shldnobetter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Need a Laugh?		shldnobetter	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/23 10:33 AM
1	One Last Try		shldnobetter	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 10:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Best Advice for a Man to Not Get Divorced from a Divorceable Woman I get out to a pub on Sundays as my only alone time. It's not too comfortable to write a lengthy response. However... I felt your situation matched mine in so many ways, but I've learned it matches the lifestyle of many married men. For example, when something upsets my wife, she gets emotional and then triggers herself into a rage. At this point, someone must be punished for her unhappiness. Of course, that's me.i spent many years not recognising the repetitive pattern and assuming guilt for...…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/24 09:07 PM
2	Best Advice for a Man to Not Get Divorced from a Divorceable Woman Enjoyed reading your post. Entrepreneurs in Cars?	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/24 08:46 PM
8	Do all Women call names during arguments? Yes and yes.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/24 07:53 PM
2	If you were divorced with no kids in your 40s and could live/work in any city in the US, where would you want to live (good dating scene for older men, lots to do, not depressing weather, easy to meet people at an older age). I'm nearly 60. I had 72 right swipes within 6 hours on Bumble. I'm not an adonis, BUT I am normal, and one date showed me my competition; those guys were outrageous monkeys and completely undateable. Be straightforward and don't come over as an animal and you'll be fine.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/23 12:20 AM
1	Dating Apps? 🤷🏼‍♂️ Which bar? Easier said than done at my age... 58.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/11/23 12:04 AM
1	Dating Apps? 🤷🏼‍♂️ Is Hinge any good for hookups?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/23 11:57 PM
2	More crazy after divorce dating Your wife thought the grass was greener. You think that the grass is greener, I think the grass is greener, we all think the grass is greener. But it ain't. So, hello!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/23 09:14 PM
5	CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men! This person (onelittevictory) has mental health issues! Check their posts. Full of bitter, unpleasantness. Seek help, stranger. 🤝🙏 EDIT they've completely cleaned up their profile since my comment.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/23 01:05 PM
2	This may not be the place for this but since you guys are all men, you have an understanding of what I mean when I compare the expectations to the reality. These things DO hurt deeply. There is no solution. I lost my mother in 2018, and I still break down. There are no easy solutions. You just carry it.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/23 11:30 PM
2	Those of you who filed for the divorce due to feeling unhappy in your marriage. How’s life now? Good luck mate!!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/23 10:39 PM
1	Need a Laugh? Exactly. Made me wonder if women aren't narcissistic but just "women".	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/23 08:57 PM
2	How to live happily after divorce? Fuck!!! AMAZING!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 05:15 AM
2	How to live happily after divorce? Damn!!! Good news for a change. Delighted for you. An effing great thread!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 05:08 AM
1	Balancing temptations of validation I do agree. However, online is fun.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/22 04:57 AM
1	Balancing temptations of validation It's like sparing in a boxing match. You circle each other testing each other's motives. They want you to be legit/ not a scammer. You want them to show some interest in your pictures. Acknowledge some level of physical interest.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/22 04:40 AM
3	Balancing temptations of validation You've written my life. Tinder is a merry go round of validation from attractive women but somehow I'm not ready beyond chatting. I feel something isn't quite right yet.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/22 11:59 PM
2	I'm lost and Don't know know what to do anymore Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/22 05:27 AM
2	I'm lost and Don't know know what to do anymore Hey matey. Please scroll down in this Reddit (DivorceMen) and look for a posting called "Support Groups". READ IT AND ACT!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/22 05:17 AM
1	I'm lost and Don't know know what to do anymore Sounds like you're severely depressed. If you can seek medical help or make that call. As a veteran you should know that you should adapt to a situation to survive. Get help!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/22 05:11 AM
1	I'm lost and Don't know know what to do anymore Oh and get the bank to stop all credit/ overdrafts so you don't spiral into debt.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/22 04:56 AM
2	I'm lost and Don't know know what to do anymore Your problems run deep. Deeper than you describe. You sound like you need to literally find some quiet peaceful place, slow down, breathe deep and consider who you are, intellectually, emotionally and as a product of your childhood. Your wife seems to be out of control and you have no solutions. Try to see your situation from the position of a remote observer and get clarity on what is happening.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/22 04:54 AM