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ADVICEshirtled/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 10:57 PM
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Its okay to be shallow. You have the right to be shallow and desire superficial things from a partner. Everyone regardless of gender does that to an extent. Every romantic relationship is somewhat transactional and made up of some superficial qualities. Its not completely made of superficial qualities, you’ve obviously got to like the person for who they are deep down, but its completely okay to like the shallow things that come with the relationship like sex perks, your partner being hot/attrac…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 04:17 PM
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Spot on, it’s click bait designed to feed egos. It makes men feel good to watch this kind of content. They feel understood, and validated watching the blame be shifted onto women instead of themselves and eventually dig themselves deeper and deeper into the trap of becoming men who refuse to take responsibility for their own issues.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 08:38 AM
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Okay thanks for clearing things up, sorry for the misunderstanding. It’s just the way you wrote out the post made me think he was playing games. So if your husband’s a good guy more power to the two of you. I think the two of you need to have a sit down conversation about expectations and how you’d like to see your sex life go from here. Hash out any misunderstandings and talk about why the two of you have not been having sex.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 07:49 AM
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And then shut her out of sex for a whole year, like is he even attracted to her? It sounds like he’s holding a grudge and making OP feel guilty for declining him wanting a threesome. It sounds to me like he wants to just sleep with other women. OP has a husband issue.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 07:08 AM
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Just delete tiktok lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 07:38 AM
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If he’s paying to see pussy other than my own I move on.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 07:27 AM
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No I don’t think you’re crazy to ask this at all. He wasted your time cheating on you, he owes you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 09:04 AM
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Why exclusively engineers? Why not doctors or lawyers? Not trying to criticize I’m just genuinely curious since I’ve never seen someone have a particular career preference for their partner. I’ve seem income preferences or height preferences but not a specific career preference. Whats so special about engineering?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 03:40 AM
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Op I’d have another sit down discussion with him and ask if a few of these potential things other commenters brought up might be it. Let him know how it makes you feel (anxious, rejected, neglected, whatever it maybe) and that you’d like to better understand where he’s coming from. Communication in a relationship is extremely important, especially in the beginning when there are a lot of unknowns and a lot to learn about one another. Have a goal of what you’d like out of the conversation. Is it …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 10:27 PM
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Your concerns are completely valid. It looks like your bf’s priority is to take care of mom. Sometimes in this world you have to choose sides and unfortunately you can’t have both, and from what it sounds like he’s choosing mom over you. You’ve been with him four years on and off, did this have any thing to do with the mom? She will feel comfortable having a say, in your lives, and your husband being the mommas boy that he is, will likely listen to her. She’s taken the place of a wife, the only …
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 01:20 PM
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Journalling really helped me identify my feelings. It helped me get the feelings out that I was afraid to admit to myself. It takes time, take as long as you need, do it every day or multiple times a day if you have to. I personally write notes in my phone for convenience. I’ve come the realize healing isn’t linear. There will be times when I feel like I’m almost over it, then I realize I’m not and I feel like I’m right back a square one. Something might trigger a memory or a feeling of some sor…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 10:16 AM
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. You have every right to feel angry at him. I wouldn’t let this anger take too much of your energy, but I wouldn’t ignore it either. It sounds like before you were trying to tell yourself it wasn’t so bad, by even staying friends with him. Feel the anger, give yourself time to grieve, its a necessary part of the process, it means you’re healing. If you didn’t feel angry and upset over it now, you’ll end up regretting later for not having taken this chance to gro…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 05:31 AM
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Start with some basic recipes. Stocks, broths, crock pot meals, rice, casseroles even. Just simple things. Once you get the basic things down, take it up a notch, get creative, try new things. If you’re into baking and pastry, its a little different than culinary cooking; baking is much more precise and its much easier to screw up if you’re not careful. I would highly recommend for any cook not to skip basic training, understanding the fundamentals is key to understanding how to cook properly. W…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/23 01:54 PM
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I don’t find it quick, I find it being forward from the get go about what your looking for to avoid dating someone you’re not compatible with.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 07:55 PM
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May I ask what your reasons are? I’ve been somewhat on the fence about this subject.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 08:01 AM
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I see where you’re coming from. My bf and I are at the 1.5 year mark and have lived together for 10 months. Things have gone pretty smooth except for one bump in the road. Other than this one issue we rarely argue. We’ve since worked on those issues and have come a pretty long way. At the beginning when we started dating, he was also looking towards a marriage and we do have similar values of frugality, integrity and honesty. I did sense however he may have had a few insecurities about women usi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 07:53 AM
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Being feminine is key once you hit the wall, great point.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 06:13 AM
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TRP is a joke don’t take them seriously they’re all a bunch of screwed up incels
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 05:51 PM
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I spread it out through the week and just do it whenever I have time. So for example I might do one or two loads Monday, two more Wednesday, then three Sunday.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 04:01 AM
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Typically a man with a lot of previous sexual partners will want to continue that lifestyle he’s been living for so long into the future. I’m not looking for a guy with no experience but a guy with enough experience to know what he really wants and more importantly a guy that lines up with similar values to me. I was with a guy once with few sexual partners and he didn’t really know how to have a relationship and or communicate very well. I was with a guy with many past sexual partners and at fi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/21 06:05 AM
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He does work quite a bit and is tried after work. But he still isn’t initiating on weekends when he has plenty of time. In fact every two weeks he has a four day weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 04:03 AM
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Yeh I can see what your saying. My problem is I have a high sex drive and idk that I can go so long in this relationship without sex just because I am waiting for him. For instance, say he initiates tonight and we have sex. But then its still only once a week or less from then on in because he thinks that is okay. Thus having him pursue me could back fire because we didn’t actively communicate incase something else was going on. I feel opening a conversation could potentially allow us both to fe…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 04:00 AM
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I do this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 03:51 AM
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He does like to wake up early before work that might be a good idea. There could be the possibility too because I am fast asleep in the mornings before he leaves he doesn’t want to wake me up. Nights are not as promising maybe because he is so tired and goes to bed so much earlier than me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 01:14 AM
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I could ask him if porn has become a problem for him or a deterrent from sex although don’t know it is until I ask.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:25 AM
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Its both him not initiating for whatever reason and me struggling to initiate. Idk what exactly is causing him to initiate sex less than usual; could be low libido. I am planing on having a mature discussion with him and bringing up my concerns so we can work things out and get it all out in the open. I just want to get advice make make sure I am prepared to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:16 AM
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