shivaom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback.	Rant/Venting	shivaom	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 06:54 AM

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1	Love makes a Fool of a Man but rarely a Woman. what's a chad? not getting the reference.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/20 07:48 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. by so much, she must mean giving me expensive gifts, let me sneak into her house at night and fuck her, give me expensive gifts (Macbook, iPhone, and such) .. which I think is a lot if a person does that with a genuine heart. But, what if I marry her, and she fucks me over... it's too complicated, so I just want to forget about her. You all have really helped me today. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 11:06 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. Also, only child. A big home. They make it look like they are real rich people , but get married to people like me, who can't even make ends meet. We never ever went out on a cheap date. Everytime it was some 4 star hotel restaurant. When I invited her to have food in chip restaurants, she would just deny. Well, maybe I was just not a good fit for the type of life she had. She said they didn't eat much non-veg at home, and not it seems just like a statement to help me believe she would be okay w…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:52 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. This is India, so people do stay with their parents as much as lifelong. She has a job, she just bought a car, and she told me her decree came in July 2019. Just a few days after my accident. She did manipulate a lot of things, intentionally or unintentionally.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:48 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. I am thinking the same. She told me she didn't like condoms. Now as I see, she never participated fully in the sex when I was using protection. The one time I didn't, she was onto me. Also, she wanted me to come inside her, although fortunately I pulled out as I was dreading the consequences of her getting pregnant leaving me no option. But then, she tells me, a little did end up inside. Then, I had a sever accident, and had to stay in my hometown, when she tells me, she wants to visit me. Now, …	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:46 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. No. Can't imagine. Posted here so that you guys can give me insights like this. No. Wouldn't want her to raise my kids.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:39 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. That's why I am here for help. It feels like I am a dumb fuck, as my life feels like a troll. Totally lost heart on women.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:27 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. No. They were separated. He lived nearby. Maybe. I donno much about him.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:20 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. Let me tell you something interesting. She tells me about her previous marriages after we have made out like 5-6 times, at her home, in the night, with her parents not knowing. She writes me a letter telling me about it after I am emotionally invested into her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:07 AM
1	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. Hm. I have her things with me. All the costly ones. I put them aside so that I don't have to see them everyday, and feel guilty. She told me that she did so much for me, and I didn't even have a spine to stand by her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:05 AM
2	Help me understand my situation. Not looking for assurance, just honest feedback. No. I don't really want to. It's just that the guilt has taken over my mind. We aren't talking about currently. I told her it will take time to convince my parents, but she forced and even played the pregnancy card to get me to marry her. I stopped talking to her completely. But the guilt of ruining her life, going to her home, making her look characterless in front of her family and relatives, and how bad it would have been for her parents to just sucks my energy.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/20 07:02 AM
1	Struggling with building habits? Try this. For anyone who wants to build habit and believes that willpower is the key should definitely read "Psycho Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz. Let's say you wish to build a habit. Lifting, that is. Now, you do the same drill described above, but along with that, you train your subconscious mind. And you do it using visualization. Before you go to bed, or right after you get up, your brain is very open to suggestion. You can simply see a screen in front of your closed eyes, in the middle of your eyebro…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/18 05:17 AM