shokupanfan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	According to a software engineer working with dating apps, women are absolutely much more picky than men are The last bit is so true, Redpillers don't realize that a lot of the issues that they see in terms of how status/value effect men is due to outside forces that they're not interested in holding accountable. They don't see the bigger picture, you're not being held down by women, you're being held by the nape by majorly old rich men who are just as self interested as the redpiller. Even down to OnlyFans, it's women are immoral and not that if a woman wants to potentially gain access to higher incom…	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/24 10:05 PM
14	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub Yeah, agreed. It's why I rarely comment on posts like that because you can't logic your way out of a bad ideology, your character guides you out. The exposé of many Redpill creators being as degenerate as they claim not to be and / or outright deadbeat fathers, but "It's okay because they helped me." goes to show that fundamentally, these guys don't really have values core to their character which is why they defend it so much because it caters to what they want without what they perceive as any…	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 07:46 AM
1	How do you deal with trauma? I personally just struggled through it and distanced myself from people who initiated or would potentially enable old and new traumas (They enable other bad traits among their peers, for example). Takes a lot of self reflection on actions that victimize yourself, and research into attachment styles and etc. but once you figure it out, life certainly improves, and so does your self-esteem.	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/24 04:56 PM
6	The blue pill provides nothing that leaves me feeling better compared to the black pill or red pill. As a former red piller, your problem as with many other red pillers is that you actually think you can "logic" your way out of how you feel when it's all emotional. You are tied to the idea that men are logical when you are not being logical at all. Awful people get in relationships and have sex all the time, and you know why? Because fundamentally in them, they still think they're good enough to actually be with someone. You on the other hand don't actually feel good enough to be in one and thi…	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/24 08:04 PM
3	Can people tell my relationship history with women by looking at me, and knowing me for a year but I keep everything private? I'm a 23 year old virgin, likely on the asexual spectrum but I just consider myself straight. I have been insecure about my height in the past but sex never really stressed me out lol. A lot of it really is your vibe man, what people really pick up is what you mention a lot of + your vibe. In most circles I've been in, the guy who was always talking about wanting to fuck and getting numbers, everyone always talked behind his back about how he gets ZERO pussy. Also, I think for your own personal …	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 05:00 AM
3	How many of you dated cluster B women? Never dated them, but I had two prominent experiences with Cluster B women. They both rejected me but then placed me as solely responsible for their validation them until they committed to someone, like a pseudo boyfriend of sorts. I had very low self esteem and would try to be friends and juggle how I feel, now if I feel strongly and get rejected, if we got a good friendship going on, I'll ask to take a break from a person and resume the friendship once I sort out my feelings. Multiple occasion…	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 04:48 AM
70	Have you ever met any Andrew Tate fans in real life? Former buddy I used to hang out with was an Andrew Tate fan. Good physique, but sort of not intelligent and regularly misused words incorrectly, and couldn't actually have a conversation outside of profiling people and Red Pill stuff. A lot of his "game" is asking a girl if she's into Andrew Tate lol. He's the type to make a joke and if nobody laughs, he'll say people are sensitive or need to lighten up, and he's gotten in trouble for it multiple times. He join the airforce, fell into alt-right …	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/23 03:29 AM
1	How did the red pill effect your life negatively? How has it gotten better since you’ve left? I kind of wasn't in a position to choose Red Pill. It chose me. My dad had just tried to kill me after getting to drunk. My mom's bf at the time convinced her not to let me stay until I got stable enough to move. My mom did get a friend to let me crash, but I had two months to scrounge enough money to get my own place, and that was it. I was 19, couldn't find work at all when I was 18, and Covid Lockdown killed jobs where I lived. I did manage to scrounge 3 jobs, and eventually, I got an apartme…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/23 12:48 PM
2	Imagine how much better the world would be if there was no gender wars. Yeah agreed, but this can never happen. As much as Red Pill is propagated by men, a lot of women equally propagate Red Pill thinking and ideas of toxic masculinity, unaware that they have been doing so, or unwilling to address their preconceived notions as toxic. It really just boils down to doing the right thing, always taking many steps and the wrong thing, only taking one or two steps.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/23 12:11 AM
1	What hurt you the most when you were redpilled? 19 at the time, 23 now. the year prior, my wingman got with the girl I liked and never told me, pushing me the whole way to ask her out. The university I applied to lost accreditation My job had just downsized The girl I later was talking to moved, met someone immediately afterwards but kept messaging me a year on during a lot if my troubles. the cherry on top, my dad in a drunken stupor tried to kill me and my mom's boyfriend convinced her to kick me out, and even further tried to convince her …	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 04:09 AM
2	At what point is a redpiller considered an incel? Never, they're two different ideas that function and manifest very differently. Involuntarily Celibates outright do not believe they can have sex, Red Pills do. Redpill is proactive.. "I seemingly can't secure a women, I will become things I think women like." ..whereas Incel is reactive.. "Women don't like me because I'm X." Redpill makes people very self grandiose and arrogant, it's all about materialism, hedonism, and engaging in dark triad behavior as a threshold of success. That being said,…	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/23 01:21 AM