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First time, I ask them if they want the vanilla way or adventorous way. Ofc they don't want to be that basic vanills girl and will chose the adventorous option. But I brief them about their own safety and codewords.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:06 AM
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Maybe I showed some overinvestment because the date was long (but I was imerged in it, kind of flow state) but I told her shit like "I don't care about your personal stuff"
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:26 AM
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Probably should have texted her the day after. Thought that not texting her was the appropriate response to her reaction
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:24 AM
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Don't want an ltr at the moment so no worries
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:23 AM
1

Already happened to someone I know
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:23 AM
0

Red flags also included bad relationship with parents But could also be shit test. Just never experienced one in such a way.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:23 AM
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She already shit tested me with the day of the second date. I proposed Wednesday and she wanted Thursday. I insisted on Wednesday. She told me after sex she just wanted to test my reaction.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:44 AM
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I know that she had another date the day after.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:24 AM
2

Text her "I already have enough friends"
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:11 PM
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You found the story boring and told her that. Nothing wrong with that. Don't pretend. She will probably text you so don't worry. Don't feel bad, don't bend your personality so that she'll like you.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:09 PM
1

Never tried it but try out bumble. They have a section for making friends.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:05 PM
1

Is like wearing an hat against car accidents. They do nothing against blows from the side. Be careful.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:04 PM
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It teaches you discipline, to get back up when you get hit, to love the exercise pain, the comrady with your martial art mates, to not feel like a victim, to stand up for yourself, to respect others. Yeah you get hit in the head. I had a minor concussion once and headaches for weeks induced through a punch another time. It's not the most healthy but it forms you as a person. It makes you stand up for your shit and not let other people fuck with you. You have to learn how to train and not to spar…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 06:03 PM
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Not wanting to die like billions of other people who have all lived the same bullshit
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:50 PM
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Oh man, I still remember getting in the zone for the job.
/r/seduction27/03/19 09:29 PM
3

Gold response. Thanks for taking your time and writing that.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:42 PM
1

Discipline and being in control of yourself. Learn to be your own master. There are no "secret" methods for everything.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:51 PM
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Be honest to yourself. Some people watch porn because "it's good for them and they need it." and hid the real pretext that they can't get any woman. Not wanting to pursue women? You mean not at all or actively pursuing? In the first case, join MGTOW, in the second case, you must have a high SMV that would also mean that you wouldn't have to jerk off that often.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:50 PM
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Don't care about it. Don't compare yourself to her, she's a finished chapter, move on. "She had the audacity to break up with me". If you look it that way, you're putting yourself into the victim role and maybe have an inflated self image or there are simple AWALT reasons. She won't think that that was a smart move because she probably just listened to her emotions, on what they told them, so no real rational behind that.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:45 PM
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I remember telling once a girl that all I wanted to do in life was " do something good". After encountering a nihilistic phase, discovering TRP and starting to feel more disconnected of what I always believed to be true, I won't say it to no girl anymore but just to myself (and here, I'm such a hypocrite) "I want to do something for myself". Great post, great mentality, I'll try to implement it. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 12:38 PM
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Such guys have such a narrow image of the world and won't break out of it. They don't know better and position themselves into the victim role, because it is comfortable thinking that they are doing everything right and everyone else are assholes. You can't take that magical feeling that they're experiencing away like that.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 12:30 PM
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Best consumed before the age of 25
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 12:26 PM
2

When confronted she always say some sort of shit "Yeah but you don't understand how he made me feel"
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:17 AM
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Don't call her out. Keep the IDGAF attitude and own your shit. By calling her out you show that you care about what she's saying, letting you fall into her frame. The "We have a lot of common" part is no excuse, maybe even a buffer for rejection because you think you have things in common making her better than other girls. But that's bs.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:12 PM
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That's no excuse. Seriously.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:52 PM
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That's a big fucking red flag. Make sure that you don't tolerate that behaviour. You have broken frame when you got upset. You showed that you care and you need her, putting her on the power position. When she continues approaching him when you are out together approach girls. (It's written in the shit test handbook in the sidebar). Make sure that you get her out of that power position in making clear that you have options and can leave her with no remorse if she continues with that behaviour.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:49 PM
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Hickies look unprofessional at work.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:43 PM
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The feel entitled and think they can get away with that behaviour because it's socially ok for woman to like that. But when man do it, it's toxic again. Social conventions.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:42 PM
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Observe what people dress on the street, remember what you like, observe your friends and also people with success.take it easy at the beginning and only buy what you really like.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:40 PM
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Having an alpha widow in your friend circle is so fucking annoying. She won't stop talking about that guy, even when she last saw him 2 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:32 PM
2

A female friend of mine also has a tendency to hit me on the chest or stuff like that. When I tell her to stop she simply tells me I should stop being a pussy. It's so hypocritical. "Empowering women" my ass.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:14 AM
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It's still funny, even after swallowing the Pill, I still have to laugh that it can work so easy when you have an abundance and IDGAF mentality. Many things you learnt by society are so wrong and bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 10:02 AM
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Update in comments below
/r/askTRP11/03/19 09:56 AM
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The phrase "She's the most responsible teenager in the house" changed my whole perception of dating in general.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 09:20 AM
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3 times we made out, had foreplay but she stopped me with different excuses. The third time she said stop stop stop with some excuse when I wanted to undress her. I retreated attention immediately because I was fed up and had no nerves for it anymore. The whole sex thing was for her to work on "our" aka her insecurities. I'm no emotional tampon anymore. She left that evening crying, because she couldn't recognise who I was anymore, asked me if she still could sleep on the couch, I said no. I bec…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:36 PM
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DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:20 PM
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She wants to see if you care for her. But it's a trap for you to fall into her frame?. Ghost her a bit. Maybe some more context is needed, what did you do with her or told her?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:18 PM
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That question makes no sense. The redpill is mating strategy. Life is no game. Mating is no game, there is no restart button. There are no cheat codes. Only hard work, a pinch of luck and commitment.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:15 PM
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When he told you that they went without you, you shouldn't have reacted that way. Read the first shit test article in the sidebar. There's a part on how to handle that. This was a shit test to upset you or to see how fit you are.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:12 PM
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fucked it up lol
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:09 PM
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AWALT means all woman have the instinctive predisposition to act like "that". There are nuances though, they don't always do it. But these instincts can be triggered in the most innocent girl with the right trigger and BOOM. There you have AWALT. That's why you have to train your girl.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:08 PM
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Poor guy. Denying his own nature for the sake of what society wants of him. Conformism at its best. I wish him the best.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 07:53 PM
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It's sad. You almost don't want to believe it; "cheating is always a man's fault". No sense for responsibility but a damn sense for victim mentality.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 07:27 PM
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He has to realise that he's not the victim in all that happened. Way to many guys do that and justifiy their own behaviour and say they did everything right. Maybe tell him he should learn from that interaction and find the fault in himself.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 07:18 PM
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Even if she told him he shouldn't tell anyone they are dating, it could be that she didn't want to be seen dating someone with a low smv value. But again a classical case of thinking being nice provokes interest. Had the same realisation as OP. Once you swallow TRP the guys that seemed alpha, get exposed as try hard betas.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 07:17 PM
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Thanks! Really interesting
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:02 AM
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That makes sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:12 PM
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When the cravings arrive, eat a carrot or a sweet pepper as an example. Form it into a habit.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:06 AM
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Just finished reading a book "the art of endurig yourself, a path to inner freedom" (german book, title translated) on how to achieve inner freedom. It's about knowing what emotions you have and distancing yourself from them, on how to live your own life without having to meet others expectations. I wrote a summary. If intetested I can share it.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 08:32 AM
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I wouldn't call it the US when Native Americans inhabitated the continent. And Europeans are mixed ethnicities.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 07:40 AM
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The US has always been composed of mixed ethnicities.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:01 PM
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The constant use of drugs (sugar, porn,drugs, social media etc. I don't even make a difference anymore) supress certain thought and hinders the development of yourself, not you as a whole but your ego which is crucial for life. (Look up Loevingers ego development really interesting stuff). Also some people use drugs after a heavy work day. But this forms into an habit any you don't know anymore what it feels like being alone after a such a day and to simply go to sleep instead of going out and d…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:51 PM
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It's a "normalisation of a fetish" (term appears in Cyber Effect from Aiken). Something you wouldn't talk about in public can find a larger audience/group who identify with that something online and it starts to get "normal" for them.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:48 PM
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wrong sub
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:03 PM
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Going to read about it thanks.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:55 PM
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Not a possibility right now, but maybe in the future.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:54 PM
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Sounds plausible. Could have thought of that by myself. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:53 PM
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It's obvious. Can't say that it was an accident.Could try telling stupid shit next time without going into context.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:21 PM
2

Cold showers in the evening can actually help falling asleep. As your body naturally cools down a bit before sleeping, inducing a temperature drop with a cold shower can help.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:23 PM
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Never explain, never complain.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:08 PM
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That's like starting a diet without cutting fast food
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:54 PM
1

Just start doing it. There's no perfect time to start. 1. Gather information on google. 2. Meditate 3. Repeat step 2 Be autonomous. There's enough information out there. Good luck.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:48 AM
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https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:16 PM
3

Males are polygamous, females are hypergamous.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:28 AM
3

There's just one rule for askTRP, read it please.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:16 PM
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To the question in the title: Pain makes you feel alive, pain makes you develop yourself. Learn to love the pain during training, in the gym, from approaching et.c. Life's suffering, so just accept that and move on. With those people who talk shit about you, ignore them. There are always going to be people shitting on you, even close friends. I would accept the fact that they don't know better in what they do, in the end even have some pity for those people. Set yourself above them. What do you …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 04:14 PM
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That I'll inevitably die. That I'm half animal, half symbolic. That nothing matters. Yet free to do what I can. Reading the Denial of Death from Ernest Becker, Myth of Sisyphus from Camus, Existentialism is a humanism from Sartre and exploring Terror Management Theory did change my world view completly in addition with TRP. Nothing is like it seems.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:29 PM
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Yeah, I fear that it's too late.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:03 PM
1

Looked for any FR from other people didn't found any. I'll take your advice.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:38 PM
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Don't look him in the eyes, look where you are walking. If he sees that you're not paying attention to him and have a idgaf attitude he will most likely move to the side. Started using this trick and works often.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 03:23 PM
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I don't think it has anything to do with being beta or alpha. You seem to feel alpha but you're emotionally reacting to things like a child. Look for something to let out your anger. Martial arts, meditation, art, writing or even therapy if it's a long term problem.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:21 PM
1

Don't be needy. Don't text her immediately. If you want to see her again only text for logistic, not more not less. If you want to play the safe card, write her after the date that you enjoyed the evening as "proof" you didn't abused/raped her. But it's only optional as you didn't have sex yet. When meeting up, change location roughly all 45 min at least 2 or 3 times, keep the mood going and bring her back to yours afterwards. Or if she's down invite her immediately to yours for Netflix and chil…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:17 PM
2

Invest in your real self first, not in your cyber self.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:51 PM
1

In what sense did she stopped looking at you the same way? Do you still have contact with her?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:06 PM
1

going to write updates if you want.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:53 PM
1

Sounds plausible.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:53 PM
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Not sure if I'm ready. She's a very extroverted person and theoretical speaking she's a gateway to getting to know other people and when other new girls are around my friends and I, she has the gift to make them feel at ease (usual suspicion when meeting people, are they normal/creeps?) and often talks good stuff about me around other girls. (validation that I have a life and social circle).Going to think about it and post updates if interested.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:53 PM
1

Time is your answer. With time things will change. Look at the study below. Continue developing yourself. " Men mature like fine wines " https://s3.amazonaws.com/harrys-cdnx-prod/manual/Harry%27s+Masculinity+Report%2C+USA+2018.pdf
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:30 PM
2

Best parts in my opinion is when Beck talks about her first kiss, how one (emotional guy) tried to hook up with her in the theaters but she didn't kiss him but his friend Chad (!!) a week later. I don't quite remember it well but she asked Joe if he did that to all female friends and he answered somewhat along the lines that he has an harem of women. Somehow I think the storywriter is partly redpill aware and implemented the stalker to show off female nature, that Joe's blue pill love (stalking+…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:04 PM
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Watch "You" on Netflix. Biggest blue pill stalker guy and female nature are perfectly displayed there.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:13 AM
2

Most important part: have fun. The first thing I usually do when going to a club is to go immediately to the dance floor and dance. It boosts your mood. Start the fun in a sober state and decide afterwards if you really need the alcohol to get in the mood. What kind of music/club?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:41 PM
1

If you want to give her validation, do it during sex. As an example, while she's giving you head, compliment her that she's fucking good at it. It makes her confident and she will like doing it even more because she knows she's doing a great job.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:13 AM
2

Not self-help book but rather psychoanalytical book, the Denial of Death by Ernest Becker. ​ It covers areas about what you are and why you became the person you are, what it means to be human, your limits, how your character is a "lie", why people follow certain activities with beliefs, how your self esteem and character is an anxiety buffer etc. It's important in my opinion to understand why you chose to do certain activities, because there's a lot going on in your unconscious mind. There's ev…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:17 AM
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Never explain, never complain.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:11 AM
2

I stopped drinking alcohol for a whole year when I was 19.I really drank a lot, sometimes every day of the week. I learned how to party sober, how to have fun without any substance abuse and that you're in control of any situation. Conversations are way better and sometimes you meet girls that don't drink either and sometimes that's a plus for them, seeing that you can have fun like that. After that year passed, I didn't start drinking again. I rarely drink now and believe me, having no hangover…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:31 PM
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Don't go alone expecting to hookup. Always bring a girl that's down for that.Only once made out with a girl, but she was on MDMA, and didn't want more. It's not your average club but still fun. They have a pool, a sauna(open on saturdays), 3-4 dance floors. Fetish parties are only saturday. Even when they don't have fetish parties weird stuff happens. Naked woman making acrobatics on a swing over the pool, girl being eaten out by 3 dudes. The atmosphere is different sitting around the pool you c…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:57 AM
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Read the book "The Denial of Death" from Ernest Becker. It's about what motivates humans to pursue certain activities, how we repress certain anxieties, fall in an automatic living mode and how our character is a "vital lie". It's a psychoanalysis book, not greatly scientific at the time (although there are now empirical studies that support those ideas. Look up Terror Management Theory). I greatly recommand to read it, even if some ideas seem weird, it's alot and difficult , there are plenty of…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 01:07 PM
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