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shootstuff4fun/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:24 PM
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shootstuff4fun/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:40 PM
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It only works because she is super submissive and enjoys being "put in her place". We don't argue because she always backs down and apologizes, but she is purposefully rooting against my team in the playoffs just so I'll be angry and rough her up. I have texts of her consenting and have saved those, in case of (stuff).
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:57 AM
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My LTR is incredibly submissive and capitalizes on situations where I get angry because she finds it incredibly sexy. She also uses it as an opportunity for me to be even rougher with her than I usually am. Maybe that's what she's going for?
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:01 AM
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TRP is amoral.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 01:48 AM
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The apartment is usually spotless when I come home, dinner is ready or almost ready, and she always blows me once I change out of my uniform.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:17 PM
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I mean yeah...but I don't have a huge emergency fund either. But I also have a lot of benefits due to being a government employee if I were to get injured or something. It seems like this will be a short period, but any money spent on her will be spent after I'm satisfied with what I want.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:15 PM
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Yeah I know. AWALT and all
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:13 PM
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Yeah I know. It'll be ok either way. I can walk away or stay depending on her actions.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:13 PM
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It will absolutely be a hard next. Either she pays it back or returns the favor with an equal value purchase for me.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:45 PM
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She always did. If I paid for that stuff, she always made up the difference when she got paid.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:44 PM
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I loaned her money for part of her tuition, but she's going to give me her Pell grant next semester. I made it clear it was a loan and not a gift.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:41 PM
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I spend money on the things I want first, then if there is anything left over for her, she gets it. She likes to get her nails done "for me" so she says, and she likes to buy clothes to look nice "for me". I'm building my Jeep right now and after bills are paid, those things become the priority. My hobbies come first. If anything is left over and I feel I've put enough into savings, she gets what she asks for, depending on cost and how necessary I see it.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:40 PM
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Good point. She said she wouldn't, but AWALT.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:36 PM
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She has management experience and is in school now, which will obviously better her chances. I'm ok with investing a little bit because she is a worthy LTR, but obviously this is not sustainable long term.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:35 PM
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I don't like that I have oneitis, and I do internalize abundance when I notice how much I get approached...I just feel that the red flags are worth overlooking for now due to the abundance of green flags. She's probably approaching the wall but looking at her facebook, she is better looking now than she was before. Either way, sex when I want it, daily spontaneous blowjobs and I don't have to do anything because she does it all.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:47 AM
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I was married 6 years. Had sex pretty often, never a dead bedroom. I was just less emotionally invested and she left.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:35 AM
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Oneitis but also...she has all the green flags. None of those other ones really did. She seems to take a vested interest in my happiness and as long as this continues, I don't see why I shouldn't ride it out.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:27 AM
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I'm sure there are those men in that community that are naturally submissive and are probably attracted to masculine, dominant men. I have a gay friend who says I'm attractive because I'm dominant, so I wingman for him and help him to hold his frame. It works for him fairly often.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:09 PM
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I don't see why not. I feel like the relationship dynamic as a whole doesn't change, regardless of gender or orientation.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:08 PM
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I'm a paramedic/firefighter so my work schedule is extremely complicated and I work 12 hour shifts. I do MMA, hunting, fishing, rebuild cars, build furniture, shooting range, video games, and the gym on my days off(for my job and for me). I'm also in a band and have a large circle of friends both work and outside of work. I am also going to join a beer hockey league next winter. I also have 2 daughters and joint custody so when I have them, the time is all about them. Plates and LTR fit in when …
/r/askTRP23/12/18 05:00 PM
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My count is in the 70s. I think before I hit 50, I was not that great. But since that number, I am pretty confident that I am at least above average. Also, size wise I am as well. I don't know if I'm being cocky, but she's never had to "take care of herself afterwards." Normally she can't move or even say words for a few minutes after. So with an n-count around 27 at age 27, I feel like she is telling the truth, but who knows? AWALT right?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:31 PM
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Mine is in the 70s, but I'd say it depends on age and circumstances.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:26 PM
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Luckily for me, I had a good lawyer (a female actually) and I prevented divorce rape. Now, I make the decisions and she does what I want, or makes her boyfriend do it, poor guy. These patients and families test me daily and I maintain frame. We've had people get assaulted by patients and family members but generally I convey a don't fuck with me attitude. I'm 29 and it has taken a while to get here, and I'm still learning.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:14 PM
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When my wife said she wanted a divorce, I kicked her out and got a Tinder 2 days later. A week later, I was already playing 4 different women, 3 became FWB for about 6 months before they started wanting more and I had to break them. It's not the healthiest way, but you have to regain that abundance mentality if you lost it due to oneitis.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:00 PM
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I have massive amounts of respect from my coworkers, and even my supervisors, while I respect them immensely due to their experience and expertise, definitely treat me differently than they do other employees. I definitely command more respect. Same goes for the general public.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:57 PM
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I was in the infantry and now a paramedic/firefighter. I think I've always had frame and just didn't know what to call it. In my marriage I lost frame at year 5. She fucked our neighbor in year 6. It was easy to walk away once I reframed, however.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:55 PM
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The more I read in here, the better my frame gets. So far, my frame has been strong and she respects it. It's a fun ride, might as well enjoy it.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:14 PM
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I don't read too much into it, but she said she used to kick them out and get herself off since they couldn't. Apparently I'm "good", whatever that's worth.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:33 AM
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Also I should add she's an HB8. Not like that matters, I've plated HB8s before. But it is somehow relevant.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 04:00 AM
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She seems to feel differently after we have sex...gets clingy and insists on cuddling and gets mad if I don't.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:57 AM
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That's fine, I am ok with that as well. Was just trying to navigate whether this was unicorn and red flags can be overlooked or immediate next or AWALT "shes not mine it's just my turn"
/r/askTRP23/12/18 03:28 AM
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That's why I asked. But since AWALT, probably going to withhold investment and enjoy her while it lasts.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 01:35 AM
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Her high n-count has more to do with her wanting recreational sex but not being satisfied or finding anyone that she says, "was worth commitment". Apparently that's what they started wanting so she dropped them. Red flag for sure.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 01:34 AM
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I was working a weird ass schedule before so sex wasn't as frequent as I'd like (noon to midnight, she has a job so understand it was not possible). After this she would be waiting in the parking lot for me to come home after I got off work. Some nights I went to bed without any and she would just lay in bed with me, then leave when I went to sleep. Other times, I'd fuck her brains out and show her the door. That became the new normal until I switched shifts.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 01:33 AM
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It happened once. I made it very clear that I would walk away. She begged me not to and sex increased to daily. Still not invested because I'm still waiting to see where it goes from here. She rearranged her life, therapist visits and medication to manage even better.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:37 AM
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High n-count, well managed bipolar disorder
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:08 AM
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I guess so. The post where these are all mentioned explains it a little better than I can.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:57 PM
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I am as well. That's what I came here for.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:55 PM
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You have to find the will from somewhere inside. Focus on one thing and the rest will follow.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:48 PM
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Not really...probably not one of those "one of the guys" chicks
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:45 PM
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Feminine qualities?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:42 PM
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Initially it was because she was fun to be around and she really did well to earn my commitment. The issues came during trickle-truth conversations.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:38 PM
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After finding TRP(it was quarantined for some reason) I have been getting better with time. Maybe this one is just expert at playing the female sexual strategy. Either way, I honestly have not invested that much. I sought this advice to determine if I should or if I should just go with the whole, "she is not mine it's just my turn" mentality.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:36 PM
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I shut down any thing having to do with marriage. I'm probably not marrying again.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:34 PM
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Strong, independent, and to pursue their life's goals because that's what they want to do.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:32 PM
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My LTR has all of these but also a couple red flags. Trying to decide how many, if any, can be overlooked and which ones require nexting.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:29 PM
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I know y'all do, which is why I'm here. I have no problems riding this as far as it'll take me, and I have no problem nexting. I'm not super invested...all the investment comes from her. She spends far more money and time on me than I do her, and it seems to really have her chasing me more, or it appears that way.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:27 PM
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Which is what I don't want to do. Trying to learn TRP and applying it to parenting are incredibly difficult to me. I dont know if anything has been said about this previously.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:25 PM
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I truly believe this might be the best option. I'm definitely not marrying her, and being 29, I know my SMV will increase with time.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:23 PM
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Let me rephrase: she does whatever I want/need. I am teaching my daughters to be the best women they can be, and to think more along the lines of how they should be, as opposed to their mother. I was extremely bluepilled with their mother and they saw her walk all over me.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:20 PM
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I feel like I'm hamstering, but her actions are extremely mixed. Obviously there are red flags and I know some green flags can overcome red flags. I'm just thinking about best outcome and if I should next or just enjoy while it lasts then move on.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:18 PM
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Phrasing is off, but I mean I don't have to tell her to do anything for me. She just does it. When she asks me to do something I tell her no. I raise my daughters to be the same way. Trying to impart TRP knowledge on them as I learn it.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:14 PM
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She used to push marriage hard but I shut that down. She says she just content being with me.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:12 PM
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I'm actually going to take the advice of the more experienced people here. I can walk away and wouldn't have any issues.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:11 PM
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If I fully believed it, I wouldn't be posting here. I'm trying to view it from all sides.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:10 PM
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I had 5 plates when I met her. Maybe I started catching oneitis but I am doing what I can to maintain the abundance mentality. ER nurses seem to help with that lol
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:08 PM
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Also she did say that she felt that I "was different" and would hate to see me go and that she wanted commitment. I committed fast but scrutinized her.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:05 PM
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You raise good points and I am absolutely considering all of this. She said she bailed because of a death of an close family member, and she had broken all of her plates about a month before I plated her.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:02 PM
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We talk about it in texts and I take pictures and video. That may be enough to keep myself safe with that.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 11:01 PM
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Having been burned once as a blue pill loser, I am thinking everything through. I know high n-count goes against TRP wisdom, but her actions after bailing seem to paint her in a different light.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:59 PM
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That's not even it. I may be overthinking the n-count. She spun plates and said it was because she knew they weren't worth committing to and apparently a number of them caught feelings. She definitely does not have any alpha widow signs.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:58 PM
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I understand all these things. I guess the part I'm having trouble with is how she acts towards me. Submissive, gives herself to me sexually in every way, has a sub fetish where I am allowed to hit/smack her and do pretty much whatever I want, spontaneous blowjobs daily, mate guards, cooks dinner, everything. Maybe her behavior is throwing me off?
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:53 PM
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Start on becoming the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. Yeah you have a long way to go but as you start improving, success will follow. Instead of being down about things, do something about it.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:50 PM
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