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Don't even try to make things work. Not now. Maybe down the road when your head is clearer and you've gotten over her.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:37 AM
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Talk to her first, regain her interest. If you've regained her interest enough maybe she'd pitch the idea. So honestly I wouldn't ask first. But if time goes by and shedoesnt ask or bring it up then go for it because you have nothing to lose. Try to get her to bring the idea up first though.
/r/seduction21/11/19 08:32 AM
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Yeah man focus on yourself really. Other girls won't necessarily solve your problems, might even make things worse because you start comparing to your ex. Maybe even take a break from social media, as in log out for a while. It's proven to cause FOMO, which is the fear of missing out. And this will only be heightened by your current state. Good luck, it always gets better trust me. Been through the same, you'd be surprised at the similariies with my previous situation.
/r/seduction05/11/19 06:10 PM
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I think the best thing is no contact, for you to heal. This also means not looking at her social media. Especially liking her stuff, don't play games. Don't even think about getting her back, those are intrusive thoughts that will keep you from moving on. See how seeing her on tinder made you overanalyze things? Just give it time, one day you'll wake up and be amazed on how much better life has gotten.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:54 PM
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This is awesome for you but I feel as though 100 might be waaay to much of a goal. I think approaching once or twice a week is a good start. Forcing yourself to approach just for quantity isn't as genuine. I think only approaching when you find someone attractive or it's a good situation is better. Imo. But good luck
/r/seduction31/10/19 06:56 AM
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Has she said anything? I would just be like hey sorry since I added you as a new number it went up on my contact list and I meant to hit up my other friend. And then be like but hey what's up I've been meaning to hit you up Idk just something i made up just now haha
/r/seduction19/10/19 12:35 AM
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Ohh the way your worded it made it sound like you called her. I think you shouldve texted her something better than saying "yo" How did the conversation go or have you not responded to her saying "huh?"
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:29 PM
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People don't have conversations on the phone unless they're in a relationship. You shouldn't of called her imo. Keep conversations strictly in person or texting/snapchat is fine. But I mean that's just from my experience.
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:05 PM
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Looks like she didn't want to talk on the phone... What made you want to call her vs. Texting lol
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:51 PM
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Also I usually ask girls for snapchats instead of numbers, it's kind of something my I've learned to use because of my generation growing up with it. Sometimes they don't add me back. Therefore it tells me theyre not interested and I move on. I like it because it's better than me texting them and getting no response or no where.
/r/seduction18/10/19 04:24 PM
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That's a huge red flag. Move on lol. I think they do that for attention and to lead you on. Also don't worry about snap numbers. Its like worrying about following/followers on social media.
/r/seduction18/10/19 04:22 PM
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Your message will most likely go unnoticed. Instagram messages don't go through to people unless you both follow eachother. Instead she will get a notification to see the message and she can accept it or not. You don't get notified on their decision. You chance is very low.
/r/seduction16/10/19 04:37 PM
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Posting about hobbies is my favorite thing because to me it's genuine content of what makes you you. Learn to take pictures/videos. It takes practice so don't expect results right away. High quality cameras help.
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:14 PM
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Key words: "for you" For them and anyone else it will be a different interpretation. Which can be in your favor or not. Definitely better to flirt first imo
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:12 PM
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Yeah move on, anyone that is interested would give it to you. The second way of knowing they are interested in anyway is when they add you back. I've been in situations where they don't even add back. So I don't bother messaging them and move on, don't think about it again.
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:06 PM
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Talk to everyone you sit next to. Basically become friends with almost anyone you can. This builds your social skills and you make more friends. Benefits are that if you sit next to a cute girl it'll be easy to talk to them.
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:45 AM
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I think you're thinking too much of it. Just message her asking who she is and go from there duh. Get to know her first, build rapport. Then maybe ask her to hang out if you're interested Also if she leaves you on open or whatever don't trip. Don't come off needy.
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:43 PM
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People want what they can't have. I drew away girls by bombarding them with attention as well. But I definitely learned from those mistakes lol.
/r/seduction28/09/19 09:16 AM
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To me it sounds like you care about this girl a lot, even after your initial break up. Now these feelings, you may have never lost, have gotten stronger because she started to flirt with you in the form of snaps. That is kind of shady on her part. This honestly sounds like she is manipulating you and in some way teasing you. But I'm not saying it was intended, she may not have done it in a malicious manner. But at the end of the day it happened, she seduced you. She was talking to you while she …
/r/seduction28/09/19 09:10 AM
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Should've said something in person, not follow her later on insta If you guys were good friends in the past just DM her and be honest, say you weren't sure it was her but you were working and couldn't say anything. Andafter seeing her insta you confirmed it was her. Don't judge people by their follower count.
/r/seduction21/09/19 06:16 AM
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Talk to them like you would an old friend. Or if you think it'll open up old wounds respectfully tell her she made the decision to cut you off and tell her you don't wish to talk to her. Simple as that.
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:26 PM
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Yeah don't hit her up
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:22 PM
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Next time you see her in class act like nothing happened. Keep being yourself. Don't let it bring you down. You basically need to act like what she did doesn't bother you. And DON'T ask her to hang out again. Let that happen once you get to know her more. Making it clear that you aren't offended by getting left on read shows you are confident and is like telling her she fucked up. Be friends with her first. I doubt you'd get friend zoned. After all she asked for your number first.
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:07 AM
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Here's another comment in respond to specific parts of your OP. Dress better. Go shopping try on many things. If you have a friend that you think dresses well be honest and tell them that. Ask if they can come along and help you pick out clothing. When you dress good, you will feel good. When meeting new people you have to realize those generic questions like what's your major is very important. You are strangers after all. You have to start getting to know eachother from the very basics. You do…
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:52 AM
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I think you need to focus on yourself and not worry about dates and socializing. Those two things come in time but first you need focus on yourself. Get active. You already run? Good. But you can do better much better. Learn about weight training THEN go to the gym. You will grow in confidence when you start seeing results. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks, ever. Just focus on what you're doing. You need to give yourself time to improve in aspects of your life you feel you're not doing …
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:41 AM
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What do you mean by receptive. Don't you have to first tap them or stop them to figure that out? Or do you mean I should only approach if I notice them looking at me, and I mean actually looking not just a glance. I personally see headphones as a cue telling me not to bother someone. But it also seems as though half the students on my campus walk with headphones on.
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:09 AM
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I'm always hesitant to approach someone with headphones on. It seems nowadays half the students on my campus have headphones on. That is one deciding factor on whether I approach someone and honestly I hate it haha but oh well.
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:01 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I've already opened her message hours ago so I'm going to take my time responding, I'm in no rush. Might respond tomorrow who knows. I like your video, I'm actually into video production as well, just as a hobby. Been doing it for 10 years. I think next time you should not make a video with that terrible of wind noise though. Its worth waiting for better conditions to do so. I had a VERY hard time paying attention with the constant noise of wind. I also think you should sh…
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:36 AM
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Note taken
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:46 AM
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I'd message them. Because it's either they are interested or they are not. Its a yes or a no. You waiting won't have any effect besides her losing interest. Just go for the message asap because you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:43 AM
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Yup I figured. But I mean she replied to my message maybe I have another chance and/or she just wants the attention of getting another like on her photo.
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:41 AM
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