shortidiva21 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men are incompatible with long term partnership Hopefully, it would arrive by then. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:17 AM
–	Men are incompatible with long term partnership Yeah, a lot of today's bachelors aren't self-actualized enough to experience what you did or happen to lack a growth mindset. But my fingers are crossed that one day things will be different. Hopefully once the political landscape has shifted to something more harmonious. I'm really glad you found an arrangement that works for you. You sound very mature and grounded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:25 AM
–	Men are incompatible with long term partnership What made you choose her over the others to devote your life to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 05:46 AM
–	Men are incompatible with long term partnership What's your tagline mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:10 AM
5	Girls sometimes describe me as "analytical" Todd Valentine explained in his flirting for beginners video that, when you flirt, you gotta have an attitude shift and make a conscious decision in that moment you're gonna be playful and fun and go beyond your logical mindset. Get outta your head. Like Todd says, you have to make a conscious decision to add a little "oomph" to the conversation. Gotta add slight tension. https://youtu.be/ZVG-wBNZeu8?si=Sm6nTM5d_2O_ohWp https://youtube.com/shorts/yWKOkI7z-mc?si=h1zGKLllov9NbMdt My favorite line …	/r/seduction	02/05/26 09:55 PM
1	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? 😂 I don't like the phrase "running game" — there's no cruel strategic deception going on. It's just light, fun flirting.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 07:59 AM
1	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? We're just trying to keep him out of the "nice guy" category. Him being kind, generous, and decent should just be the bare minimum standard. That is how us women think.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 07:56 AM
1	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? No, that's for new women you're meeting out and about. With a friend, you're better off giving a compliment like, "You know, I really like your hair like that. Would you like to grab lunch some time? How about tomorrow?" If you ask them out to lunch, don't treat it like a giant proposition. Keep it light & breezy. Assume you have value ahead of time.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 04:03 AM
2	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? https://m.youtube.com/shorts/R30x9uUlRvA https://youtu.be/ZVG-wBNZeu8?si=tlJ9pQWFsB3iCX3O https://youtube.com/shorts/yWKOkI7z-mc?si=VoR_CtbRP_NEB3jz He also does one where he says, "You're cute, but you look like you might be trouble." 😏 You can neg (push-pull), but DO NOT BE CRUEL. It's only meant to be feather light teasing that makes her want MORE of you, not pushes her away.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 03:45 AM
5	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? Look up Todd Valentine on YouTube. Work on sexual tension and frame control. Demonstrate curiosity, spike her emotions, and talk TO her, not at her. When you text/DM, use YOU statements. Don't send shit like "wydn", "ask me anything", "hru", "sup", and "send pics". This is passive speech that will turn you into a reply guy talking to himself in a woman's DMs. If a monkey could've typed it out, don't send it. Edit: Oops. I didn't see the part about you already being friends. Duh.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 03:27 AM
1	game is dropped boys Yes!	/r/seduction	01/05/26 12:12 PM
2	How to naturally become more dominant? Yes, the way he talks. Also, over DMs/texts, use more YOU statements, and try to talk directly TO her rather than at her. Stuff like "wydn" and "send pics" will turn a guy into a reply guy talking to himself in a woman's DMs, depending on the woman.	/r/seduction	25/04/26 08:16 PM
1	How to naturally become more dominant? The Grey Knight	/r/seduction	25/04/26 02:03 PM
1	How to naturally become more dominant? Example: https://youtu.be/zL5LjgpspVY?si=hicXrAAo9LMkWzvD	/r/seduction	25/04/26 01:44 AM
1	How to write more confidently and creatively Use more YOU statements & action verbs. You need to talk TO her, not at her. You seem to really like this. 😏 Is that something you'd be into? 😏 Tell me more about what you like. 😏 What time should I pick you up? 😉	/r/seduction	22/04/26 10:13 PM
3	If you’re always available over text, you’re probably less interesting I hate when guys are inconsistent. I blocked a few very recently.	/r/seduction	15/04/26 12:10 PM
1	Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process? I feel you. Learn to regulate your nervous system. Exercise more, go for some walks (it sends feel good chemicals to your brain), and talk to people.	/r/seduction	01/04/26 05:08 PM
2	Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy? I agree. I'm speaking from an objective point of view about the social hierarchy of society, not my personal opinion. I fully understand humans have intrinsic value. The system does not. Also, I'm a lady.	/r/seduction	23/03/26 05:30 PM
1	Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy? That's not what I mean by social status. By that I mean how you rank in society. Under a capitalist system like ours, there is just a lot of focus on it. Collectivist societies are a bit different.	/r/seduction	23/03/26 11:03 AM
5	Do we all just ignore the hypocrisy? Because the main way to abundance is believing it is in alignment with who you are and who you are becoming. However, I can understand why it seems contradictory, and I agree that social status isn't everything. I also agree that the machismo stuff is foolishness & a waste of energy.	/r/seduction	23/03/26 10:21 AM
2	Confidence comes from within? It make you more attractive? You actually believe this? No. The brain needs the "Prove It" principle. The more competent you prove to yourself you are, the more you believe it. Or, as I heard in a dream once, "Only when you meet your own approval will your happiness be unparalleled." So do what would make you approve of yourself.	/r/seduction	08/03/26 04:14 AM
91	how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effort A dismissive avoidant's wet dream.	/r/seduction	08/02/26 07:06 AM
13	Vulnerability is consistently rated as one of the most attractive traits in men by women. Not weakness—vulnerability. The willingness to be authentic even when it's uncomfortable. Stop calling it vulnerability and call it openness.	/r/seduction	07/02/26 03:08 AM
3	how to find things to talk about on a date? Here is my social anxiety guide in case you need it: https://www.reddit.com/u/shortidiva21/s/ufjW9yRyGZ DO NOT BE PASSIVE IN YOUR COMMUNICATION (nice guy speech), be present with the woman in front of you, give her your full presence, demonstrate curiosity about her, be at the cause & not the effect in conversation, steer a lot of the conversation. Spike her emotions, but don't be a jerk and withdraw when you have her romantic interest & don't get scared off by closeness (even if you sense disco…	/r/seduction	06/02/26 10:31 AM
9	What went wrong? Not saying you're not doing this, but make sure you're holding masculine frame: https://youtube.com/shorts/R30x9uUlRvA?si=KXrs1Bc3FdXadHAA Make sure you're following this advice: Don't be passive in your communication, be present with the woman in front of you, demonstrate curiosity, be at the cause & not the effect in conversation, steer a lot of the conversation. Spike her emotions, but don't be a jerk and withdraw once you have her romantic interest. Don't use overly passive "receptive" speec…	/r/seduction	05/02/26 05:40 AM
0	Getting ghosted on tinder! what do they want to hear?? https://www.reddit.com/u/shortidiva21/s/N25z2uDwq0	/r/seduction	03/02/26 08:47 PM
2	Date was going very well until I said one sentence She's just wary of a guy rushing sexual intimacy and what that could indicate about his TRUE intentions. Try not to take it personally and try to understand it's not about who you are on a personal level. She probably is just as confused by the interaction as you are.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 03:34 AM
3	I get so fucking gassy stomach on dates/sleepover dates, i don't wanna fart up the bedroom. Do you guys have any tips?? You made my day. Have a cookie. 🍪	/r/seduction	08/01/26 08:15 PM
1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Oh...I only meant the guys who label any means of being supportive or tending to a woman as simping. I didn't clarify because I was trying to keep from being overly wordy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 12:15 PM
3	Why are men expected to "chase?" Because it serves a neurochemical purpose. When women enter "pursuit mode", it runs the risk of subconsciously turning you off because of the way most men are biologically wired to fall in love — you fall in love during the time you are seeking to win her over, while you are AWAY from her, which releases the male bonding hormone Vasopressin, all while you are processing about how you feel about her, which continues to evolve as both of you continue to get to know each other. That is why women ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/26 02:26 AM
1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? Women often end up managing the household...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:49 PM
1	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? I'm not saying that's the wrong way to bond. You are right that the woman should try to bond with a man through shared activities to stimulate his Vasopressin, which most men require to bond, especially when a lot of men struggle with releasing Oxytocin. However, a lot of avoidant men have been conditioned to believe that they have to solve everything alone and don't even have the thought to include their partner because they don't want to burden them. Furthermore, this more physical way of bond…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:04 PM
2	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? By "vulnerable" I don't mean "excessive trauma sharing"; I mean a sort of openness, presence, and warmth. Not disclosing everything, but letting someone in to a reasonable extent. There's a little bit of an English language barrier getting in the way here. Some trauma sharing can be very healthy, but, if it seems like you're not seeing any solution in sight and you keep regurgitating the same thing over and over, then that can become overwhelming to a woman's nervous system, depending on the wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 06:00 PM
2	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? I don't think you're freaks, just sometimes the entire picture isn't being shown. 😅 Be careful the lens through which you perceive the world, for it can limit how you act in it and how it reacts to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 09:14 AM
3	Ladies, "Formal connection" is just code for using sex as a bargaining chip, and it's a total passion killer. Well, of course a certain level of physical attraction is necessary both ways. But that just gets your foot in the door and is the bare minimum. I'm sorry you had a bad experience from his advice, but many couples have found it helpful. I always take advice with a grain of salt, and drop what doesn't serve my individual situation. I don't agree with everything he says, such as his lengthy advice on how to tiptoe around fearful avoidant men so as to not trigger their closeness wound just because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 08:56 AM
5	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? I'm by no means a pickme. Guys are fantastic at friendship (the stakes are lower and less is needed), but usually tend to fumble in romance usually due to a lack of modeling and socialization that encourages suppression of expression, excluding anger. I don't think many of them understand what sustained romantic intimacy, mirroring, and presence looks like over a long period of time on a regular basis, or that a certain level of reassurance is normal & healthy for both partners. Even worse, a lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 05:46 AM
2	Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men? All of my friends right now ARE men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 05:38 AM
24	Ladies, "Formal connection" is just code for using sex as a bargaining chip, and it's a total passion killer. According to attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, when you rush intimacy it can bring appropriate compatibility testing to a halt because then you just chase good feelings which can cloud your better judgment about whether the person in front of you is a good, compatible match or not that wants the same things you do, is compatible with the way you both give and take energy, and that is capable of being a grounding, consistent presence in your life. This is more true of women who experience Ox…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 02:00 AM
1	Women Are Largely Shielded From Labeled "Cringe" in Online Culture I actually didn't know men received unsolicited nudes from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 09:59 AM
2	have you all noticed this trend where men are using their credit card to buy things on infields now? Hahahaha. 🤣	/r/seduction	01/01/26 10:29 AM
1	Men who ask out a female friend 9 out of 10 times naturally developed feelings for her and didn’t put her in the “fuck zone” It's normal to develop feelings sometimes from friendship. I don't get how it developed into a giant conspiracy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:03 AM
1	The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power Not true of me. If a guy bothers me that much, I just block and move on.	/r/seduction	09/12/25 07:02 AM