shocklance Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Headed out tonight for the first time in a looong time.	Conversation	shocklance	/r/seduction	27/01/24 03:22 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why self improvement won't solve your dating problems An actual good post in this sub. Amazing.	/r/seduction	03/09/24 11:34 PM
11	what is the term called for this behavior? The term is "not interested in you".	/r/seduction	08/07/24 08:28 AM
2	Don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to, but I disqualify myself and deem myself unworthy of the ones I am attracted to, been fighting this forever. how can I fix this? It seems like he is, but he's not. I agree with his general message; you should be in shape and there's no excuse not to be. Guy above sounds like he's cut (which is great, it's genuinely difficult; not a small achievement and takes a lot of work), and that says something about him (he's disciplined, he can stick to his goals). It's with him wherever he goes (he doesn't have to turn it on, he just has to make sure he's maintaining his discipline) and when you're cut it does just feel good becaus…	/r/seduction	20/06/24 02:19 AM
17	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. Man just flat out said "women like me until I open my mouth" lmao	/r/seduction	19/06/24 11:35 PM
21	Don’t want to date someone I’m not attracted to, but I disqualify myself and deem myself unworthy of the ones I am attracted to, been fighting this forever. how can I fix this? You sound a lot like me. I'm going to go ahead and guess that there's been a lot of negative self-talk over the years, which you've easily been able to reinforce and 'prove' to yourself from observations. You probably don't even notice you're doing it because it's what you normally do. e.g. "Girls don't like me, they always go for my friends...", "Attractive girls have better options than me...", "If I were/had x [taller, more hair, better looking], things would be different...", "I don't get an…	/r/seduction	19/06/24 06:31 AM
10	How do I get her on a date if she gives excuses? She's not interested. Move on.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 12:32 PM
4	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him Bro after his glowup	/r/seduction	08/05/24 10:48 PM
1	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him This (the end). Whenever I see someone super hot, I'm always like "Would I trade places with them?". People are always authentic with me. Sometimes that's rough, because my face looks like a bucked of smashed crabs, but if you really put myself in the shoes of the super-hot, how would you trust that anyone is acting authentically?	/r/seduction	08/05/24 10:46 PM
1	Do repeated glances mean anything from a girl? Pretty wild advice in this thread. If the glances are overt, then yeah, decent chance she likes something about you. If she's not interested, she'll probably do a lot to not be noticed by you (or just straight up won't notice you in the same way you probably don't really notice girls you're not attracted to). Of course, she might not be interested in you either. But, if you imagine the entire timeline of your life before you, and then take every girl who glances at you multiple times, X% of the …	/r/seduction	16/04/24 10:05 PM
5	How can I attract girls from anime and comic conventions? (Pictures provided) I'm not that familiar with these communities, but how is status measured at an anime convention? At the gym, a mark of status can be a big, strong or aesthetic physique, getting respect from other guys etc. In a university, a mark of status can be a title, publications, position. Its scientifically verified that women are attracted to status. Women don't suddenly not became interested in your status as soon as you enter the convention hall. Maybe it's you becoming more of a well known cosplayer …	/r/seduction	14/04/24 02:45 AM
2	Top 10 Books? The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature	/r/seduction	22/03/24 08:12 AM
1	how do i put myself out there after a rejection? I do Brazilian jiujitsu. In BJJ, you have a lot of fights (rolls). I'm going to say it was at least six months before I got my first submission against an opponent in BJJ. That was six months of basically straight losses. Did I quit immediately after the first loss? No. This week, I got absolutely mangled at training. No wins at all. Wasn't my week. Did I quit? No. My worth as a man isn't contingent on whether in this moment I win the roll, or the girl likes me, or anything else. But if you let …	/r/seduction	21/03/24 11:10 PM
5	how do i put myself out there after a rejection? Oddly wholesome.	/r/seduction	21/03/24 11:00 PM
1	Why you should focus on meeting women in person and not OLD Underrated post.	/r/seduction	07/03/24 11:54 PM
4	How to Develop an Abundance Mindset In regard to your bolded text: I'm in a hard loop at the moment. I've been on a pseudo- dry spell for about two years now. I work on myself, have a great job, am in great shape, own my own house and have a high-value qualification (PhD). However, I just don't feel high value in the way I have in the past, before I had what I have now. I can't get a date with an attractive woman to save my life, although unattractive women are super interested in me. My question is this,: how do you develop that …	/r/seduction	05/02/24 02:05 AM
14	I don’t get choosing signals from women anymore? Bro. That was literally chatgpt.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 01:28 AM
2	Did my first true cold approach and oof Sounds like it went pretty well!	/r/seduction	31/01/24 02:28 AM
2	Headed out tonight for the first time in a looong time. Thanks man, really appreciate it. I'm actually a great dancer (love to dance}, so I actually need to make an effort to talk, rather than dance. Cheers again, I'm feeling better about it!	/r/seduction	27/01/24 05:57 AM