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Dating After Divorceshizukana-yama/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 04:49 AM
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Rantshizukana-yama/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 05:20 AM
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40 yo guy here. Divorced after 10 years. Also no kids. It’s time for you to think about fundamental questions: What’s the point of life? What do “I” want from life? There’s much more to life than just having a family and some kids and then live happily ever after. Find yourself. Start to know yourself. You get much more satisfaction than just a regular dad or husband. Still you can be one if that’s what you want. Take your time to heal.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 04:46 PM
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Great read. Thank you OP
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:03 PM
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This is like a totem, and you have to find your own totem. Here’s mine: Injured, torn apart, never been understood soul, get back to yourself. Great man dies proud and alone.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 07:40 PM
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This happens when men support men 💪. The world is full of support for women. We should take care of ourselves
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 01:59 AM
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I’m kind of thinking maybe the whole North America is full of feminism shits. I’m from Canada and boy you should see the women here.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 02:23 PM
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Kudos man. Exactly what I’m doing
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 02:11 PM
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I got back to myself. Who I was before meeting my ex? That person was pretty ambitious, pretty disciplined. I’m the same person. Injured sure, older absolutely, but also way much wiser. Get back to yourself. Build up yourself from there. DO NOT run away from loneliness, it hunts you later with more force. Start to deal with it and eventually it becomes your best friend. And this amazing loyal friend doesn’t lie to you, doesn’t leave you and truly loves you regardless of the money in your pocket.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 01:12 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 08:09 PM
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Lol
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 03:01 PM
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Amen
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:53 AM
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Thanks man
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:51 AM
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Don’t get me wrong, I do have serious hobbies and I’m busy with those and working on my career path. This only happens time to time, and I remind myself that’s still much better than being lonely in a relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:51 AM
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Exactly my point
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:46 AM
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Brother, find yourself. True happiness is there. Free yourself from all belongings. Enjoy “your” life.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 10:57 PM
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I wonder how it would look like in the eyes of law. Are they still considered “partners” or not. Seems interactive though
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 07:25 PM
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Well said. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 06:40 PM
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It’s amazing to see the similarities. Thinking almost exactly the same
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 09:46 PM
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Frankly finance is not the only reason (though it’s a big part). Can’t handle another rejection, another getting used to and then left alone..
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 08:27 PM
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I hear you, hear you well. I myself is a decent regular man, hard working legal migrant, not a pervert, not weirdo, loved to have a warm family and kids. Worked hard to build this simple life from zero. I did a lot of sacrifices, put up with a lot of childish dramas. But realized I need someone to take care of my emotions. I didn’t expect good salary or even kids, but for crying out loud I’m human being, have feelings. Should I search outside of home for kindness? So the last drama I just didn’t…
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 03:57 PM
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Amen. Well, that’s essentially what I meant by being single
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 02:27 PM
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First I was thinking of signing a prenup or some sort of firm contract (drafted by lawyer) to keep all my financial assets before and after cohabiting, but I’ve heard nothing is gonna override the family law. That’s how I came here.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 01:31 PM
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