shinsekie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Are female virgins past 23 typically very desirable? Exactly!! I'm in my late 20s and waiting for marriage. Men my age and older get turned off, because it's not a positive quality to them. (TBH it was never a plus when I was younger either) Like, I'd think some men (purely based on personal dating experiences) would be okay with it (virginity) as long as they had access to my body...but because I'm not willing to engage in any type of sexual behavior before marriage I am 100% undesirable. Regardless, I'd rather continue living the way I am than t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 10:35 PM
42	If women don't go for the same top % of men, how did "Are We Dating the Same Guy" become a national thing? Same! It gets pretty wild sometimes 😬. & tbh I'm honestly shocked by the type of men that get posted on there. They are definitely not in the top % of men as OP believes they are (well, at least in my city). They are definitely average at most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 05:25 PM
20	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Can confirm. My dad, uncles, and friends' fathers are all like this :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 01:49 PM
2	Alpha-Bux, the male unicorn, myth or rare? 133???!!! Oh man, your relatives must have been really lucky to have found someone to be with!! I'm very happy for them, but now there's more than a 100 struggling individuals. I guess both of our families have similar upbringings 😅 poor us lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 03:57 AM
0	Alpha-Bux, the male unicorn, myth or rare? They definitely exist, but are just super rare. My dad was one & he met one unicorn (my mom) & then they had 4 little unicorns. Those 4 are now struggling to find their pair 😅🤣. I think when anybody gets into a relationship with one, it was just meant to be. I truly believe my parents were a match made in heaven, because otherwise they would have remained alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 09:18 PM
1	How many “triple 6” men do you know? Same! He's a good dad & I love the relationship he has with my mom. Honestly, he sets the bar so high 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 11:28 PM
21	Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated? I've never thought about it that way, but it makes so much sense. The job comparison is spot on!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 05:49 PM
8	Q4W: how would you feel if your partner told you he’d been with a hooker? Disappointed and then I would leave, because we would have very different values about relationships & sex. My sisters and I actually play a game "He's perfect in every way but [insert undesirable trait]" and this question has never been asked by any of us lol. I think it might be, because we could never imagine ourselves being with someone who gives sex away so freely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 12:59 AM
1	Ladies which man do you prefer in this example. I’m curious lol guy 1. Night clubs have never been my thing. If a guy looks like he doesn't want to be there, then we can start a conversation about how we even got there.😅 But this question really depends on the personality and the likes or values of the woman in question. Answers are going to vary. There's no one size fits all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:36 AM
3	Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single? It depends though, because men and women are held to different standards and have different roles. Like if a woman has been taught to want a man to financially support her why would she hold herself to that same standard, if her role is to stay at home & manage the household? But I can see where you're coming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 06:41 PM
3	Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single? It sort of makes sense though. Religious women (certain denominations or communities at least) are taught that you shouldn't divorce. So the idea is to get married to the "perfect one", hence the super long list of non-negotiable "preferences".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 06:14 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman That's completely fine! There's nothing wrong with that. It's something you value. If you force yourself to be with someone who would not allow you to stay at home more, then the relationship won't last. Problems will ensue and that benefits nobody. Your upbringing is different than mine. My mother has lamented so many times that she wishes she was a stay at home mom, but has worked full-time most of her life (of course taking breaks whenever she gave birth). My father wanted 4 kids who wouldn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 07:09 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman This was posted awhile ago, but I'll add my 2 cents. On paper you're perfect. I resonated a lot with your post and comments. I understand where you're coming from as I'm coming from a very similar position as well. I only see one issue, but it's not your virginity status or age. It's that you want to fill the role of the stay-at-home-spouse. My parents were both virgins who waited for marriage. My father was not religious. They both married at 26. Now they have four children who were raised with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 03:56 AM
2	Ok women, tell me what are you looking for in a men. I date to marry. Things that I look for superficially, would first be face (on the feminine side), then body type (preferably thin), and lastly height. I have had crushes on men that were shorter than me (5'6"), but if a short man wanted kids, then I would not marry him. Regardless of gender, height is beauty. It gives you a leg up in society. I hold the strong opinion that if you decide to have children, then you should be able to provide the best for them (i.e., education, health(emotionally/p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 03:10 AM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? I see🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 09:03 PM
2	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? Like they want educated/financially stable men, but not have that themselves? What do you mean by substance? That would be so funny to see lol. Maybe it's a change in culture or community too tho. My dad never went to clubs/bars, but he had cousins who did. My uncles have stories of seeing women get into cat fights over something inane in the clubs whenever they would go. Perhaps the mesh of new views/behaviors have led to this new norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 08:52 PM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? I think what's viewed as entitlement is a mismatch of looks. In the usa, obesity and weight has become a very serious issue. It's the norm to be fat, but the standards haven't changed. Maybe when people were healthier it was okay, because they were attractive and you can ask for more. My mom says it's very difficult to have standards, be ugly, and have those standards met. So when we have very fat/ugly people asking for healthy/educated/financially stable people, it's difficult to comprehend, be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 08:25 PM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? What do you mean by "change in attitude"? Please enlighten me. All I know, based on what my parents have told me, is that both of them dated to marry, both waited for marriage and were not religious. Both of them expressed difficulties in finding someone who shared similar values & it was just by pure luck that they found each other. I would assume OLD would be the same. Just luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 07:48 PM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? tbh I don't think he would struggle lol. He was and still is very attractive. Both of my parents are very attractive people (thank god). They still get hit on whenever we go out lol 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 07:36 PM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? How so? Aren't looks, education, financial stability still very important factors in finding a spouse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 07:33 PM
2	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? lol it's so entertaining tho!😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 05:41 AM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? They're just the new brand of misogyny that has always existed. Exactly! It reminds me so much of machismo. Which is pretty much rules for thee, not for me. "Men should sleep around, but demand their gf/wife to be a virgin, modest, stay home, do the cleaning, cooking, take care of the kids and not complain about anything." Also, I've shown my dad TRP stuff and he also doesn't get it lol. He basically called them losers who can't comprehend it's a "me-problem" and/or won't accept the reality of l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 05:26 AM
2	Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist? 1) it's always been that way which perplexes my parents and friends lol. Typically younger girls find the pretty boy type attractive, but then grow out of it. However, I'm now 26 and my tastes have never changed. 2) there's a few subreddits like: r/ftm, r/transmasculine, and occasionally some masculine stuff can be found in r/nonbinary. There's also a few websites like: http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/guide/index.htm https://www.ftmpassingtips.com/passing.html http://t-vox.org/advice/trans-man-passi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 01:36 AM
8	Do women who are into “cute” or “feminine” looking guys exist? 1) Frankly, those are the only type of men I'm attracted to. However, I understand women like me are not common and typically feminine men are not common either. Consequently, I go online to find those men, because the only men that show me any interest offline are the western ideal hypermasculine/buff attractive men.🙃 2) Somebody already mentioned it, but I agree with them... Go to queer spaces & look up transmasculine stuff. There's tons of sources that'll help you reach your goals of attainin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/21 01:14 AM
1	What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman? Same! imo that would be a sign there's a misalignment of values. My mother says I shouldn't even bring it up that I'm waiting for marriage, because it should go without saying. My dad says I should bring it up after the 1st date (if it goes well), because in the current dating world premarital everything is normal. I'm curious tho. Do you ever bring it up? Or do you hope the person you're seeing doesn't care about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 04:52 PM
2	Is the 2 year “drop” real? It's interesting reading everybody's responses. Many suggest 2 years is merely the honeymoon period. My parents and grandparents have taught me something similar to your question tho. According to my parents, a man will know within the first couple of dates if he wants to marry you. If that is the case, then you should be engaged within a year & married the next. The difference is that the 2-year "drop" occurs when there is no marriage. On the other hand, my grandparents suggest if you're not ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 05:26 AM
3	Curious about sub demographics F, 24 Houston area Masters, speech-language pathology Single	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 06:55 AM
2	Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not good Thanks for sharing! I did my dad first & I just need to congratulate my mom lol. My father (when they got together) was in the 0.079%! Then, I did my preference & my future spouse is in the 0.47% lol. It is less than 1%, but honestly it's not bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 06:32 PM
2	Woman don't consider overweight and obese woman to have as negative of a sexual marketplace value as men. Well, it's not socially acceptable to state a "hurtful" truth to other women. I would be socially isolated if I commented on someone's physical appearance that couldn't be changed quickly. I don't want to take the risk & ask other women if they mean it when they compliment fat women. Even if on the inside they don't, I don't think they would admit it. There's too many social consequences. The only space I feel comfortable openly discussing the sad unfortunate state of fat Americans is with my im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 04:41 AM
1	If A Woman You Date Says "I Don't Fuck On The ______ Date" Then She Is STRICTLY Fuck Zone Material Y'all got married! How amazing!!! ☺🤗💛 omg after the pandemic is over I'll check out EH. I'm glad y'all are not religious either lol. I have associated EH with religion, so I've never given it a thought. I'll give it shot one of these days. Thanks for the rec!😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 03:45 PM
6	If A Woman You Date Says "I Don't Fuck On The ______ Date" Then She Is STRICTLY Fuck Zone Material I'm so happy you met someone who respects you! I'm wishing you both the best!! ☺ Definitely! Men are so much more aggressive. ngl it gets scary sometimes. I'm actually taking a break from dating, because it's just too much for me. I'll continue saying it tho, because I do agree that it helps to weed out the bad apples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 02:57 AM
20	If A Woman You Date Says "I Don't Fuck On The ______ Date" Then She Is STRICTLY Fuck Zone Material Totally agree!! I feel like I have to say it on the first date, because soooo many men expect sex right away. And even if I say it there are asshole men like OP who somehow think I'm lying or pos men, like that man who touched you, who think they're oh so special that human decency doesn't apply to them. Also I'm so angry that happened to you. You did nothing to "lead him on". He was just a pos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 11:45 PM
1	[Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender? Truly ugly faces? I've seen maybe 20-ish or so in my life. The vast majority of people have average faces, but if they're fat they instantly become ugly to me. I think that 80/20 rule also depends on where you're living. In my city, over 80% of the population is overweight or morbidly obese, so that rule would apply to me. However, if I lived in a different city where people actually cared about their health it would probably be different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/21 03:36 PM
8	For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you? Based on my observations, that seems to be the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 06:18 PM
26	For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you? As other users have mentioned, women who are attracted to tall men want to feel feminine. I've had this conversation with my siblings and relatives. All of them have stated that they have complexes about their bodies. Their heights range from 5'3" - 5'8" and weights from 150 lbs - 180 lbs. They feel they're not feminine enough, because of their body types. The taller the man, the more feminine and small they feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/20 04:25 PM
3	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Not quite. All of these men were strangers. I've never met them before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 01:54 PM
1	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Ah, I apologize	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 03:46 AM
2	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Not op, but I'd say it's obviously the fat, smelly, ugly guy who's repulsive. I honestly don't even know what you meant by "too much eyelid exposure."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/20 03:35 AM
5	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Okay	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 09:51 PM
4	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? I attract all manners of men. From fugly to conventionally attractive, so I don't know where you're getting your assumptions from but thanks anyway :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 09:42 PM
4	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? lmao! I'm having so much fun talking with you! You have never been so far away from the truth. Good luck with being bitter :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 09:29 PM
3	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? huh? I know I'm not ugly. If anything it's the men with repulsive looks who have overblown egos. They can't make the connection with what they see in the mirror and reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 09:16 PM
5	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? A human being who's a bit delusional. I wouldn't say 'how dare he' but unaware of his looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 08:40 PM
4	Do you feel disgusted when men that you find unattractive approach you? Same. It also confuses me like 'who the hell do you think you are to think you have a chance'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/20 07:43 PM