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DUMP HIS ASSshleea/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:47 PM
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LEVEL UPshleea/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:18 AM
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“You are perfect”. Added to what you wrote. From men. So. So. Many times. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:38 AM
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Fuck. This hit. So so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:21 AM
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Dead 💀 I needed that laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:50 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:22 AM
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☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:18 AM
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Trying 😩 Just sitting with my sad ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:24 AM
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Needed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:59 AM
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This. Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:56 AM
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Veteran here, and was married to a fellow Veteran. We used a VA marriage counselor after he was arrested for second degree assault on a family member (he attempted to hit me other then head with a beer bottle). The (male) counselor told me point blank, “he obv was just kidding with you” After he choked me and told me he was going to kill me. I left that session right on the spot. Immediately made an appointment with my therapist (who I had been seeing for years and knew about the abuse going on)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:03 PM
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I feel like if you stayed, and I get it the good times I’m sure we’re amazing. You will end up a default like the other two women that he has boomeranged to. You are better than this Lady!! Cut ties. You deserve to be number one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:03 PM
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Went through this, he moved; didn’t even show up for divorce court. I have sole custody, because he walked into my lawyers office and signed them over. This was after almost 11 years of marriage. You just keep being the good momma that you are. Block him on everything, including phone unless he has your kiddos. You absolutely need to go to court for ordered visitation. It will make your life and your kid’s life better. And more peaceful. It will help you to move on. And request all the things (t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:02 PM
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Waaaay too many of these sound like both my Ex’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 04:09 AM
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This is me!!! Love it💕💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:55 AM
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Truth!! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:16 PM
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I was the one to 🙃”keep it up”, buuuut has to blue pull it most the time. Wasn’t overweight, looked and acted younger than 50. Fucked with my sexuality and self esteem. His hand was better than me 🤷🏼‍♀️😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:19 AM
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Baby steps!! Gotta work on me. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:37 AM
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This 🙏🙏 damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:32 AM
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His most favorite thing that has STUCK in my head was “I will never take care of you” Ok. So when your 70 and I’m a vibrant 52 YO, should I just let you go bc, same same ass. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:26 AM
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Aka I don’t need makeup or clothes to make me feel beautiful. Aka. I’m a damn good catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:24 AM
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I have issues I’m working on. More so that I see now. Agreed. Never again Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:22 AM
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It was hard. But I stand by it. Best for me! Fuck it 🤷🏼‍♀️💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:21 AM
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I agree. His ED made me feel insecure. Which has NEVER been a problem with other dudes. And I’m not quite into dating even. I met him after divorce and we connected. Or so I thought 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:19 AM
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Agreed!! He had a young athletic girl more than willing to fuck him 🤷🏼‍♀️. Not my Problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:17 AM
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Yesss. I have all the time 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:14 AM
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Got ya! Deleting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:39 PM
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Promise!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:25 PM
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Only took 32 years 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:17 PM
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I have zero excuse. I just wanted something. And I’m self aware now. He did put a damn good game on. And I was dumb. Simple as that. I have work to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:16 PM
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Truth! Or that I will be 52 and him 70... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:24 PM
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I’m the Damn prize!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:00 PM
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No, he was rebound for me post divorce (last January). He has been basically single since his D 10 years ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:59 PM
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Oh for sure, I was hanging on, not going to lie. But after lots of reading and going through past posts here. I’m like, nope. Not doing it anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:56 PM
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On board. It’s the truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:51 PM
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TBH, I’m in shape, I work part time at a gym. I lift heavy. And from past men and women is that I am beautiful, naturally. And I clean up damn well. I’m a catch. I just forget that when I am with a man that feels insecure because he is around me. He told me that I was everything he was looking for physically. Well good luck with that old dude. I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:48 PM
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Yooooo, this was during FaceTime. I was cool calm and collected. I literally said “for me to even going into explain how you treated me is dumb”...he said well, what about how I feel? And I said you didn’t feel until I was put off on how you treated me. He said “so don’t be with me”, I smiled and said ok!, hung up and BLOOOOOCKED. Such a big weight off my shoulders!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:43 PM
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Yes, all I know is that I made the right choice. Hard and against my normal bs pickme ways. BUT I know it’s for the best!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:40 PM
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I’m actually post divorce (15 months), his divorce was over ten years ago 🤣. He has dated a TON during that time but nothing stuck (obv). And I don’t have a problem arousing men at all! It was him due to porn. But that took a toll on my self esteem. Which is bullshit because I’m awesome in bed 🤣. He even told me I was the best he has ever had...🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:23 PM
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Erectile Dysfunction. Aka he masturbated to porn for ten years post his divorce. And all he loves is his hand. And his excuse “this is just me baby” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:04 PM
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BeCaUsE I lOvEd hIm 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:00 PM
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Dead 💀 With what he said “oh, better take my pill” Holy shit, before him, never had a problem with arousing men. My self esteem took a nose dive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:59 PM
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I screen shot and favorited your reply to remind me when I’m being weak. THANK YOU! I am worth it! I’m a good woman and have zero problem attracting men. But like my momma has said, it’s the men you choose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:56 PM
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We were actually ok, at that point. But shit hit the fan and I knew in my heart literally before all this and before FDS something was off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:53 PM
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It’s funny when we first met, he absolutely didn’t want kids. Which I was fine with. I haven’t decided if I want more (I have 2 from previous marriage, who are older). No shit, before we started this never ending break up he looked me dead in the eyes and said he wants a kid with me 😑.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:49 PM
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Thank you!! It was drawn out but I feel SO much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:46 PM
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Thank you! It was long and drawn out unfortunately due to my pickme ways. BUT I did it and that’s a step forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:43 PM
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Yes most def!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:52 PM
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Or making me feel bad after he got his. Omg so so bad. Like sorry, it’s reciprocal and for you to groan because your done and I’m still waiting. NOPE. I’m a catch, and men my age would line up to be in his position. The funny thing, one of his insecurities was me finding a man that could keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:47 PM
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Yes to the last paragraph. Just stick your ground! If we resort to old ways, we become resentful and I’m turn not a quality of a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:43 PM
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So I am highly empathic, and newly found out that my attachment stay is anxious. Working on that thanks to quarantine. With that said, I attract emotionally unavailable men, Narcy types. And ex husband was full blown Narc. Looking back, I had/still have shit boundaries. I was a pleaser. Since reading this sub and all it entails, I have learned that I deserve better. And I’m at a point where if a man doesn’t respect my needs and Check off day n my wants, bye. I’m so sick of wasting my time on men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:41 PM
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I’m new to this sub, but how it has opened my eyes In regards to my own blurry boundaries and putting up with things that bother me. It’s a cycle. And it’s not good. Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:01 PM
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