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| 200 | How to attact women and get them chasing you | Fundamentals | shootethmyshot | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:22 AM |
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| 4 | Confidence is overratedThus people in general gain confidence from things they do in their everyday lives. There are people who literally don't leave their basement for weeks, they have never talked to a woman, they have never had any sexual relationship. Yeah bro, they'll just naturally become confident over time by being a fucking walrus. What even is this shit-post. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Why it is so hard to convince friends to do some day or night game and in general to meet new people?Stop asking them. Some people just don't progress in life, they don't push themselves and make an effort to change. You will come back to them in two years and they will be the exact same person, no change at all. Everyone seems to have it in their head that most guys are out there hustling when it's really just a small portion of people who are serious about this. Out of my friends group I can count on my hand how many are going to be successful, the rest are going to be in the same situation f… | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Kino = knots in stomachYou need to realize this is all natural, at some point in your life, you came to the conclusion that these feelings are negative. They are not, it's all a part of sex and the experience, the nerves and the knots make it fun. Do you think it would be more fun if you felt nothing? no, it would shit. There's nothing wrong with you, embrace those emotions. It's the same reason people snowboard, skydive and watch horror films. | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What iois do you look for before cold approaching?She looks at me, I smile, she smiles, I say something. | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think a considerable number of straight men love women with penises and trans female porn but it is unheard of for straight women to love men with vaginas and trans male porn?Why tf do you think we hold the answer to this question | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Is it indeed a matter of confidence?Confidence is such a misconstrued word now. The core of confidence is this: When you meet someone, you are two very different people who have decades of different experiences in life. You have different conditioning, different expectations, likes and dislikes. Every person is unique. Confident people understand this and realize that trying to constantly figure out what everyone wants to hear is a useless exercise because there is so much variance. Instead, they own what they want, what they like… | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 08:42 AM |
| 2 | I just wish there was a documentary that showed a real relationship progressing from first contact to first kiss.Bro, you are who you are, she is who she is. Different people have different expectations and every interaction is different. So, are you gonna sit there and try to analyze how every interaction is gonna go or do you have the balls to own what you want and make a move. Stop trying to guess what kind of relationship she's looking for and find out if she is compatible with what you are looking for. Too many guys get caught up with worrying about what the girl thinks of them, what she wants, if she… | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Trouble talking to women? Get a job in retailI’d get my ass clapped more than likely, fair enough if you can fight but I can’t as I’ve found out earlier in my life | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Trouble talking to women? Get a job in retailNah, we have big fucking scary bouncers who do that, I literally tell the guys that get in my face “it’s not me who’s going to fight back, it’s that big fuckin dude over there who is” I’ve split up fights before but not if it’s girls, fuck that | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Don’t blow your opportunities.My life changed a year ago when I had what felt like a near-death experience. Randomly had a really bad seizure in my kitchen, according to my friends I just locked up and fell to the floor. I don't remember the fall but I remember just being on the floor, no idea how I got there unable to move. Came to for a couple seconds before slipping back into a seizure and I opened my eyes to find my friends all standing around me looking panicked and a blurry figure standing over me, holding my head whil… | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Trouble talking to women? Get a job in retailI just dove right into it, had no experience before. Started off doing usual bar back stuff, like collecting glasses. Eventually got given the bar job and learned as I went. Look for specifically bartending jobs, if a job is advertised as barbacking then you'll be stuck doing that for a while, I know people who still barback after years because their boss won't let them have a shift at the bar, don't be that guy. The main thing an employer is going to look for is someone with a cool head (you'll… | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 09:37 AM |
| 7 | Trouble talking to women? Get a job in retailIt’s good but it’s hard, most of my shifts I had 100’s to serve at a time, I’d have drunk idiots to deal with, people yelling at me, cocktails to make, kegs to change, people fighting. It also made me way more assertive having to deal with drunk people, you literally need to treat them like children to get them to behave. When I started I couldn’t keep people under control but now I take 0 shit from anyone at the bar. It’s like no other job because everyone is wasted and acting irrationally but … | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 11:46 PM |
| 15 | Trouble talking to women? Get a job in retailMy biggest improvement came from getting a job as a bartender. Genuinely one of the best jobs for learning pickup, every shift I’d get hit on all night by stunners. There’s something about the bar that makes you look good, I have no idea what it is but the women who come in love to flirt and it’s a blast. It’s totally changed my perspective and improved my game. I have zero anxiety around attractive women now, I’ve spent 2 years flirting with dozens of attractive women a night as part of my job.… | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men?The king of all fragrances: La Nuit De L'Homme by Yves Saint Laurent, seriously this stuff is like crack, it doesn't hit like other fragrances, you get hints of the fragrance from a distance but the closer you get the sexier it smells. It's an absolute compliment machine and I've had women literally just lean in and start smelling my neck. | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 09:14 AM |
| 4 | When texting a girl should i be the last one who sends the message?If she is saying those things, it's to put an end to the conversation. You don't need to reply but if you want her to know the message was received, react with a thumbs up or an ok emoji or something. It's what I send to people when I am too busy to actually reply but want to communicate that I received and appreciate their message. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 10:23 AM |
| 0 | Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enoughIgnore all of the pseudo-intellectuals in the comment section, they can't discount what you say, so they attempt to undermine the truth, your post is gold and is what men need to hear. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enoughhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=br8KtroS-40 Smart women do not choose weak men. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:55 AM |
| 0 | Fear not rejection, fear not getting rejected enoughPlease do some research before you spaff out a giant sjw load on this sub. Men on average are bigger than women. This statement is true because there are decades of research to back it up. Imagine two sets of data that form two bell curves, one sample set is females one sample set is males, both are similar in distribution except for the extremities where they are skewed differently. Meaning there is a small population of men who are stronger than all women and a small population of women who ar… | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Best programs/courses that helped you with women the most?IoI = Indicator of Interest That interest can vary from, “He’s interesting to talk to” to “He’s sexy”. Both of which are positives in my opinion. So yes, if she is still standing there listening to you, that’s an IoI because she could literally just decide you are not worth her time and walk away. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 09:01 AM |
| 5 | Best programs/courses that helped you with women the most?I used that as an example to make my point, doesn’t mean I support RSD or agree with everything else Jeff says. Fuck me, everyone in this sub is an idiot | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Best programs/courses that helped you with women the most?Stop, like right now. I made the mistake of getting way too deep into pickup when I was younger. Nothing that any of these "coaches" taught me ever worked (I followed that shit for 7 years). What worked was going out and making mistakes myself. Looking back now, it's apparent that most coaches are awful in field and if you believe that's how seduction works, you're being mislead. You have millions of years of successful genes inside of you, every one of your ancestors had sex. You have a cock an… | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | If a random girl responds to you like this on istagram, does that mean you're attractive?Means, she wants to succ | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Guys who have no problem meeting girls in big groups or with a lot of people watching, how are you able to handle that kind of pressure?My desire to chat to a girl I find attractive > The opinion of some rando | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Are my legs too skinny for height? Get stared down oftenThat's good, you'll start to tone up soon, your legs look fine. Focus on other things because I can assure you people aren't looking at you strangely because of your legs. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Are my legs too skinny for height? Get stared down oftenBro, no one is giving a fuck about your legs. They look like every other pair of legs I've seen, if it's bothering you, do some squats or start cycling or something. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 6 | I look too young.Hit the gym and get ripped. Masculine body with a boyishly handsome face is something women find extremely attractive. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youThis is the seduction reddit not your Film Studies class, I really couldn't care less for your critique on Glengarry Glen Ross. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youThe problem is that being nice is entirely subjective, what you consider nice and what I consider nice are two wildly different things. In my opinion, honest communication is the nicest thing you can do for someone. If you aren't letting her know why you are talking to her and that you are interested in her romantically then you are not nice, you are manipulative. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youMy confidence in that department comes from my belief that the vast majority of people in life are genuinely nice, kind and open. So I constantly remind myself that to them, I am a random person, going about my life and they really couldn't care less in a positive way. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youWhy not just communicate how I feel and see what happens? Saying what I said is the opposite of needy, it's literally me saying to her that I don't want a platonic friendship, I want do date her and if she isn't interested we can go our own ways. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Here's how Rejection and Regret compare in VERY simple words.This man speaks the truth | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youLol, okay mate | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How to attact women and get them chasing youOkay, I respect that. I’m not gonna lie, this was written on a whim and should be taken as such. Imo, reddit is place to introduce yourself to these ideas, if you really want to delve deep you need to learn yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youI treat the women and men in my life amazingly, your making a massive assumption that I don’t... | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youI’ll throw my years of success out the window then, cheers for the clarification | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youIt’s way more nuanced than you make it out to be, attraction isn’t really a field of study that can’t be defined by one thing such as looks. I act like it doesn’t matter because I refuse to accept that attraction is based on one specific thing but rather a number of different variables, the majority of which the individual can influence. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youI’ll communicate my ideas through telekinesis next time | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:31 PM |
| -2 | How to attact women and get them chasing youI have | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | am I the only one who finds it easier to talk to women face to face than through texts?Leave the rapport building for in person, text for logistics, your texting should go as follows: “Hey it’s x, enjoyed chatting with you yesterday, just wondering if you’d be up for a date next week?” She says yes “Cool, I’m free x days, I’ll message you to sort out the details in a bit 🙂” And then do exactly that, don’t try and message her anything fucking corny or stupid or she’ll instantly slot you into the needy category. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you do for fun?Think about what you enjoy and dive deeper into those areas, I’m into photography so I started diving into developing and scanning my own film. I’m into playing guitar so I spend a decent amount of time practicing tough songs, currently learning to play Hendrix songs. If I’m ever really bored and it’s a really nice day, I’ll go for a walk, grab a coffee or just go sit somewhere and people watch. You’re not always gonna have people around to do stuff with, you gotta get up and do stuff for yourse… | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | masculine frame is one of the most important thing in a mans lifeTotally agree, you’ll see a change in the way people treat you when you act in a masculine way, women become more feminine around you and men will respect you allot more. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:54 PM |
| -4 | How to attact women and get them chasing youHow many Chris Hemsworth’s do you know? These men are rare, most women don’t know men like Mr Hemsworth, sure they’d jump at the opportunity to date him in 1/1000000 chance they actually come into contact with a man as attractive as him but in the meantime they’re going to be chasing high quality average men because they actually have access to these men. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:36 PM |
| -7 | How to attact women and get them chasing youThanks bro, I’ll include those tips when I’m writing my next research paper on reddit. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How to attact women and get them chasing youSo if someone is performing terribly as a salesperson we shouldn’t consider them as a failure? The characters are written to appear pathetic, these characters aren’t real people so I’m not going to feel bad for drawing the conclusion I did. Why can’t you draw multiple conclusions from watching a movie? One being that it’s a critique of capitalism (which it is), it also however, has very intelligently written characters who we can draw lessons from. You decide what that lesson is gonna be. Imo, A… | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around.Just because this guy can't open without being a fucking weirdo doesn't mean no one else can. I have no issue opening girls in any situation. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:48 AM |
| 2 | I freak out when women flirt with meYou still think that these women are higher in status than you, if she's flirting with you, she's probably thinking about undressing you and getting into bed with you as well. She thinks your hot, so just accept that there is a gorgeous girl who wants to do naughty things to you and enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:43 AM |
| 2 | 41... too old to start learning game?Apreciate it man, glad you found some value | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | So is rejection good or not? What's the consensus?As opposed to what? waking up at 50 realizing you have wasted your life by not engaging with life's challenges? You think you have a choice not to get rejected but you don't, you will wake up one day and regret your life if you don't take action. That's a guarentee. If that sounds like something your interested in then by all means live like a hermit in your room and never leave, you'll get there in no time. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 09:25 AM |
| 1 | StuckEven if I sat you down for an entire week and taught you every piece of information and knoweledge I gathered over the years, I would only confuse you. As I keep saying in this community, a single interaction pushed beyond what you have ever done before will teach you more than any video or even a hundred approaches ever will. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 09:21 AM |
| 6 | 41... too old to start learning game?So, everyone is being way too positive about this but I believe being honest has more value than telling someone poor advice. Everyone in this post who is saying it's going to be sunshine and rainbows is on some kind of high. I'm not saying you can't do it, I'm here to tell you it will be the hardest thing you have ever done. Everyone seems to believe that problems can be put off until later in life but that's actually not how it works and that's a really dangerous way of thinking, in life you d… | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:56 AM |
| 6 | I moved a curl behind his earNow that's a fucking move, bigger balls than most guys | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Rejection.Good point, this is a very complicated thing to discuss on reddit but essentially what it comes down to is that there is a pyramid hierarchy with the most driven action takers at the top, the upper half of that hierarchy are the ones who get to mate whilst the lower half don’t and because the hierarchy is a pyramid the upper half is always smaller than the lower half. The guys at the top of this hierarchy are having sex with almost all the women. This sub is meant to move you up into the upper h… | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Rejection.I hate that saying, if you don’t take a shot, you don’t play the game, you don’t even get to miss, you get nothing. Missing is for people who actually take action. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | appropriate response to catching someone's eye?Your right I keep forgetting coving is a thing haha | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with random girls from your school following you on Instagram?If you think there hot then you should message them, I’d keep it casual to start with since they are from your high school, react to there story or something or ask them what they’ve been up to since high school and just feel it out, a follow alone isn’t really much to go off of but if they are liking your selfies or pictures with just you in them then its pretty clear that they like something about you | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you text basic girls (let’s say on tinder)Tbh, tinder has devolved into total dogshit now and I barely even use it other than for the occasional filthy conversation, people take it way too seriously, you should have more options irl than tinder just like the girls do. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | I don't know how to kiss her after/while flirting.You just do it, if you want precise instructions, seperate her from her friends and go somewhere quiet or away from people she knows, take her hands and put them around your neck, pull her closer by the hips, put your hand behind her neck and lean in for the kiss, let her go the last 10% of the way. If this is your first time initiating a kiss then it will feel like your world is turning upside down but just remember she's experiencing the same thing as well and it's all part of the experience. … | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 145 | Rejection.Geting rejected is still a win because you actually had the balls to take a shot and you can now learn something which is leaps and bounds beyond what most other guys will ever do. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Roadmap for Dating and Understanding PeopleLooks like a good plan but I would give you a word of warning, this type of practice can lead you to make some common rookie mistakes. Contrary to what everyone believes, it's actually not that hard to approach 500 girls, you just go up, say hi and leave. Done. What you want to be focusing on is the depth of your interaction, are you really trying for the kiss/date/sex or are you really only interested in approaching the next girl. Those are two very different goals. I've been doing this for lik… | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | appropriate response to catching someone's eye?Humans are hard wired to look for eye contact, when you see someone's face from your peripherals for example, their face loses details but you can still tell roughly where they are looking and if they are looking at you, it's evolutionary. So, eye contact should be used as a way to get their interest, it's what you do afterwords that's going to make a difference. For women I'd say the best thing to do is to show some submisiveness, when he looks over, hold eye contact for a second, drop your eye… | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 02:59 PM |
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