looking for a social wingman (Montreal) I'm not in MTL. Can't expose too much stuff to mention where I really live either. Festivals have hotter girls. Usually in groups but some walk off. I approach anywhere with good foot traffic though.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:59 AM
1	Looking for a social wingman (Montreal) I mean depends on your autism level lmao but I agree. I've found me and my friends do more approaches without wings unless it's a motivation thing.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:39 AM
1	Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M. No. The whole IOI shit is lame. Like yes obv a girl smiling with eye contact is going to be more down but approach who you want. Last week I got a cold approach lay from a girl with the most intimidating resting bitch face ever.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:36 AM
1	Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M. I mean if it gives them hope to take action thats what matters. It's literally increase SMV, run volume, gain experience and keep going and address blockers preventing that loop.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:34 AM
1	Howand what to do to find Game during the day Avoiding being a creep makes you act creepy. Own it.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:31 AM
2	If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for it Agreed. Had friends with similar experiences. Doesn't happen often but not good to function on extreme rules.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:28 AM
2	Looking for a social wingman (Montreal) Most wingmans will harm you if you don't have AA. Better off going solo.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 08:25 AM